Re set those expectations
[QUOTE=EpicSD;6413720][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9efa2a27-7a0c-4bb2-b870-bd06073c69af[/URL]
Wants an initial dinner meet for 2 x $$. Just to dine together. No thank you. I told her what rinsing is and that I won't open myself to that.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/03efc864-f391-451b-ace9-6054dab6491b[/URL]
Platonic "at first" = Naw.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f09b7caa-fe87-4d3f-b29d-41b38e9d1fba[/URL]
Looks like my kind of broken. But also wants money to just eat together.[/QUOTE]I usually try to reset those expectations depending on what I'm looking for.
If you're really looking for a SB relationship, then the smart SBs won't be pushing for $ for a meet and greet. The idea being that this is an interview for something that might end up benefiting them longer than one 'date'. If this is what I'm looking for, I'm only doing M & G that escalate to more on the rare occasion. This gives me the chance to see how she compares to her picture and if we click. I buy the food or drinks and she shows up. If she needs an Uber, it's probably not going to work.
If I'm just looking for some hot chick to bang, she doesn't need to eat first!
Many women trying to be Sugar Babies are getting brain washed by the SB only boards. This is were the professional SBs talk about treating this lifestyle like a job. Some claim to make enough to support themselves. That's just a level that most SBs will never get to but will aspire to. They are told to expect payment for any time spent or a least a token gift. These things do happen in certain markets for certain women but not all SBs.
There are certainly differing approaches
[QUOTE=Mythbuster;6414281]I usually try to reset those expectations depending on what I'm looking for.
If you're really looking for a SB relationship, then the smart SBs won't be pushing for $ for a meet and greet. The idea being that this is an interview for something that might end up benefiting them longer than one 'date'. If this is what I'm looking for, I'm only doing M & G that escalate to more on the rare occasion. This gives me the chance to see how she compares to her picture and if we click. I buy the food or drinks and she shows up. If she needs an Uber, it's probably not going to work.
If I'm just looking for some hot chick to bang, she doesn't need to eat first!
Many women trying to be Sugar Babies are getting brain washed by the SB only boards. This is were the professional SBs talk about treating this lifestyle like a job. Some claim to make enough to support themselves. That's just a level that most SBs will never get to but will aspire to. They are told to expect payment for any time spent or a least a token gift. These things do happen in certain markets for certain women but not all SBs.[/QUOTE]Basically these days I'm looking for less professional and more actual sugar babies. I really enjoy the meet and greet feel out and seduction. Feeling them getting forked up to fuck is really enticing. And when I ask if they want to go back to my place and they say yes, seeing how turned on they are by it is addictive LOL. That's just me though. I get the just bang a bad girl approach.
Also- how many posts do I have to leave to get to senior member? Not complaining, just wondering.