The Massholes

[QUOTE=Thickx;1853555]Looking back I can't seem to find this so I thought I would ask since I have not got a room in a long time. Was going to book a room for a night in the Boston area and I know they need at least a credit card, which I have that SO doesn't know about. But do they usually require an I'd as well? Let me know. Thanks guys![/QUOTE]Depending on the place you stay they may require ID or even plate number on registration card. Some places accept cash with no questions asked, however with things nowadays they want to cover their assets and ask for the minimum info.

No matter where you go be prepared to be asked to provide drivers license I'd. What you do behind closed doors is your business.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;1853977]Great idea! Imgur, eh? Why imgur as compared to, let's say, snapfish?[/QUOTE]Imgur doesn't require you to set up an account. Just upload the pics, and they give you a link. Nothing to trace back to you. You do also have the option of creating an account, but it's not required.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

[QUOTE=Ho Hunter 328; 1854322]Imgur doesn't require you to set up an account. Just upload the pics, and they give you a link. Nothing to trace back to you. You do also have the option of creating an account, but it's not required.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Cool :) Thanks Ho.

You know how it is, sometimes you PM somebody but their Inbox is full. So far I couldn't find a way to save draft so I can PM it later when they clear out some space.

There is some sort of auto-save feature there, but I'm yet to figure out how it works. Sometimes it just appears in the lower left corner of a the new message asking you if you want to "restore after-saved message" and if you click on it, it restores either whole or part of your earlier PMs that it somehow got into its memory. How and why is still a mystery to me.

Anyone knows what's the secret here and if there is a way to save a draft of your PM?

[QUOTE=Nrlmus; 1868751]You know how it is, sometimes you PM somebody but their Inbox is full. So far I couldn't find a way to save draft so I can PM it later when they clear out some space.

There is some sort of auto-save feature there, but I'm yet to figure out how it works. Sometimes it just appears in the lower left corner of a the new message asking you if you want to "restore after-saved message" and if you click on it, it restores either whole or part of your earlier PMs that it somehow got into its memory. How and why is still a mystery to me.

Anyone knows what's the secret here and if there is a way to save a draft of your PM?[/QUOTE]Just send your message to yourself as a PM. Then try again later with a copy of it.

-J

Nrlmus,

I simply copy/paste the text and change the name of recipient and send it to myself, then copy / paste from my own PM later when the User has an open mailbox again.

Also, below your PM text box, there is a Misc Options section, and I checkoff the Save Copy of sent emails in my own Sent Box. I cannot recall whether a PM gets sent there if someone's email is full though.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus; 1868751]You know how it is, sometimes you PM somebody but their Inbox is full. So far I couldn't find a way to save draft so I can PM it later when they clear out some space.

There is some sort of auto-save feature there, but I'm yet to figure out how it works. Sometimes it just appears in the lower left corner of a the new message asking you if you want to "restore after-saved message" and if you click on it, it restores either whole or part of your earlier PMs that it somehow got into its memory. How and why is still a mystery to me.

Anyone knows what's the secret here and if there is a way to save a draft of your PM?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Fuhgetaboudit; 1869446]Nrlmus,

I simply copy / paste the text and change the name of recipient and send it to myself, then copy / paste from my own PM later when the User has an open mailbox again.

Also, below your PM text box, there is a Misc Options section, and I checkoff the Save Copy of sent emails in my own Sent Box. I cannot recall whether a PM gets sent there if someone's email is full though.[/QUOTE]Thanks Fuhgetaboudit. Sending PM to yourself is a good idea. As for the later, no, it doesn't get saved in Sent Items folder if it hasn't been send.

Girls from Providence are better at giving BBJ's than girls from Boston. On my strolls through Roxbury, Dorchester and at times Mattapan, The BSWs are horrible when it comes to giving "dome". I've been strolling and cruising Boston's streets for nearly 27 years and I have YET to come across a BSW that can deepthroat. I am dead serious. I was in Providence a week ago and I got great head from a BSW there. Her BBJ skills were a hell of a lot better then the BSWs in Boston. Anyway, I'm just blowing a bit of steam here. Boston BSW's SUCK! (no pun intended) when it comes to giving blowjobs. I may be wrong, who knows.

I understand my rant is all over the place, sorry fellas. Just letting off some steam.

Well, and thought it can't get any weirder:

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I was in high school and I was a pothead and always had a lot of weed. I knew this girl who smoked and she wasnt hot but she was cool. She hit me up to order some and she told me her spot so I could make the deal. She hops in my car and says she has no money but she's desperate for pot and she will give me the money next week. I say no and she says she will give me head for it. I pull over and she does it and I give her the bag and she leaves. About a week later this girls best friend who I knew but we never talked calls me and asks if I can sell her some bud. I tell her 30 dollars and she says she has no money but her friend told her what she did for it. This girl is no lie a perfect 10 with humongous boobs. I pick her up just like the other girl and she goes to town and I give her a little extra and drop her off.

[QUOTE=HoHunter328;1930121]I know I've had my images stolen before, and I'm very quick to initiate legal action when I find out. Statutory damages for copyright infringement can be $750 to $30,000 per image in a pre-trial agreement, or up to $150,000 per image if it goes to trial. I can also file suit against any websites which post the images on behalf of anyone if they ignore my DMCA Infringement Notification.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Well majority of those borrowers are pretty hard find and if you do find them, they usually hardly have $750 to their name let alone $30,000. Majority of the time all of this image lifting is not being pursued unless "the lifter" himself is of some notoriety. But anyone of significance would not bother to just lift somebody images without asking for author's permission beforehand anyway.

Pre-trial agreements, trials and all that jazz. Sorry, but it hardly ever gets to that, not on that level. The most authors would do is to send an e-mail or message asking the lifter to take the image down or provide a reference to its author. Furthermore 99% of it is interstate, and if I live in NY and I lift your image for my purposes you'd have to go to NY to initiate legal action and it just wouldn't be worth it to you. I mean you can initiate it here, and you may even win but it's a 100% unenforceable. But even if you do decide to go to NY and sue me, you'd have to prove that you "lost that much money" as a result of me posting your image somewhere else to get anything out of me and good luck with doing that. Otherwise the most you could get is a court order ordering me to take the image down.

Now, if I live in New York, you may still decide to go through all such hustle for basically not much of the reward but if I live in California I don't think so. And if let's say, the site leads to anywhere across the border, including even our neighbor to the North, you'd really be ill-advice to do anything besides writing to the borrower and asking him to be cool about it and at least give you a credit for the image.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;1930486]Well majority of those borrowers are pretty hard find and if you do find them, they usually hardly have $750 to their name let alone $30,000. Majority of the time all of this image lifting is not being pursued unless "the lifter" himself is of some notoriety. But anyone of significance would not bother to just lift somebody images without asking for author's permission beforehand anyway.

Pre-trial agreements, trials and all that jazz. Sorry, but it hardly ever gets to that, not on that level. The most authors would do is to send an e-mail or message asking the lifter to take the image down or provide a reference to its author. Furthermore 99% of it is interstate, and if I live in NY and I lift your image for my purposes you'd have to go to NY to initiate legal action and it just wouldn't be worth it to you. I mean you can initiate it here, and you may even win but it's a 100% unenforceable. But even if you do decide to go to NY and sue me, you'd have to prove that you "lost that much money" as a result of me posting your image somewhere else to get anything out of me and good luck with doing that. Otherwise the most you could get is a court order ordering me to take the image down.

Now, if I live in New York, you may still decide to go through all such hustle for basically not much of the reward but if I live in California I don't think so. And if let's say, the site leads to anywhere across the border, including even our neighbor to the North, you'd really be ill-advice to do anything besides writing to the borrower and asking him to be cool about it and at least give you a credit for the image.[/QUOTE]You're confusing statutory damages vs actual damages, US copyright law allows for both (17 USC § 504). Attorney fees, and filing costs, would also be added to damages. As copyright infringement is a federal crime, I can file in my home state, and the defendant will have to come here to appear in court. You do have a valid point in tracking down the offender though, and collecting from someone who likely has no verifiable source of income would be problematic. But if they ever should get a legal job, collecting becomes easier. There is also the slight possibility they may get jail time if they can't pay. The best chance of actually collecting money would be in going after the websites which host the images if they should ignore my DMCA Notice of Infringement, but I've never had one fail to remove the images in under 24 hours. In fact most remove the images in under an hour, they know better than to risk it.

US Copyright laws are heavily in favor of the owner.

[QUOTE=HoHunter328;1930618]You're confusing statutory damages vs actual damages, US copyright law allows for both (17 USC § 504). Attorney fees, and filing costs, would also be added to damages. As copyright infringement is a federal crime, I can file in my home state, and the defendant will have to come here to appear in court. You do have a valid point in tracking down the offender though, and collecting from someone who likely has no verifiable source of income would be problematic. But if they ever should get a legal job, collecting becomes easier. There is also the slight possibility they may get jail time if they can't pay. The best chance of actually collecting money would be in going after the websites which host the images if they should ignore my DMCA Notice of Infringement, but I've never had one fail to remove the images in under 24 hours. In fact most remove the images in under an hour, they know better than to risk it.

US Copyright laws are heavily in favor of the owner.[/QUOTE]Yea, this all maybe true on the books but not in the real life. Federal court hardly ever gets involved with copyrights unless the copyright infringement is significant enough for them to take notice, plus you'd have to prove real commercial loss based on your previous gains and not in 100's of dollars but rather at least in 10's of thousands. And nobody's going to jail because somebody's picture's been lifted unless your names are Tom or Giselle or something of that rank, you can take that to the bank. If for example I make a drawing and post it on the web and you lift it and post it on your website unless I can prove that you're infringing on my commerce (BTW, for that I already need to have a commercial history which I must present in court) the case will be quickly thrown out or I'll be suggested to take to small claims and you'll be basically free to do whatever you want.

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BH.

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BH.[/QUOTE]In the immortal words of the Wailer Peter Tosh: "Legalize it, don't criticize it" First 420 and then the oldest profession in the world would not only improve GDP and relief budget squeeze but (significantly) decrease crime and lower incarceration rate. In short we'll be living in much happier of the society. And we definitely don't want that, don't we? Imagine how many people it would put out of work in law-enforcement sector! Oh, my God! It is also bound however to have negative affect on the booming industry of P.S.ychiatric assistance. So no, it's not happening.

The other thing, Martha "Torquemada" Coakley is running for governor again. Some just can't take any rejections seriously, can't they? One bloody nose is not enough. Remember when you tried to break up with a girl-friend that wouldn't go away? Didn't they make a movie about that once starring Glen Close?

Anyway, I personally can see myself voting for many truly evil personalities before I'd vote for Martha. Maybe we should organize an underground group of "supporters" and call it "hobbyists for Martha." LOL That is bound to derail her campaign once and for all.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;1930923]Yea, this all maybe true on the books but not in the real life. Federal court hardly ever gets involved with copyrights unless the copyright infringement is significant enough for them to take notice, plus you'd have to prove real commercial loss based on your previous gains and not in 100's of dollars but rather at least in 10's of thousands. And nobody's going to jail because somebody's picture's been lifted unless your names are Tom or Giselle or something of that rank, you can take that to the bank. If for example I make a drawing and post it on the web and you lift it and post it on your website unless I can prove that you're infringing on my commerce (BTW, for that I already need to have a commercial history which I must present in court) the case will be quickly thrown out or I'll be suggested to take to small claims and you'll be basically free to do whatever you want.[/QUOTE]HoHunter328:

Copyright infringement is not a Federal crime. It is a purely civil law. It is impossible to go to jail for infringement because it is not a crime, it is a tort. However, if the defendant refuses to pay damages, he may face a contempt of court charge which is a criminal matter. You are correct regarding collection, though. It is often the bane of any successful civil action. Finally, the District Court (trial level for the Federal system) in which you file must have personal jurisdiction over the defendant in order to hear the case. As well, there may be venue issues. You will not be able to file in your home state unless the defendant has some connection or presence there. A Web site may not be enough of a presence. I honestly can't remember the case law on this point. This is not something decided purely on a rule of civil procedure or a statute.

Nrlmus:

The Federal Courts have exclusive jurisdiction over copyright actions. No small claims court can hear a copyright action under any circumstances as there is no small claims court in the Federal system. If you file a copyright action in Federal Court, you will be heard, though you may face a motion to dismiss. Depends on the facts and the quality of the pleadings. If you file one in any other court, it will be dismissed for lack of subject matter jurisdiction. Courts cannot hear a case over which they do not have subject matter jurisdiction. As well, courts cannot intervene in any civil or criminal action unless a party with standing files a claim, so it's not really a matter of them getting involved or not. Damages in copyright are limited to actual damages unless its a registered copyright.

Copyright infringement is not worth pursuing unless the damages are significant. Expensive hassle. I've done them. There are better remedies, depending on the facts.

[QUOTE=SmokeScreen;1948532]I agree with Nrlmus, a cold sore is nothing serious enough to worry about. I usually get one a year, on rare occasions two a year and have been getting them since my early teens. I get tested often for STDs due to being in the hobby for so long and have always tested negative except for herpes simplex, which is not a STD but it shows up in the report. Granted, they don't look good, so if I get one I don't socialize much but if you use Abreva as soon as you feel a tingle on your lip and use it faithfull during the day, the cold sore only lasts a couple of days.[/QUOTE]Could you expand a bit in regards to the usage of Abreva? I know that a window for the first use it after you feel an initial tingle on your lip is very short, probably no more then 15 minutes if that but what about after? You say "use it faithfull during the day" you mean like what, every couple of hours or so or even more often? And would you continue to use it until the whole thing is gone or what? Just curious how do you handle it.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;1948783]Could you expand a bit in regards to the usage of Abreva? I know that a window for the first use it after you feel an initial tingle on your lip is very short, probably no more then 15 minutes if that but what about after? You say "use it faithfull during the day" you mean like what, every couple of hours or so or even more often? And would you continue to use it until the whole thing is gone or what? Just curious how do you handle it.[/QUOTE]As soon as I have even a hint of a tingle on my lip, usually first thing in the morning, I immediately rub some on my lip all around the tingle. After I have anything to eat, drink or brush my teeth, I'll put it on again. After that I use it every 2 or 3 hours until I go to bed at night. Be sure your hands are clean when using it and try not to lick your lips, that's my big problem, I'm always worried I've inadvertently licked it off, even though it is suppose to penetrate your lip. It's expensive, about $20 for a tiny .07 oz. But it's worth the cost and trouble. Even if you don't catch the tingle before the cold sore, it's still worthwhile to follow thru with the treatment.

[QUOTE=SmokeScreen;1948961]As soon as I have even a hint of a tingle on my lip, usually first thing in the morning, I immediately rub some on my lip all around the tingle. After I have anything to eat, drink or brush my teeth, I'll put it on again. After that I use it every 2 or 3 hours until I go to bed at night. Be sure your hands are clean when using it and try not to lick your lips, that's my big problem, I'm always worried I've inadvertently licked it off, even though it is suppose to penetrate your lip. It's expensive, about $20 for a tiny .07 oz. But it's worth the cost and trouble. Even if you don't catch the tingle before the cold sore, it's still worthwhile to follow thru with the treatment.[/QUOTE]And you keep on applying it in such a regime until the cold sore is gone?

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;1949027]And you keep on applying it in such a regime until the cold sore is gone?[/QUOTE]Yes, and I even keep using it lightly for a couple of days after it is gone, just to be sure it won't come back. I forgot what the directions say but I think they say use 4 times a day, that didn't work as good as every couple of hours did.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;1949027]And you keep on applying it in such a regime until the cold sore is gone?[/QUOTE]Next time you see your doctor, ask for a script for Acyclovir. Those pills & Abreva are the best way to stop a cold sore from breaking out. Key is, you need to take them ASAP after you feel the tingling. I have had Acyclovir for over 5 years now and never had a cold sore break out. As soon as I feel the tingling, I'll pop 2 pills four times a day. I keep a few at work & in the glovebox, just in case. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.

Actually I can't wait for this one. Its time, most certainly, has come.

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I have occasion to pass through stamford sometimes and had my best session ever there and have noticed that it has gone eerily quiet with one of the last posts mentioning 4 places having been raided and closed. It was I think similar to what folks have said about providence.

Sorry to bring it up here but in a way perhaps it's not completely out of place becausr in light of the recent goings on in framingham and prior to that bdfrd and even lex I wonder about the stamford silence and how that came about. Anyone know why they've gone quiet?

A.

When is comes to hooking up for sex, in my opinion, Boston is the MOST uptight city in the country!. It was never this way back in the 80's. Anyone else agree?. Sheesh!

[QUOTE=MeatMan;1966480]When is comes to hooking up for sex, in my opinion, Boston is the MOST uptight city in the country!. It was never this way back in the 80's. Anyone else agree?. Sheesh![/QUOTE]I don't know what it's like now, I quit SWs for the most part and moved to AMPs. But I can tell you for sure in the late 70's & 80's Mass Ave was loaded with SWs, also all around where the Combat Zone used to be. I was too young at the time, but the guys I hung around with were much older than me and they always included me when they were getting the hookers. Probably why I turned out to be such a working girl monger LOL.

[QUOTE=MeatMan;1966480]When is comes to hooking up for sex, in my opinion, Boston is the MOST uptight city in the country!. It was never this way back in the 80's. Anyone else agree?. Sheesh![/QUOTE]Nothing beat the 80's.

MM,

You just mentioning the 80's makes me yearn for them. Don't know if you used to go over the bridge to Everett and Chelsea and Revere, but it was easy pickins outside Caruso's at night or around the 8 am legs and egss times when they opened. The street along King Arthur's, and inside KAs, were ripe with tons of action. There used to be one wild white Italian KAs dancer, Cheryl V., who would party and do anything any where. Even, over in EB at the bar at the Pony it was a trip. Of course there, everyone was doing a lot of heavy stuff. Santarpio's bar during the day time was a hangout for everyone.

I missed those days, but if I had a chance to do it all over again, I would do it all again but double.

[QUOTE=MeatMan;1966480]When is comes to hooking up for sex, in my opinion, Boston is the MOST uptight city in the country!. It was never this way back in the 80's. Anyone else agree?. Sheesh![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Fuhgetaboudit;1972680]MM,

You just mentioning the 80's makes me yearn for them. Don't know if you used to go over the bridge to Everett and Chelsea and Revere, but it was easy pickins outside Caruso's at night or around the 8 am legs and egss times when they opened. The street along King Arthur's, and inside KAs, were ripe with tons of action. There used to be one wild white Italian KAs dancer, Cheryl V., who would party and do anything any where. Even, over in EB at the bar at the Pony it was a trip. Of course there, everyone was doing a lot of heavy stuff. Santarpio's bar during the day time was a hangout for everyone.

I missed those days, but if I had a chance to do it all over again, I would do it all again but double.[/QUOTE]You and I both...You and I both.

[QUOTE=Fuhgetaboudit;1972680]MM,

You just mentioning the 80's makes me yearn for them. Don't know if you used to go over the bridge to Everett and Chelsea and Revere, but it was easy pickins outside Caruso's at night or around the 8 am legs and eggs times when they opened. The street along King Arthur's, and inside KAs, were ripe with tons of action. There used to be one wild white Italian KAs dancer, Cheryl V., who would party and do anything any where. Even, over in EB at the bar at the Pony it was a trip. Of course there, everyone was doing a lot of heavy stuff. Santarpio's bar during the day time was a hangout for everyone.

I missed those days, but if I had a chance to do it all over again, I would do it all again but double.[/QUOTE]Yep, sign me up for a trip back in time too dude. I'll be cherishing everything that I used to take for granted. The kaleidoscope of in your face dressed women circling across the Park Plaza: I have a picture of a cute spinner blond in a see-through thin bra and a g-string so clearly in my mind now, I feel I could just reach out and touch her. Then there was that cute friendly brunette who exclaimed in dismay as I passed her "But I have such a tight pussy!" Needles to say that I instantly slammed on the breaks and went to verify if indeed she was telling the truth.

Then that street along King Arthur's, full of all kinds of action indeed, and then remember Hemenway? Also full of ladies giving you "the look"! I scooped up a girl there once who I use to date 10-15 years earlier. Even along Brighton Ave and Comm. Ave in Allston one could often pick up something as well as on Mass Ave from the bridge almost all the way up to Porter Sqr.

Those were the days my friend, I thought they never end but I was wrong.

From my post of 12-14-06 in the "combat zone" thread below.

Well guys, You again have managed to stir some old memories of the Pussycat, Picadelly, Mardi-Gras, 76, Teddy Bear, Good Time Charlie's, not to mention the "book stores with video booths and girls that would entertain you in those booths. You could score (get molested) without trying.

Don't forget the hot dog stand on the corner! Many an evening that was dinner and breakfast.

I remember going to the Playboy club, but can not say I repeated.

Holly shit. I remember it taking 30 minuets to drive one block through CT, because of the line of SW fighting over and climbing in the open windows of the cruising cars. Kneeland, Beach, LaGrange, etc. Even in the middle of winter!

Oh well, That is the past. Now it is a different story. Providence, and escorts are now more my speed. I only occasionally look to the streets now. It is too much work, not reliable, BUT STILL ENJOYABLE.

Remember. Every one has a different taste of strange.

Have fun!

Tony.

[QUOTE=Nrlmus;1972737]Yep, sign me up for a trip back in time too dude. I'll be cherishing everything that I used to take for granted. The kaleidoscope of in your face dressed women circling across the Park Plaza: I have a picture of a cute spinner blond in a see-through thin bra and a g-string so clearly in my mind now, I feel I could just reach out and touch her. Then there was that cute friendly brunette who exclaimed in dismay as I passed her "But I have such a tight pussy!" Needles to say that I instantly slammed on the breaks and went to verify if indeed she was telling the truth.

Then that street along King Arthur's, full of all kinds of action indeed, and then remember Hemenway? Also full of ladies giving you "the look"! I scooped up a girl there once who I use to date 10-15 years earlier. Even along Brighton Ave and Comm. Ave in Allston one could often pick up something as well as on Mass Ave from the bridge almost all the way up to Porter Sqr.

Those were the days my friend, I thought they never end but I was wrong.[/QUOTE]

ROTFLMAO.

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There has been a posting fairly regularly on BP Dating woman seeking men: ★9733; I'm in search of a very generous gentlemen to help me★9733; - 29 Picture (Boston & Surrounding areas).

If you read her post she is simply asking for "help" and presumably not offering sex. Let's assume the no sex is accurate and she wants help from all of you gentleman for everything from rent to manicures. Now I know some of us have huge hearts but would or have any of you really opened your bank role for someone that appears to place the same value on rent and a mani or pedi?

[QUOTE=Dh1610;1998133]There has been a posting fairly regularly on BP Dating woman seeking men: ★9733; I'm in search of a very generous gentlemen to help me★9733; - 29 Picture (Boston & Surrounding areas).

If you read her post she is simply asking for "help" and presumably not offering sex. Let's assume the no sex is accurate and she wants help from all of you gentleman for everything from rent to manicures. Now I know some of us have huge hearts but would or have any of you really opened your bank role for someone that appears to place the same value on rent and a mani or pedi?[/QUOTE]I have opened my wallet but not to any extreme, a 20 dollar bill here and there. There is a SW I know and used to see her regularly to the point I would pick her up at her house. I know this is going to sound funny but this is how it went. One day when picking up the SW from her house she introduced me to her 20 year old daughter who has a baby and of course the baby daddy has left the state to avoid taking responsibility for his child. Anyway this girl is smokin hot and my immediate thought is that I want some of that and I am sure that being a ghetto girl that she could use some help. While on my date with the mother I inquire about her daughter and tell mom that I don't mean any disrespect but her daughters attractive and that I would love to provide her some help. The mother tells me that her daughter is a good girl but does need help and that she would talk to her daughter. Now mom knows what I want and requests that if I do make make an arrangement with the daughter that I "do not turn her out". Well I am not a pimp I just want to spend a few hours with this hot young girl.

A few days later mom gives me the daughters phone number and tells me to take it slow with her daughter and that it may pay off at some point. So I start text with the daughter (this is where my wallet starts to open) and developing a relationship with her within a few days she asks me if I can loan her 20 bucks, no problem I meet her and talk for a bit and give her the 20 (its only 20 and I am looking for future pay off so its a small investment). More texting and few weeks goes by and she asks me if I can take her shopping for baby stuff, diapers etc, and it ended up costing about 25 bucks. Another few weeks and another request for 20 bucks so at this point I am about 60 bucks in with this girl but this is where I draw the line. When the next request comes I drop the line on her that I can't keep handing her money but maybe we can reach a mutually beneficial arrangement and she can get a weekly allowance. So the answer to your question is yes I will invest some money up front without any expectation of anything in return but not a lot of money, just enough to set the hook and start reeling her in.

Now I am sure your wondering if this ended up paying off in the end and the answer is not yet and this story started a year ago. When I made the offer of the allowance she told me flat out that there was no way she was going to do any P4 P so further requests for so called loans were denied so eventually the texts stopped and I did not hear from her. Now fast forward a year to last week. My good monger buddy who also knows this girl (actually he knows her mom as good as I do LOL) asks me if I have heard from the daughter which I had not but it made me curious so I texted her and sure enough she responds and immediately asks me for money, this time I throw P4 P right out to her and again I get a flat out "NO". No problem because what all of seem to forget is that there is an endless supply of hot young pussy out there that needs money for phone bills, new sneakers or the latest style of jeans and will do anything to get money for these things. So after I get the text saying no I text back "$200". You should not be surprised at what happens next, she texts back and says she is not sure and doubts she would, at this point I tell her I don't need an answer now and she should think it over.

Now this girl is hot and she knows it so 24 hours later she texts me back and says she is willing but that $350 is the new price and that the new price came with all kinds of rules, no kissing, no BBBJ etc so basically she is going to drop her panties and bend over for me. I nicely let her know that it was not going to happen at that price. She insisted and I let her know that I had plenty of other girls who would be happy to get a hundred. Now as far as I am concerned this deal is off yet she continued to text up till this past Thursday asking if we are still on, I texted back and reminded her that I was going to see one of my others and that their are no rules with my other girls. At this point the ghetto attitude comes out and she tells me I am BS'ing but she is willing to drop the rules and the price but after dealing with the ghetto attitude / my pussy is made of gold syndrome I reminded her again that I was spending my money elsewhere which is a shame because this girl is hot and I know she loves sex. Now this is yeserday and she has shifted from texting to calling my phone at least 30 times in the last 24 hours.

I have no doubt that in the near future I will see this girl and and get what I want on my terms. I know this was a long story to answer a simple question but the whole thing was fresh in my mind and it all started out by opening my wallet and throwing a small amount of money out there and expecting nothing immediate in return.

Interesting story Yellowfever. I have also had occasion to give but only after at least an initial sexual encounter. I gave a young mother from Dorchester a ride to a store and bought her appropriate clothing for her fathers funeral and another girl recently some funds to get caught up on rent. What caught my eye about this posting is the fact she is stating up front that she wants us to give with basically nothing in return. Nothing wrong with asking. I am just curious if anyone has given and what their reason is. I have not inquired and have no interest in pursuing so I am simply assuming up front that it is not a scam. Maybe I just had too much time to kill on the computer today.

[QUOTE=Yellowfever023;1998270]I have opened my wallet but not to any extreme, a 20 dollar bill here and there. There is a SW I know and used to see her regularly to the point I would pick her up at her house. I know this is going to sound funny but this is how it went. One day when picking up the SW from her house she introduced me to her 20 year old daughter who has a baby and of course the baby daddy has left the state to avoid taking responsibility for his child. Anyway this girl is smokin hot and my immediate thought is that I want some of that and I am sure that being a ghetto girl that she could use some help. While on my date with the mother I inquire about her daughter and tell mom that I don't mean any disrespect but her daughters attractive and that I would love to provide her some help. The mother tells me that her daughter is a good girl but does need help and that she would talk to her daughter. Now mom knows what I want and requests that if I do make make an arrangement with the daughter that I "do not turn her out". Well I am not a pimp I just want to spend a few hours with this hot young girl.

A few days later mom gives me the daughters phone number and tells me to take it slow with her daughter and that it may pay off at some point. So I start text with the daughter (this is where my wallet starts to open) and developing a relationship with her within a few days she asks me if I can loan her 20 bucks, no problem I meet her and talk for a bit and give her the 20 (its only 20 and I am looking for future pay off so its a small investment). More texting and few weeks goes by and she asks me if I can take her shopping for baby stuff, diapers etc, and it ended up costing about 25 bucks. Another few weeks and another request for 20 bucks so at this point I am about 60 bucks in with this girl but this is where I draw the line. When the next request comes I drop the line on her that I can't keep handing her money but maybe we can reach a mutually beneficial arrangement and she can get a weekly allowance. So the answer to your question is yes I will invest some money up front without any expectation of anything in return but not a lot of money, just enough to set the hook and start reeling her in.

Now I am sure your wondering if this ended up paying off in the end and the answer is not yet and this story started a year ago. When I made the offer of the allowance she told me flat out that there was no way she was going to do any P4 P so further requests for so called loans were denied so eventually the texts stopped and I did not hear from her. Now fast forward a year to last week. My good monger buddy who also knows this girl (actually he knows her mom as good as I do LOL) asks me if I have heard from the daughter which I had not but it made me curious so I texted her and sure enough she responds and immediately asks me for money, this time I throw P4 P right out to her and again I get a flat out "NO". No problem because what all of seem to forget is that there is an endless supply of hot young pussy out there that needs money for phone bills, new sneakers or the latest style of jeans and will do anything to get money for these things. So after I get the text saying no I text back "$200". You should not be surprised at what happens next, she texts back and says she is not sure and doubts she would, at this point I tell her I don't need an answer now and she should think it over.

Now this girl is hot and she knows it so 24 hours later she texts me back and says she is willing but that $350 is the new price and that the new price came with all kinds of rules, no kissing, no BBBJ etc so basically she is going to drop her panties and bend over for me. I nicely let her know that it was not going to happen at that price. She insisted and I let her know that I had plenty of other girls who would be happy to get a hundred. Now as far as I am concerned this deal is off yet she continued to text up till this past Thursday asking if we are still on, I texted back and reminded her that I was going to see one of my others and that their are no rules with my other girls. At this point the ghetto attitude comes out and she tells me I am BS'ing but she is willing to drop the rules and the price but after dealing with the ghetto attitude / my pussy is made of gold syndrome I reminded her again that I was spending my money elsewhere which is a shame because this girl is hot and I know she loves sex. Now this is yeserday and she has shifted from texting to calling my phone at least 30 times in the last 24 hours.

I have no doubt that in the near future I will see this girl and and get what I want on my terms. I know this was a long story to answer a simple question but the whole thing was fresh in my mind and it all started out by opening my wallet and throwing a small amount of money out there and expecting nothing immediate in return.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dh1610;1998133]There has been a posting fairly regularly on BP Dating woman seeking men: ★9733; I'm in search of a very generous gentlemen to help me★9733; - 29 Picture (Boston & Surrounding areas).

If you read her post she is simply asking for "help" and presumably not offering sex. Let's assume the no sex is accurate and she wants help from all of you gentleman for everything from rent to manicures. Now I know some of us have huge hearts but would or have any of you really opened your bank role for someone that appears to place the same value on rent and a mani or pedi?[/QUOTE]First off I would not answer the ad as she is not attractive to me.

While she does not specifically offer anything in return for your generosity I believe that she definitely implies there will be reciprocation. This is done thru this line:

" attractive sweet loving girl with a big heart. I'm mature, charismatic and a quick learner. I have the perfect bubbly attitude that will melt your heart! I'm a light skin Island girl with an honey complexion and a sweet full figure. I'm beautiful on the inside and outside".

My take is that if nothing was to be offered on her end than this lengthy descriptions is unnecessary. Why not just state you are a nice person and worthy of a gentlemans help? Looks, ethnicity, etc would have no bearing in such a circumstance.

Just my .02.

So I went to the clubs in providence hoping to spend some money on a girl I knew from seeing and had provided some small extras in the past. Didn't see her and got friendly with a new girl who I went to the CR with and didn't provide extras.

And I got shorted by 5 minutes. Wasn't her fault and she was really nice and cute and friendly. After talking for a while I asked her if she'd ever be interested in meeting outside the bar since I live out of town and can't make it.

Most days she works. She politely said no and didn't make a big deal out of it.

So I guess I'm really just ranting but I'm just annoyed that these girls will work for hours at the club and make shitty money complain about bills and I offer something extra which would take 30 Minutes of just acting sexy and not even need to be FS for $.5 or $ Is it to much to ask to have a girl that doesn't see 20 guys a day and is attractive. I don't know what the point of my rant is again but I just wish some strippers were a little more morally open.

My computer won't let me log in. I'm being blocked and the message is mal slash html Gen-A help, I like this site and whatever that code means that google chrome lists as the reason its blocking the site is aggravating LOL. Any help would be appreciated. Ttyl.

In this day you have to establish a relationship of trust. For every cute stripper out there, there are four or five willing to take her place. You have greedy bar owners who want their take, there are hidden cameras and general paranoia with strippers. For all they know you could be a vice cop. As for meeting outside, again they will have to know you and some may just want to stay in the safety of the bar. Just take your time and develop a relationship with one or two strippers and you may eventually get lucky.

[QUOTE=BstnGuy1457;1998448]So I went to the clubs in providence hoping to spend some money on a girl I knew from seeing and had provided some small extras in the past. Didn't see her and got friendly with a new girl who I went to the CR with and didn't provide extras.

And I got shorted by 5 minutes. Wasn't her fault and she was really nice and cute and friendly. After talking for a while I asked her if she'd ever be interested in meeting outside the bar since I live out of town and can't make it.

Most days she works. She politely said no and didn't make a big deal out of it.

So I guess I'm really just ranting but I'm just annoyed that these girls will work for hours at the club and make shitty money complain about bills and I offer something extra which would take 30 Minutes of just acting sexy and not even need to be FS for $.5 or $ Is it to much to ask to have a girl that doesn't see 20 guys a day and is attractive. I don't know what the point of my rant is again but I just wish some strippers were a little more morally open.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Deb4512;1999153]My computer won't let me log in. I'm being blocked and the message is mal slash html Gen-A help, I like this site and whatever that code means that google chrome lists as the reason its blocking the site is aggravating LOL. Any help would be appreciated. Ttyl.[/QUOTE]Do a virus scan of your computer to make sure your computer is clean. Not enough info to research issue.