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[QUOTE=TwoMins;3658238]This is exactly my experience as well. I'd much rather see a high end provider at those prices. The SB's I've seen also only want to go one round which hurts the value prop. Still searching for that gem![/QUOTE]Many toss out $400-$500 as the going in number without seeing pics. It seems the standard starting point.
[QUOTE=CuteBoyRandy4;3658769]Can someone tell me how to get an arrangement on SA?[/QUOTE]I don't consider myself an expert here but I do have some basic advice.
1. As a guy you *_must_* have a premium account. Pay the fee if you want to message girls back and forth you find interesting.
2. Be creative and witty in those ice-breaker messages. These girls get bombed with "hey" and "ppm?" (pay per meet) messages from us mongers. Make yourself stand out if you want her attention.
3. Be wary of bots. Various accounts that use the same picture might be a scam. OTOH, it may be a "pro" that got banned for being too blatant in message.
4. Never pay for a meet and greet. Period.
5. Lots of girls have "golden pussy syndrome" (GPS). They want stupid money for platonic arrangement. Take a pass on these stuck up bitches.
6. Do take the conversation to text / email. You'll get more pictures and now you're on her radar.
7. Don't be flake. If you agree to meet her, then go meet. You'll get lots of female flakes yourself. I certainly did. Don't add to the snow storm.
8. Most of these girls are "under the radar" (UTR). They are college kids looking for money or bored MILFs looking for a thrill. Some of them may be BP "pros" but in my experience, most are not. Don't be rude or too explicit at first. They need to warm up to you same as any "vanilla" relationship.
9. Try not to be stupid by thinking with the little head. I fell into a CL scam recently (see my recent post in that forum). Scams are out there and they will get your money if you are occasionally stupid like me.
10. Golden rule: Stay safe. Be on your guard. Watch out for scams, blackmail, mugging thugs, diseases and other harmful / dangerous elements of this hobby.
Hi this is Paul Sweeter.
I've been on Match, POF, Zoosk, and OKC.
There are tons of Malaysian and Russian scammers on there.
The woman all have "golden pussy's" & Looking for the white knight on his big horse to find her.
I've just been surfing SA. I was in Florida. I haven't paid for Premium. Yet.
Just got back. Seems like some over 40, which is my interest, are sincere to make a LTR. Long term arrangement.
Has anyone actually had a SD / SB relationship for any period of time?
How to find a sincere SB that has decent looks, good company,. No m&g fee, and a realistic pocketbook.
Thanks,. Paul S.
PM me if you'd rather.
[QUOTE=PaulSweeter;3660958]Hi this is Paul Sweeter.
I've been on Match, POF, Zoosk, and OKC.
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How to find a sincere SB that has decent looks, good company,. No m&g fee, and a realistic pocketbook.
[/QUOTE]Head over to the "Virginia / Richmond / Sugarbabies & arrangement " forum on here. It's the oldest and most active SB forum and can answer almost all your questions. If after several hours of reading a hundreds of posts you still have questions you can always post them here.
Here's a few pointers to get you started:
1. Again, never ever pay for a M&G.
2. Some girls are pro or semi-pro. If that's what you're after than go for it.
3. Many on there are just bored college girls looking for validation and seeing their "worth". They'll be on there every day for months and will never meet anyone let alone enter an arrangement. Spot those early and move on.
4. Platonic is another word for Kryptonite. Stay away.
5. A girl that says "I know my worth" or something to that effect in her profile is GPS and to be ignored.
6. Her profile is her best foot forward so if she sounds crazy in there she's military-grade bonkers.
7. The more you have to pay the less she likes you. The less she likes you the less interesting the main course will be. If all you want is a pretty dead starfish to look at then go ahead and fork out the 500-700 per visit.
8. Don't keep chasing girls that are just lukewarm. Establish contact and present yourself but if after that she's a cold fish move on (see point below).
9. The most valuable thing you can do is protect your time. There's is maybe, maybe 5% (I'm being generous) of the girls on there that are worth meeting. Your job is to discover them without wasting too much of your valuable time on the other 95%.
Finally, it's not for everyone. Try a month and see how it goes.
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3661047]Head over to the "Virginia / Richmond / Sugarbabies & arrangement " forum on here. It's the oldest and most active SB forum and can answer almost all your questions. If after several hours of reading a hundreds of posts you still have questions you can always post them here.
Here's a few pointers to get you started:
1. Again, never ever pay for a M&G.
2. Some girls are pro or semi-pro. If that's what you're after than go for it.
3. Many on there are just bored college girls looking for validation and seeing their "worth". They'll be on there every day for months and will never meet anyone let alone enter an arrangement. Spot those early and move on.
4. Platonic is another word for Kryptonite. Stay away.
5. A girl that says "I know my worth" or something to that effect in her profile is GPS and to be ignored.
6. Her profile is her best foot forward so if she sounds crazy in there she's military-grade bonkers.
7. The more you have to pay the less she likes you. The less she likes you the less interesting the main course will be. If all you want is a pretty dead starfish to look at then go ahead and fork out the 500-700 per visit.
8. Don't keep chasing girls that are just lukewarm. Establish contact and present yourself but if after that she's a cold fish move on (see point below).
9. The most valuable thing you can do is protect your time. There's is maybe, maybe 5% (I'm being generous) of the girls on there that are worth meeting. Your job is to discover them without wasting too much of your valuable time on the other 95%.
Finally, it's not for everyone. Try a month and see how it goes.[/QUOTE]Thanks again,. I'll see if I can get somewhere. The online dating is the same thing.
Very few good ones. P.S.
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3661047]Head over to the "Virginia / Richmond / Sugarbabies & arrangement " forum on here. It's the oldest and most active SB forum and can answer almost all your questions. If after several hours of reading a hundreds of posts you still have questions you can always post them here.
Here's a few pointers to get you started:
1. Again, never ever pay for a M&G.
2. Some girls are pro or semi-pro. If that's what you're after than go for it.
3. Many on there are just bored college girls looking for validation and seeing their "worth". They'll be on there every day for months and will never meet anyone let alone enter an arrangement. Spot those early and move on.
4. Platonic is another word for Kryptonite. Stay away.
5. A girl that says "I know my worth" or something to that effect in her profile is GPS and to be ignored.
6. Her profile is her best foot forward so if she sounds crazy in there she's military-grade bonkers.
7. The more you have to pay the less she likes you. The less she likes you the less interesting the main course will be. If all you want is a pretty dead starfish to look at then go ahead and fork out the 500-700 per visit.
8. Don't keep chasing girls that are just lukewarm. Establish contact and present yourself but if after that she's a cold fish move on (see point below).
9. The most valuable thing you can do is protect your time. There's is maybe, maybe 5% (I'm being generous) of the girls on there that are worth meeting. Your job is to discover them without wasting too much of your valuable time on the other 95%.
Finally, it's not for everyone. Try a month and see how it goes.[/QUOTE]Thanks for pointing the Virginia / Richmond forum. Vast source of info on SA! I've yet to create my account as I'm going away for holidays, but I'm looking forward to jumping on when I get back.
[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3661047]Head over to the "Virginia / Richmond / Sugarbabies & arrangement " forum on here. It's the oldest and most active SB forum and can answer almost all your questions. If after several hours of reading a hundreds of posts you still have questions you can always post them here.
Here's a few pointers to get you started:
1. Again, never ever pay for a M&G.
2. Some girls are pro or semi-pro. If that's what you're after than go for it.
3. Many on there are just bored college girls looking for validation and seeing their "worth". They'll be on there every day for months and will never meet anyone let alone enter an arrangement. Spot those early and move on.
4. Platonic is another word for Kryptonite. Stay away.
5. A girl that says "I know my worth" or something to that effect in her profile is GPS and to be ignored.
6. Her profile is her best foot forward so if she sounds crazy in there she's military-grade bonkers.
7. The more you have to pay the less she likes you. The less she likes you the less interesting the main course will be. If all you want is a pretty dead starfish to look at then go ahead and fork out the 500-700 per visit.
8. Don't keep chasing girls that are just lukewarm. Establish contact and present yourself but if after that she's a cold fish move on (see point below).
9. The most valuable thing you can do is protect your time. There's is maybe, maybe 5% (I'm being generous) of the girls on there that are worth meeting. Your job is to discover them without wasting too much of your valuable time on the other 95%.
Finally, it's not for everyone. Try a month and see how it goes.[/QUOTE]Completely agree with line 3 , 4, 5.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/136fd5cf-3c90-4faf-abb2-38d9888d655f[/URL]
Wants 600 without asking for my pic. Countered with 300 for 2 hours. She said no thanks.
[QUOTE=Rome400;3663035][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/136fd5cf-3c90-4faf-abb2-38d9888d655f[/URL]
Wants 600 without asking for my pic. Countered with 300 for 2 hours. She said no thanks.[/QUOTE]Thanks bro good to know. I messaged her earlier.
From the projects, no transportation. Kind of flaky but I thought she was hot (in a project girl way LOL!) Will take it in all holes, raw with a little effort. Asks for $300 but can be had for a little less.
Let me know if any of you dogs see her, Haha.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0a08f72b-cb77-1265-232d-54b3be2f7f80[/URL]
But for me Sarahs account is deactivated 2 hours after your post. It says she may have blocked you or disabled her account.
A word to the wise also. I'm a world class shit talker, and you can actually get a time out from SA. Some girl offered me something ridiculous and I countered with 20.00 for her to lick my ass, and was given a 24 hour time out where I could not log in or anything. It said I was suspended for repeated violations but I'm sure that was the one that triggered it.
Made a profile and going through reading profiles. They women / girls have got to be kidding.
They think men are going to mentor them, buy them things, spend time with them platonically, and then pay them with out having sex? Hahahaha.
Can't count how many profiles say no sex or looking to make a connection but not for sex, want to be taken out and shown a good time and get paid for it. Again hahahahah.
Serious question to the guys who have been on SA for a while. How many times do you get a girl there that is actually thinking they are going to get paid to hang out and eat or shop or go to the movies with you?
Is all of that crap just a front so you don't think they will just meet and bang your brains out?
Please give me some idea of what is up there before I sign up.
Thanks guys.
[QUOTE=YLonen;3664118]Made a profile and going through reading profiles. They women / girls have got to be kidding.
They think men are going to mentor them, buy them things, spend time with them platonically, and then pay them with out having sex? Hahahaha.
Can't count how many profiles say no sex or looking to make a connection but not for sex, want to be taken out and shown a good time and get paid for it. Again hahahahah.
Serious question to the guys who have been on SA for a while. How many times do you get a girl there that is actually thinking they are going to get paid to hang out and eat or shop or go to the movies with you?
Is all of that crap just a front so you don't think they will just meet and bang your brains out?
Please give me some idea of what is up there before I sign up.
Thanks guys.[/QUOTE]Nope those are the ones you don't waste your time with, I actually am glad when they put that in their profile as its not someone I message. Once in a whilie there is someone that fits what I'm looking for and I might try but its always fruitless.
[QUOTE=Jack617;3663780]From the projects, no transportation. Kind of flaky but I thought she was hot (in a project girl way LOL!) Will take it in all holes, raw with a little effort. Asks for $300 but can be had for a little less.
Let me know if any of you dogs see her, Haha.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0a08f72b-cb77-1265-232d-54b3be2f7f80[/URL][/QUOTE]Pretty sure I saw this one. I didn't directly ask for anything but for her "time" and she was like a emotional rollcoaster and she looks way worse in person. Drugged out.
[QUOTE=YLonen;3664118]Made a profile and going through reading profiles. They women / girls have got to be kidding.
They think men are going to mentor them, buy them things, spend time with them platonically, and then pay them with out having sex? Hahahaha.
Can't count how many profiles say no sex or looking to make a connection but not for sex, want to be taken out and shown a good time and get paid for it. Again hahahahah.
Serious question to the guys who have been on SA for a while. How many times do you get a girl there that is actually thinking they are going to get paid to hang out and eat or shop or go to the movies with you?
Is all of that crap just a front so you don't think they will just meet and bang your brains out?
Please give me some idea of what is up there before I sign up.
Thanks guys.[/QUOTE]In my experience it isn't a front. I had one who wanted me to pay her to send me daily inspirational txt's. Given the amount who expect platonic arrangements there has to some sorry assholes paying them for this nonsense.