Sugar Baby

This is always a difficult subject. Some girls are ok with it, but most, even if they really do want to see multiple guys, don't want to be shared in a public forum. Many of these girls do look at themselves as providers and think that if they keep under the radar then they are are somehow something different. When I was in NY, the group of guys that were fellow hobbyists and I had a couple of different private groups that we would discuss different ladies that we had found. The problem with sharing in an open forum is that there are guys that can fuck up a one man parade. And, in this hobby, they will do exactly that. Much of our sharing was only with guys backchannel that you knew and trusted. The general liner of how you knew these guys was that they were poker buddies and were looking for a discreet relationship. It's good for us to share some information in this forum, but getting to sharing specific ladies here can lead to trouble. Remember, this is not a private, secured forum. Anyone can read what we post here.

[QUOTE=Hawkeye49;2840940]I'm seriously considering joining this site as I've just started reading all the posts here. Can someone provide me with the link to the dos and don'ts post by SG or HG? Pay or not to Pay? Post your picture or not to post your picture? Status. Should one select married but looking if that's the case or keep that under your belt. So to speak?[/QUOTE]Hollywood Guy is out of LA. Check the tread there.

He has a 5 step program which is mandatory reading.

He is also contributed / schooled the Richmond thread.

He is the man.

Normus Johnson.

[QUOTE=FyrGuy33;2847294]This is always a difficult subject. Some girls are ok with it, but most, even if they really do want to see multiple guys, don't want to be shared in a public forum. Many of these girls do look at themselves as providers and think that if they keep under the radar then they are are somehow something different. When I was in NY, the group of guys that were fellow hobbyists and I had a couple of different private groups that we would discuss different ladies that we had found. The problem with sharing in an open forum is that there are guys that can fuck up a one man parade. And, in this hobby, they will do exactly that. Much of our sharing was only with guys backchannel that you knew and trusted. The general liner of how you knew these guys was that they were poker buddies and were looking for a discreet relationship. It's good for us to share some information in this forum, but getting to sharing specific ladies here can lead to trouble. Remember, this is not a private, secured forum. Anyone can read what we post here.[/QUOTE]I just don't follow. Thats why threads and forums exist, to share. Now you don't have to get specific but posting links, is pics upto date, what they ask for arrangement etc is nothing requiring the back room secret handshake crap. Now if you want to discuss whether she will shove something up your ass then by all means go private. If her profile is up then because she offers one a certain arrangement doesn't mean the next guy gets the same. YMMV is true here as same on BP.

Again I refer you to the Cincinnati and Knoxville forums to see how its done.

If the girl states she is OK with sharing her info then go for it, if she says no then don't.

The only time I think its appropriate to post without her concent is if it saves the mongers here any grief where the girl is bad or a ripoff.

[QUOTE=Funboy22;2846472]What are the group's thoughts on this? Some girls use SA to be borderline UTR girls. I think we have a duty to respect them but to protect each other as well. So its a very gray line. What are the rules of sharing info? Not that there are rules per se, but some girls are okay with it and some aren't.[/QUOTE]

She goes by Mya1133 or Bella!! Out of Orlando. Stupid ***** is a typical dine and dash girl. We setup a standard dinner and coffee for a meet and greet and I stated I would give her 50 for her her time during dinner and her gas. Halfway through dinner she asked if I had the donation and like a fool I gave it to her, a couple minutes later she excused herself to use the bathroom and bailed.

So messaged this one today. Got an immediate response to text. Sends me a pic then starts saying that after I pay her 100 bucks per cam show for 4 shows she'll meet. Are you fuckin kidding me.

JustAGeek-.

I wish you would have read the board because in Post #86 I warned about her. This is why it's good to share this kind of info.

[QUOTE=SA2222;2812617]Be careful with Bellaa!! And annbaby! Who appear to be the same person, I'm guessing she is being pimped and could be a scammer. I could be wrong but that's my gut feeling after having conversation with annbaby![/QUOTE]

Some girls have that disclaimer in their profile saying their name, profile, etc can't be used on another website. Not sure if that really means anything legally.

In my post from a couple days ago I inquired about a 19 yo from Altamonte. Her name is emilym1996. A fellow poster gave me good feedback that he was able to do some sleuthing on her based on phone number and it appears she has a serious boyfriend that may not be wise to her situation, which makes sense because conversations with her require using code words and specific availability time. I passed on pursuing this one further. I have no interest in stepping into a potential hornets nest. This is the kind of info that's useful to us.

Yeah I found this part of the forum way to late unfortunately. At least I didn't loose much green on the ordeal.

[QUOTE=SA2222;2848029]JustAGeek-.

I wish you would have read the board because in Post #86 I warned about her. This is why it's good to share this kind of info.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JustAGeek;2847486]She goes by Mya1133 or Bella!! Out of Orlando. Stupid ***** is a typical dine and dash girl. We setup a standard dinner and coffee for a meet and greet and I stated I would give her 50 for her her time during dinner and her gas. Halfway through dinner she asked if I had the donation and like a fool I gave it to her, a couple minutes later she excused herself to use the bathroom and bailed.[/QUOTE]Yeah she msg me and quoted 300 lego pieces for NSA date. Lets just say I dint msg back.

[QUOTE=JustAGeek;2847486]She goes by Mya1133 or Bella!! Out of Orlando. Stupid ***** is a typical dine and dash girl. We setup a standard dinner and coffee for a meet and greet and I stated I would give her 50 for her her time during dinner and her gas. Halfway through dinner she asked if I had the donation and like a fool I gave it to her, a couple minutes later she excused herself to use the bathroom and bailed.[/QUOTE]Live and learn. This is why you don't pay for a m / g. This is a job interview for both and I've never been paid to show up for a job interview.

[QUOTE=JustAGeek;2847462]If the girl states she is OK with sharing her info then go for it, if she says no then don't.

The only time I think its appropriate to post without her concent is if it saves the mongers here any grief where the girl is bad or a ripoff.[/QUOTE]Never had a girl say " oh its ok to share my info with your buddies". When she is telling you its ok to do that is she saying its ok to shsre with members of the site (sa) or to mongers? Either way she is a pro or utr.

YMMV goes for this the same as a pro so their donations (sugar) is going to vary from each contact depending on interaction you have unless she is a pro or utr.

Hope you sent her a link to your review and reminded her why dashing really wasn't worth the $50 she ran off with. Good heads up.

[QUOTE=JustAGeek;2847486]She goes by Mya1133 or Bella!! Out of Orlando. Stupid ***** is a typical dine and dash girl. We setup a standard dinner and coffee for a meet and greet and I stated I would give her 50 for her her time during dinner and her gas. Halfway through dinner she asked if I had the donation and like a fool I gave it to her, a couple minutes later she excused herself to use the bathroom and bailed.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JustCruzin;2848456]Hope you sent her a link to your review and reminded her why dashing really wasn't worth the $50 she ran off with. Good heads up.[/QUOTE]Set up a date further away, so she has to travel. Then don't show.

[QUOTE=FyrGuy33;2847294]This is always a difficult subject. Some girls are ok with it, but most, even if they really do want to see multiple guys, don't want to be shared in a public forum. Many of these girls do look at themselves as providers and think that if they keep under the radar then they are are somehow something different. When I was in NY, the group of guys that were fellow hobbyists and I had a couple of different private groups that we would discuss different ladies that we had found. The problem with sharing in an open forum is that there are guys that can fuck up a one man parade. And, in this hobby, they will do exactly that. Much of our sharing was only with guys backchannel that you knew and trusted. The general liner of how you knew these guys was that they were poker buddies and were looking for a discreet relationship. It's good for us to share some information in this forum, but getting to sharing specific ladies here can lead to trouble. Remember, this is not a private, secured forum. Anyone can read what we post here.[/QUOTE]While correct that this is open to anyone, if you don't match your name here with SA and don't post when you meet, they cannot put 2 and 2 together. I find it hard they are a one man person. I only post info about their profile name on SA, other then that you have to do the work with them to get additional contact info. I would never ask any girl about if its ok with them as its not up to them and only put you in the spotlight or you may come off as a pro.