"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=EBob1111;4579992]She's cute and a good fuck but gets annoying with constantly texting asking for money. She always applies it to your next visit but she'll text asking you to venmo $10 for gas and then two hours later ask for another $20 to take her kid to the movies. I suspect she's doing that to enough of you that she's pulling in a good amount. Getting ready to cut her loose in favor of an exclusive situation I've just arranged.

EBob.[/QUOTE]I saw her a couple of times back in the spring but got tired of her texts as well. Strictly business, jumps right in and she's is gone as soon as you cum.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4580260]I have her real number and her burner number if nobody else can give it to you. I'd have to dig through a ton of messages to find it but I will if you need. She has a very limited window that she can host / fuck between when she gets off work and her bf gets home. Like 3-6 pm. Her daughter gets home from school at 4 but she's open to fucking with her daughter there. I just couldn't get myself together trying to fuck her with her daughter screaming from downstairs "has that boy left yet mommy" so I don't see her anymore. I was also fucking her in her daughters tiny little bed so that was weird too.[/QUOTE]Check your inbox.

I only get on the site a month at a time, and use the standard OneVanilla prepaid debit card, with $100 on it. In the past, I have gone in and unchecked auto-renew, b / c I knew I wasn't going to continue after the month. Last time, I was cut off w / no warning. This time I left it alone, and I knew exactly the day I was supposed to lose access. I planned ahead, and gave sign-off messages to girls I was interested in, w / my GV #. The day the site tried to auto-renew and there wasn't enough dough on the card, it sent me an email about that. However, I got a couple of more days of access before they downgraded me.

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[QUOTE=Truncated;4578514]I can tell you what works for me:

Get a burner phone and use it to join Tinder. I would not use my regular phone, nor would I use a photo I have posted elsewhere. Consider posting a pic with only one of your eyes visible. A side shot, for example.

On your profile, add some subtle language about sugar, or being a sugar daddy. Nothing explicit.

Now your bait is in the water.

Wait. The SBs will come. When they do, be friendly and polite. Don't get yourself banned from Tinder for discussing pay for play. Take that conversation to a M&G.

Do the same thing on Instagram. You'll get noticed on there, too, if your profile says something about being a SD.[/QUOTE]Thanks,

How do you message them? Do you need to pay to message?

Can you use Tinder on a laptop? It has to be on a phone app?

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[QUOTE=TopGun9;4580770]Thanks,

How do you message them? Do you need to pay to message?

Can you use Tinder on a laptop? It has to be on a phone app?[/QUOTE]There is a monthly charge for the premium Tinder services. It's worth paying for the upgrades, I think. You get to see who likes you before you make a move. Since I put myself out there as a SD, I know that's what a girl is interested in before I waste time.

Yes, you can use Tinder on a laptop. Download the app on their site. It works pretty-much the same as the mobile app. But, you will still need either a cell # or Facebook account to use Tinder. That's why it's easier to use a burner and prepaid Visa to sign up. That's or create a throwaway FB account. But you will still need a burner to sign up for that.

I don't message anyone on Tinder unless they like me first. It's clear I'm a SD. Interested girls swipe and then I know they are interested in sugar. Then I message them and set up a M&G.

Just be sure not to talk sugar on Tinder. You can get banned.

Instagram works pretty-much the same way. Put yourself out there and wait for SBs to show interest.

It's like fishing, in that you need to be patient.

In my experience, the next two weeks aren't the best for sugaring. Girls are busy with family and the holidays. Once the new year arrives, sugaring gets busy because all the holiday bills are coming due.

Any one using a TRAC Phone.

Thanks CM.

Anyone have info on this lady? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4cdc84a9-fcb6-4dd8-a89f-0a04b40e37c3[/URL].

I am meeting her for lunch today and she has repeatedly asked that if we click can we get a room after. She wants to do a hotel the first time but then will come to my place for regular meets after that. I kinda follow the logic that she doesn't want to come to my place until we know we will want to see each other regularly but I also think maybe she knows it will just be a 1 time deal. That may be fine too though.

She texted me a few other pics and she is a very pretty young lady.

Thanks and be safe?

[QUOTE=FanRat;4581449]Anyone have info on this lady? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4cdc84a9-fcb6-4dd8-a89f-0a04b40e37c3[/URL].

I am meeting her for lunch today and she has repeatedly asked that if we click can we get a room after. She wants to do a hotel the first time but then will come to my place for regular meets after that. I kinda follow the logic that she doesn't want to come to my place until we know we will want to see each other regularly but I also think maybe she knows it will just be a 1 time deal. That may be fine too though.

She texted me a few other pics and she is a very pretty young lady.

Thanks and be safe?[/QUOTE]I was texting with her a couple weeks ago and we were planning to meet but when she asked about what kind of allowance I could provide and I started at 200 ppm she told me that was much lower than she's used to getting and that pretty much ended the negotiations.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4581411]Any one using a TRAC Phone.

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]I was using TracFone for a while, then I switched to WalMart's phone plan. [URL]MyFamilyMobile.com[/URL].

At one point during the registration process, there is a redirect that reveals the plan is somehow involved with TracFone.

It's $24/ month for unlimited text / talk and some data. It uses T-Mobile's network and the coverage is good.

The registration requires minimal info.

She texted me that her phone is blowing up with texts from numbers she doesn't know, she's probably going to shut down to make it stop. For the record I'm all for sharing intel on SBs but don't think it's good practice to give out their numbers to people they don't know. They are all easy to contact through SA and they can respond if they choose to. Passing out their number makes them feel like ******, ruins their delusion that they're not, and screws it up for the rest of us.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4581411]Any one using a TRAC Phone.

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]I have had only TracFones, and I have liked them. I have posted about them before. It is very economical, and you can pay for use completely anonymously, w / prepaid debit cards through their website. I put Google Voice on it and then can also text from the GV web page when I am at home on my laptop, without arousing suspicion from the SO.

[QUOTE=Truncated;4581258]There is a monthly charge for the premium Tinder services. It's worth paying for the upgrades, I think. You get to see who likes you before you make a move. Since I put myself out there as a SD, I know that's what a girl is interested in before I waste time.

Yes, you can use Tinder on a laptop. Download the app on their site. It works pretty-much the same as the mobile app. But, you will still need either a cell # or Facebook account to use Tinder. That's why it's easier to use a burner and prepaid Visa to sign up. That's or create a throwaway FB account. But you will still need a burner to sign up for that.

I don't message anyone on Tinder unless they like me first. It's clear I'm a SD. Interested girls swipe and then I know they are interested in sugar. Then I message them and set up a M&G.

Just be sure not to talk sugar on Tinder. You can get banned.

Instagram works pretty-much the same way. Put yourself out there and wait for SBs to show interest.

It's like fishing, in that you need to be patient.

In my experience, the next two weeks aren't the best for sugaring. Girls are busy with family and the holidays. Once the new year arrives, sugaring gets busy because all the holiday bills are coming due.[/QUOTE]My SA premium is expiring. I have enough contacts from there to keep me busy for a few weeks. I will give this Tinder thing a try.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4580770]Thanks,

How do you message them? Do you need to pay to message?

Can you use Tinder on a laptop? It has to be on a phone app?[/QUOTE]You can only message them through tinder once you've "matched".

I use the premium service for a few reasons:

- Unlimited swipes.

- I can change my location.

- I can turn off where I actually am.

- They give me ultra likes daily to boost my visibility.

My strategy is just treating it like SA once I've matched. I also find the ones I'm really interested in on IG / SC and get a glimpse into what they're into, post about, etc because the best candidates kind of follow a trend.

Once you're in a conversation with them it's all about having some game and getting them to open a bit and be honest. As I've stated many times, my goal is to flip Civvies into SB's that are open to some extra cash for less work than their weekend or night jobs. It's the same way I approach Baristas, waitresses, cashiers, etc. It's just through a medium they're more comfortable with.