"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Couldn't have said it better myself.

[QUOTE=Revvo; 1887004]Brothers I hate to go against the grain here. But I have to say this is not what I would do. First remember she knows the only reason you are talking to her is because she has a pussy and you want to get into it. And guess what. She probably wants your dick. If you act in a masculine way. And do not try to hide this obvious fact and try to sneak into her pants.

You need to be clear about what you want and tell her what you want. Tell her you want to meet for coffee / smoothie or whatever is the latest trendy drink. Flirt, tease her, touch her, escalate the touching throughout the interaction lots of eye contact, and always lead the interaction. Don't wait move forward. Remember you are the man and she wants you to take the lead. Don't wait on signals. The signal will be she follows your lead or not. Nothing in between. No on the private classes or extended conversations. These are how you get into the friend zone. Matter of fact your goal should be to escalate the interaction to the next level smoothly and quickly.

Remember there is either interest or no interest. Also remember she knows you are married. She is not interested in having long conversations. Hell she may not bite when you try to escalate. That is cool my brother. If she is that hot. She probably gets hit on a dozen times a day. So it is no big deal.

Good luck.

Revvo[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=John Draven;1887161]Hope you are right. I assume that their are college sb to be found.[/QUOTE]I used to live in ann arbor many years ago. The vibe there is very casual. Also between there and detroit proper are some lower income suburbs. Should be fertile ground for HCB's, young MILF's and both black and white girls. Keep us informed.

After a busy week full of deadlines and all day conferences, I was not able to make any dates.

HYM Preggo. Haven't seen her since for a few weeks. Got a txt from her that had the baby this week and look forward to seeing her in 5-6 weeks. She had C-Sect and that's probably how she was able to keep her kitty tight. I am excited to see that petite body of her, without the belly.

18YR ATF. Haven't been able to hook up with her this week due to work. Txt with her today and found out her phone was out of comissioned, had to use her mom's phone. I'll probably have to buy her another prepaid card tomorrow and put enough money in it for her to turn her phone back on. We'll be meeting again early next week.

And for those who are accounting / finance major, here's a break down of CPD on the ATF.

Date 1. 65 for cab (gave her a few extra) .50 for motel. 15 for prepaid card (which she later loses). Total damage 130.

Date 2. 50 for motel. 105 for cab and a little sugar. Total damage 155.

Gift. 8 pair of Fredericks panties for 40. Which I will have her wear on our 3rd date. I will have her put on a different panty each time I banged that tight kitty (no, I am not going to fuck her 8 rounds) LOL.

Gift. Get her a new prepaid card for her to turn her phone back on, which is probably around 85 (want to leave her with a few extra bucks just in case)

Total Gift damage = 125.

Date 3 (upcoming).50 for motel. 60 for cab. No sugar. Total damage 110.

Summary: Averages 173 CPD (cost per date) to bang a spinning 18yr old for hours each time is a pretty fair investment IMO. As you've noticed more than half of the cost (63%) went to travel and motel expenses. The rest went to her in terms of gifts or direct sugars.

Conclusion: I am probably pretty lucky right now, but I believe if you treat a girl well, can make her cum, and make sure she understand the overall expenses of the relationship, I think you have a good chance of keeping cost to a manageable level.

Happy hunting brothers, I await your adventures.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO; 1887629]After a busy week full of deadlines and all day conferences, I was not able to make any dates.

HYM Preggo. Haven't seen her since for a few weeks. Got a txt from her that had the baby this week and look forward to seeing her in 5-6 weeks. She had C-Sect and that's probably how she was able to keep her kitty tight. I am excited to see that petite body of her, without the belly.

18YR ATF. Haven't been able to hook up with her this week due to work. Txt with her today and found out her phone was out of comissioned, had to use her mom's phone. I'll probably have to buy her another prepaid card tomorrow and put enough money in it for her to turn her phone back on. We'll be meeting again early next week.

And for those who are accounting / finance major, here's a break down of CPD on the ATF.

Date 1. 65 for cab (gave her a few extra).50 for motel. 15 for prepaid card (which she later loses). Total damage 130.

Date 2. 50 for motel. 105 for cab and a little sugar. Total damage 155.

Gift. 8 pair of Fredericks panties for 40. Which I will have her wear on our 3rd date. I will have her put on a different panty each time I banged that tight kitty (no, I am not going to fuck her 8 rounds) LOL.

Gift. Get her a new prepaid card for her to turn her phone back on, which is probably around 85 (want to leave her with a few extra bucks just in case)

Total Gift damage = 125.

Date 3 (upcoming).50 for motel. 60 for cab. No sugar. Total damage 110.

Summary: Averages 173 CPD (cost per date) to bang a spinning 18yr old for hours each time is a pretty fair investment IMO. As you've noticed more than half of the cost (63%) went to travel and motel expenses. The rest went to her in terms of gifts or direct sugars.

Conclusion: I am probably pretty lucky right now, but I believe if you treat a girl well, can make her cum, and make sure she understand the overall expenses of the relationship, I think you have a good chance of keeping cost to a manageable level.

Happy hunting brothers, I await your adventures.[/QUOTE]So minus the hotel really you are at like $125. I need a new spinner. This is the one I got my eye on.

[url]http://la.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/80-rose-evening-special-fun-and-young-petite-mixedebony-ready-2-play-now-18-18/34824560[/url]

She is not SB materiel but cant resist a body like hers. But she works with my girlfriend so I got to be cool for now. You won't find many with a body like this. But I am envious. And I am going to use your wrist binding suggestion on all 3 of my regulars. Thanks

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1887150]I used to pursue girls I didn't want all the time just for the feedback. Excellent advice.[/QUOTE]So, um, what did you do when you caught 'them? (:

[QUOTE=Zomby;1887724]So, um, what did you do when you caught 'them? (:[/QUOTE]Then you can do whatever you want. Sometimes they turn out to be the best ever.

So I have had a little more time on my hands since my pursuit of new babies has almost slowed down to nothing. That has given me time to make more posts on this awesome thread. Notice I said almost. My membership on SDforme has been expired for over a month. And I rarely go on the site except occasionally to just peruse the prospects and favorite list any interesting ones. But hell I cannot even contact anyone except if they are a full access member. I rarely send out a prospect email anymore. But just this week minding my own busines and without anything but my profile out there I have been contacted by two promising POTs.

REVVO_POT1: So this one is very cute. She sent me a very short email and I responded since she was a full access member. I responded with my standard email and asked for some pics. She immediately texted me and emailed me several pics. Some of them R rated. Without my asking. She is 33 YO white describes herself as Italian / Cuban. Now this is intriguing since I like Italian women and I love love love Cuban women because most of them are a little crazy and they fuck like machines. She is about 5'2" very pretty face and nice titties. None of my babies right now have big breasts. Her body is tight and she looks really good. According to the pics I am giving her a 9/9/7? . She has been very responsive and has told me that she really likes everything and is happy to accommodate her SD. She was a good communicator and was happy to talk on the phone. This is important to me. It shows someone who is serious and communicates. We had a good couple of conversations. But I will say a couple of things. She does seem to be a little vulgar and rough with her verbal communication which I do not find attractive. I like feminine women. .Seems she has been through some rough marriages and seems to be a little bitter about them. Lots of cussing and resentment towards them. Not to me though so far. But it does cause me some concern. This may be a problem down the road. But her reason for being like this she says is she is a giver and these guys just took from her. I am thinking that if I treat her well and do not just take she will be really happy and could end up being a first class sugar baby. She does not seem to be overly interested in money and is more about finding a man who will act like a man and treat her well and take care of any expenses. She is also willing to drive to me for overnights. Which is also caught my interest. She also said that she may be able to host at her place when her kids are not there. So my attitude is I am fully booked. But can do a M&G since my little girl next door baby is down with bronchitis so I have a little time to check her out. No pressure because I really do not need her. Just like our previous discussion below. We are meeting at noon on Monday and I picked a location half way between us but she is willing to drive to me. Thats pretty cool to me. I will give her gas money and a small gift just to show my intention to treat her properly. Very promising.

REVVO_POT2: This one contacted me last night. I responded to her email and she immediatly texted me back. Now she is out of my preferred age range 46 YO white divorced MILF. But she seemed really cool and fun and cute. I usually limit my age to 40 or younger. But she appears to be a bit wealthy is not interested in money at all. Just someone to play with. She moved down here from the mid Atlantic area and sold her big house and now lives in a nudist colony that is about 75 minutes away from where I live. But she really seems like a free spirit and likes to have little adventures. This I like. She is ready to play. Very upbeat and lite. She looks attractive from the couple of pics. And she already has enthusiastically agreed to meet. I am taking this a little slower since I may not have time to meet this week. She looks like anything goes. But she does want a discrete relationship so she can maintain her reputation at her place of residence. Her words. But this works perfect for me. She may be another that can host. Which makes this one the potential to be almost completely free. Wow can this really work? I give her a 7/8/9? So far. Cute face, body looks like nice tits. But pics are not very good and I only have two so far. I will text her tomorrow to get the dialogue going again. But very promising once again.

Both of these POTS do not live too close to me. But that may be a good excuse to only see them about once or twice per month. Because usually I have found that once you get a good baby in the rotation they want to see you a minimum of once a week. They need to be fucked and fucked well on a regular basis. They expect this once they start fucking you. And I just could not add two more once a week babies right now even at the free price. But if the drive is long then maybe they will accept the distance as being an issue. Also the fact that each of these POTs has a life and seem very normal sure helps a lot also.

So more POTs and I am not even looking. Life is good my brothers. These women are in the older range. If I get them to the FC. I am going to get really experimental with the sex and start trying some of the kinky stuff. Older women are usually much more up for this than the younger ones.

Damn I love this game. I am so fucking lucky. And you brothers we need to hear some stories. So write up some stuff. I see the occasional question on here. But I promise you if you write your stuff down. You will learn a lot more. Just by the act of writing it. But also the feedback you will get.

Be careful out there.

REVVO

I don't really where know where to begin or end. We had our first hotel date for the Tiggabounce, which just happened to be an overnight also. It was a full blown date, so we had an activity and dinner before we stopped to get some wine on the way to the room.

Bottom Line Upfront 9/9. 7/10/10 (face / body / personality / skills)

This 21 year old blew me away. In more ways than one with her maturity level, combined with youthful exuberance and bedroom skills. It's not my place to ask where she got those skills, just my place to enjoy them.

A few things to help paint the picture. She's in college and one of those dancers that go on the court at halftime. So even though she's thick, I could not find any fat. And that butt was sooooo firm. Being a dancer, she was always bouncing to a tune, always smiling and laughing at something and just could not seem to resist showing me dance moves throughout the night. Even in bed, she decided during doggie that it was her turn to take charge and had me stand still while she "twerked" to the music."OMG!"

Deep throat with noises and the most beautiful perky natural 34 D's I've seen in a while. We had one session at 11am. Another at 2:30am. And a final one at 6:30am. I'm in my 40's so I needed the breaks to recover, LOL.

She took every position I dished out, she was clean, responded wonderful to oral, was loud, but not too loud. And just so accommodating. Whatever I wanted to do was fair game. She even had ideas of her own. I even got pics. We got along very well, the conversation did not lull like with other young ones and she was just so damn sexual!

The Beginning:

This was our first time together, when we got to the room she excused herself to take a shower and came out in only a towel. So unlike some of the awkwardness with others. She knew what was up and didn't mind getting down to business as she was looking forward to it also. After a few glasses of wine. Since she was already undressed and I was fully dressed. I had her undress me as I stood on the edge of the bed. And right on cue, she had me naked and the TiggaStick all in her mouth within seconds.

The End:

She had had about 6 to 8 orgasms between the 3 sessions. I'd managed one on the first one. I was able to hold out on the second one and was primed for the third one. However I wasn't cumming easy. Which is great when you are trying different positions. But she took it as a challenge. After getting her last one while sitting straight up on top. She leaned her chest into mine and began bouncing that azz up and down (she was only moving her butt, no chest, no arms). Faster. Faster and harder. For a second I felt like she was screwing me and not me her. I held out for a minute or two, but it was way to much to resist. I've had a few try that way, a few bouncing up and down while sitting up. But she just put it on me and I could feel all her power, those dancing muscles in her legs pinning my legs and those arms squeezing me. What an experience! I blew such a big load!

There are a number of other great things I can say. But I'll just stop here as I feel this is in the danger zone of bragging. As you can see, she left an impression and we are on again tomorrow night.

She completely fulfills the stereotypical 21 year old co-ed thick athlete (dancer) fantasy. I've had strippers who could not work it the way she did.

She invited me to stop by a basketball game and watch her and the dance team perform. I will definitely be doing that. Nothing like looking at the hot young dancers at halftime and seeing one of them get in your car after the game.

I am truly smitten with this young lady and I see a large amount of my budget going her way. I've thought with others that they would last a long time. Most of the time, I'm wrong. Hopefully this time I'm right and we'll be together for a long time.

Realistically, MsThickness (Here is another photo of MsThickness' backside asset)
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and MsLilMama (speaking of, we had a lunch time quickie on Friday, picked her up, hit the hotel, screwed her brains out, dropped her off tired)
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are both within my budget with minimums in the $400 range per month. Right now I've tested it and found that I can see either of them 3 times a week if desired. Wow, what a life.



BigTigg

[QUOTE=Zomby;1887724]So, um, what did you do when you caught 'them? (:[/QUOTE]Occaisonally I would have to flake. Or just do them once

[QUOTE=Revvo; 1887747]So more POTs and I am not even looking. Life is good my brothers. These women are in the older range. If I get them to the FC. I am going to get really experimental with the sex and start trying some of the kinky stuff. Older women are usually much more up for this than the younger ones.

REVVO[/QUOTE]I have found the younger ones more open to it because its all so new. Not all the time, but a lot of the time.

Wow Big! Congrats bro, sounds like you hit the jack pot. I am envious.

Did you say 400 a month and you can see them 3 times a week? You must be blessed.

Keep rockin' brother.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1887824]Occaisonally I would have to flake. Or just do them once[/QUOTE]LOL.

My experience as well. I did chased a few not so 'SB material' and had a couple of one hit wonders. I rarely report on these.

I guess I owned them a fuck and a few bucks for all the time I put them through talking with me and taking naked pics for me.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO; 1887829]Wow Big! Congrats bro, sounds like you hit the jack pot. I am envious.

Did you say 400 a month and you can see them 3 times a week? You must be blessed.

Keep rockin' brother.[/QUOTE]It is the minimums. MsThickness will be $500 for the first 2 weeks. Then from there on, it's whatever I want to give. I'll make sure she has at least $400 per month. MsLilMama, has moved me to boyfriend status to go along with her girlfriend who doesn't know about me. So now there are not any money requirements at all. But I know better than to take that for granted. I bought her a $$$ bedroom set off CL a few weeks back and I bought the mattress/boxspring combo yesterday for $$$ (breaking in that mattress tomorrow night with some good slow luvin). So I've put over $900 into her the first month. But less the $300 cash. She really needed the furniture and it moved me to BF status. So next month, I'll get her a laptop for about $400(she starts classes) and give her $200 cash. MsThickness will get a flat screen for $300 and about $300 cash. So I'm spending less in cash and about the same in gifts as I would most that I deal with on a consistent basis. I average a $200-$300 gift per 6 weeks. Many don't make it to 4 weeks. MsLilMama and I hit 4 weeks on Tuesday.

I have bank account numbers and a gift wish list (I requested) from both. Makes my job a whole lot easier. Both are multi-orgasmic and very eager to please.

BigTigg

[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1887848]It is the minimums. MsThickness will be $500 for the first 2 weeks. Then from there on, it's whatever I want to give. I'll make sure she has at least $400 per month. MsLilMama, has moved me to boyfriend status to go along with her girlfriend who doesn't know about me. So now there are not any money requirements at all. But I know better than to take that for granted. I bought her a $$$ bedroom set off CL a few weeks back and I bought the mattress / boxspring combo yesterday for $$$ (breaking in that mattress tomorrow night with some good slow luvin). So I've put over $900 into her the first month. But less the $300 cash. She really needed the furniture and it moved me to BF status. So next month, I'll get her a laptop for about $400 (she starts classes) and give her $200 cash. MsThickness will get a flat screen for $300 and about $300 cash. So I'm spending less in cash and about the same in gifts as I would most that I deal with on a consistent basis. I average a $200-$300 gift per 6 weeks. Many don't make it to 4 weeks. MsLilMama and I hit 4 weeks on Tuesday.

I have bank account numbers and a gift wish list (I requested) from both. Makes my job a whole lot easier. Both are multi-orgasmic and very eager to please.

BigTigg[/QUOTE]For the first month I have seen MsLilMama. 7 times with one overnight. I missed at least two dates because I was with MsThickness. I expect to see MsThickness twice a week with at least 2 overnights per month.

JT

Resort Hotels :

What is important to these SBs is $$, attention, and sex. In my experience they don't seem to care about the FC.

F Scott and Yoga girl :

Our brother Scott (for the welcome newcomers) is possibly the most accomplished Swordsman here and it amuses me to have us all give him advice how to handle the seduction of Yoga Girl. Having said that we all could use a different perspective on things. I'm confident the seduction will get done. Go Scotty!

ATF :

My ATF and perhaps my 1st real sex goddess has been around the block and is happy with our arrangement. We grab a nice meal and retire to the Notel for several hours of multiple O's. She loves the meal, sex, and the $$. I am living dangerously keeping her in the loop, but I can't let her go. It's amazing how hard it is to hide money when the warden is looking. I've gone from casual overnights to 1 or 2 hour sessions. There is much to be said for single life.

Just a quick note to remind all fellow members of the treehouse to remain vigilant in staying undercover. As some of us have learned the hard way, it takes most of the fun out of our little activities here if we have the warden monitoring our every move.

To quote one of our newer studs Revvo. Let's be careful out there.

Gents.

I've been doing some good legwork and uncovered a GEM in Morgantown WVa. She's a bit desperate today and need to pay her rent ($650). Way too far for me but I thought there might a senior member out there who would like to help a hot young college girl out of a jam.

Seniors hit me up for pics.

PS. She just send me a solo video. God damn! Why can't someone invent transporter!

Brothers,

I believe I am the one Magic is referring to. As it has been said before, none of us is invincible, and yesterday my SO caught me with my browser open to SA, but fortunately not yet logged in. I was able to tap dance with enough skill to divert her from launching the nukes, but I am under heavy scrutiny for the foreseeable future, and will need to lay low, if not cease all Sugar activity until peace is restored.

In all honesty, I am mulling over in my head the ramifications of becoming single again, but I don't know if I could handle the devastation to my children.

If you were to learn from me, it would be only what you all already know: establish best practices, and follow them religiously, each and every time. I got up to take a piss, and my wife chose that exact moment to look something up on my laptop. A minute on either side, and I would still be golden. But all it takes is a minute, or less, for one's world to change.

Be careful out there,

Scott.

PS. Fred, thanks for the props, but I'm afraid that my sword will need to stay in its scabbard for a bit, ironically. As for my yoga teacher, I will continue to attend her classes, continue to flirt, but will need to keep that whole thing on simmer, unless I am willing to ruin my life for her, which I am not sure of just yet.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1889279]Brothers,

I believe I am the one Magic is referring to. As it has been said before, none of us is invincible, and yesterday my SO caught me with my browser open to SA, but fortunately not yet logged in. I was able to tap dance with enough skill to divert her from launching the nukes, but I am under heavy scrutiny for the foreseeable future, and will need to lay low, if not cease all Sugar activity until peace is restored.

In all honesty, I am mulling over in my head the ramifications of becoming single again, but I don't know if I could handle the devastation to my children.

If you were to learn from me, it would be only what you all already know: establish best practices, and follow them religiously, each and every time. I got up to take a piss, and my wife chose that exact moment to look something up on my laptop. A minute on either side, and I would still be golden. But all it takes is a minute, or less, for one's world to change.

Be careful out there,

Scott.

PS. Fred, thanks for the props, but I'm afraid that my sword will need to stay in its scabbard for a bit, ironically. As for my yoga teacher, I will continue to attend her classes, continue to flirt, but will need to keep that whole thing on simmer, unless I am willing to ruin my life for her, which I am not sure of just yet.[/QUOTE]Scott- Maybe not as serious as my F-Up, but yet another piece of the puzzle for your SO to use against you. I think mine has already made up her mind that I am up to no good, but isn't quite ready to admit to herself that our long-term relationship has run into some serious rough waters.

I too have pondered what the single life would be like and how my grown children would take the breakup. Probably wouldn't be pretty, but damn sure would make this SD life a lot easier to enjoy.

Regardless. I doubt that finding a single web site open on your laptop is enough evidence to prosecute on. Likely only a small percentage of people that actually visit the SA website actually act on their fantasies. You can continue to claim your innocence and be totally believable.

To all married guys who continue to play this game. Be extra careful and always keep up your guard.

[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1889509]Scott- Maybe not as serious as my F-Up, but yet another piece of the puzzle for your SO to use against you. I think mine has already made up her mind that I am up to no good, but isn't quite ready to admit to herself that our long-term relationship has run into some serious rough waters.

I too have pondered what the single life would be like and how my grown children would take the breakup. Probably wouldn't be pretty, but damn sure would make this SD life a lot easier to enjoy.

Regardless. I doubt that finding a single web site open on your laptop is enough evidence to prosecute on. Likely only a small percentage of people that actually visit the SA website actually act on their fantasies. You can continue to claim your innocence and be totally believable.

To all married guys who continue to play this game. Be extra careful and always keep up your guard.[/QUOTE]Well imagine if you"re single. That means your girl knows your SD profile name. So if they want to see what you"re up to its a little easier. The flip side of that is the girls I snag are non pro that usually drop off the site after I meet them. But not all of them

I've been striking gold lately but it's costing more than I want to dish out at the time. My SD4me rights expired but I uploaded a nice photo and it wasn't long I got an email from a full access member. She said I was cute and we began messaging, then texting, which led to talking. I named her Mayweather since she threw the first punch, she reached out to me so I knew the sugar amount was under my control. Long story short, she lives 1500 miles away so my only choice was to fly to her. The festivities cost $800 for the 4 days we were together and all I could say was "Wow! Now that was money well spent." It went like this.

She texted me asking what I think she should wear to the airport so I said whatever she was confortable with. Plane lands, we hug and it's an hour drive to her place. We are in her garage & began kissing which led to roaming hands & before I knew it, Jr. Was in her mouth. When the 4 day trip was over, we balled (had sex) 7 times. We screwed around more in 4 days than what I got from a girl I dated for 3 months. Mayweather is a 7/9/10/10 blonde MILF in her mid 30's, has her own place, loves sex & works a steady job. Sad part is, she cried when I flew back to my headquarters. Did she get attached? Uh oh!

I am flying a babe to me that lives 800 miles away in less than a week, that also initiated contact, this one is on SA. A 28 year old brunette that does mechanic work, weird huh. She will be known as lug nuts. 9/7/10 & a preseason rank of a 10 on her skills. Her texts suggest that we are going to have a ball when we get together. She is texting me pictures of items that better be on my bed when she gets here, which include handcuffs, lube, and all the goodies we will need. She would text saying she wants to deep throat, wants her hair pulled while being pounded, and wants all 3 holes explored. She thinks I'm the world's funniest guy so my only cost will be her flight $388 & a room for 2 days (roughly $200). Even though I'm single, my cottage is off limits. She wanted to stay up to a week but with me having to work and not using my place, I have only scheduled our time for 2 days. The problem will be daytime hours. I have to report back since I room with a sibling just so he doesn't get concerned. I work nights so being gone all night is normal. I am thinking about booking a hotel where everything she needs is within walking distance: mall, spa, dining etc. Should I go cheap on the room to keep the cost low or do I owe her at least a 3 star since she won't be staying at my place?

So seeing MsLilMama is becoming harder because of schedules. MsThickness seems to have communication problems. It is very sporadic, which can be maddening when you need to plan and confirm.

So I met with the 3rd and 4th round draft picks from my CL fishing. One, TheArtist was 5'10 big girl with an interesting taste in clothing. We talked for a while face to face and need to schedule our next date.

The second, has this little girl voice, cute face. 38d, and way overboard on the hips butt and thighs MsHipsnThighs ( 8/7/9/8). So to make a long story short, we had meet and greet yesterday morning and she rode the Tiggastick in the backseat that night. She also finished me off with an incredible BBBJ CIM and swallow to send me home with a smile. I will meet her this morning. Then MsThickness this afternoon.

BigTigg

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1889279]Brothers,

I believe I am the one Magic is referring to. As it has been said before, none of us is invincible, and yesterday my SO caught me with my browser open to SA, but fortunately not yet logged in. I was able to tap dance with enough skill to divert her from launching the nukes, but I am under heavy scrutiny for the foreseeable future, and will need to lay low, if not cease all Sugar activity until peace is restored.

In all honesty, I am mulling over in my head the ramifications of becoming single again, but I don't know if I could handle the devastation to my children.

Be careful out there,

Scott.

My sympathies my friend. Many of us have been there, done that. Unfortunately this hobby is addicting and we all know it. I can't give it up either as hard as I am trying.

The increased scrutiny will be maddening and the tendency will be to hold anger towards your SO. This will further erode the intimacy between the two of you. Face it, if our relationships were great we wouldn't be out here in the Sugar World.

The lesson for our brotherhood is this : We all will get caught if we do this long enough. ALL of us. No matter how careful you are there will be a slip up like brother Scott, me, Alias, and others. I'm on my 3rd life now.do I get 9 lives? I doubt it. Stop it before you get addicted if you value your SO relationship.

I haven't posted in a while because things have been slow in the bowl lately. I had to go out of town on a project for a month, and that seemed to precipitate a dry spell. I was in F. Scott's neck of the woods and thought I would drop a line in those waters. I had a couple of interesting nibbles, but could not land a trophy. I did have one meet and greet, and the young lady who showed up did not bear much of a resemblance to the photos I had seen. While she seemed ready and willing to climb aboard for $ a visit, I had to throw her back as she was over my size limit. After a couple of weeks of frustration, I decided that maybe a short break was good for me and just focused on getting the job done and back home.

Since arriving home, things have continued on their slow trend, but I have a few good prospects shaping up and hope that I'll turn it around this week.

SB-3, my booty call baby, texted me at midnight a couple of nights ago and wanted to come over. I was already in bed, but I just figured that would save time on getting my pants off. She came over, we reacquainted ourselves, and she spent the night. Our original arrangement was $ per visit but I have almost always given her $.2, with a little extra to cover her gas. When she left for work the next morning, I only had $ because I wasn't expecting her, so I slipped tht in her purse like always. Later in the day I got a terse text from her about being short. I reminded her of our original deal, and she was still pissed, so I may be looking for a new booty call baby.

SB-1 doesn't know I'm back in town yet. Communication with her was poor while I was out of town. I really have fun with her and she's a very pretty white-Korean mix, but the sex has always been so-so. I don't know if we'll start back up.

I had a brand new, for sure first time 22 yo baby set up for a M&G last week. She seemed eager and excited, and had agreed to $ per visit 'or whatever I thought was fair'. She then proceeded to flake on me two days in a row followed by 3 days of silence. On the third day (the 30th of the month) she texted her apologies, and asked if she could borrow money for rent! These girls crack me up.

I've been hit up twice this week by pro's from SA, both talking the language, one wanted $$$ 'hun'; and the other $$$$ for 2 hours. I politely declined those fabulous offers.

I have M&G's scheduled for the next three days with girls that I think are 'real' and whom I have already offered $ per visit. I just received an initial response form another who appears to be 10/10/9 material asking for a picture. If she starts looking like a viable candidate she will leap to the front of the line and I will be prepared to up the ante. In any event, I'm having fun.

[QUOTE=Dsprdo; 1890278]I had to throw her back as she was over my size limit.

SB-3, my booty call baby, texted me at midnight a couple of nights ago and wanted to come over. I was already in bed, but I just figured that would save time on getting my pants off. She came over, we reacquainted ourselves, and she spent the night. Our original arrangement was $ per visit but I have almost always given her $.2, with a little extra to cover her gas. When she left for work the next morning, I only had $ because I wasn't expecting her, so I slipped tht in her purse like always. Later in the day I got a terse text from her about being short. I reminded her of our original deal, and she was still pissed, so I may be looking for a new booty call baby.

I had a brand new, for sure first time 22 yo baby set up for a M&G last week. She seemed eager and excited, and had agreed to $ per visit 'or whatever I thought was fair'. She then proceeded to flake on me two days in a row followed by 3 days of silence. On the third day (the 30th of the month) she texted her apologies, and asked if she could borrow money for rent! These girls crack me up.[/QUOTE]Paragraph 1. LOL.

Paragraph 2. It was an overnite. If it was me I would pay up and continue fucking her at your convenience.

Paragraph 3. Recently lent a girl .6. Take a guess if she or any other girl, ever, has paid me back.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1890327]Paragraph 2. It was an overnite. If it was me I would pay up and continue fucking her at your convenience.[/QUOTE]I agree, definitely fine with giving her the money. I was just surprised because she was really indignant. It just shows that anything extra given is soon not an extra but an expectation.

[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1889509]Scott- I doubt that finding a single web site open on your laptop is enough evidence to prosecute on. Likely only a small percentage of people that actually visit the SA website actually act on their fantasies. You can continue to claim your innocence and be totally believable.

To all married guys who continue to play this game. Be extra careful and always keep up your guard.[/QUOTE]Alias,

My best play was to say that the link to SA had apparently come in on some sort of spam, and that I had not, in fact, sought it out. There was clear skepticism, but enough plausibility that I slept in my own bed that night. The real issue is moving forward, and I'm sad and afraid that for the next few weeks, or months, I will need to impersonate an altar boy. I vacillate between chucking the whole married thing or keeping on living the under-cover life. I know I am addicted to the adrenaline rush of fear mixed with lust, so just don't know where to land. Yoga tomorrow, just to clear my head. Hopefully Jenn will be teaching.

Keep up the good work, my brothers. I am always here to be a sounding board if nothing else, and am happy to share any insights I may have.

Sheesh,

Scott

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1890365]Alias,

My best play was to say that the link to SA had apparently come in on some sort of spam, and that I had not, in fact, sought it out. There was clear skepticism, but enough plausibility that I slept in my own bed that night. The real issue is moving forward, and I'm sad and afraid that for the next few weeks, or months, I will need to impersonate an altar boy. I vacillate between chucking the whole married thing or keeping on living the under-cover life. I know I am addicted to the adrenaline rush of fear mixed with lust, so just don't know where to land. Yoga tomorrow, just to clear my head. Hopefully Jenn will be teaching.

Keep up the good work, my brothers. I am always here to be a sounding board if nothing else, and am happy to share any insights I may have.

Sheesh,

Scott[/QUOTE]Remember she wants to believe you are innocent. It is your job to help her through this. Do not change your habits. That means don't start being nicer and more caring all of a sudden.

Women are amazingly sensitive to any change of behavior. Stay steady brother.

Revvo

[QUOTE=Revvo; 1890442]Remember she wants to believe you are innocent. It is your job to help her through this. Do not change your habits. That means don't start being nicer and more caring all of a sudden.

Women are amazingly sensitive to any change of behavior. Stay steady brother.

Revvo[/QUOTE]Back in the day. If I just felt like takin an extra shower I would get the third degree.

Maybe these will get someone to go visit the poor lass.

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G Damn. That would be my PERFECT SB. Tell us more!

[QUOTE=JoeBlowDC; 1890511]Maybe these will get someone to go visit the poor lass.

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[ATTACH=CONFIG]278377[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]Where is it? DO planes go there? LOL

Although if she is needing $650 she won't get it in one visit . A recent One and done SB just before my "retirement" wanted $1000 for tuition and books to see me again . When I offered my usual $250/meet she didn't even respond . Too bad since she was ATF material and could have gotten $1000 /month for "ever". Definitely in the top 5 sweetest pussies I have ever had . These Babies are so short sighted sometimes .

Gentlemen,

As I near the end of day two in solitary, I am amazed at how much I am jonesing, if that is the right term, over the lack of babies in my foreseeable future. It really is an addiction, I'm coming to believe, and while I did not maintain as active a schedule as some of you, just the knowledge that there will be no hot young pussy for me for the next several months has got me in a total funk. Is it possible to experience depression over pussy withdrawal? I believe it is.

The 500 pound gorilla continues to sit in the corner, making mornings and evenings strained to say the least. Last night we were watching tv, and some show was on where the husband gets caught cheating, and the suddenly-escalated tension in the room almost gave me a grabber. I now know it is possible to hear someone thinking bad thoughts about you.

Thank you to all who have posted or pm'ed me with advice and words of encouragement. I know that this too will pass, and whether the center will hold or not, I will survive.

Onward, in a bit,

Scott

That is the sound of walking on eggshells. The questions and ultimate explosion never seem very far away. Dissemination, obfuscation, and feigned innocence only work for so long. Hopefully SOs don't take a heightened interest in the family finances, because once the cash flow is cut off the party is over. Unfortunately money is the name of the game in keeping these little angels interested, at least for us oldsters. Perhaps you 30 somethings have enough realistic appeal to be considered a real life prospect, but not those of us who are 3 or more decades older. No matter how cute and interesting we are money talks.

The media if rife with shows and news stories about some aspect of infidelity, porn, or prostitution. Not a day goes by that it isn't thrown in our face. For an overly sensitized SO it is a constant strain.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1891180]Gentlemen,

As I near the end of day two in solitary, I am amazed at how much I am jonesing, if that is the right term, over the lack of babies in my foreseeable future. It really is an addiction, I'm coming to believe, and while I did not maintain as active a schedule as some of you, just the knowledge that there will be no hot young pussy for me for the next several months has got me in a total funk. Is it possible to experience depression over pussy withdrawal? I believe it is.

The 500 pound gorilla continues to sit in the corner, making mornings and evenings strained to say the least. Last night we were watching tv, and some show was on where the husband gets caught cheating, and the suddenly-escalated tension in the room almost gave me a grabber. I now know it is possible to hear someone thinking bad thoughts about you.

Thank you to all who have posted or pm'ed me with advice and words of encouragement. I know that this too will pass, and whether the center will hold or not, I will survive.

Onward, in a bit,

Scott[/QUOTE]I remember at some point in my x marriage where I had to stop watching love scenes on TV because they were so irritating knowing I was"nt going to get any. I sympathize. No new pussy. Fuck that. No young girl pussy. Fuck that. No spontaneous wild sex. Fuck that. No hot extended makeout sessions. Fuck that. Never again for me bro. Pussy is my drug of choice.

My double dip with MsHipsnThighs and MsThickness went great. I was not able to get the big O with MsThickness, but I was able to give her 40 mins if good slow then fast luvin. She gave me a few great compliments and my ego just ate it up. When a 21 year old athletic co-ed tells you that you have wore her out and made her tired. Who cares if it true. I do know she got 3 orgasms and I was proud of that.

AF.

Today I chatted with a married AA spinner with a cute butt. She pretty much has the same body as MsLMama. She is 25. We met for lunch today and it went well. Interesting I don't know if sexually we are a good fit. She does not like to do or receive oral, not much of a kisser and not big on 4play. I brought up the differences and she was willing to give it a shot a few times BEFORE we decide on an arrangement. I thought I was getting punked. A slim sexy cute 25 year old that I get to test drive. We are meeting for Tiggabounce tomorrow, I figured why waste time!

Chatted with another, who wants to meet ASAP, I will update more on that later.

I will see MsHipsThighs at her place Fri morn. So this is turning out to be a great week.

BigTigg

[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1891210]My double dip with MsHipsnThighs and MsThickness went great. I was not able to get the big O with MsThickness, but I was able to give her 40 mins if good slow then fast luvin. She gave me a few great compliments and my ego just ate it up. When a 21 year old athletic co-ed tells you that you have wore her out and made her tired. Who cares if it true. I do know she got 3 orgasms and I was proud of that.

AF.

Today I chatted with a married AA spinner with a cute butt. She pretty much has the same body as MsLMama. She is 25. We met for lunch today and it went well. Interesting I don't know if sexually we are a good fit. She does not like to do or receive oral, not much of a kisser and not big on 4play. I brought up the differences and she was willing to give it a shot a few times BEFORE we decide on an arrangement. I thought I was getting punked. A slim sexy cute 25 year old that I get to test drive. We are meeting for Tiggabounce tomorrow, I figured why waste time!

Chatted with another, who wants to meet ASAP, I will update more on that later.

I will see MsHipsThighs at her place Fri morn. So this is turning out to be a great week.

BigTigg[/QUOTE]Tigg,

You continually amaze me with your exploits! What do you do for a living and how do you find time to make the money you are lavishing on these babies? Can I come work for you?

Also, what does your SO think you are doing when you are netting these sweet little fish? Either you are an eccentric millionaire, in which case I'd still like to come work for you, or you are one of those people who never sleep.

PM me and I'll send you my resume, LOL.

I could use a change right about now,

Scott

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1891202]I remember at some point in my x marriage where I had to stop watching love scenes on TV because they were so irritating knowing I was"nt going to get any.[/QUOTE]Oh god, tell me about it. I've been finding sex scenes depressing for years.

Then there's the flip side: we just started watching Breaking Bad from the beginning (yeah, we're behind the curve) , and the scene where's the wife is giving him an absent-minded hand-job for his birthday struck waaaaay too close to home.

[QUOTE=Walruscl; 1891237]Oh god, tell me about it. I've been finding sex scenes depressing for years.

Then there's the flip side: we just started watching Breaking Bad from the beginning (yeah, we're behind the curve) , and the scene where's the wife is giving him an absent-minded hand-job for his birthday struck waaaaay too close to home.[/QUOTE]Funny you should reference this show. It was the series that introduced my wife, I am certain, to the concepts of the undercover life, the burner phone, and the idea that I might be doing something untowards in my spare time. Fuck Walter White!

It gets way more intense as it goes along, but that whole issue of the burner phone kept coming up. If it's possible to stop watching it now, I'd recommend it. If not, be extra vigitant, in the immortal words of Dogberry from Much Ado About Nothing, which is a Shakespeare play about pussy, I kid you not.

More anon,

Scott

[QUOTE=F Scott;1891180]just the knowledge that there will be no hot young pussy for me for the next several months has got me in a total funk. Is it possible to experience depression over pussy withdrawal? I believe it is.[/QUOTE]Had a mini version of that myself over the weekend. Texts suddenly got terse and she admitted that she was feeling overwhelmed. Then she said that she might not be in a good enough mood for our next FC visit. So the paranoid part of my brain starts to run amok, thinking that maybe things are imploding. And I really don't think I have the time or inclination to go back on the hunt anytime soon, since this catch is just so golden in so many ways.

So suddenly facing the possibility of being cut off was really, really depressing.

Fortunately things turned around, but wow, that was unpleasant. Definitely a wakeup call as to how deep I'm in, and how I am going to handle the inevitable day when I / she moves on.