Think with the right brain
Research, research, research then act on your own better judgement and not someone else's. Board status and friendships are just that and nothing more unless you have sat across the table and broken bread with someone. Risk takers are not necessarily the big gainers in this world because what you see is not always what you get or want!
Safety should always be your number one priority so don't text and drive, always wear your seat belts, and never cross a busy intersection when the light is green.
About the other provider.
About the other provider look under Dade County. I got confused between forum. I working with the forum in Dade County because there is a lot of talent but the members need help. Laws are different over there. A LEO could get dirty and be ok and a monger or provider could get arrested just by walking in to a room where is green paper a guy and a girl for the intention. But yes I found that there are a lot of fake members in the forum as you can see in the most resent postings. My apologies for the confusion Those that I have PM understand my present situation. To all I am running out PMs.
Board postings used as Court room evidence
I have no first hand knowledge that LEO can use post on this board as court room evidence, however it does seem reasonable that they could subpoena board post and present them to the court as evidence. At this point if you plead not guilty you will be judged by your peers whom may or may not see things your way. I am just saying a guy who leaves an detailed review of a provider along with photos is taking more of a risk In a jury setting then a guy who just leaves a review with no photos. In the end it boils down to reasonable doubt and we all know how well that played out for Casey Anthony. Just my two cents.
The propoer action is to ask
[quote=iluvwomen2; 1699665]one of the greatest things we have in this country is our ability to make choices for ourselves. i get that some people are visual and like pictures, & some even like videos. but in the pictures posted and maybe video recorded there are usually 2 people involved that make choices. the person behind the camera and the person in front.
my point is i don't think that anyone is forcing someone to pose for pictures or do whatever else these adults decide to do behind closed doors. if 2 consulting, of age, adults make choices to take pictures, pose for pictures, i personally feel that as adults that's there fight and they do so knowing the possibilities of their choices.
if a woman agrees to let someone take her photo or record her, sometimes even getting compensated for it, why chastise a monger for posting the pictures if she gave permission.
that's like these celebrities that make videos and the it gets "leaked" and they are the victim. bullcrap. they have to sign off and end up getting paid for it. and most times its a marketing ploy.
i respect everyone and their ability to choose. as adults we should already weigh out the consequences of our choices, and i have a hard time feeling sorry for anyone that makes choices like posing for pictures that are posted online. unless they were done without permission or if it involves someone ****, in those cases the perpetrator should have their asses handed to them.
i personally won't take pictures, or videos because that's not my thing, but to each his own.[/quote]probably you wold not like me to take a picture of you nude showing your face and just posting it in the forum with out asking for your permission first? why do think that you can't take pictures in an strip bar, or in a elementary school. pictures provide location and information about someone. go to south beach with a real nice ans obvious camera and let me know how people look at you.
Recording people without permission
[QUOTE=Java Junkie;1699800]I always ask (and I think most mongers do too) before snapping any photos. Yeah, most say no, but those who say OK know what they're consenting to.[/QUOTE]I believe there is the legal issue as well of taking nude / topless pictures of someone in the state of Fl without their permission. Same applies to recording conversations etc without a disclaimer. Safe thing is, just ask, if they say no, find someone that doesn't care. Most times I have found they don't care as long as you don't capture the face.
If the forum moderators want to start New thread.
If the forum moderators want to start New thread. I will expound on this legal premise, so far everyone is incorrect re: privacy, sovereignty of servers, and expectation of privacy or lack thereof. All of these issues, on point, have been addressed in the last 2 weeks by Fed. Appeals Courts. You can easily Google them. (I will not give legal / illegal advice)
Providers be carefull with how you trust.
A provider who accepted the kindness of a monger to use his house during her visit, sometime when she was not paying attention someone grab her cell and noted her BF phone number and probably mine. Sometime later the monger called her BF and told her BF what she was doing in Florida. Because of that and her reviews with the colorful description of the dream plus her picture on each review now she is in world of sh!t. She is a mother, and had a BF at home a family that you decided to destroy. What a rat? Because my contacts numbers were in the providers phone probably this is the same person who being doing threats calls to me from a block number. Dude you are a coward. If you got the cojones to make a threat call don't hide behind a block number. The guy is so insane that also has being calling my parents and threatening them too. You are a coward! Soon or later you are going to get caught. The calls started at 2:00 am on February the 25th. About the threats you are not even good at it. You are a coward. You going to be the next serial killer on the news. I'm not afraid of you. Providers be careful with who you trust. Don't let your personal belongings around any monger. There are a lot of wolves on sheep cloth. Fellow mongers don’t have friends like this rat. We are supposed to keep a safe environment for providers and mongers. Going after a provider’s family? You are a sociopath! Families are secret! JR
Your post reads ;He has been calling MY PARENTS
[QUOTE=Jrbigfish; 1700896]Ahh. All the providers that I have meet they have kept my contact phone so when they want to see me again they just call me and I keep theirs in case that I want to see them again. Also I keep in touch with them to inform them about any LEO activity (stay away from this area) or if they need help for something like change a flat tire of her car. For example I may help a provider to move next week and all this I do it to just to help them I do not want to go dancing because I just fixed their washer machine. When I do want to go dancing with them is just like any regular dancing night. One rainy night a provider called me that her car die and she needed help so I just went and help her and she told me I do not know how I'm going to pay you I just told her I'm just glad that you are ok. I do not see a lot of providers probably 3 a year but we also met for dimer or for some drinks and I have being told that is nice from me to meet them for such things not only for dancing. A few providers know more personal information about me, and one or two have meet my family.
Most of the providers they know how far to go and when to stop with kind of different activities because they really know what they are doing and the providers that I see are from the top well reviewed. Even some providers have trusted me for taking care of their house when they are out of town. I'm sorry that you haven't such good providers or I guess I'm not the regular monger or maybe I'm doing this wrong. I respect the providers I see and don't look down on them. I met my first provider 5. 8 years ago? And I still talk to her regularly to my first provider and sometimes we go dancing. She calls me her boy. She introduces to me her friends to me and lest me go dancing with them as long I come back. But you see some mongers get jealous that I could develop friendship a provider. And probably this is because I just do not see a provider as a disposable tool. And this is how all this problems starts why you trust him and not me, you can't see him anymore. Also, I have seen providers that I know they can't be trusted so we just dance and good bye.
So BJ I hope that this answer you question. If I do not trust a provider I won't review her, I won't recommend her and I won't see her again. You know how to do the trust check do you? Leave your pants with a few $$ in the room with the provider and a crack head won't resist that. Live behind something valuable like an $20 cell phone wait 10 min in your car to see if she will bring it to you if not go to the front desk and tell the clerk to call the room to tell her that you are left your cell phone behind, live behind a cancelled credit card and if she don't call you back she is just trouble. Or maybe I am doing something wrong.[/QUOTE]Not HER Parents. Don't understand how she has your parents phone number. I am totally lost?