I know there's a sale going on right now but is it a good time to renew or is it dead? When I sign in there's not too many good looking girls and most are far away I'm thinking about waiting another month or two.
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I know there's a sale going on right now but is it a good time to renew or is it dead? When I sign in there's not too many good looking girls and most are far away I'm thinking about waiting another month or two.
[QUOTE=Tribeca67;5204721]I know there's a sale going on right now but is it a good time to renew or is it dead? When I sign in there's not too many good looking girls and most are far away I'm thinking about waiting another month or two.[/QUOTE]Seems a little dead to me right now. The new profiles are mostly "doing virtual only. " I'd prob wait until covid tamps down more and people are more ready to meet up.
[QUOTE=Bran001;5205745]Seems a little dead to me right now. The new profiles are mostly "doing virtual only. " I'd prob wait until covid tamps down more and people are more ready to meet up.[/QUOTE]I don't know if it was just me but on my last day of paid membership I had so many messages from girls. But the previous 5-7 days before that I had very few prospects.
[QUOTE=Newbie978;5206618]I don't know if it was just me but on my last day of paid membership I had so many messages from girls. But the previous 5-7 days before that I had very few prospects.[/QUOTE]I believe that they "promote" your profile as it's expiring. That gets it more views. I've never seen "bot" messages on SA like some other sites.
[QUOTE=Bran001;5206773]I believe that they "promote" your profile as it's expiring. That gets it more views. I've never seen "bot" messages on SA like some other sites.[/QUOTE]Yes, I got this email the last day of my first month saying they were giving my profile a free boost. I got a ton of favorites, views and messages. Although many were from outside of MA.
She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.
2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.
Cell: (774) XXX-2903.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fc[/URL]
Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?
[QUOTE=ManDownUnder;5208608]Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?[/QUOTE]She probably just needs to pay bills, and doesn't want to have to deposit the cash in the bank. On the flip side you will also have her info.
Pay attention to phrases like "financial domination" and "don't waste my time" in the her profile.
[QUOTE=ManDownUnder;5208608]Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?[/QUOTE]
(Sorry my previous comment, was meant for this post.).
Pay attention to phrases like "financial domination" and "don't waste my time" in the their profiles.
[QUOTE=BlackLabel6;5208487]She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.
2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.
Cell: (774) XXX-2903.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fc[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ManDownUnder;5208608]Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?[/QUOTE]I just do cash. I'm more concerned about having to explain what all the transfers are if I get audited or she does. I don't know how much of a risk or concern it really is but I don't want to explain to an IRS agent that the 24 and 27 year old's I am sending money to every week are not employees / contractors I am paying under the table.
[QUOTE=ManDownUnder;5208608]Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?[/QUOTE]I use cash for the first few times but once I am comfortable and feel secure, that she isn't going to track me down or rip me off, I move to an online cash app. I have a few because some girls use different ones. I also use fake names for these so she doesn't know my real name when transferring money. It really depends on your comfort level with the girls you hook up with. It does make it easier and most of the girls I find like it. I also use it to send an occasional bonus for special days like Birthdays or Christmas, etc. I don't like cash as it forces me to make a stop at the ATM and holding cash is a pain as well as a rip-off risk depending on who you are seeing. However cash is king and just ask the girl what she wants.
[QUOTE=BlackLabel6;5208487]She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.
2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.
Cell: (774) XXX-2903.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fc[/URL][/QUOTE]You should post this on the Rip-off thread also.
I always approach with caution when the first time is not in a public space. Usually the better girls want a brief meet and greet to see if you are their "type" so when someone is willing to meet right away my radar goes off. Hopefully they didn't get you for much but I'm surprised they even let you know where they were for fear of retaliation. Maybe a 911 call for a suspicious person is in order??
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5209084]You should post this on the Rip-off thread also.
I always approach with caution when the first time is not in a public space. Usually the better girls want a brief meet and greet to see if you are their "type" so when someone is willing to meet right away my radar goes off. Hopefully they didn't get you for much but I'm surprised they even let you know where they were for fear of retaliation. Maybe a 911 call for a suspicious person is in order??[/QUOTE]Street smarts = Always Always Keep you Drivers door Locked.
As soon as I know her real name and address and feel comfortable I see very low risk here. I like the convenience because it is one less thing to worry about (e. G. Blue pill, takeout, liquor store, water, mouthwash, lube, reservation, excuse to leave SO, etc.). The IRS is only concerned if you make a 10 k transfer so there is no issue there.
[QUOTE=ManDownUnder;5208608]Girl I've seen twice said next time I could just cash app her the donation (she said giving her cash makes her feel like a prostitute, LOL). The cash app creates a paper trail I don't like, but there is already a paper trail with all the texting. She has been to my place, so she can google my address and get my real name and other real info about me. Recommendations please. Should it be a hard no, what's the risk?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BlackLabel6;5208487]She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.
2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.
Cell: (774) XXX-2903.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fc[/URL][/QUOTE]I knew she was too good to be true.
[QUOTE=SolitaryMan603;5208780]I just do cash. I'm more concerned about having to explain what all the transfers are if I get audited or she does. I don't know how much of a risk or concern it really is but I don't want to explain to an IRS agent that the 24 and 27 year old's I am sending money to every week are not employees / contractors I am paying under the table.[/QUOTE]If you were "audited" they'd see all the cash withdrawals and ask as well.
I have CashApp with an anonymous GMail acct, but almost never use it. Current SB gets cash. I think either is fine.
Cash is hardest to trace.
[QUOTE=Bran001;5209952]If you were "audited" they'd see all the cash withdrawals and ask as well.
I have CashApp with an anonymous GMail acct, but almost never use it. Current SB gets cash. I think either is fine.[/QUOTE]
This one is real. Cute face. Pretty accommodating.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/254b7a21-c6c9-41df-8820-cd8e99a235e9[/URL]
[QUOTE=BlackLabel6;5208487]She will have you park next to her truck, she will get out house and walk to your passenger side and get in then her partner will open your door and put a knife to your chest.
2X Holloway St Berkeley, MA.
Cell: (774) XXX-2903.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa5bd09e-123e-4b03-9934-f9e81ce155fc[/URL][/QUOTE]So, you didn't lock your doors from the start and she had a partner come out, gets in YOUR CAR, AND puts a knife to your chest?. I'm no sleuth but, when a violent crime happens and it's ON someone's property, wouldn't you get the law involved?. This is suspect. One of the many reasons why I overlook most regular members when they post things like this. Not saying it didn't happen but...........
[QUOTE=MeatMan;5212007]So, you didn't lock your doors from the start and she had a partner come out, gets in YOUR CAR, AND puts a knife to your chest?. I'm no sleuth but, when a violent crime happens and it's ON someone's property, wouldn't you get the law involved?. This is suspect. One of the many reasons why I overlook most regular members when they post things like this. Not saying it didn't happen but...........[/QUOTE]I would have to agree with you. But I did talk to this girl too and she was very pushy, and I had to go see her within the hour of talking and she only wanted $100. She did give me that same address he posted and she looks really hot. There were plenty of red flags so I didn't go. A girl like that, and wanted me to go there right away, when I didn't, she blocked me.
Maybe she's great and he wants to keep her for himself, or maybe he got burned and used the knife as a way to justify it.
There's something not right both ways.
[QUOTE=Bran001;5209952]If you were "audited" they'd see all the cash withdrawals and ask as well.
I have CashApp with an anonymous GMail acct, but almost never use it. Current SB gets cash. I think either is fine.[/QUOTE]Just saying Cash is King. I had a SB ask to be paid via CashApp instead of Straight up Cash. I refused to sign up for Cashapp and Venmo for the reason that once you get in the habbit of paying digitally what is to stop the SB to reach out to you constantly to ask for some Sugar? Cash is King.
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5212535]Just saying Cash is King. I had a SB ask to be paid via CashApp instead of Straight up Cash. I refused to sign up for Cashapp and Venmo for the reason that once you get in the habbit of paying digitally what is to stop the SB to reach out to you constantly to ask for some Sugar? Cash is King.[/QUOTE]I use Both Cash App and Venmo and you are correct, the SB will ask for random gifts but I politely decline them. I make sure that I see the rules when it comes to gifting but will give them special attention for Birthdays or special holidays. I have also been asked for extra cash from girls when I was only dealing with cash so in my opinion it will happen regardless. I am fortunate to be able to "help" the girls out beyond our regular meetups but I also do not go over my set donation. I do find the E payments to be so much more convenient than dealing with cash but I never carry cash anyway so it comes natural to me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36[/URL]
Anyone has experience with this? I don't have experience on SA. But I guess it seems legit. I am thinking to arrang meeting and let's see.
[QUOTE=Ymch520;5213136][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36[/URL]
Anyone has experience with this? I don't have experience on SA. But I guess it seems legit. I am thinking to arrang meeting and let's see.[/QUOTE]Profile's gone already.
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5212535]Just saying Cash is King. I had a SB ask to be paid via CashApp instead of Straight up Cash. I refused to sign up for Cashapp and Venmo for the reason that once you get in the habbit of paying digitally what is to stop the SB to reach out to you constantly to ask for some Sugar? Cash is King.[/QUOTE]App or no app I have no patience for girls who ask for money outside of dates. They get a polite no the first time and dropped the second time. Honestly, it doesn't happen to me.
It's the opposite. I got a text yesterday from my steady sb telling me she replaced her iphone 7 with a 12 and that she'd never have spent that money if it weren't for me and she thanked me. She's a grad student and lives very frugally.
I had my first meaningful correspondence on the site with a chick named Nina from Revere. Back and forth a bit until she asked about ppm. I'm new to "sugar," but have seen many escorts and this is the most like that. I played dumb but gleaned she wants $450-500 for a "date," which is at least double what I'd want to pay. When asked what this would entail, ex. Overnight or at least long visit, she went dark. Is this what these girls expect? Might be out of my league but that's a dangerous amount for me in either not being worth it, or awesome and tempted to blow huge cash. Thoughts?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f499a-29db-4279-af95-b40a459d4f08[/URL]
Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.
[QUOTE=Ymch520;5213136][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d801a-378c-43f8-805d-2bcffb2c5b36[/URL]
Anyone has experience with this? I don't have experience on SA. But I guess it seems legit. I am thinking to arrang meeting and let's see.[/QUOTE]She messaged me several months ago before I decided to pay for premium. I messaged her back when I finally did get premium, but all we did was chat some small talk and we each went our separate ways. She never said anything to make me think she was a scam and never once brought up money. She did mention that she had a roommate and would need to meet me at my place or hotel.
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5212671]I use Both Cash App and Venmo and you are correct, the SB will ask for random gifts but I politely decline them. I make sure that I see the rules when it comes to gifting but will give them special attention for Birthdays or special holidays. I have also been asked for extra cash from girls when I was only dealing with cash so in my opinion it will happen regardless. I am fortunate to be able to "help" the girls out beyond our regular meetups but I also do not go over my set donation. I do find the E payments to be so much more convenient than dealing with cash but I never carry cash anyway so it comes natural to me.[/QUOTE]Sorry, I have not used cash app or Venmo. Does this reveal your real identity to recipients?
[QUOTE=VividDream;5214781]Sorry, I have not used cash app or Venmo. Does this reveal your real identity to recipients?[/QUOTE]I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.
You still have to eventually link it to your real account, right? Unless you've found a way to fund the online payment app with cash or a cash-funded credit card.
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5214845]I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5214845]I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.[/QUOTE]The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?
[QUOTE=DrinIvisible;5214896]The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?[/QUOTE]Yes it isn't as discreet as cash but I find the convenience worth it. The chance of someone following the bank info back to me is a long shot. I'm certainly not worried about the IRS as I can spend my money anyway I chose to. It's like having someone's license plate, what can you do with it with access to the database? If you book a hotel room they could track you down also but unless you are a freak or causing a girl to worry about her safety you probably will be OK. I've been playing here for quite a few years and have never had an issue with a girl finding my real identity. Although I have had a few that I wish would, LOL. I am very selective as to the “type” of girl I am looking for and my target audience is more toward the college girls, GND or single Moms. I steer clear of the pros or semi pros who may pose a higher risk. Like I said I use cash until I feel it's a good fit and if the girl wants to move to the E payment I will do it. It works for me but some may not like it.
[QUOTE=Dano7;5213719]I had my first meaningful correspondence on the site with a chick named Nina from Revere. Back and forth a bit until she asked about ppm. I'm new to "sugar," but have seen many escorts and this is the most like that. I played dumb but gleaned she wants $450-500 for a "date," which is at least double what I'd want to pay. When asked what this would entail, ex. Overnight or at least long visit, she went dark. Is this what these girls expect? Might be out of my league but that's a dangerous amount for me in either not being worth it, or awesome and tempted to blow huge cash. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Profile link?
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5215247]Yes it isn't as discreet as cash but I find the convenience worth it. The chance of someone following the bank info back to me is a long shot. I'm certainly not worried about the IRS as I can spend my money anyway I chose to. It's like having someone's license plate, what can you do with it with access to the database? If you book a hotel room they could track you down also but unless you are a freak or causing a girl to worry about her safety you probably will be OK. I've been playing here for quite a few years and have never had an issue with a girl finding my real identity. Although I have had a few that I wish would, LOL. I am very selective as to the type of girl I am looking for and my target audience is more toward the college girls, GND or single Moms. I steer clear of the pros or semi pros who may pose a higher risk. Like I said I use cash until I feel it's a good fit and if the girl wants to move to the E payment I will do it. It works for me but some may not like it.[/QUOTE]Totally the same here. My current SB is happy with cash, so that's easy. I stop at the atm on my way to see her. If she wanted me to switch to an app payment I'd have no issue with it.
There are many many aspects to "security" doing this. As Joe mentioned, one is being highly selective who you see. That helps; obviously is not a guarantee. And it's just a numbers game; I don't see a lot of girls. If it's a new one every week, the numbers catch up with you faster.
[QUOTE=DrinIvisible;5214896]The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?[/QUOTE]My friend sometimes uses a vanilla gift card to send them via PayPal. Fake name and e-mail I think that's the safest way if you don't want to use cash.
[QUOTE=TheList00;5214403][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f499a-29db-4279-af95-b40a459d4f08[/URL]
Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.[/QUOTE]How about a review?
I agree with being selective. However, not sold on the numbers argument. The more often you see the same person, the more data she has on you to piece together a more complete profile of you. This reduces your anonymity (with her) over time. The longer you see her the more attached she is likely to become and the more likely she is to be able to track you down if she woke up one day and went "Bobbitt".
That's the reason I don't bring anyone home, no matter how safe and sane they might appear. In a desperate moment they're very capable of showing up unannounced and disrupting your private life. Always remember who has more to lose (it is usually you, not her).
[QUOTE=Bran001;5216968]Totally the same here. My current SB is happy with cash, so that's easy. I stop at the atm on my way to see her. If she wanted me to switch to an app payment I'd have no issue with it.
There are many many aspects to "security" doing this. As Joe mentioned, one is being highly selective who you see. That helps; obviously is not a guarantee. And it's just a numbers game; I don't see a lot of girls. If it's a new one every week, the numbers catch up with you faster.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Spill;5217478]How about a review?[/QUOTE]She's been reviewed many times. Been on seeking for years different name and profiles.