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[QUOTE=Fudge1]I totally agree with Under The Stars, although PSE could be in the gray area. GFE is about attitude and swapping spit, hugging kissy bod, petting, all the things you do with with a girl friend with "PROTECTION". I don't know about everyone else but I never wanted to take a chance on knocking up my girl friend.[/QUOTE]
I agree with that completely, except my girlfriend doesn't use a cover for a bj and I don't use a dental dam for daty.
[QUOTE=Ilapp]I agree with that completely, except my girlfriend doesn't use a cover for a bj and I don't use a dental dam for daty.[/QUOTE]
I have posted on this before, see my post 6-23-09. Ilapp is right again (are you ever wrong my friend).
GFE is Girlfriend. The provider should be just like your girlfriend. All things uncovered but for safety reasons and birth control, a cover is used during FS. CIM is optional because some girlfriends (and my ex-wife) don't like it. NOTE: I will never have a girlfriend again that doesn't enjoy it. (Sorry, J at HH, you don't like it). As far as attitude, who wants a girlfriend with a bad attitude (for that matter a wife with one). So the attitude should never be an issue with GFE.
Greek, COF, COB, loud noises, DT, DP, and other porn type activities is PSE.
Just my opinion and experience.
FF
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak]I have posted on this before, see my post 6-23-09. Ilapp is right again (are you ever wrong my friend).
GFE is Girlfriend. The provider should be just like your girlfriend. All things uncovered but for safety reasons and birth control, a cover is used during FS. CIM is optional because some girlfriends (and my ex-wife) don't like it. NOTE: I will never have a girlfriend again that doesn't enjoy it. (Sorry, J at HH, you don't like it). As far as attitude, who wants a girlfriend with a bad attitude (for that matter a wife with one). So the attitude should never be an issue with GFE.
Greek, COF, COB, loud noises, DT, DP, and other porn type activities is PSE.
Just my opinion and experience.
FF[/QUOTE]A big component of GFE for me is the connection, the comfort. Real conversation, not small talk, fake talk, awkward talk, etc. I know, it is hard for both sides to let their guards down and reach that point. Repeat visits absolutely help. But just like in real life, either the connection is there or it isn't. I have really only had that type of connection with one provider. I have had a lot of absolutely outstanding experiences, but most fall short of this type of connection.
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak]I have posted on this before, see my post 6-23-09. Ilapp is right again (are you ever wrong my friend).
GFE is Girlfriend. The provider should be just like your girlfriend. All things uncovered but for safety reasons and birth control, a cover is used during FS. CIM is optional because some girlfriends (and my ex-wife) don't like it. NOTE: I will never have a girlfriend again that doesn't enjoy it. (Sorry, J at HH, you don't like it). As far as attitude, who wants a girlfriend with a bad attitude (for that matter a wife with one). So the attitude should never be an issue with GFE.
Greek, COF, COB, loud noises, DT, DP, and other porn type activities is PSE.
Just my opinion and experience.
FF[/QUOTE]
OK- I am LMAO about the J thing and it is oh so sad, as always we are on the same page. After way to many years of this that is kind of how I have come to define it. It took a long time, because at one time I would have considered gfe anything other than a 5 minute blow and go, maybe because I like that in a girlfriend too actually, but since there are subtle differences in each experience, if you are going to put a name to it to describe it to others you have to ascribe parameters to it, but I guess each of us can do that to his own concepts if he wishes. It is just a lot easier to review and describe if we were to all use the same rules, which of course we never will, it is the nature of the beast. For me- no kissing no gfe- doesn't mean it isn't a great time, doesn't mean it might not be the best sex I ever had, just means it wasn't gfe. I have my checklist, and I'm sure it doesn't match everyone elses.
On the topic or real or fake profiles---FF you were the first one I thought of since you and others have posted on more than one occasion about the one on this very board, some were obvious scams, one I checked out just for kicks because I had no time or inclination to visit did appear to be probably a legitimate visitor to our fair city. It is like everything else in life, got to get your hands dirty, work up a little sweat and separate that wheat from the chaff to get what you want.
[url]http://cleveland.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/_wild_wonderful_wednesdays_44/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=2069334[/url]
Her phone number is from the Indy area but she is visiting Cleveland. Has anyone seen her? She updates her ad daily so the link may not work that long. Sounded nice on the phone. $.5 for 30 min.
If the link is no good then you can go to the Cleveland escort ads on Backpage and type in keyword "44"(her age) which should give her new ad. Its worth a look since her tits look awesome. Thanks!
[QUOTE=Fannima30][url]http://cleveland.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/_wild_wonderful_wednesdays_44/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=2069334[/url]
Her phone number is from the Indy area but she is visiting Cleveland. Has anyone seen her? She updates her ad daily so the link may not work that long. Sounded nice on the phone. $.5 for 30 min.
If the link is no good then you can go to the Cleveland escort ads on Backpage and type in keyword "44"(her age) which should give her new ad. Its worth a look since her tits look awesome. Thanks![/QUOTE]
I have seen the pics before but cannot remember where (I remember scanning that chest for freckles!). The number is not listed, but it is a landline phone. Why a landline Indy number on a Cleveland add?
FF
Hmmm didn't realize that was a landline phone. When I called her she introduced herself(Connie) then asked my name and age. She said she was 47 eventhough the ad says 44 and if I was ok with that based on my younger age. I said thats fine and she asked where I was located eventhough the ad said it was incall.
She asked if I was ready to make an appt. eventhough I still hadn't gotten the rate yet. I asked if the $.5 was for the hour and she said no it was for 30 mins. She mentions that she gets plenty of biz. I asked about an 8pm visit and she said thats too late which is when I said ok bye.
[QUOTE=Fannima30]Hmmm didn't realize that was a landline phone. When I called her she introduced herself(Connie) then asked my name and age. She said she was 47 eventhough the ad says 44 and if I was ok with that based on my younger age. I said thats fine and she asked where I was located eventhough the ad said it was incall.
She asked if I was ready to make an appt. eventhough I still hadn't gotten the rate yet. I asked if the $.5 was for the hour and she said no it was for 30 mins. She mentions that she gets plenty of biz. I asked about an 8pm visit and she said thats too late which is when I said ok bye.[/QUOTE]
Some reverse phone services often will first come up as landline phones even though they are cellular in nature. It was explained to me once and I am sure I would not reiterate it correctly if I tried, but I am familiar with the phenomena and have found that you can normally get over that hump easily if that is all it is. On the other hand...... She was posting here recently as someone who had been gone but has now returned, unfortunately it is not a chest that my addled old brain recognizes; it's double edged because it is unfortunate if I haven't made it's acquaintance and even more unfortunate if I did and I can't remember it.
I called Stalliana and set up an appointment. Due to a unforeseen circumstance I wanted to reschedule for the next day. I left her a message stating that I could not make it and wanted to reschedule. I have not heard from her since. I gave her 36-hour notice. Don't know what happened to her.
I'm new to this. Did I do something wrong?
[QUOTE=Tim P14]I called Stalliana Friday about 2pm. She peaked my interest as she did yours. She claimed to have a room at 25th and Post. I assume it was the Intel Suites. Seems to be a gathering place for this business. Anyway I was looking for a 4pm appointment. Like you said she was eager. She was ready for me to come over right away. I just didn't like the way it felt and passed. She has called three times Friday and twice Saturday and I have had 5 or 6 private calls since. I have a throw away phone that I leave on silent so it doesn't matter if she wants to call. She left a message at 4:15 saying she was availble at 5.
I may give her a shot. Small is my weakness. Also I assume by the last line of your report that LongRichard won't be getting her digits from you. LOL.
Thanks for the report.
Tim P14[/QUOTE]
I'm still a new poster on this site, but looking through everything I decided to see if I could see some of the ladies prominently mentioned here.
First up, Teresa. Got her number from a friend who posts here, and has seen her.
I have to say, I was struck by how "normal" she is. Good part-time job, nice apartment, intelligent and easy to talk with, has some interesting hobbies.
Oh, and did I mention nice attributes? Actually, she is a workout fiend, and it shows in almost a perfect body. Very tantalizing. She offered the full service I was looking for. $$ and one pop are the considerations.
But I would still come back to this. If you are looking for someone interesting to talk with, high class, and pleasant, Teresa is a great choice. I don't know if she would be willing to go out with someone, with the position she is in, but she might be a perfect date to take to a restaurant or public event.
Also worth mentioning in the present environment is that I believe she would be a completely safe choice, because she only sees guys through personal referral.
Have fun, guys. Next up, I'm going to see if I can get in contact with Catelyn. Based on the comparisons many of you have made, a worthwhile alternative.
JZ
What did you do wrong?. Your first mistake calling Stalliana!
She's been calling me and calling me to see me again, so I relented and set something up for that night. She was soooo excited! Oh, she will be there right at 9! She'll call when on the way, etc!
I call her at 6:30 to confirm before I clear my evening and she is coming, be there ready to romp, She's so excited!
At 8:45 I call her to see if she's on her way, she answers and says she will be a little late. Like 1 1/2 to 2 hrs late! She decided to go visit a friend in ANOTHER STATE. But she'll call me when she's back and....Click.
She is pretty hot looking, average in in technique, but this one is a flake.
Sorry that happened to you man.
You are right it is not a true GFE.
I guess that word is open for interpretation of the individual.
I choose to use covered for my personal safety but she was in my term of the word a GFE.
[QUOTE=Ilapp]It is just hard for me to consider it gfe with everything covered[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Freckle Freak]I have posted on this before, see my post 6-23-09. Ilapp is right again (are you ever wrong my friend).
GFE is Girlfriend. The provider should be just like your girlfriend. All things uncovered but for safety reasons and birth control, a cover is used during FS. CIM is optional because some girlfriends (and my ex-wife) don't like it. NOTE: I will never have a girlfriend again that doesn't enjoy it. (Sorry, J at HH, you don't like it).
FF[/QUOTE]
There are a couple of D's at HH that I'm sure would accommodate, and one P, if my memory is correct.
Yes, Stalliana is definitely a flake.
I guess I better consider myself lucky that she has left me alone.
Thanks
[QUOTE=Mr Popular]What did you do wrong?. Your first mistake was to call Stalliana!
She's been calling me and calling me to see me again, so I relented and set something up for that night. She was soooo excited! Oh, she will be there right at 9! She'll call when on the way, etc!
I call her at 6:30 to confirm before I clear my evening and she is coming, be there ready to romp, She's so excited!
At 8:45 I call her to see if she's on her way, she answers and says she will be a little late. Like 1 1/2 to 2 hrs late! She decided to go visit a friend in ANOTHER STATE. But she'll call me when she's back and then we're going to. Click.
She is pretty hot looking, average in in technique, but this one is a flake.
Sorry that happened to you man.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Power Tool]There are a couple of D's at HH that I'm sure would accommodate, and one P, if my memory is correct.[/QUOTE]
You will have to enlighten me my friend the next time we meet. I KNOW who one of the "D's" is but not the other. The one I know took waaaaaaaay to long to get rid of. I don't know the P.
FF