[QUOTE=LieDetector;4553153]These are my guidelines.
I don't normally see anyone who only does incall. That doesn't mean I do outcall. I just tend to avoid incall only providers.
If they say anything to direct that also cancels the meeting.
I almost never swap face pics unless someone else had seen her.
I never discuss the money once we meet in person. I will let her see it, and I'll put it on a table / tv / etc, and walk away from it.
As for being scammed I never use Cashapp / Venmo / Etc.
If she openly offers bareback I assume it's a trap.
If the pics are overly professional Ill do an image search.
Sometime I google the phone number also.
If I somehow find their FB page I watch for too much drama, boyfriends and so on.
If they make me wait too long once I'm outside the room, or if they take too long to reply to the initial text or phone call I'm out. This is more to keep them humble than anything else. I've had them rush me to get to the room, then take their time giving me the room number once I show up. Those days are over.[/QUOTE]I generally do a lunch or dinner date. This is not for everyone. But it has worked form me for 25 plus years.