RE: Telling a Provider You're Snipped
Only problem is that even if you tell the provider you are snipped she still wants money. I've had that happen. It's not about being snipped, you blow a load of any fluid and they're going to use that as a way to extract more money. That's the bottom-line in most cases.
BBFS etiquette: use your words
[QUOTE=SfoDavid67;5799796]I won't get too much into the session, as it was not the best, I basically bought based on her age and appearance and existing reviews.
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Anyway before I arrived we agreed on the price for BBFS. Again on arrival at her incall I confirmed BBBJ BBFS DATY etc. She was on board with it. We went through the steps with her BBBJ DATY and BBFS. Now in the past providers have ALWAYS made it clear NO CIP if that's their desire (yea NO CIP sucks) but anyway she NEVER EVER mentioned NO CIP so I blew my load inside of her.
She went ballistic, saying she was starting to ovulate for the month, she did not want a baby and started demanding more $$ for to go buy a plan B. I told her I did not have any more cash other than some Euros, she wanted those. I told her no. She then wanted to know if I had cash app or Venmo (I do but I told her no). Then she demanded I give her an additional tip on her Only Fans which I did not really answer, I just told her I had to go.
I was apologetic to her and said "you never told me not to cum in side you" she said "It's common known courtesy". I have been barebacking since 2006 (I honestly don't think I have used a condom since then) and the girls have ALWAYS made it clear NO CIP up front if BBFS is offered.
[/QUOTE]+1 to what several others said:
Personally, I think that bareback sex implies CIP--not everybody agrees though, and I'd rather err on the side of [B]informed consent[/B].
Sexual norms and mores change: alert your partner (provider or otherwise) when you're about to cum.
Whether she wanted more money, was fearful of pregnancy, or both, Levonorgestrel is available via InstaCart for $40.
Burn that number; at this point nothing good will come from additional contact.
No idea whether a vasectomy is indicated for you. If you opt for that, your balls will be sore and tender for a couple days.
Frankly, it sounds to me like it was an honest misunderstanding. When she expressed frustration over CIP, you apologized and GTFO.
Afternoon Layover suggestions
Fellow mongers. I used to live in the Seattle area (eastside). Moved away last year. I am coming back through town in a couple of weeks. The flights allow me a whole afternoon in town.
I am a little out of touch with the scene in Seattle now. Any recommendations for the afternoon? Preferably someone who is friendly to the subject of this board. Not too far from SeaTac (so no Marysville or Olympia). Preferably white, but depends on the woman. And since I am only in town for the afternoon, incall very much preferred. NO BBW.
With such a little time window, I would rather set something up before landing.
Thanks in advance.