General Reports

[QUOTE=Dragon0978;2910342]So based on the rave reviews here, I plunked down the fee for premium membership yesterday, and might already have a date with a dancer from Bridgeport. Anyone see this girl? She dances at scruples. Anyway, if not, my question is, for the guys that are using this site, do you usually start negotiating fees right away, or do you play a pseudo-courtship game of taking them out, buying them drinks / dinner (not flowers--I ain't that suckered yet haha), etc? This girl wants to meet for lunch / dinner, and being new to this, I don't want to bust out negotiations immediately if she'll get offended--then again, if seems likelier she's been propositioned off the bat before (and at her job), and if so, I'd just as soon cut to the chase and avoid any bullshit pretense. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]Generally speaking it's best to get to the M&G without discussing $. The pro's or semi pro's usually will negotiate before the M&G sometimes just hours before. I'd be surprised if a stripper didn't try to pin you down before a M&G on her own. Just be prepared to bail out, play it by ear. These girls can be a lot of fun but also can be pretty flakey too. Run multiple daddy's, forget who they are texting with, try to rinse them, ect. You should check out the sugar daddy threads here in the other area's ie L. A. And Richmond. There's a lot of good info there.

The Richmond, Virginia board has a lot of good discussions on the subject of sugar daddies / sugar babies in the User Blog section. They even have a FAQ of sorts highlighting important posts / threads. It's a great read.

As an aside, I find this to be a really interesting "social phenomena" to watch. How a great many very good looking young women have absolutely no problem (and maybe even a preference for) the idea of getting paid for their "assets" as it were, so long as the stigma of being a ***** can be avoided, reduced, or even simply put into question. In today's culture, many women seem to have no issue with the self-commodification of their bodies or sexuality. Pussy for profit. Thanks feminism! There's enough "plausible deniability" to allow them to do what they really want (profit from their sexuality and sex itself) while allowing them to reasonably argue that they're "dating. ".

Anyway, I digress.

In any case, the SD / SB thing is beginning to take off here, and I get the impression that it attracts a higher caliber of woman, since it's become an "acceptable" way to ***** yourself out. This is a great phenomenon for us. As long as we manage it well.

I think women who start out in this sort of thing have the idea in their head that it's a cross between "Pretty Woman" complete with Richard Gere and a jet-set Kardashian lifestyle. Reality, of course, is starkly different. The Richmond guys work very hard and have a lot of tips on how to navigate the sky-high expectations of these girls, and move them toward some modicum of acceptable behavior and affordable donation structure, while managing their hamsters so they still feel ok with the arrangement. Discussions ranging from keeping prices to $100 - $150 per session and avoiding paying for "meet and greet" dates and everything in between are common, and I think we would do very well to set the tone correctly with the crop of sugar babies in this market, so it's a win-win for all involved. If we all collectively work with a similar mindset, we can set the market here.

Just my $0. 02.

[QUOTE=Dragon0978;2910342]So based on the rave reviews here, I plunked down the fee for premium membership yesterday, and might already have a date with a dancer from Bridgeport. Anyone see this girl? She dances at scruples. Anyway, if not, my question is, for the guys that are using this site, do you usually start negotiating fees right away, or do you play a pseudo-courtship game of taking them out, buying them drinks / dinner (not flowers--I ain't that suckered yet haha), etc? This girl wants to meet for lunch / dinner, and being new to this, I don't want to bust out negotiations immediately if she'll get offended--then again, if seems likelier she's been propositioned off the bat before (and at her job), and if so, I'd just as soon cut to the chase and avoid any bullshit pretense. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]I recently joined and setup 3 meet and greets. All in their 20's which might be the mistake I made but they were hot.

#1. No txt, no call, no show.

#2 claimed to get hurt in the gym.

#3 Same as #1.

Beware of some out there, too, that want to be penpals. I had a beauty on the line after a dozen emails, lots of pics, but she ignores any talk of an actual meeting.

Meet and greet are free. Some want a monthly stipend and there's a wide range, and others will negotiate.

At the very least during my month subscription, I'll collect contact info and work on dates later during the last week.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;2912166]I recently joined and setup 3 meet and greets. All in their 20's which might be the mistake I made but they were hot.

#1. No txt, no call, no show.

#2 claimed to get hurt in the gym.

#3 Same as #1.

Beware of some out there, too, that want to be penpals. I had a beauty on the line after a dozen emails, lots of pics, but she ignores any talk of an actual meeting.

Meet and greet are free. Some want a monthly stipend and there's a wide range, and others will negotiate.

At the very least during my month subscription, I'll collect contact info and work on dates later during the last week.[/QUOTE]I was on there for two months, had several dates and learned real fast that the girls that list their preference as "negotiable" are the ones to contact. I have two steady girls I see two.

Times a month. We will go to dinner a movie or out for drinks and then back to my place for some hot tub fun. I'll spend 3-4 hrs with them and get multiple pops. Negotiated $$ and.

$$25 with the other. They treat me real good. One is a single mom trying to make ends meet and the other a college student. Definitely a better class of woman than BP and CL. Had some luck on whatsyourprice and.

Whisper as well. Can't recall the last time I went on BP to find someone.

[QUOTE=BoredinCT12;2913453]I was on there for two months, had several dates and learned real fast that the girls that list their preference as "negotiable" are the ones to contact. I have two steady girls I see two.

Times a month. We will go to dinner a movie or out for drinks and then back to my place for some hot tub fun. I'll spend 3-4 hrs with them and get multiple pops. Negotiated $$ and.

$$25 with the other. They treat me real good. One is a single mom trying to make ends meet and the other a college student. Definitely a better class of woman than BP and CL. Had some luck on whatsyourprice and.

Whisper as well. Can't recall the last time I went on BP to find someone.[/QUOTE]I'm pretty much strictly SA at this point. Meets from $100 to $200, I stay away from anyone wanting more. I've also found negotiable / minimal are the best contacts but I've also had very good luck wit the occasional "substantial" as I think a lot of them (mainly the young ones) don't rally know what that means.

Happy Hunting.

Several months ago, Luv Botique in the north meadows closed their video booths, and started remodeling into what I thought was going to be a similar setup to Erotic Zone. It was supposed to take 2 or 3 weeks, but it kept getting delayed. I have been stopping by every couple of weeks to check on the progress. I stopped in at lunch time, and the back is now open, but I am told that I have too be escorted by one of the ladies.

But first I'm given a tour of the remodel back, and have the pricing structure explained to me. It costs $10 to get in the back. It's very dark back there. I'm shown some not so private booths, which cost $30 for a half hour, and the lady will dance for you. For $50, you can go into a video booth and the lady will watch porn with you. For $100, the lady will accompany you to a private room with a leather chaise lounge & a large flat scree TV. All prices are for a half an hour, and you are expected to tip the lady.

So then, I'm introduced to the 3 ladies working. There's a blond & brunette from California with bolt-ons, and a Hispanic with reddish hair and what look like c or d cup naturals. These women are stripper caliber, so I can only imagine what kind of tip they are looking for. And of course, there was no talk of what the ladies would do other than sit with me in the room of my choice.

So I chatted withe the ladies for a few minutes, and then I left saying I'd be back when I have more cash on me. Seems that it will be a little too rich for my blood to TOFTT, but maybe someone else with deep pockets can try it and report back.

[QUOTE=RockNRoll;3020602]Several months ago, Luv Botique in the north meadows closed their video booths, and started remodeling into what I thought was going to be a similar setup to Erotic Zone. It was supposed to take 2 or 3 weeks, but it kept getting delayed. I have been stopping by every couple of weeks to check on the progress. I stopped in at lunch time, and the back is now open, but I am told that I have too be escorted by one of the ladies.

But first I'm given a tour of the remodel back, and have the pricing structure explained to me. It costs $10 to get in the back. It's very dark back there. I'm shown some not so private booths, which cost $30 for a half hour, and the lady will dance for you. For $50, you can go into a video booth and the lady will watch porn with you. For $100, the lady will accompany you to a private room with a leather chaise lounge & a large flat scree TV. All prices are for a half an hour, and you are expected to tip the lady.

So then, I'm introduced to the 3 ladies working. There's a blond & brunette from California with bolt-ons, and a Hispanic with reddish hair and what look like c or d cup naturals. These women are stripper caliber, so I can only imagine what kind of tip they are looking for. And of course, there was no talk of what the ladies would do other than sit with me in the room of my choice.

So I chatted withe the ladies for a few minutes, and then I left saying I'd be back when I have more cash on me. Seems that it will be a little too rich for my blood to TOFTT, but maybe someone else with deep pockets can try it and report back.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info called in to confirm and they will have two girls there today and tomorrow will check it out and report back soon.

Slim.

[QUOTE=SlimShady132;3026976]Thanks for the info called in to confirm and they will have two girls there today and tomorrow will check it out and report back soon.

Slim.[/QUOTE]Made it up there today and they gave me a tour the place is huge in the back showed the different rooms / booths I can see lots of possibilities here. As for now the girls are only there in the afternoon until about 4 so I didn't get a chance to try it out coming from work. They are still testing out this new service but will fully launch next month will definitely be back!

[QUOTE=SlimShady132;3030332]Made it up there today and they gave me a tour the place is huge in the back showed the different rooms / booths I can see lots of possibilities here. As for now the girls are only there in the afternoon until about 4 so I didn't get a chance to try it out coming from work. They are still testing out this new service but will fully launch next month will definitely be back![/QUOTE]Thanks for the update. I did not know what it was like inside this place, but I drive by LB and EZ every time I get my car serviced and always said I need to stop in. I will be in the area next week and will check it out as well. There is another LB in Milford, has anybody been there? Is it the same setup?

Totally unrelated. If you work downtown there is a food truck in Bushnell park called Thai Food On Wheels. The woman that takes the orders in one of the most beautiful Asian women I have every seen. For those of us that love Asian women it is nice to get some Drunken Noodles or Pad Thai and imagine being able to select her as your date.

Gordon.

[QUOTE=GordonFreeman;3039175]Totally unrelated. If you work downtown there is a food truck in Bushnell park called Thai Food On Wheels. The woman that takes the orders in one of the most beautiful Asian women I have every seen. For those of us that love Asian women it is nice to get some Drunken Noodles or Pad Thai and imagine being able to select her as your date.

Gordon.[/QUOTE]I know how you feel, that place has crappy food but they do excellent business because of her.

Lexi is back with them in Springfield hosting. As hot as it gets. Have 2 other good looking ones near Northhampton. Email Cuddletime for pics. $95 still the price.

They just emailed me 5 pics but 2 are not near here.

Months ago there was lots of talk about this place in north Hartford. Commercial area. Wonder if anyone ever tried the place out.

[QUOTE=SlimShady132;3030332]Made it up there today and they gave me a tour the place is huge in the back showed the different rooms / booths I can see lots of possibilities here. As for now the girls are only there in the afternoon until about 4 so I didn't get a chance to try it out coming from work. They are still testing out this new service but will fully launch next month will definitely be back![/QUOTE]Avoid Jo-Jo. She stays at or beyond arm's length. Huge waste of money.