"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=Drew0403;4541526]So this dream was different in that fact that her boyfriend, is in the room, I was messaging her back and forth about getting together without her boyfriend in the room, I really didn't think I would ever do it but in a weak moment I setup an appointment only to cancel but a week later after being ghosted by someone else and in the need for some relief I did have a dream I went to their place in in King George, while she had been talkative in messaging and texting she was very shy which I think added to the experience, in my dream she was very slim A cup with a nice rear end and about 5' 4", I hardly noticed the boyfriend sitting in the room as he didn't seem to move at all and he appeared to be hardly watching, and I was able to totally tune him out much to my surprise, she is low mileage as they do this only when in need and as you may imagine she does not get many visitors for obvious reasons. I have been back twice as damages are only $ and I felt very safe with the location. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/02b509f1-7bcd-4182-9ad1-11991c520c89[/URL].[/QUOTE]I had a situation like that in college.

A lawyer's wife liked me, and the husband was ok with me fucking her but only if he was in the house.

There are few things better in life than fucking a 40 year old when you are 20.

Having the husband around creeped me out, but he never did even sit in the same room with us.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4541772]I chatted with Platinum princess about a year ago. Was willing to drive to Cville. Had a flexible work sked and could get a sitter. But wanted $500 for the time and fucking. Hair to bleached for my tastes. Struck me as semi pro. Claims she had LT arrangement before at $1500 a month.[/QUOTE]She calls herself Kelsey, I believe. She's a long time BP pro who used to get dropped off on west broad for motel dates. Lots of miles.

[QUOTE=MilkyWy;4538465]I'm from NC but a long-time lurker on Richmond forum. You guys are awesome and true educator. I ran into an unusual situation. At my annual checkup, my doctor walked in with a hottie and introduced her as NP. We looked at each other and immediately recognized seeing her on sa. During my visit, she seemed little restless and nervous. I thought she recognized me too. I checked sa and found that a few days ago she had seen my profile. This is a first such incident. I'm in a confused state on how to deal with this. Need your advice.[/QUOTE]IMO there's only one solution -- she not only knows your name and address but has access to other info like like your medical history, and you know where she works. For most arrangements, this is just way too much knowledge about each other. There is too much opportunity for arrangements to go south, usually with the SD wanting to move along more than the SB does, and the less a woman scorned knows about you, the better. Plenty of fish in the sea, no need to fixate on the risky ones.

[QUOTE=Dash;4538316]I just got a call from a very pretty one and the discussion of her looks came up; I mentioned she is changing even over the last several years because my first pictures of her were when she was 21, now she's 25. She seemed concerned. "Don't worry, you look fine; I would tell you if you were ugly or something. ".

Note; she's very pretty but she STILL has self-doubt and I don't really help which is my intention.
[/QUOTE]That's known as "negging", and it can be a very effective tactic toward free pussy if well-timed and not overused.

[QUOTE=ChrisCarr;4538569]Be the antidote. Frugality can be a desirable trait, but being a cheapskate certainly diminishes ones chances of success. Paying for an incidental cost of a MnG is the gentlemanly thing to do, but sending money in any amount before meeting is a rookie mistake.[/QUOTE]Exactly. This approach works like a charm. It is amazing how paying a measly Jackson for happy hour drinks and a little snack leads to 3 hours of pussy for a benjamin. Tons of young dudes cannot even do the happy hour / M&G type of get together.

[QUOTE=OliverNP;4542974]IMO there's only one solution -- she not only knows your name and address but has access to other info like like your medical history, and you know where she works. For most arrangements, this is just way too much knowledge about each other. There is too much opportunity for arrangements to go south, usually with the SD wanting to move along more than the SB does, and the less a woman scorned knows about you, the better. Plenty of fish in the sea, no need to fixate on the risky ones.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't worry too much unless you have a SO. Just be cool about it and don't make commitments that you cannot keep. By now she knows that you're not a creep and she is bound by medical confidentiality laws.

[QUOTE=MulchMan;4543308]I wouldn't worry too much unless you have a SO. Just be cool about it and don't make commitments that you cannot keep. By now she knows that you're not a creep and she is bound by medical confidentiality laws.[/QUOTE]I agree that we all need to assess their own risk.

But has anyone ever seen an SB-aged female think rationally about legal consequences when they are pissed / hurt and raging on PMS? I certainly can't say I ever have.

[quote=happyhunter44;4543220]exactly. This approach works like a charm. It is amazing how paying a measly jackson for happy hour drinks and a little snack leads to 3 hours of pussy for a benjamin. Tons of young dudes cannot even do the happy hour / m&g type of get together.[/quote]exactly right.

[QUOTE=MulchMan;4543308]....she is bound by medical confidentiality laws.[/QUOTE]And when pray tell has a law stopped a criminal or worse, a woman scorned, from screwing someone's life totally over?

[QUOTE=HappyHunter44;4543364]And when pray tell has a law stopped a criminal or worse, a woman scorned, from screwing someone's life totally over?[/QUOTE]Come on man. Every min of every day people weigh legal consequences vs doing what they really want to do. Sometimes they say "fuck it!" but a lot of times they don't. And you can bet, the more severe the cost the longer the think.

[QUOTE=Tidad;4543420]Every min of every day people weigh legal consequences...[/QUOTE]Actually, I agree with you. However, note that I stated a "criminal" and a "woman scorned. " These two entities do not fall into the standard just "every day people" category and do a lot of stupid shit to people irrespective of laws, as their brain processes are no longer normal. Unless she is known not to be a crazy ***** when scorned or perceived to be scorned that much personal information in her possession is not a good thing. My 02.

[QUOTE=TechSticles;4534773]Snipped out the rest to highlight this. THIS is how I now see every girl, [B]especially [/B]those in the mid to low tier service industries (although even the higher tiers are suspect to me). I travel quite a bit and it just seems like shooting fish in a barrel to get these girls to fuck. They've pretty much left behind the idea that there's a connection between being a hooker and getting a couple of bills to bang an older dude. I like this new reality.

Of course, this is why I fully funded my daughter's education and living expenses. Didn't want her needing money in this environment with you animals out there.

[blue]No offence meant to your daughter but I'm betting a lot of these chicks have both real dads and sugar dads paying the bills. When they want a new Louis Vuitton bag sucking a little dick for it seems a small price to pay.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Like when I found out that my daughter's best friend (whom I've known since she was little) was on the site? LOL.

Anyone have any luck with her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e74c800d-005a-470d-9144-ab81b7ae26ce[/URL]

[QUOTE=Tidad;4543420]Come on man. Every min of every day people weigh legal consequences vs doing what they really want to do. Sometimes they say "fuck it!" but a lot of times they don't. And you can bet, the more severe the cost the longer the think.[/QUOTE]Thank you much for your advice! You guys give very constructive perspectives. Keep it up!

I opened another account and talked her and it come close to meet up. In this situation although anonymity has gone away, if it was civvy setup it would have been prudent to hit on her. I am deciding not to pursue it.

Anyone with any intel on her [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d4297822-6289-4832-a284-4e13c8c868e9[/URL].