"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Chatting online with a new SA girl today -- sent her my standard intro greeting. First red flag is she replies in less than 30 seconds with 3 well composed paragraphs. Her "story" is she's in a loveless sexless marriage that she can't leave; hubby doesn't know about SA, so she has to use a super discreet old fashioned pay for minutes burner phone; also she doesn't have a car, can't be picked up at her house and so has to Uber to any dates. But since she's here just for the sex, passion and affection she's missing in her marriage, she doesn't want an allowance. Just money for her phone and for her Uber. Right. Next.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4539548]So I downloaded the app today, and it has a 7 day trial for $24.99, however you can only pay with Google Pay (which I have a credit card set up).

Is it safe to pay with Google pay for SA with a real credit card, instead of one of those prepaid credit card? Is this a one time charge or a recurring thing, where after the 7 day, it will charge you the monthly fee atomatically?[/QUOTE]If you sign in using Google, your I'd will be connected to the APP.

When, not if, the APP is compromised, your I'd will be forever associated with Seeking.

If you are ok with that, go for it.

If not, don't chase deals and instead take the route suggested in previous messages.

[QUOTE=Kurrozava;4538870]Hello, experts of the SB world. I took the plunge a few weeks ago with only one moderately successful encounter. The information posted in this thread has been tremendously helpful (thank you). That said, I run into a bit of a perplexing situation (for me) with my next potential SB.

I started talking to a girl about a week ago, messaging first on SA and gradually moving to text. She's very cute and seemed genuinely interested in meeting, however, due to her schedule (she attends a university) and the upcoming holidays, the first week of December is the earliest she can meet, which is fine.

We tentatively set a date and have been chatting sporadically throughout the week. The subject of allowance was brought up only once to which I told her I don't talk money until we meet. She hasn't brought it up again since.

Yesterday, she sent me a text and asked if I would be up for coming up the night before the date we had set and staying the night (in a room). She told me she was flying back to the area that day and her flight would be coming in late, and staying in her dorm was not ideal. This caught me off guard a little bit and I told her I would check my schedule.

As there has been no M&G prior to this and communication has only been online and via text (she has seen my photo), is this request something I should be wary of? Would it be wiser to keep to the original, planned "date for the day"?

I've been trying to catch up on some of the pitfalls of hotels. I currently have no So, so that makes things a little easier.[/QUOTE]I would never have someone I had never met come to a hotel room. Nor for that matter would I ever go right to the home or apartment of someone I had not met first in a public place. Too many really awful surprises could await -- and that she's less attractive than her photos is far from the worst of the possibilities.

[URL]https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/mobile/userProfile?userId=66219076&userName=prettybaby2211[/URL]

Chatted with her a while. Very nice girl, but then she quoted me 1 K an hour (plus the hotel). I had to be polite, but blunt, and say that I'd never pay that when I can (and do) get just as hot for a tenth of that. She countered with 800, to which I added, "good luck to you". I just can't believe some of these girls. LOL. That's some serious GPS. She's from the Tyson's Corner area, but I'm posting about it here because she might pop up in your searches, as it's relatively close.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4539548]So I downloaded the app today, and it has a 7 day trial for $24.99, however you can only pay with Google Pay (which I have a credit card set up).

Is it safe to pay with Google pay for SA with a real credit card, instead of one of those prepaid credit card? Is this a one time charge or a recurring thing, where after the 7 day, it will charge you the monthly fee atomatically?[/QUOTE]I use TextNow. It's free and I can use it on the app on my phone or on the website on my laptop.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;4539388] I don't care how long you've been chatting, very few college girls will offer to spend the night with a grown man they've never met.[/QUOTE]Yes, exactly. This is why I was initially wary about it. By all intents and purposes, she seems legit, however, I will be proceeding with caution on this one.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4539548]So I downloaded the app today, and it has a 7 day trial for $24.99, however you can only pay with Google Pay (which I have a credit card set up).

Is it safe to pay with Google pay for SA with a real credit card, instead of one of those prepaid credit card? Is this a one time charge or a recurring thing, where after the 7 day, it will charge you the monthly fee atomatically?[/QUOTE]I personally don't ever want anything on my credit card related to this hobby. I've had no luck using prepaid cards in the google play store however for some reason. Instead, all you need to do is go buy a Google Play $25 gift card at your local drugstore / supermarket, add it onto your google play account and you're in business. Then you don't even need to worry about recurring b / c the card is empty. Just make sure you don't have a backup pay method selected. Happy hunting.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;4539388]It could very well be a scam but go in with an open mind and see what happens. Just use incremental steps. Met her for a coffee first (fuck dinner, that's for closers). If that goes well have the hotel lined up but not paid for. If she's still up for it and there's no red flags then tell her you're heading for x hotel and just go for it. Be prepared to bail at any point if your spidey sense is tingling. I don't care how long you've been chatting, very few college girls will offer to spend the night with a grown man they've never met. Don't be surprised one bit if just before you're set to meet you start hearing about sob stories requiring money on your part -e.g. car accident, phone or laptop stolen, diagnosed with ebola, etc...[/QUOTE]This is exactly how to play it. You can even tell her you'll definitely do the room even knowing you might not, just tell her you're meeting for coffee first then will go from there. Give yourself the option. Just don't be surprised if close to the meet though she asks for something, you paying for the hotel in advance, gas money or whatever. Anytime they have to put off the meet for weeks that's usually the case. The scammers have gotten more sophisticated and the delayed timing instead of an immediate request builds trust and anticipation with the mark. I've had similar requests that were legit however, so it's not 100% a scam. But it probably is.

Have you been able to locate her social media at all or her name, is it her real number, does it come up on truepeoplesearch, snap or fb messenger? That would increase the odds of legitimacy.

[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;4540192]This is exactly how to play it. You can even tell her you'll definitely do the room even knowing you might not, just tell her you're meeting for coffee first then will go from there. Give yourself the option. Just don't be surprised if close to the meet though she asks for something, you paying for the hotel in advance, gas money or whatever. Anytime they have to put off the meet for weeks that's usually the case. The scammers have gotten more sophisticated and the delayed timing instead of an immediate request builds trust and anticipation with the mark. I've had similar requests that were legit however, so it's not 100% a scam. But it probably is.

Have you been able to locate her social media at all or her name, is it her real number, does it come up on truepeoplesearch, snap or fb messenger? That would increase the odds of legitimacy.[/QUOTE]Actually, interestingly enough, she readily sent me a photo of her I'd when I asked her to prove that she was 18 (I don't want to mess around with that). In fact, I had to caution her about the way she sent this, as she didn't cover up any of her information. I admit, I did snoop to see if she had a FB account, which she does. Haven't really dived any deeper besides that, however.

Any Intel on VAplatinumprincess. I have a date set up with her soon. Can report back.

[QUOTE=Kurrozava;4540217]Actually, interestingly enough, she readily sent me a photo of her I'd when I asked her to prove that she was 18 (I don't want to mess around with that). In fact, I had to caution her about the way she sent this, as she didn't cover up any of her information. I admit, I did snoop to see if she had a FB account, which she does. Haven't really dived any deeper besides that, however.[/QUOTE]Yeah that's fine, I just get the FB, IG, whatever to make sure they are real. If that's the case, you may be in good shape. The scams aren't real girls in your town scamming you, that's almost never the case. You're dealing with a chick 500 miles away or a dude in Poland. Good luck with her.

[QUOTE=BagIt;4534363]So when you asked her if she got curious about gift card what did you tell her and what had her willing to drop her pants that night?[/QUOTE]I told her that I was searching for a sugar baby to spend time with when I'm in town. She then went through the whole "are you serious? I always hear about it but never met one. I think I'd be too scared, blah blah blah". I told her I'd tell her more about it in detail over drinks. She met me that evening in Short pump and it went from there.

[QUOTE=Memgrizzdoc;4540725]Any Intel on VAplatinumprincess. I have a date set up with her soon. Can report back.[/QUOTE]I have been chatting with her but haven't set a date. I'd love to hear your experience if you see her.

Thanks and be safe!

So this dream was different in that fact that her boyfriend, is in the room, I was messaging her back and forth about getting together without her boyfriend in the room, I really didn't think I would ever do it but in a weak moment I setup an appointment only to cancel but a week later after being ghosted by someone else and in the need for some relief I did have a dream I went to their place in in King George, while she had been talkative in messaging and texting she was very shy which I think added to the experience, in my dream she was very slim A cup with a nice rear end and about 5' 4", I hardly noticed the boyfriend sitting in the room as he didn't seem to move at all and he appeared to be hardly watching, and I was able to totally tune him out much to my surprise, she is low mileage as they do this only when in need and as you may imagine she does not get many visitors for obvious reasons. I have been back twice as damages are only $ and I felt very safe with the location. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/02b509f1-7bcd-4182-9ad1-11991c520c89[/URL].

[QUOTE=FanRat;4541443]I have been chatting with her but haven't set a date. I'd love to hear your experience if you see her.

Thanks and be safe![/QUOTE]I chatted with Platinum princess about a year ago. Was willing to drive to Cville. Had a flexible work sked and could get a sitter. But wanted $500 for the time and fucking. Hair to bleached for my tastes. Struck me as semi pro. Claims she had LT arrangement before at $1500 a month.