KK's quality massage and customer service are the main reasons to see her
[QUOTE=Hurtu;5123772]The board search requires 3 characters and unfortunately KK won't come up. Love her look if real pic. Was wondering if anyone would respond or pm what extras are available. Her add clearly states no FS but wanted to confirm.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]As a first time client, for the 120 hr fee you'll get a great massage and clothed HE, if you're respectful and make her feel comfortable. You'd be wise not to set your expectations beyond that. For repeat visits, everything depends on the YMMV factor between the individual massage provider and client. There's simply no way to predict that in advance.
One thing about KK is that her massage is good enough that she'd have plenty of regulars on that basis alone. Also, she's a small BBW, body-wise, so you should be aware before scheduling.
Dumfries is a hike for sure
[QUOTE=GilBang;5126693]I did a quick Google search for 'Oasis Spa Jefferson Davis Hwy' and one came up in Dumfries. A bit far from me, but this may help you.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your post. Wish Dumfries was closer but oh well.
Luna Massage on Lee highway
Several places on Lee Highway near Merrifield.
Noticed a relatively new one. Luna Massage. Visited to get info. No time today. But wondered if legit or much better than legit. Am I naive to think legit or is there fun to be had? Sweet nice short busy Chinese gal being desk seemed nice. Is it worth it? Just don't have the time to spare to waste it.
- Here or PM OK.
Thanks,
HG2.
Monger, know thyself (and thy negotiating style)!
[QUOTE=TomMcAn;5131002]Jack, thanks for posting about your experience. You learned a valuable lesson about bringing too much money with you and overtipping. Normally I only bring the session fee with me unless there is a chance for extras, and then I limit my additional cash to what I consider a reasonable tip. If she's unwilling to work with me, then I can rule out future visits with her.
One request: could you please post a link to the provider in question so that we can all know who to avoid? Thanks![/QUOTE]I personally have no problem bringing extra cash into a session but only because over the years I've gotten pretty good when it comes to listening to the big head. Everyone has to figure out what works best for them but it all revolves around the "moment of truth" that happens in many negotiation situations.
If everything's been agreed beforehand, or if you're a regular and there's a pre-existing understanding, or if you make an offer and it's quickly accepted, then there's really not much negotiating going on. But the "moment of truth" happens when a provider believes she has the power and leverage, because of the client's horniness, that allows her to do a hard-sell upcharge. The only possible response a monger has is the power and leverage found in his wallet. What will decide that power struggle is whether he wants the extras more than she wants the money.
With AMPs and FBSM providers, if I get the hard upcharge treatment, my default is to say I'm fine with whatever is covered by the fee already paid. For an AMP, I've only paid the house fee that should cover at least a massage. If the masseuse continues and gives a decent massage that lasts the full hour, I'll leave a $20 tip. If she gives a crap massage, I'll leave no tip. If she wants to end the session early, I'll ask MMS for a refund and explain why. Over the decades I can count on one hand when this hasn't worked. When that last scenario happens, I post on the appropriate boards to warn others. On those occasions when the masseuse agrees to my offered price, it's a judgment call as to whether her attitude is positive enough to perform adequately.
For independent FBSM providers it's pretty much the same except for the MMS part. Since I've already probably paid 120, it's reasonable to expect a massage + HJ. The provider then has to decide how badly she wants the extra $. If she's popular enough, or has GPS, she won't agree because she figures she'll get it from another monger or she'll refuse because she thinks she's worth the extra $. Not a problem for me because that lets me know I'll never see her again and I also know the "buyer's remorse" I'd have from overpaying would far outweigh any possible temporary blue-ball situation. It also helps a lot when you have regular providers you know won't play such games. Having a Plan B definitely helps strengthen your resolve.
We all crave variety which is why we often take a chance with new and unreviewed providers. When those encounters don't go according to plan, we mongers need to remember and play to our strengths.