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[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6006494]From her profile:
"Please note that I expect an allowance and that by most people who have approached me on this site: it's too much. But I had an arrangement before that was 3 times what I want now. I ended it willingly. "
WTF would anyone pursue that level of GPS.[/QUOTE]Thanks for pointing that out, on the app the profile section is showing empty.
[QUOTE=KnowBody;6007060]You've probably got the right idea not taking them to your crib right off the bat. And your potential lover might not want to go smash at a flea bag motel. Try.
[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/[/URL]
-you can book a hotel for about 8 hrs & usually the rate is 50% to 25% less than the standard, overnight rate. Most of the hotels are good or great, no sketchy places & the hotels are in various areas, north, Southpark, Airport, Executive Park. And yes, you can use the bed, pool, gym, etc. While you're there.[/QUOTE]I second this. You can get decent rooms for next to nothing. You have a room for 8 hours for half the price. The only caveat is, it doesn't work that well on the weekends and as the name implies, it's only valid during the day. It was probably started during Covid for people that couldn't go to the office and couldn't work at home either. It's a good alternative for those that need outcall.
[QUOTE=TheMechanik365;6008564]I second this. You can get decent rooms for next to nothing. You have a room for 8 hours for half the price. The only caveat is, it doesn't work that well on the weekends and as the name implies, it's only valid during the day. It was probably started during Covid for people that couldn't go to the office and couldn't work at home either. It's a good alternative for those that need outcall.[/QUOTE]Yes this is great. I have used it severalI have used it several times. Before this I would contact the hotels and ask for day or hourly rates. About one out of five would have them.
Has anyone else met this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f4fc257-8898-4f41-9457-b9b46bb0d9e4[/URL]
DTF, will drive in from Columbia. A little thicker than the pics on SA, but that should be a given with the age she says she is. No problem sending a naked verification pic which I always ask for.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d3a537ab-b5ba-47d1-9d2c-2546070a1dc2[/URL]
[QUOTE=CltGuy1231;6010778]Has anyone else met this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f4fc257-8898-4f41-9457-b9b46bb0d9e4[/URL][/QUOTE]I have tried with no response. Did you meet her?
Ok so I'm sick and tired of the shit I have to deal with at home. Been doing the Councilling thing and I still come home and get screamed at for no reason. I'm only staying around now for my daughter. I'm tired it paying for side play so I'm looking at trying to hook up with a girl I know. She's around my age, divorced, her kids are grown, and she lives where I work, so I could hit it before, during, and after work as needed. She's drop dead gorgeous and I've been fantasizing about her for a while. I feel I could trust her to keep it quiet. If she would agree it would be perfect. I know she's been dating around so she's looking to fuck. I just don't know how she would take being approached from me being married when her husband was supposedly cheating on her. There was some drama there, but then again she hit me up on text a while back and was totally cool when I asked her to only do it during the day as my wife would flip if she saw it. Any suggestions?
[QUOTE=CltGuy1231;6010778]Has anyone else met this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f4fc257-8898-4f41-9457-b9b46bb0d9e4[/URL][/QUOTE]Well she is or was a dancer somewhere some monger I'm sure will recognize.
Or general reports but while you're here.
1. Prepare for the worst at home. Set up your own bank accounts, see a divorce attorney (for the record), sleep on the couch, separate if you can (assuming its irreconcilable of course), but at the very least have a place to stay if you get kicked out. Because, if wife finds out, it's scorched earth and you better have your shit together before, not after.
2. Get a burner. You already have digital footprints that will come out in the divorce. No since and giving any more evidence you're still whoring around. You should have one anyway if you're married and mongering but if this is eminent, you need to get off the wife's traceable grid.
3. If you have to shit where you sleep (home), that's one thing. But If you are going to shit where you sleep and eat (home and work), you are setting yourself up for some pain in the event you get caught. Potential loss of home and job. If you have a white collar job, better review employee handbook. Some emplorers frown on work place adultary or even dating depending on your respective positions.
4. And if all that is worth the risk, sounds like you're already there. If the coworker is texting you, sounds like she needs a shoulder to cry on. Do lunch a few times and confide in her about your shitty home life. Ask advise about how she dealt with her break up. If she thinks or knows you're vulnerable, she likely won't care as much about your cheating ways like she looks as her ex.
5. There is a high probability this will not work out well. I don't want to put a damper on your situation but. I can tell by the way you're talking, you are thinking with the little head a bit too much. I would really consider putting the coworker on standby until you can legally fuck her. Nearly every one I know that has gotten busted or been ass raped in their divorce sounds a lot like this story.
I know loveless and sexless marriages seem impossible to get out of but sometimes even the children fair better when both parents are happier apart. That's it, no more Dr Phil today I'm out.
[QUOTE=Hunter6900;6011915]Ok so I'm sick and tired of the shit I have to deal with at home. Been doing the Councilling thing and I still come home and get screamed at for no reason. I'm only staying around now for my daughter. I'm tired it paying for side play so I'm looking at trying to hook up with a girl I know. She's around my age, divorced, her kids are grown, and she lives where I work, so I could hit it before, during, and after work as needed. She's drop dead gorgeous and I've been fantasizing about her for a while. I feel I could trust her to keep it quiet. If she would agree it would be perfect. I know she's been dating around so she's looking to fuck. I just don't know how she would take being approached from me being married when her husband was supposedly cheating on her. There was some drama there, but then again she hit me up on text a while back and was totally cool when I asked her to only do it during the day as my wife would flip if she saw it. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Hunter6900;6011915]Ok so I'm sick and tired of the shit I have to deal with at home. Been doing the Councilling thing and I still come home and get screamed at for no reason. I'm only staying around now for my daughter. I'm tired it paying for side play so I'm looking at trying to hook up with a girl I know. She's around my age, divorced, her kids are grown, and she lives where I work, so I could hit it before, during, and after work as needed. She's drop dead gorgeous and I've been fantasizing about her for a while. I feel I could trust her to keep it quiet. If she would agree it would be perfect. I know she's been dating around so she's looking to fuck. I just don't know how she would take being approached from me being married when her husband was supposedly cheating on her. There was some drama there, but then again she hit me up on text a while back and was totally cool when I asked her to only do it during the day as my wife would flip if she saw it. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]This has every chance of blowing up in your face.
https://members.seeking.com/member/d9d8db8e-9961-4cfc-9cc5-e96836a7cad7
Jade, started chatting off line. She seems legit but I was skeptical. Said she ask for $6 but I could tell that was very negotiable. I ask if she could host but she said that was tough but maybe future visits. I told her I couldn't host either. She was anxious to set up a meet so I assumed it was a scam. She then says "just drive to Charlotte and I'll fuck you in my car". I thought WTF, so I said send me a better pic and I'll see what I can do (attached). Knowing I wouldn't be meeting her, I politely told her it would be next week. So she's DTF but not me and definitely not at that price.
[QUOTE=GutterMind4;6012136]https://members.seeking.com/member/d9d8db8e-9961-4cfc-9cc5-e96836a7cad7
Jade, started chatting off line. She seems legit but I was skeptical. Said she ask for $6 but I could tell that was very negotiable. I ask if she could host but she said that was tough but maybe future visits. I told her I couldn't host either. She was anxious to set up a meet so I assumed it was a scam. She then says "just drive to Charlotte and I'll fuck you in my car". I thought WTF, so I said send me a better pic and I'll see what I can do (attached). Knowing I wouldn't be meeting her, I politely told her it would be next week. So she's DTF but not me and definitely not at that price.[/QUOTE]Don't seem like the same 2 people next time ask for pix holding up some fingers or pointing or something most fakes run from that.
[QUOTE=Hunter6900;6011915]Ok so I'm sick and tired of the shit I have to deal with at home. Been doing the Councilling thing and I still come home and get screamed at for no reason. I'm only staying around now for my daughter. I'm tired it paying for side play so I'm looking at trying to hook up with a girl I know. She's around my age, divorced, her kids are grown, and she lives where I work, so I could hit it before, during, and after work as needed. She's drop dead gorgeous and I've been fantasizing about her for a while. I feel I could trust her to keep it quiet. If she would agree it would be perfect. I know she's been dating around so she's looking to fuck. I just don't know how she would take being approached from me being married when her husband was supposedly cheating on her. There was some drama there, but then again she hit me up on text a while back and was totally cool when I asked her to only do it during the day as my wife would flip if she saw it. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]I would just ask her to lunch. Wait for her to hit on you. After a couple of lunches, take to dinner. Never mention your wife. She already knows. And you're off to nog heaven. Enjoy her.
[QUOTE=Hunter6900;6011915]Ok so I'm sick and tired of the shit I have to deal with at home. Been doing the Councilling thing and I still come home and get screamed at for no reason. I'm only staying around now for my daughter. I'm tired it paying for side play so I'm looking at trying to hook up with a girl I know. She's around my age, divorced, her kids are grown, and she lives where I work, so I could hit it before, during, and after work as needed. She's drop dead gorgeous and I've been fantasizing about her for a while. I feel I could trust her to keep it quiet. If she would agree it would be perfect. I know she's been dating around so she's looking to fuck. I just don't know how she would take being approached from me being married when her husband was supposedly cheating on her. There was some drama there, but then again she hit me up on text a while back and was totally cool when I asked her to only do it during the day as my wife would flip if she saw it. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]With her. Tell her your situation and tell her what your intentions are with her. The worst she could say is no. As I said in another post, the one thing worse than a no, is not knowing.
Life is way too short.
[QUOTE=GutterMind4;6012077]Or general reports but while you're here.
1. Prepare for the worst at home. Set up your own bank accounts, see a divorce attorney (for the record), sleep on the couch, separate if you can (assuming its irreconcilable of course), but at the very least have a place to stay if you get kicked out. Because, if wife finds out, it's scorched earth and you better have your shit together before, not after.
2. Get a burner. You already have digital footprints that will come out in the divorce. No since and giving any more evidence you're still whoring around. You should have one anyway if you're married and mongering but if this is eminent, you need to get off the wife's traceable grid.
3. If you have to shit where you sleep (home), that's one thing. But If you are going to shit where you sleep and eat (home and work), you are setting yourself up for some pain in the event you get caught. Potential loss of home and job. If you have a white collar job, better review employee handbook. Some emplorers frown on work place adultary or even dating depending on your respective positions.
4. And if all that is worth the risk, sounds like you're already there. If the coworker is texting you, sounds like she needs a shoulder to cry on. Do lunch a few times and confide in her about your shitty home life. Ask advise about how she dealt with her break up. If she thinks or knows you're vulnerable, she likely won't care as much about your cheating ways like she looks as her ex.
5. There is a high probability this will not work out well. I don't want to put a damper on your situation but. I can tell by the way you're talking, you are thinking with the little head a bit too much. I would really consider putting the coworker on standby until you can legally fuck her. Nearly every one I know that has gotten busted or been ass raped in their divorce sounds a lot like this story.
I know loveless and sexless marriages seem impossible to get out of but sometimes even the children fair better when both parents are happier apart. That's it, no more Dr Phil today I'm out.[/QUOTE]Going to say the same thing about shitting where you eat until I reread the post. She doesn't work with him, she lives nearby where he works, so it makes it convenient to see her.
To add on to your excellent advice. If you really do want to leave, do it before you get caught cheating. If she catches you before she will come after you hard (hell have no fury like a woman scorned) and she will try to clean you out.
But, I didn't need any more evidence. The butt photo was enough to know I was not moving forward with her. Again, I expected fake so if she wants to show another TGTBT, maybe I remain suspicious. For me there was no reason to remain suspicious or interested. In her defense, the profile does say "curvy" for body type.
[QUOTE=Justin12;6012157]Don't seem like the same 2 people next time ask for pix holding up some fingers or pointing or something most fakes run from that.[/QUOTE]
So a number of you have asked what she was like. Didn't meet her. Was asking 4 plus hotel, not worth it, & after verification pics, didn't even try to negotiate. Also, she is on the site ALL the time, so maybe pro?
[QUOTE=ClarkW;6010925]DTF, will drive in from Columbia. A little thicker than the pics on SA, but that should be a given with the age she says she is. No problem sending a naked verification pic which I always ask for.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d3a537ab-b5ba-47d1-9d2c-2546070a1dc2[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ClarkW;6012945]So a number of you have asked what she was like. Didn't meet her. Was asking 4 plus hotel, not worth it, & after verification pics, didn't even try to negotiate. Also, she is on the site ALL the time, so maybe pro?[/QUOTE]She is pretty average looking in reality, she does own cleaning business in the area.
[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6012459]I would just ask her to lunch. Wait for her to hit on you. After a couple of lunches, take to dinner. Never mention your wife. She already knows. And you're off to nog heaven. Enjoy her.[/QUOTE]Find a good SB. Had 2 long term arrangements that were great. Tell them your wife knows but allows it as long as you do not invite them over for Sunday dinner. By them thinking your wife knows, they have nothing to hold over your head when the break away happens.
[QUOTE=ClarkW;6012945]So a number of you have asked what she was like. Didn't meet her. Was asking 4 plus hotel, not worth it, & after verification pics, didn't even try to negotiate. Also, she is on the site ALL the time, so maybe pro?[/QUOTE]All I did was view her profile and she messaged me 10 seconds later. I'm over 120 miles away from her and she wanted to meet without even much dialogue. What does that tell you?
A Sugar Baby that I recently met told me about a hook up site called Uber Horny. Has anyone tried it?
[URL]https://www.uberhorny.com/[/URL]
I just wanted to give an update on a few that I've been talking to.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/64da66e3-7c81-4483-9b40-c3f3786c1927[/URL]
Seems DTF. Can host at her home near NODA. Quoted 250.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e6389511-ef66-4f64-a93d-302ac95dd562[/URL]
Has been discussed before. Definitely DTF. Can host. Quoted 100. Couldn't pull the trigger because of the size even tho the price is cheap LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/575d6f8b-722d-44de-ac49-bbd793069041[/URL]
Can't host. 350 per meet. Says she doesn't watch the clock.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a9b2e05f-fe7a-4707-a1ad-54f14ae13a8f[/URL]
Met for drinks. Only wants 600 per month. Small bbw but nice tits.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4b161a97-6ec5-40e5-874f-1292398e6a01[/URL]
Can't host. Wants 400 per meet.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eaa07df8-b96b-49d7-8f1f-14df1101e589[/URL]
Texted some. Can't host. Quoted 200-250 per meet. Seems to be open to anything. Found her profile on fetlife as well.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db512423-409c-40da-8d23-789c4623a517[/URL]
Think she quoted 200-250 per meet. Was bigger than I like.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e8ba195-95a1-49a9-82ec-1c91fcef8771[/URL]
Talking to this one. Hope to meet soon.
[QUOTE=BrianPeter;6014884]A Sugar Baby that I recently met told me about a hook up site called Uber Horny. Has anyone tried it?
[URL]https://www.uberhorny.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]Wants paid membership. I have not been able to access the site without paying.
[QUOTE=Konabiker083;6015968]I just wanted to give an update on a few that I've been talking to.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/64da66e3-7c81-4483-9b40-c3f3786c1927[/URL]
Seems DTF. Can host at her home near NODA. Quoted 250.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e6389511-ef66-4f64-a93d-302ac95dd562[/URL]
Has been discussed before. Definitely DTF. Can host. Quoted 100. Couldn't pull the trigger because of the size even tho the price is cheap LOL.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/575d6f8b-722d-44de-ac49-bbd793069041[/URL]
Can't host. 350 per meet. Says she doesn't watch the clock.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a9b2e05f-fe7a-4707-a1ad-54f14ae13a8f[/URL]
Met for drinks. Only wants 600 per month. Small bbw but nice tits.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4b161a97-6ec5-40e5-874f-1292398e6a01[/URL]
Can't host. Wants 400 per meet.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eaa07df8-b96b-49d7-8f1f-14df1101e589[/URL]
Texted some. Can't host. Quoted 200-250 per meet. Seems to be open to anything. Found her profile on fetlife as well.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db512423-409c-40da-8d23-789c4623a517[/URL]
Think she quoted 200-250 per meet. Was bigger than I like.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e8ba195-95a1-49a9-82ec-1c91fcef8771[/URL]
Talking to this one. Hope to meet soon.[/QUOTE]Good info, dm because we may be able to exchange some info, I also have few I could share with you since you did it here.
Trying to get info on her pM if you need additional info. Wants to meet in restaurant.
Here is another.
She seems a keeper.
Very business like, no willing to talk?
I am getting better attaching photos! These 2 are extremely pushy?
Yeah, can't wait for the text later on saying her car broke down, or some other lame ass excuse to send her money. Blocked!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c8a8540f-0d79-4688-8ef9-4ada095fdb0e[/URL]
[QUOTE=BrianPeter;6014884]A Sugar Baby that I recently met told me about a hook up site called Uber Horny. Has anyone tried it?
[URL]https://www.uberhorny.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]I gave it a good run and I'd say its #3 behind Adult Friend finder and Secret benefits. I like secret benefits because once you buy your credits you can use them at your pace. Get a few girls on the hook and you can see how those play out before you start spending more credits.
[QUOTE=TheMechanik365;6008564]I second this. You can get decent rooms for next to nothing. You have a room for 8 hours for half the price. The only caveat is, it doesn't work that well on the weekends and as the name implies, it's only valid during the day. It was probably started during Covid for people that couldn't go to the office and couldn't work at home either. It's a good alternative for those that need outcall.[/QUOTE]Yup excellent option, never had a problem booking a day use.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c1566ec-9784-409e-b5d2-a2adfd29994f[/URL]
She looks familiar.
I have a date lined up. Wondering if anyone else has?
[QUOTE=MidnightSteel;6025815]I gave it a good run and I'd say its #3 behind Adult Friend finder and Secret benefits. I like secret benefits because once you buy your credits you can use them at your pace. Get a few girls on the hook and you can see how those play out before you start spending more credits.[/QUOTE]I tried secret benefit and spent nearly $500 on credits for 2 bangs. The site charges you credits to message someone, see their pics, reply to their messages it sucks. Most of these girls are not DTF. They just want to talk to you and you to send money or some want to be taken to restaurants and clubs but I'd say for every hundred messages you send you might get a reply from 15-20 percent. Of that 5-10 percent DTF, some live in cities outside of Clt, don't drive a car, have opposite schedules or just flake out and ghost. Their needs to be a SDSB site just for those DTF that's mutually beneficial.
[QUOTE=BrianPeter;6014884]A Sugar Baby that I recently met told me about a hook up site called Uber Horny. Has anyone tried it?
[URL]https://www.uberhorny.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]Can't even view a profile without paying. Sure I could to 95 cents for a 2 day trial but if I forget to cancel (assuming they make cancelling easy) I'll get hit for $50/ month after that.
Nope, moving on.
Read previous posts that she is very asexual, but friendly. Does she have a good body on her, Saggy boobs is a turn off for me. Can someone who saw her either DM me or post here?
Thanks in advance.
[QUOTE=LVFun;6027760]Can't even view a profile without paying. Sure I could to 95 cents for a 2 day trial but if I forget to cancel (assuming they make cancelling easy) I'll get hit for $50/ month after that.
Nope, moving on.[/QUOTE]I did the 2 day thing. You still can't do much till you upgrade for $50. Anyway, I could see the women on their. Nothing young and hot. Mostly fat and old women some modestly attractive 50 yr old AA women. I did see a couple escorts on there. Nothing attractive on any level. Save your money.
[QUOTE=Emjay;6027937]Read previous posts that she is very asexual, but friendly. Does she have a good body on her, Saggy boobs is a turn off for me. Can someone who saw her either DM me or post here?
Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]I may know her but I'm not a member anymore. Can you screen shot?
[QUOTE=RyanBB;6028231]I may know her but I'm not a member anymore. Can you screen shot?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/60ef4...e-d6cfdda33c01[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/60ef414b-545f-47fd-a0de-d6cfdda33c01[/URL]
Pics attached.
[QUOTE=Emjay;6028453][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/60ef4...e-d6cfdda33c01[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/60ef414b-545f-47fd-a0de-d6cfdda33c01[/URL]
Pics attached.[/QUOTE]Pics attached.