Melanie's still out there
Ran into one of Supereloquent's ladies, Melanie, the 4'11" pixie last week down by Cambria. Everything he reported is still true as she is easy to deal with and none of the hardness that comes with this biz. I suspect she will be around for a while as she is having no luck finding a regular job I am sorry to say.
One odd thing happened as I dropped her off at her spot. Her manager/boyfriend came out of nowhere swinging a 2 by 4 and yelling at me that he was going to kill me. Not actually feeling threatened since I could (and did) drive away, I was expecting hm to whack my car but since he didn't it was obvious he was just putting on a show. Have no idea what that was all about. Will stop and ask Mel when I see her again.
Re: Melanie's still out there
[QUOTE=Texaco Tim]Ran into one of Supereloquent's ladies, Melanie, the 4'11" pixie last week down by Cambria. Everything he reported is still true as she is easy to deal with and none of the hardness that comes with this biz. I suspect she will be around for a while as she is having no luck finding a regular job I am sorry to say.
One odd thing happened as I dropped her off at her spot. Her manager/boyfriend came out of nowhere swinging a 2 by 4 and yelling at me that he was going to kill me. Not actually feeling threatened since I could (and did) drive away, I was expecting hm to whack my car but since he didn't it was obvious he was just putting on a show. Have no idea what that was all about. Will stop and ask Mel when I see her again.[/QUOTE]Good report, Tim. Melanie sounds like my kind of girl, and I'll be on the lookout for her in the area you described.
I guess many people here have stories about threats from angry boyfriends. Mine was potentially more dangerous: the guy was in a car! And he did indeed pull alongside and shouted that I was with his sister and to pull over immediately. Fortunately his "sister" had her wits about her and said just to keep driving and head to the local police station, which she apparently had visited before. We did just that, with him tailgating us, and pulled into the 26th district parking lot near the entrance door. He was still behind us, and I was ready to blast my horn if he got out. But recognizing where we were, he turned around and drove away. Whew!
Another story: a real boyfriend was able to get his arm into the driver side window, grab my arm, and demand my wallet. Fortunately he was a dufus and didn't realize I had most of my cash tucked under a flap and $55 (my hobby money) above the flap. He took the $55 and after pleas from his girlfriend gave the wallet back. The microsecond that she got out of the car I gunned it down the avenue and eventually reached over and closed the door. Double whew!
So the moral of my stories is:
• know where the local police station is. (If you've been to the Patio you know Whitaker Ave...the 24th district is at 3901 Whitaker)
• keep your window rolled up
• know where your spending money is and keep any other cash/cards in a separate place
Well, this is the streetwalker reports thread and I've overstayed my visit, so I'd better go find Melanie so I can report on her...
My Thoughts on Protection and How I Deal With Bad Situations
Just something to think about, 1st I have never had a real bad situation and I always warn the girls if you rip me off YOU will not make it out of the door. You guys spend a fair amount of $$ on the hobby so why not protect yourself? I ordered a Cheetah 650, 000 Volt Retractable/Rechargeable Stun Baton
Here is a link and info to what I carry for protection:
[url]http://www.kingofswords.com/Self-Defense/Stun-Guns/Cheetah-650000-Volt-RetractableRechargeable-Stun-Baton.html[/url]
I modified it to deactivate the load alarm it has. This is a nice unit and it works with out having to extend it and when extended it sends electrical voltage sparks up and down the tube a real nice feature that will make anyone thing! Plus let them try to grab it It will also go thru 1/2" material clothing. But one note if you play with it to much you will wear down the 4 batterys. I normally carry a gun but with the laws today its not worth it, Plus if your not experienced in weapons and self control stay away. This Baton maybe? Or Maybe not? Legal in your state or states? Even if it were not whats the worst that can happen? I am sure if you had to go to court over having one you could always use the excuse you were tired of being robbed and its safer then a gun! Plus a good lawyer can make a good case. I keep mine next to me hiden and on and ready anytime I am in a bad area or when someone gets into my vehicle or approaches. Should someone try to rob me or run with my money she would not get out the door. The more you hold it on the more mobilizing it is as stated in the manual. Its just an idea as most of you guys live in big cities and you should have the right to protect your self. But you need to keep it ready and hiden but quickly accessable. Above the visor or down on the side of your car seat would make it quickly accessable. So many might aggree and some might not. But with things the way they are today I would never walk down a street in a big city without. One other note some states that do allow them say it must be holstered and some even allow concelled, This one comes with a holster or it can be carried in the back of your pants under your shirt. So you can help keep your ass safe or just be another victim. Excuse the spelling. Always be ready for the worst I say.
Letting our guard down and mistakes...I've made
I think we all have stories like this. I know when I started mongering and wasn't aware of this site or the rules, I made a few mistakes....here are a couple.
1) Left my wallet in the middle glove box in my car. After the SW and I finished, I started cleaning up, turned my head...she found the wallet and took my cash (3.0). OUCH! I still had no idea what happened and while I was driving to drop her off, she warned me, " You really need to be careful".
2) Left too much money on me. I went to a SWs house and she preceeded to complete a BBBJ. My pants were around my ankles and I was sitting on the couch. She was on the floor. She was shifting a lot, but I just figured she was getting comfortable....as it turned out, she was going through my pants pockets, while doing the BBBJ. By the time I found out, she pulled out an additional .6
3) With another SW, paid her, started the BBBJ...then she said that we could get more comfortable at her place...she left to check the house and make sure that everything was ok with her roommates...never saw her again...incomplete service.
4) Left change in the ash trey of my car...many Sws will check and ask if they can keep the change. (sometimes there was an extra .05). Much easier to just remove the tempation.
Of course, I've learned from all this, but maybe someone else will learn from my early "stupidity", ignorance, and bad experience.
Good Luck and Keep Safe
Lanky is right about Friday
Saw several guys pulled over and got pulled over myself and asked why I had driven up the street and back down again. My bad for not picking up the lack of girls and the LE presence and leaving immediately. Question for the board. If they don't ticket you, are the legally allowed to retain any information that they pulled you over for no reason? Was a little surprised as he admitted he had no probably cause other than driving up and down the street.