Ditto 2nd time.
[QUOTE=Bigb7272;1108790]ALWAYS leave the phone and wallet in your vehicle.[/QUOTE]
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Ditto 2nd time.
[QUOTE=Bigb7272;1108790]ALWAYS leave the phone and wallet in your vehicle.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RoadWarrior615; 1108728.]
IF I ever got married you can believe I will not be doing this. And if wifey aint working out I'm getting a divorce. [/QUOTE]Everyone is entitled to ther own opinions, but I think you came a little hard RoadWarrior. Especially not knowing their respective situations. Some men will participate in this hobby because they hate their wives and this becomes a way of payback for them. Others will do it because of the thrill of possibly getting caught. For some the love has gone and this is a coping mechanism. Still others love their wives, but for some reason or another, can no longer have physical intimacy, so turn to the hobby for that one thing.
RoadWarrior I respect your status as a Senior Member and all, but come on dude.
Merry Christmas. Do not judge, lest ye be judged.
Stay safe out there.
I figured my story would get some interesting replies. I agree with you guys who always leave the phone in the car. Definitely the smart thing to do. My phone is even password protected, but if someone is calling that protection goes away and it's easy to answer. Needless to say I learned a hard lesson with my new phone.
Unfortunately she heard my voice clearly, so saying the phone was lost was not really an option. But would have been a great idea otherwise.
As for WT's questions, I'm not surprised someone here had that response. I'll avoid stirring up an argument and just say that we all have our demons and we all have reasons for being here.
Maybe I'm off base, but I would assume at least half of us here are married. Just throwing a guess out there. Anyone disagree?
Maybe I'm off base, but I would assume at least half of us here are married. Just throwing a guess out there. Anyone disagree? [/QUOTE]We all have our reasons for being here. I'd guess the many / majority of us are married etc. My wife went into menopause very young. Not interested in sex anymore and the act is painful. She would just to try and please me but ends up crying every time (which would make me feel bad and make an a*s too for hurting her).
She said it was OK to get it elsewhere. Many males have told me to divorce her. BULL if I've ever heard it. Not her fault she can't.
So there is my motivation. What the rest of yours is. None of my damn business.
So going all high-horse judgemental about anybody else motivations is way way way off base IMO.
Should keep it to himself. He can play life by whatever rules he wants to put on himself. Don't try and assume any of us motives are all evil and wrong. Also, don't try and put your rules on me or anybody else. (and keep the criticism to yourself too).
Maybe he should join LE vice or become a fundamentalist preacher or something. LOL.
[QUOTE=Kevin Jones11; 1109798]I figured my story would get some interesting replies. I agree with you guys who always leave the phone in the car. Definitely the smart thing to do. My phone is even password protected, but if someone is calling that protection goes away and it's easy to answer. Needless to say I learned a hard lesson with my new phone.
Unfortunately she heard my voice clearly, so saying the phone was lost was not really an option. But would have been a great idea otherwise.
Maybe I'm off base, but I would assume at least half of us here are married. Just throwing a guess out there. Anyone disagree? [/QUOTE]More like 75-80 percent. There are only a few reasons to get into the hobby.
1. Can't get / Don't want a GF or Wife.
2. Need something on the side because you are tired of wife, she is a cold fish, or you need to exercise some fetish that the Wife / GF would freak over.
That is mostly what it boils down to. We can dress it up but it all about getting some "strange".
AzCat
I'm currently single (never been married) without a girlfriend. But I have never been with another women on an intimate level while I had a girlfriend. I believe in commitment and honour.
Now, if some of your guys are allowed to be with other women by your significant other, then so be it. But sneaking around is neither keeping to a commitment nor an honourable thing.
My sense of commitment is so strong that I've even paid providers if I've had to cancel a scheduled meeting. I've paid anywhere from fifty to one hundred percent, depending on the level of notice given. I see it as a contract between two parties. In truth, I see most things as contracts between parties, even marriage.
One more point, I don't mind being judged.
I come here to be with like minded people and forgo the judgements of the world about this hobby. We all have our demons and reasons, honorable or not. Without the complete backstory no one can understands another's reasoning. Even with it, do they have the right to pass judgement? This is my choice and for my reasons. Divorce is not always the answer to complex problems.
[QUOTE=Bcshocker; 1110086]I'm currently single (never been married) without a girlfriend. But I have never been with another women on an intimate level while I had a girlfriend. I believe in commitment and honour.
Now, if some of your guys are allowed to be with other women by your significant other, then so be it. But sneaking around is neither keeping to a commitment nor an honourable thing.
My sense of commitment is so strong that I've even paid providers if I've had to cancel a scheduled meeting. I've paid anywhere from fifty to one hundred percent, depending on the level of notice given. I see it as a contract between two parties. In truth, I see most things as contracts between parties, even marriage.
One more point, I don't mind being judged. [/QUOTE]BC,
I understand where you are coming from, but the providers are not so honorable. They have no problem standing you up and then not compensating you for your time / trouble.
[Rant] Many married guys love their wives and children and would not want to disturb that relationship. Still the "call of the wild" is difficult to ignore. This is especially true for guys who are older and now have good jobs and are flush with cash. You would be considered a catch to someone younger and prettier than your wife. You feel like you are entitled to what you can get because you worked hard to make it to where you are in life. You probably gave up a lot of time partying and sowing your wild oats when you were younger. Now is the time to collect on your investment. You can either leave your wife and kids, which means you will both be poorer and unhappy or you can pay for an hour of time in a fantasy where hot, younger women want you. No destroying everyone involved in your real life and you get that feeling of being powerful, potent alpha male. Yes, you are reneging on a commitment, but you are also trying to spare the people you love from the pain of a divorce. [/Rant]
AzCat
[QUOTE=Bcshocker; 1110086]I'm currently single (never been married) without a girlfriend. But I have never been with another women on an intimate level while I had a girlfriend. I believe in commitment and honour.
Now, if some of your guys are allowed to be with other women by your significant other, then so be it. But sneaking around is neither keeping to a commitment nor an honourable thing.
My sense of commitment is so strong that I've even paid providers if I've had to cancel a scheduled meeting. I've paid anywhere from fifty to one hundred percent, depending on the level of notice given. I see it as a contract between two parties. In truth, I see most things as contracts between parties, even marriage.
One more point, I don't mind being judged. [/QUOTE]The only question I have is, Why are you here? If you were so honorable what are you doing on this site in the first place. Besides that who are you to judge what people do. Everyone has their own reasons for seeing a provider. That doesn't make them a bad person. If you had such a great "sense of commitment" you wouldn't be on this forum in the first place. Just my 2 cents. This is my first post on here in a long time, didn't want to start with a rant, but, there it is. Happy New Year to everyone. Let's hope 2011 is a good one.
Ben
Wow I didn't imagine any of this when I decided to share my harrowing story. Just a couple more quick comments:
I also don't mind being judged. Still, it always surprises me to see judgmental people on here. Go figure! Ha!
I have paid women for having to cancel at the last minute. Usually not full price, but maybe half. Or if I am late to the appointment I try to make it up to them with an extra tip.
I'll keep my reasons for being here to myself.
Now, let's get back to the hobby!
Hey guys. My name is Izzy. I am a provider ut of Orlando, and home visiting for the holidays. I am thinking of coming up there this week and saying Hi to anyone who wants to hang out.
Here is one of my Orlando ads if you want to check me out.
I hope to see you soon.
Izzy
[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sweet-and-petite-lil-southern-belle-25/4076714[/url]
[QUOTE=Little Izzy; 1111354]Hey guys. My name is Izzy. I am a provider ut of Orlando, and home visiting for the holidays. I am thinking of coming up there this week and saying Hi to anyone who wants to hang out.
Here is one of my Orlando ads if you want to check me out.
I hope to see you soon.
Izzy.
[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sweet-and-petite-lil-southern-belle-25/4076714[/url]
[/QUOTE]Come on up, I'd love to meet ya!
Me too! Let us when.
[QUOTE=Notdylan;1111527]Come on up, I'd love to meet ya![/QUOTE]
I should be up there.
Can't wait to meet some new friends.
MUAHS.
Izzy
[QUOTE=Azcat; 1109978]More like 75-80 percent. There are only a few reasons to get into the hobby.
1. Can't get / Don't want a GF or Wife.
2. Need something on the side because you are tired of wife, she is a cold fish, or you need to exercise some fetish that the Wife / GF would freak over.
That is mostly what it boils down to. We can dress it up but it all about getting some "strange".
AzCat[/QUOTE]Exactly my point. Get a divorce if she is cold fish or if your tired of her etc. Its no excuse for it