Massage Parlor Reports

She's hot, probably in her 30's from Spain, petite with bolt-ons, but forbids the touching of her nipples. Kept her panties on. Decent rub down with lotion, but just decent.

On the flip, no tease at all, just straight to the HJ with dirty talk.

YMMV, but I wouldn't repeat if it were free. Much better deals out there for $$, many in the same building, and while wasting $$ is annoying, it's the waste of a good excuse to be out of the house for 2 hours (30 minutes each way, and an hour on-site) that is worse than the money.

It was her 3rd day, so maybe she'll get more into the swing of things as time passes, but I wouldn't bank on it.

[QUOTE=Lucretius;5124841]In my experience Jane of Bus-Spa showed the most technical expertise in how to use accupressure and other techniques to edge a (or at lest _this_) guy. I last saw her in June. Unfortunately although she has the expertise, she I'd nit into doing the deed. I think I saw a later post indicating that she may have backed off of doing extras. A pity.[/QUOTE]Wait, I thought the services provided by Jane (for $) come with the relief by default. Isn't it?

[QUOTE=NovaBuscander;5124314]To the OP who wanted to date a massage girl, it's best to keep your emotional distance from these women and just stick to having a p4 p business relationship. Just enjoy the moment and don't buy their acting job. After all, with the good ones it's really a fantasy they are selling, not just the sex act.

Find women to date who work outside that industry, in so called "vanilla jobs". Unless you pull one out of the biz early enough they are forever going to be jaded. And who wants that factor in their marriage or long term relationship.[/QUOTE]Having been involved in a couple of relationships with providers, I wholeheartedly agree. Those relationships were among the biggest mistakes I've ever made.

[QUOTE=Squatty2;5125138]She's hot, probably in her 30's from Spain, petite with bolt-ons, but forbids the touching of her nipples. Kept her panties on. Decent rub down with lotion, but just decent.

On the flip, no tease at all, just straight to the HJ with dirty talk.

YMMV, but I wouldn't repeat if it were free. Much better deals out there for $$, many in the same building, and while wasting $$ is annoying, it's the waste of a good excuse to be out of the house for 2 hours (30 minutes each way, and an hour on-site) that is worse than the money.

It was her 3rd day, so maybe she'll get more into the swing of things as time passes, but I wouldn't bank on it[/QUOTE]Can confirm. Had a good time overall, but the no touching stuff was kind of a deal breaker. Even for Eden that's lame. Tried asking for extras, but no such luck.

Literally the worst decision I've ever made in my life. Trust is impossible in that type of relationship. Save your heart for someone who doesn't rent out their vagina. They say they want to quit and that may be true. But when money's tight, it's too easy to fall back on that business. Mine kept a separate phone list of old customers for when she really needed money. Her definition of "really needing money" quickly loosened. It's too hard to go to a regular job when you're used to making big money quickly by laying on your back. It's a quick and simple way to make money, and obviously there is not shortage of customers. Save your heart, money and sanity for someone else. Pay for the crazy ones. Date / marry the normal ones.

[QUOTE=NovaBuscander;5124314]It makes common sense that a SWer would be burntout from sex all day long. Especially an AMP lady who has no control over how many dudes she sees once she shows up for work. But that would really suck for their man at home. Speaking of the guy at home, here's an interesting paragraph from the article.

"It is when this type of client starts to express that they wish that they could have a partner like me that red flags start to go up. My own partner doesn't have a partner like me, or rather, I don't relate to my partner in the way that I do with clients. My partner has a wife who isn't catering to him, whose desires sometimes conflict with his, and who hasn't made it her job to make sure that all of his fantasies are fulfilled."

I appreciate the writer's honesty. But ouch! Imagine having a wife who is a sex worker and is committed to pleasing her customers at work all day, but doesn't "cater to you" and does not "make it her job" to ensure all of your fantasies are fulfilled at home. Wow, that's brutal. In fact, it's a recipe for the guy to go find a SWer to meet his needs. It comes full circle.

Now add on the fact they are always so tired from having sex all day with eager mongers and their coochie is sore from getting railed by multiple dudes and having to service a couple of really big cocks per day. Constant honeymoonitis!

To the OP who wanted to date a massage girl, it's best to keep your emotional distance from these women and just stick to having a p4 p business relationship. Just enjoy the moment and don't buy their acting job. After all, with the good ones it's really a fantasy they are selling, not just the sex act.

Find women to date who work outside that industry, in so called "vanilla jobs". Unless you pull one out of the biz early enough they are forever going to be jaded. And who wants that factor in their marriage or long term relationship.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JohnnySalami;5125654]Literally the worst decision I've ever made in my life. Trust is impossible in that type of relationship. Save your heart for someone who doesn't rent out their vagina. They say they want to quit and that may be true. But when money's tight, it's too easy to fall back on that business. Mine kept a separate phone list of old customers for when she really needed money. Her definition of "really needing money" quickly loosened. It's too hard to go to a regular job when you're used to making big money quickly by laying on your back. It's a quick and simple way to make money, and obviously there is not shortage of customers. Save your heart, money and sanity for someone else. Pay for the crazy ones. Date / marry the normal ones.[/QUOTE]I did the same thing. Lies, lies and more lies. The money has it's hooks in them and they can't ever get away from it. It's really an addiction for them, just like this lifestyle is for us.

Took a quick trip to Oasis off of Jefferson Davis.

The door opens and mamasan takes me to the room. In walks Sugah / Sugar or however so pronounced it. She was pretty and a decent body. I paid for 1/2 hour to see if the talent was okay. I hate to admit it but I did have a few encounters with another mamasan there and got FS, BBBJ, CIM with her. She wasn't anything to brag about but she worked hard. So I decided to see if I could recreate the experience.

Sugar was very playful. She seemed disappointed that I am only there for a half but when I explain that I am feeling bad because all I had time for was a half and I really wish I could give her an hour to play, she realized why I was there. From the room to the TS back to the room she dragged me by manhood. She understood that I was there to play. TS was fun with all the right spots cleaned. Massage didn't happen. She went straight to CBJ, then FS with multiple positions.

$. 2 for the tip.

Enjoy.

When they are asking you questions, they are probing you for information. If you overtip or seem like your desperate, they will make it appear that they are interested in dating you. Once they get you emotionally hooked, the money requests will start. Men = $$. They don't need or want a boyfriend. They want only your money, credit, or help getting a green card. Stick to the providers with personal standards and work ethic.

[QUOTE=Addicus;5125689]I did the same thing. Lies, lies and more lies. The money has it's hooks in them and they can't ever get away from it. It's really an addiction for them, just like this lifestyle is for us.[/QUOTE]

Brothers let me first apologize. I violated one of the most important basic rules- I took too much money with me.

Scheduled a one hour massage with cha-cha at 120. I took a little extra money because I was thinking of treating myself to a doubles. She's a little older than the pictures but still a tiny little package. During the massage which was OK I negotiated to upgrade to nuru at an additional Benjamin. So now I'm at 2:20. She gave me such a phenomenal massage with a great prostate I completely lost my mind. With her tiny little moneymaker in my face and her tiny strong hands around Junior she started whispering do you want more. Course I wanted more but negotiating from this position was not my wisest decision. I ended up with a Benji and a grant for a really fantastic full-service explosion. So now I'm at 3. 7 for what I had at an ACS in Sterling that featured full rimming for 160 a week earlier.

So brothers I come to apologize and ask your forgiveness as I have inadvertently contributed to GPS. And try to impart my mistake so that you will not make the same.

Happy Holidays.

Jack.

[QUOTE=Loader401;5125951]Took a quick trip to Oasis off of Jefferson Davis.

The door opens and mamasan takes me to the room. In walks Sugah / Sugar or however so pronounced it. She was pretty and a decent body. I paid for 1/2 hour to see if the talent was okay. I hate to admit it but I did have a few encounters with another mamasan there and got FS, BBBJ, CIM with her. She wasn't anything to brag about but she worked hard. So I decided to see if I could recreate the experience.

Sugar was very playful. She seemed disappointed that I am only there for a half but when I explain that I am feeling bad because all I had time for was a half and I really wish I could give her an hour to play, she realized why I was there. From the room to the TS back to the room she dragged me by manhood. She understood that I was there to play. TS was fun with all the right spots cleaned. Massage didn't happen. She went straight to CBJ, then FS with multiple positions.

$. 2 for the tip.

Enjoy.[/QUOTE]She sounds wonderful. Where abouts off Jeff Davis is Oasis? A private message will be fine if you like.

[QUOTE=Addicus;5125689]I did the same thing. Lies, lies and more lies. The money has it's hooks in them and they can't ever get away from it. It's really an addiction for them, just like this lifestyle is for us.[/QUOTE]They will just use your friendship to exploit it for personal gain. I am not saying that they are all the same; however, you don't want to be a friend to the wrong one.

If you see one sign of trouble, it is just best to walk away.

They have plenty of money and sex. What they don't have is credit. Providers are all 1099 contract employees, that report a fraction of their cash income. This causes a problem when they want to sign a lease or a car loan. They need a co-signer. That is where the 'boyfriend' comes in handy. Don't do it. You credit history will be co-mingled forever and they will treat you like shit before the ink is dry.

[QUOTE=Idk85;5126218]They will just use your friendship to exploit it for personal gain. I am not saying that they are all the same; however, you don't want to be a friend to the wrong one.

If you see one sign of trouble, it is just best to walk away.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sswede;5126167]She sounds wonderful. Where abouts off Jeff Davis is Oasis? A private message will be fine if you like.[/QUOTE]I did a quick Google search for 'Oasis Spa Jefferson Davis Hwy' and one came up in Dumfries. A bit far from me, but this may help you.

100% correct. I didn't mean to come off like we mongers are perfect either, and my relationship with that girl wasn't all bad. But the bad significantly outweighed the good. None of these girls understand how to live within their means. Getting out of the business isn't an option because they generally don't possess any other skills that will net them a job that comes anywhere close to earning then the same money as they earned in this industry. Not only did I lose my mind, my heart, my time and my money, but I also lost the fucking. The fucking was the best part. Can't be here customer anymore. Should've just kept booking her instead of saying dating her. What a moron I was. Total loss. Don't be captain Save-a-hoe. Enjoy them for 30 minutes or an hour. Then bye-bye until next time, and turn your burner off!

[QUOTE=Addicus;5125689]I did the same thing. Lies, lies and more lies. The money has it's hooks in them and they can't ever get away from it. It's really an addiction for them, just like this lifestyle is for us.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SexyD;5126372]They have plenty of money and sex. What they don't have is credit. Providers are all 1099 contract employees, that report a fraction of their cash income. This causes a problem when they want to sign a lease or a car loan. They need a co-signer. That is where the 'boyfriend' comes in handy. Don't do it. You credit history will be co-mingled forever and they will treat you like shit before the ink is dry.[/QUOTE]My former friend always liked to borrow my money. Repayments were a ***** but she did repay me. However, I got sick of it because she was a pathological liar. So, I stopped helping her. Guess what she called me? Cheapo and "mocked" me because I paid for sex. LOL Also, she told the other ladies that I am a bad person and I was taking her money. I should of listened to the other ladies because they warned me about her drama.

Glad that I am leaving her in 2020!