"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;4471644]I looked at profile and was wondering where you see prior complaints. Am curious if I have anything there.[/QUOTE]Take a look at the developer's tools on your Seeking account. You can see the notes and flags Seeking employees have tagged to your account.

This poster in the Richmond forum explains how to view the data:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=3939986&viewfull=1[/URL]#post3939986.

I added a line to my profile and it was rejected as a violation of the TOS. The line said please don't send doctored pictures, there shouldn't be any big surprises at our first meeting. I didn't get banned and there was no warning, just a rejection of the new line. So I read through the TOS and for the life of me I can't figure out how I violated them. I guess SB's are entitled to bait and switch tactics!

[QUOTE=Truncated;4469756]For sure, don't violate the TOS again. His account is now flagged. Another offense will result in a permanent ban. Seeking seems to be getting better at linking new accounts to prior ones, so opening a new account might be difficult.

If you look at the development tools on your account page, it shows you your account status, prior complaints, etc.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hal1957;4472239]I added a line to my profile and it was rejected as a violation of the TOS. The line said please don't send doctored pictures, there shouldn't be any big surprises at our first meeting. I didn't get banned and there was no warning, just a rejection of the new line. So I read through the TOS and for the life of me I can't figure out how I violated them. I guess SB's are entitled to bait and switch tactics![/QUOTE]It never hurts to email customer service and ask what was the problem. Seeking usually responds quickly to emails.

Maybe kiss their butt a little and let them know how much you like the site, and want to make sure not to do anything wrong. They gave me a free month once when I had an issue.

I can't find the address right now, but it is a few pages back on this forum.

[QUOTE=Truncated;4472130]Take a look at the developer's tools on your Seeking account. You can see the notes and flags Seeking employees have tagged to your account.

This poster in the Richmond forum explains how to view the data:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=3939986&viewfull=1[/URL]#post3939986.[/QUOTE]Yes, am aware of how to look at data.

Wondering what tags - (Data: Value pair) is OP referring to:

Has_xxxx_punishment.

Has_xxx_punishment etc.

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;4473629]Yes, am aware of how to look at data.

Wondering what tags - (Data: Value pair) is OP referring to:

Has_xxxx_punishment.

Has_xxx_punishment etc.[/QUOTE]When I made Seeking angry, this was what was displayed for me: has_unacknowledged_punishment: true.

When I contacted them and made them happy, it changed to "1".

[QUOTE=Truncated;4473899]When I made Seeking angry, this was what was displayed for me: has_unacknowledged_punishment: true.

When I contacted them and made them happy, it changed to "1".[/QUOTE]Thanks, that is what I was looking for.

Mine has false, So was thinking that if value is True then member might be suspended.

But if yours is 1 then perhaps it is one strike for you. I guess.

Anybody know how to get a fake std result online?

Under what circumstances would you want to get fake results? Not accusing but are you trying to pass an std to someone?

Bam.

[QUOTE=AsiansBoy;4477095]Anybody know how to get a fake std result online?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;4476765]Thanks, that is what I was looking for.

Mine has false, So was thinking that if value is True then member might be suspended.

But if yours is 1 then perhaps it is one strike for you. I guess.[/QUOTE]That's my guess.

No one else, as far as I know, has chimed in on this issue.

I do know, based on reading other's posts, that's it's becoming increasingly difficult to register after being banned. So, I'm erring on the side of good, and not trying to make Seeking upset.

Once you are off the Seeking site, and using a burner, I think it's safe to talk about $, etc.

[QUOTE=BamBam;4477436]Under what circumstances would you want to get fake results? [/QUOTE]I had an SB ask me for one a week after the fact. She's in an open relationship an told her BF she never does BBFS with any guys she meets online, but he read her texts and he won't fuck her for 6 weeks unless he is sure she won't pass something along.

I'm married, can't really go ducking into the Free Clinic in a small town, and if I had anything, my wife would have cut my dick off long ago. So I can see why the risk would justify.

Plus I've had SBs offer BBFS if I show up with recent test results. Since name and identifying info would be redacted, its a pretty pointless request in either case.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4477518]I had an SB ask me for one a week after the fact. She's in an open relationship an told her BF she never does BBFS with any guys she meets online, but he read her texts and he won't fuck her for 6 weeks unless he is sure she won't pass something along.

I'm married, can't really go ducking into the Free Clinic in a small town, and if I had anything, my wife would have cut my dick off long ago. So I can see why the risk would justify.

Plus I've had SBs offer BBFS if I show up with recent test results. Since name and identifying info would be redacted, its a pretty pointless request in either case.[/QUOTE]There are several inexpensive places from which you can obtain STD testing without providing an ID or Dr's request.

Check out [URL]AnyLabTestNow.com[/URL] (yes, it's a drive up to Fredricksburg), or sites like [URL]www.stdcheck.com[/URL] will send you to the nearest Quest Labs office for a blood draw and urine sample.

If you are concerned about a spouse finding out about the results, get a UPS Store address and use it for the testing place, and get a disposable email address to receive the results.

You shouldn't pay more than about $60 for a full STD test.

You can even put down a fake name on the test if you take the time to use a burner phone, and "forget" to bring your I'd to the lab when you do the blood and urine draws. Once the tech sees that you ordered the test yourself, they won't be worried about the I'd. They only care about I'd if an employer or Dr. Ordered the test.

Maybe its just me, but I can no longer view this data. Have they fixed this? Anybody still able to view messages this way?

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;4473629]Yes, am aware of how to look at data.

Wondering what tags - (Data: Value pair) is OP referring to:

Has_xxxx_punishment.

Has_xxx_punishment etc.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4477518]I had an SB ask me for one a week after the fact. She's in an open relationship an told her BF she never does BBFS with any guys she meets online, but he read her texts and he won't fuck her for 6 weeks unless he is sure she won't pass something along.

I'm married, can't really go ducking into the Free Clinic in a small town, and if I had anything, my wife would have cut my dick off long ago. So I can see why the risk would justify.

Plus I've had SBs offer BBFS if I show up with recent test results. Since name and identifying info would be redacted, its a pretty pointless request in either case.[/QUOTE]I use healthtestingcenters dot com. Order the tests and go to labCorp or quest. No deep dick swabs now, just urine and blood, results in a few days, free Dr consult for Rx if you pop positive for bacterial.

Google why the HSV test can be skipped and then skip it.

[QUOTE=ChrisCarr;4478355]I use healthtestingcenters dot com. Order the tests and go to labCorp or quest. No deep dick swabs now, just urine and blood, results in a few days, free Dr consult for Rx if you pop positive for bacterial.

Google why the HSV test can be skipped and then skip it.[/QUOTE]Does anyone know of these online STD test centers can legally add your DNA to a database? Not that I have ever done anything serious enough to worry about law enforcement having it, I just like to understand my privacy rights. I know that pretty much if you chew gum and throw the gum away, your DNA is technically available to anyone who wants to test it -- most people won't due to cost, but these testing centers can do it cheaply.

Any Intel on this? Chatting with her, no $ discussion yet and was thinking to do M&g. But her pics give me pro-vibes and doesn't seem worth it.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ce82a155-d2fd-434d-87a2-6bdd8273e577[/URL]