[QUOTE=SlackerInMsn;6211804] As BMD says, NEXT![/QUOTE]LOL was trying to figure out whose quote this was on here. Thanks for reminding me it was the BigMacDaddy.
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[QUOTE=SlackerInMsn;6211804] As BMD says, NEXT![/QUOTE]LOL was trying to figure out whose quote this was on here. Thanks for reminding me it was the BigMacDaddy.
[QUOTE=DaReal86;6211788]Newbies take some notes this is how it's done. Either discuss it through text or a FREE meet and greet no deposit bullshit. These b!tches don't deserve shit until the job is done. I am not speaking bad on members on the board but a lot men in general have turned into simps! Don't simp for no women besides your wife or GF. These women want whats in your wallet and you want to make a sperm deposit. NEXT![/QUOTE]Thanks, DR86.
It's too bad. She's super cute, and we truly had a great, easy, intelligent and flowing conversation on the phone. Because she's short sighted and wouldn't accept a free drink and maybe free dinner as I thoroughly enjoyed talking with her, instead wanting to be paid for same, she potentially (provided she was "feeling it" too, with me) left many thousands, over the course of an ongoing sugar relationship, on the table.
Ah, women.
[QUOTE=DaReal86;6211877]LOL was trying to figure out whose quote this was on here. Thanks for reminding me it was the BigMacDaddy.[/QUOTE]I stole it from the "soup Nazi" character from the old Seinfeld show. If you don't know it, check it on You Tube.
BMD-feld.
Most SB's I move to texting after a day or so, otherwise it's just too much hassle and a waste of time. In texting I quickly I discuss my past arrangements and tell them this is what I offer as ppm. I also say I've been scammed before in the past by sending money to girls ahead of time (haven't BTW) for uber / giftcard / whatever and that I don't do that anymore.
It sets where I'm at and that I don't tolerate any bullshyt. They can take it or leave it. Plenty of girls out there to be had without the BS, you just have lay down your rules.
[QUOTE=PopPoppy70;6212833]Most SB's I move to texting after a day or so, otherwise it's just too much hassle and a waste of time. In texting I quickly I discuss my past arrangements and tell them this is what I offer as ppm. I also say I've been scammed before in the past by sending money to girls ahead of time (haven't BTW) for uber / giftcard / whatever and that I don't do that anymore.
It sets where I'm at and that I don't tolerate any bullshyt. They can take it or leave it. Plenty of girls out there to be had without the BS, you just have lay down your rules.[/QUOTE]I have been off SA for at least 6 months, but I found that telling them that I would never send any money prior to meeting in person and don't prepay for anything, ever, weeded out a lot of the scammers. Although, once in awhile I would get one who would set up a meet and ask for something an hour or two beforehand. It's still the best way to go. Been thinking about going back because, although it was a lot of work, I did find some gems. Not sure if it's worth it now.
Blue.
[QUOTE=OldPup;6205001]I think that the angle on that scam is that they will ask you to send a picture of the gift card from which they try to extract the money by going online.
There are many in CT, a bunch of them go by the name Lucy once you move to text, WhatsApp or Telegram, that use that scam.
I agree that the benefits outweigh the hassles. If you suck enough oysters, there are many pearls out there. I just had the most amazing vacation thanks to SA. Two college girls that met me at the beach for sunset, fed them dinner and lots of booze and then had a few hours of dessert in bed. Another woman in her forties but with an incredible body, who was insatiable and who's still begging me to come back, and a 27 year old that wouldn't let me give her any gifts, just two nights of dinner and along with two blissful sleepovers.[/QUOTE]Ah, sending the photo makes sense now. Thanks!
Any information? Sent me a message but I am not a paid subscriber but she is just my type [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3a4be657-384f-4f30-8473-97f6ca0e06c6?&locale=en_US&utm_source=sa-system&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=PrivatePhotoAccessGranted[/URL]#.
[QUOTE=ArchitexOne;6214237]Any information? Sent me a message but I am not a paid subscriber but she is just my type [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3a4be657-384f-4f30-8473-97f6ca0e06c6?&locale=en_US&utm_source=sa-system&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=PrivatePhotoAccessGranted[/URL]#.[/QUOTE]I've been talking with her but comms have been sporadic / inconsistent. Hard to nail down any sort of logistics for an initial meet and greet, so the jury's still out for me.
Kwag.
[QUOTE=TopGun9;6178766]This is a time waster.
Texted back and forth over several days discussing PPM and expectations, etc. Finally come back with a "I only sell contents these days". *****, why don't you just said so in the first place.
Maybe if you're willing to offer her 500 ppm, she might be DTF.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8fef45f5-21b0-4db9-993b-1966f0a436a4[/URL][/QUOTE]This one hit me up after the content only line last week. Says she is now down to meet. She doesn't have car. She wants to meet at capital grill. Yeah right. Lets go to dunkin donuts honey. LOL.
Didn't get any numbers and didn't try to meet. It is always pain in ass when they don't drive. Anyone land her? How was it? Cost?
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;6212389]I stole it from the "soup Nazi" character from the old Seinfeld show. If you don't know it, check it on You Tube.
BMD-feld.[/QUOTE]No soup for you! Come back one year!
I messaged an older (50) woman there, decent looking and divorced. Took it offline and she wanted $200 for a dinner date. Here ya go, "No and next"!
BMD.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4d798598-9988-4c9d-8ed1-7d814965dfe6[/URL]
This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.
[QUOTE=BuckCock;6217619][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4d798598-9988-4c9d-8ed1-7d814965dfe6[/URL]
This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.[/QUOTE]For deffo she's "fluffy". Maybe her fingers are slim.
[QUOTE=YukPhu;6218527]For deffo she's "fluffy". Maybe her fingers are slim.[/QUOTE]I spent a lot of time in South America this year. At first I was filtering out all the curvy girls on seeking because here it usually means morbidly obese / rolls. There it usually means slim but with a nice ass.
[QUOTE=BuckCock;6217619][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4d798598-9988-4c9d-8ed1-7d814965dfe6[/URL]
This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.[/QUOTE]She's definitely fat.
Talked to her several times many years ago, she's def been on SA way before 2020. And over the years, I can see she has been putting on additional weights.
She has always been a time waster, but maybe other guys had better luck and actually fucked her. She's on my ignore list.
Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.
She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6c[/URL]
[QUOTE=JackTaggart;6222414]Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.
She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6c[/URL][/QUOTE]I posted about her July of 2020 post #2561. She seemed to be playing games with me, and a couple others posted the same thing. I think I recall someone had said they had seen her, but I could not find it in the thread. She's been on seeking for quite a while. I think it strokes her ego too lead guys on.
Blue.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;6222841]I posted about her July of 2020 post #2561. She seemed to be playing games with me, and a couple others posted the same thing. I think I recall someone had said they had seen her, but I could not find it in the thread. She's been on seeking for quite a while. I think it strokes her ego too lead guys on.
Blue.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I forgot that seeking profiles had usernames that I could use to search.
The location being on 24/7 really confuses me. Oh well.
Don't waste your time with this one. Been talking with her on SA but today I noticed she has an ad on STG asking for deposits.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd62a1bc-3c83-4e15-964a-4b5562043f8a[/URL]
[URL]https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/want-to-see-me-get-fucked-squi/739350668781[/URL]
[QUOTE=BBFreak;6223359]Don't waste your time with this one. Been talking with her on SA but today I noticed she has an ad on STG asking for deposits.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd62a1bc-3c83-4e15-964a-4b5562043f8a[/URL]
[URL]https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/want-to-see-me-get-fucked-squi/739350668781[/URL][/QUOTE]Report her to SA, shut her down.
[QUOTE=BuckCock;6217619][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4d798598-9988-4c9d-8ed1-7d814965dfe6[/URL]
This one started sending me messages last month. Gave some basic banter for about 2 weeks then I asked her to upload a full body pic to the site. Wouldn't do it so I cut contact. Body type says Slim but I'm convinced she's fat.[/QUOTE]Rule #1: don't respond to any girls who don't post full body pics in their profile. They are fat 100% of the time. Really fat.
[QUOTE=LouisHernandez;6223485]Rule #1: don't respond to any girls who don't post full body pics in their profile. They are fat 100% of the time. Really fat.[/QUOTE]I haven't been an SA member for maybe 10 months, but was on for over two years prior to that and can think of two girls who didn't have full body photos, but weren't even close to being fat, let alone very fat. The first there was no mutual interest so we never met. The second, had a number of face shots only. I had dinner with her three times, but she was just too scared to pull the trigger. I really would have loved to hook up with her. Texted her a few times after that but she stopped responding. I very well possibly had more, but that standard wasn't anything I was concerned about, so I'm not sure. Now as far as #1 Rule, I would say it would have to be about money, specifically "Never prepay for anything, ever- Cashapp, Venmo, PayPal. That would be my opinion based on my meager experience, as opposed to yours.
Be careful out there.
Blue.
A longtime UTR / SB recently tried to change the time of one of our meetings (this happens often with her) but then (for the first time) pulled the Venmo crap. Keep in mind that this is someone I have seen maybe 25 times. (Maybe more).
I told her we were meeting at the arranged time and that I do not Venmo.
The appointment went on as initially scheduled.
[QUOTE=JackTaggart;6222414]Has anyone met with her? I have been chatting with her on Snapchat for a few weeks on and off. We keep making plans and then she flakes. One time she said she got her period, so it wouldn't be good to meet. But then keeps messaging. No request for money.
She also has her location on full time, so I see where she is all the time between Hamden and Branford. Same typical locations.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0578fbc7-19bd-4aa8-ab7c-ec9c1e97ff6c[/URL][/QUOTE]On SA I have experienced many 'almost' last minute cancellations due to them being on the rag. I always respond that if it doesn't bother them it doesn't bother me. They seem to appreciate that attitude and most of the time we meet as planned and have a great time.
[QUOTE=OldPup;6225838]On SA I have experienced many 'almost' last minute cancellations due to them being on the rag. I always respond that if it doesn't bother them it doesn't bother me. They seem to appreciate that attitude and most of the time we meet as planned and have a great time.[/QUOTE]I thought of doing that just to see, but probably over half of my enjoyment is going down on a woman for a long period of time, so it's kinda an inefficient use of money for me if I will only have sex and get a BJ. I won't go down on a random woman on her period.
[QUOTE=Sutigel2;6225662]A longtime UTR / SB recently tried to change the time of one of our meetings (this happens often with her) but then (for the first time) pulled the Venmo crap. Keep in mind that this is someone I have seen maybe 25 times. (Maybe more).
I told her we were meeting at the arranged time and that I do not Venmo.
The appointment went on as initially scheduled.[/QUOTE]You the man!!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57[/URL] Anyone hit this recently? PM me, I want to confirm the digits I have.
Anyone have any experience with this one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/565fd22a-c445-43ce-aa71-80da072425b0[/URL]
Seeing her later this week. DM and I'll swap stories.
[QUOTE=McBright;6234262]Anyone have any experience with this one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/565fd22a-c445-43ce-aa71-80da072425b0[/URL]
Seeing her later this week. DM and I'll swap stories.[/QUOTE]I've been messaging her back and forth, was suppose to meet up today to go for a walk at a park in Fairfield. Didn't get the impression she was ppm.
[QUOTE=McBright;6234262]Anyone have any experience with this one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/565fd22a-c445-43ce-aa71-80da072425b0[/URL]
Seeing her later this week. DM and I'll swap stories.[/QUOTE]Your link is sending us to your inbox messages.
Any reports on this one? Benn messaging back and forth for a week or so and looks like its a go:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/044781b0-7c5c-4aba-802a-9f8a054a7c91[/URL]
So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.
I've already joined seeking a while ago.
So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.
[QUOTE=CasinoGuy66;6236046]So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.
I've already joined seeking a while ago.
So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.[/QUOTE]I had the same thing happen on the site. Don't bother if they are initiating the conversation. You use your credits to open the conversation and never get a reply.
[QUOTE=DaReal86;6232077][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbd16dd0-efa0-4f4e-9717-6a017eb82f57[/URL] Anyone hit this recently? PM me, I want to confirm the digits I have.[/QUOTE]Ends in 21.
[QUOTE=CasinoGuy66;6236046]So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.
I've already joined seeking a while ago.
So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.[/QUOTE]Definitely had good luck there. Hooked up with 7 or 8 different gals. All very cute. But you will find the same number of flakes and phonies as on SA.
But I do hate the way they charge for everything. I never end up paying for the secret photos, but ask the gals to text them to me after we start chatting off site.
The best bet for purchasing more credits is to wait until you have only 20 left and then they next time you use 10 credits you'll have 10 minute to purchase at 2 for 1. I usually buy 1000 credits for the price of 500 that way.
[QUOTE=BigBoss203;6236691]Ends in 21.[/QUOTE]Got it! Thanks!
[QUOTE=CasinoGuy66;6236046]So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.
I've already joined seeking a while ago.
So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.[/QUOTE]I have been using SB for a while and have scored more on there than on seeking. It is a bit harder to use since you are limited on messages. But a couple beginner tips:
1. Message who you want to message. Don't go using your credits to read a message from non verified member either. Which brings me to
2. Only try to message verified members. They will usually have video verification on their profile page. Try sticking to these profiles at first. Although I've met girls that haven't been verified, I still stick to this rule somewhat.
2A. Actually read through a profile of a girl that interests you. Look for keywords such as “mutual beneficial friendship”, “FWB” “Daddy issues” etc…
3. Be smart with your credits, this is somewhat related to number 2 but don't go using your credits to request private pics or unlocking picture messaging. It's simply not worth it because you could be messaging more girls to increase your odds.
4.Last but not least. Be patient. I know a member that signed up for SB and blew all his credits in one day messaging a whole bunch of profiles, some of which were probably fake. There have been some girls that I chat up with and am able to hook up within the same week.
All in all actually prefer secretbenefits over seeking. Simply due to the fact that the girls on there know what you want and won't waste your time.
[QUOTE=DaReal86;6236745]I have been using SB for a while and have scored more on there than on seeking. It is a bit harder to use since you are limited on messages. But a couple beginner tips:
1. Message who you want to message. Don't go using your credits to read a message from non verified member either. Which brings me to
2. Only try to message verified members. They will usually have video verification on their profile page. Try sticking to these profiles at first. Although I've met girls that haven't been verified, I still stick to this rule somewhat.
2A. Actually read through a profile of a girl that interests you. Look for keywords such as mutual beneficial friendship, FWB Daddy issues etc
3. Be smart with your credits, this is somewhat related to number 2 but don't go using your credits to request private pics or unlocking picture messaging. It's simply not worth it because you could be messaging more girls to increase your odds.
4.Last but not least. Be patient. I know a member that signed up for SB and blew all his credits in one day messaging a whole bunch of profiles, some of which were probably fake. There have been some girls that I chat up with and am able to hook up within the same week.
All in all actually prefer secretbenefits over seeking. Simply due to the fact that the girls on there know what you want and won't waste your time.[/QUOTE]This is valuable insight much appreciated!
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e39acdc1-c0f5-43b1-ba33-f3e66e18b181[/URL]
Anyone have experience with this baby?
Another cashapp scammers. Gas money to get to you, hungry and need food to prove you real daddy. LMFAO.
Don't be an IDIOT for fall for these scammers.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ac28b075-4c1a-4180-a76e-55a0989a87b1[/URL]