The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;6876909]
9. MayBellDarling.

I don't even know. I have no doubt she's real, but never was able to get something set in stone in terms of meeting. In the time that we did, I had an emergency and couldnnt meet. We picked a diff day, but then she ghosted.

Have a feeling she's very communicative with someone she's into or very interested in.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cd5d67dc-5402-42fd-85c5-8f78a0dfce97[/URL]
[/QUOTE]She's real, very lovely, and very expensive, in the order of $2400/ mo for weekly dates.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6879840]I started chatting with her and she instantly went into sad sob stories about her life and how hard it is. I have zero interest in these kind of chicks.[/QUOTE]Okay, I might TOFTT and let why'all know.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6879840]I started chatting with her and she instantly went into sad sob stories about her life and how hard it is. I have zero interest in these kind of chicks.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6880460]She's real, very lovely, and very expensive, in the order of $2400/ mo for weekly dates.[/QUOTE]Wow, $2400 seems like a lot for someone like her. Maybe I am not seeing someting or she has a great personality.

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6880460]She's real, very lovely, and very expensive, in the order of $2400/ mo for weekly dates.[/QUOTE]You are paying that much?

[QUOTE=Falconwings33;6880561]Wow, $2400 seems like a lot for someone like her. Maybe I am not seeing someting or she has a great personality.[/QUOTE]We're not talking about the same girl.

I was referring to MayBellDarling.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6880774]You are paying that much?[/QUOTE]No, I was just passing along the info.

Has anyone had a conversation with or seen these women from Seeking Arrangements?

Most of these are women who I was never able to set up a particular date with, or those who weren't into me and either didn't respond or were terrible in communication.

Like I said before, figured I'd ask to see the experiences of people who have either been through something similar, or those who had a potential good convo, meet up and / or arrangement.

1. KandyHeiress

Has been on seeking for nearly 7 YEARS! Has a decent Bio. I'm pretty sure I reached out to her 1-2 years ago. But at the time, no response.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7be5cb9d-0079-4dd6-aac9-aeed9756ecee[/URL]

2. TheOnlyRaquel

Decent bio. On SA her responses were a bit slow due to her being busy with work. Looks like she has a kid. We moved to text eventually but never was able to set up something specific.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/35925df2-43cb-4c25-a9af-08b4b0a3eea5[/URL]

3. QueenE13333

Mid 20's. Has a kid. Decent looking, bad bio. Reached out to her long ago and no response.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5f48665c-b686-40b1-9865-db92005786fa[/URL]

4. Emidoll

She's been on SA for a long while and her bio is outdated. Never was able to get a response out of her, but I imagine she is looking for a particular type of guy?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3acf457e-32d7-42e0-af5a-1dd530be8d43[/URL]

5. briiannnaaaaaa

Terrible Bio. Bad Pics (probably for privacy). I could have sworn she used to have more. Been on SA for a long while. She would respond to me, but convo's with her have always been pretty terrible. The last time we talked and had a mini argument, was the first time she was ever communicative. This was a year ago.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d3a3eae3-1457-475a-98b5-a889739980a8[/URL]

6. babyj777

Nothing much to say other than she has an interesting look about her. Would love to know who has seen her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc73ab89-ed3b-4557-bc4f-047a58bfb50e[/URL]

7. stilltimetochange

She's been on SA for years. From personal experiences though, been plenty of cases with her where she doesn't log back onto SA and have never been able to take the convo outside of SA.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/63f78efe-9d27-4c63-a5e8-a50be01fe238[/URL]

8. KateTheGreat

Attractive. Decent sized bio. Seems to be "straight to the point" and also says to send her a gift to catch her attention.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15d9b2bc-a3dd-4f64-a766-acacb128a685[/URL]

9. sexyscientist1210

Very large bio. Have reached out to her on SA in the past, but she was never into me and we got into a mini argument last year. I have a feeling that she probably treats her SD's very well, if she is into them.

Thats just the feeling I get, anyway.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aeecd683-7d2e-4378-8294-2efe7e505075[/URL]

10. BBBrittney

We've talked twice on SA. But talking to a rock is much more entertaining than my conversations that I've had with her. I'm pretty sure we've taken the convo outside SA, but nothing ever came about due to her ghosting.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/59e0168b-490e-4666-9d06-afcdacdc15a0[/URL]

2. TheOnlyRaquel.

Decent bio. On SA her responses were a bit slow due to her being busy with work. Looks like she has a kid. We moved to text eventually but never was able to set up something specific.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/35925df2-43cb-4c25-a9af-08b4b0a3eea5[/URL]

This is what I received from her.

"I am open to discreet but meeting up simply for FWB I am not open to. Platonic FWB would work but not the other way.

Thank you for reaching out.

7. stilltimetochange.

She's been on SA for years. From personal experiences though, been plenty of cases with her where she doesn't log back onto SA and have never been able to take the convo outside of SA.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/63f78efe-9d27-4c63-a5e8-a50be01fe238[/URL]

Met with per for dinner sometime before Covid. She was very upset that I did not agree with some points she made. The meet ended with me thinking she's one of these young ones who feel you must always agree with their views.

[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;6881396]Has anyone had a conversation with or seen these women from Seeking Arrangements?

1. KandyHeiress

Has been on seeking for nearly 7 YEARS! Has a decent Bio. I'm pretty sure I reached out to her 1-2 years ago. But at the time, no response.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7be5cb9d-0079-4dd6-aac9-aeed9756ecee[/URL]

7. stilltimetochange

She's been on SA for years. From personal experiences though, been plenty of cases with her where she doesn't log back onto SA and have never been able to take the convo outside of SA.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/63f78efe-9d27-4c63-a5e8-a50be01fe238[/URL]

9. sexyscientist1210

Very large bio. Have reached out to her on SA in the past, but she was never into me and we got into a mini argument last year. I have a feeling that she probably treats her SD's very well, if she is into them.

Thats just the feeling I get, anyway.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aeecd683-7d2e-4378-8294-2efe7e505075[/URL]

10. BBBrittney

We've talked twice on SA. But talking to a rock is much more entertaining than my conversations that I've had with her. I'm pretty sure we've taken the convo outside SA, but nothing ever came about due to her ghosting.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/59e0168b-490e-4666-9d06-afcdacdc15a0[/URL][/QUOTE]1. KandyHeiress She's real and super sweet, I met her years ago and she used to dance at CC under the name Kandy. She's flakey af and it's hard to get anything set up with her. I'd definitely see her again but she never writes back.

7. stilltimetochange Bat. Shit. Crazy. Every word out of her mouth is a lie. Horrible comms and no respect for anyone else's time. She drove me crazy with scheduling and ghosting. Not worth the trouble.

9. sexyscientist1210 Never met her but she seems VERY picky and VERY expensive.

10. BBBrittney Also used to dance at CC, also super flakey. Met her once and after that she frequently messaged me not to respond to my last message but to ask for money randomly. Would also ghost or bail last minute for dates. My experience in person was good but not worth dealing with the terrible comms.

[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;6881396]Has anyone had a conversation with or seen these women from Seeking Arrangements?


4. Emidoll

She's been on SA for a long while and her bio is outdated. Never was able to get a response out of her, but I imagine she is looking for a particular type of guy?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3acf457e-32d7-42e0-af5a-1dd530be8d43[/URL]

5. briiannnaaaaaa

Terrible Bio. Bad Pics (probably for privacy). I could have sworn she used to have more. Been on SA for a long while. She would respond to me, but convo's with her have always been pretty terrible. The last time we talked and had a mini argument, was the first time she was ever communicative. This was a year ago.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d3a3eae3-1457-475a-98b5-a889739980a8[/URL]

9. sexyscientist1210

Very large bio. Have reached out to her on SA in the past, but she was never into me and we got into a mini argument last year. I have a feeling that she probably treats her SD's very well, if she is into them.

Thats just the feeling I get, anyway.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aeecd683-7d2e-4378-8294-2efe7e505075[/URL]

10. BBBrittney

We've talked twice on SA. But talking to a rock is much more entertaining than my conversations that I've had with her. I'm pretty sure we've taken the convo outside SA, but nothing ever came about due to her ghosting.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/59e0168b-490e-4666-9d06-afcdacdc15a0[/URL][/QUOTE]4. Emidoll. Talked with her a while back, she was ready to come to my apartment immediately. This felt too pro for me so I decided to pass (have done that at times though LOL depends how much the little brain is working vs the big one).

5. briiannnaaaaaa. Had an excellent convo going with her a year or two ago. Think she has Polish roots. Then went dry and she never responded to several follow ups.

9. sexyscientist1210 - had some brief chats with her. Body looks hot but her face is kind of meh and wasn't that interested. Would not be willing to give her a lot of $$. Have seen her on Feeld and vanilla dating apps and think she is in local kink / swinger scene.

10. BBBrittney. LOL yeah she cannot string together two sentences. Also gave up based on lame convo.

She is on her second or third iteration on seeking. Real and will meet (responsive on comms), just know that she is heavier and has more miles on the body than her very outdated pictures. Personality was "meh" at best but YMMY. Good hunting gentlemen.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6eceb248-2c0a-4612-8c80-414aedea33cf[/URL]

[QUOTE=LostTribe;6882694]She is on her second or third iteration on seeking. Real and will meet (responsive on comms), just know that she is heavier and has more miles on the body than her very outdated pictures. Personality was "meh" at best but YMMY. Good hunting gentlemen.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6eceb248-2c0a-4612-8c80-414aedea33cf[/URL][/QUOTE]She is pretty much a pro and has been discussed a lot on the richmond board.

Anyone here seen Mae (babymaexo) from SecretBenefits?

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c3e0d495b01a54b0[/URL]

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6882123]4. Emidoll. Talked with her a while back, she was ready to come to my apartment immediately. This felt too pro for me so I decided to pass (have done that at times though LOL depends how much the little brain is working vs the big one).

5. briiannnaaaaaa. Had an excellent convo going with her a year or two ago. Think she has Polish roots. Then went dry and she never responded to several follow ups.

9. sexyscientist1210 - had some brief chats with her. Body looks hot but her face is kind of meh and wasn't that interested. Would not be willing to give her a lot of $$. Have seen her on Feeld and vanilla dating apps and think she is in local kink / swinger scene.

10. BBBrittney. LOL yeah she cannot string together two sentences. Also gave up based on lame convo.[/QUOTE]You mentioned feeld. What is that?

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6881823]2. TheOnlyRaquel.

Decent bio. On SA her responses were a bit slow due to her being busy with work. Looks like she has a kid. We moved to text eventually but never was able to set up something specific.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/35925df2-43cb-4c25-a9af-08b4b0a3eea5[/URL]

This is what I received from her.

"I am open to discreet but meeting up simply for FWB I am not open to. Platonic FWB would work but not the other way.

Thank you for reaching out.[/QUOTE]LOL, WTF is platonic fwb? These girls are nuts.

[QUOTE=Falconwings33;6883109]LOL, WTF is platonic fwb? These girls are nuts.[/QUOTE]Yep, the "something for nothing" generation.

[QUOTE=BartSimpleton;6883097]You mentioned feeld. What is that?[/QUOTE]Feeld is a dating app for kink / enm / swinger types.

Remember the scene in star wars where they go to the bar with jabba the hut? Well most of the chicks on feeld look like the occupants of that bar.

[QUOTE=Falconwings33;6883109]LOL, WTF is platonic fwb? These girls are nuts.[/QUOTE]From Merriam Webster: You give her money, she calls you her friend. You listen to all her problems, and agree with all her opinions. She makes a disgusted face when you touch her in any way, even if it's a hug goodbye. You give her money again.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6883573]Feeld is a dating app for kink / enm / swinger types.

Remember the scene in star wars where they go to the bar with jabba the hut? Well most of the chicks on feeld look like the occupants of that bar.[/QUOTE]Thanks. That is something to consider as a warning. I'll take that as advice to avoid. Thanks for the tip.

Some of you met her (if you know her first and middle names I'm sure you will remember her last name). Cute girl from Raleigh, spent time in CA, AZ and VA too.

Sadly, she passed away late last week as a result of injuries sustained during a car accident on April 15th. If you google her full name you will find links to the news articles, she was in Manassas at the time.

She was a good person who made some bad decisions but of late she seemed to want to leave some bad habits behind and straighten her life. I hadn't seen her in a bit but have stayed in touch since I met her four years ago. I will certainly miss her friendship.

I'm pretty sure she is another that is willing to meet if you buy her pics. I believe she had another profile, Ang44, or something similar. Of course that meeting never happens once you buy the pics.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9786d3eb-0d62-42b8-8935-4d79b238e805[/URL]

Also, anyone seen Layla from Greenville lately? I know she has been discussed as being loopy and all over the place, but damn she has a body.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33d31774-7c35-4fa2-b4f4-cb8ee0734d97[/URL]

[QUOTE=DrSugarD;6885189]anyone seen Layla from Greenville lately? I know she has been discussed as being loopy and all over the place, but damn she has a body.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33d31774-7c35-4fa2-b4f4-cb8ee0734d97[/URL][/QUOTE]I chatted with her a few months back. She definitely looks very hot. But she doesn't do anything bare, no kissing or anything even remotely resembling GFE so I decided to not pursue anything with her.

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6885199]I chatted with her a few months back. She definitely looks very hot. But she doesn't do anything bare, no kissing or anything even remotely resembling GFE so I decided to not pursue anything with her.[/QUOTE]I hate when they pull crap like that even when their profile says "mutually beneficial". What's mutual? Giving hundreds or thousands of dollars just to be in their presence?

[QUOTE=YourCCPimp;6885210]I hate when they pull crap like that even when their profile says "mutually beneficial". What's mutual? Giving hundreds or thousands of dollars just to be in their presence?[/QUOTE]Dancing, touching, HJ, "and just intercourse". Some guys might be good with that and there's nothing wrong there.

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6886067]Dancing, touching, HJ, "and just intercourse". Some guys might be good with that and there's nothing wrong there.[/QUOTE]Some gals think that being in the same room with them is all the foreplay you should need. LOL.

I'll give Layla credit, she was upfront about no kissing and only a brief BJ. I've been with a few dead fish that just layed there. I can do without till something better comes along.

I switched to no pictures on the advice of some of the UTR guys around here (years ago). Now I'm seeing this new message and SA is hounding me to "complete your profile. " Does rolling with no pic and only paying sub when you find someone you like no longer a solid strategy?

Thanks.

[QUOTE=WelladJustedJ;6888901]I switched to no pictures on the advice of some of the UTR guys around here (years ago). Now I'm seeing this new message and SA is hounding me to "complete your profile. " Does rolling with no pic and only paying sub when you find someone you like no longer a solid strategy?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I'm getting the message too but still getting views and favoriting so apparently it's not true. SA's scam to try to make everyone post a pic so they can know more about you. I'm not doing it. If it means no more SA then so be it. That site is more and more a scam. They allow scammers to proliferate but keep slapping the paying SDs for rudeness, identification verification, ppm mention, etc.

[QUOTE=DrSugarD;6889207]I'm getting the message too but still getting views and favoriting so apparently it's not true. SA's scam to try to make everyone post a pic so they can know more about you. I'm not doing it. If it means no more SA then so be it. That site is more and more a scam. They allow scammers to proliferate but keep slapping the paying SDs for rudeness, identification verification, ppm mention, etc.[/QUOTE]Post a pic that looks like you or maybe with glasses on. It's worked for me. I refuse to put a clear face pic on any social media sites.

[QUOTE=Darrell01;6889236]Post a pic that looks like you or maybe with glasses on. It's worked for me. I refuse to put a clear face pic on any social media sites.[/QUOTE]I do the same plus when you find someone favorite them they will see you. All the sites are getting over run with scammers.

[QUOTE] Also, anyone seen Layla from Greenville lately? I know she has been discussed as being loopy and all over the place, but damn she has a body.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33d31774-7c35-4fa2-b4f4-cb8ee0734d97[/URL][/QUOTE]I've seen Layla before. I went to her apartment in Greenville, fairly nice area. She's definitely the girl in the pictures and she's definitely loopy. She has an Adderall addiction and probably partakes in some other recreational drugs. She's not much for hanging out though I didn't find her to be rude or pushy. The sex was as boring as it can be. She hates BJs and doesn't really care for anything else either. Being hot with a tight kitty is about the only thing positive I can say.

Also, we were scheduled to meet once before in Raleigh. She told me she was on the way but never made it. She was communicating the whole time claiming she ran in to traffic, etc. but after 3 hours, I called it off. I honestly have no idea what that was about.

Has anyone here had a conversation, met, and / or been in an arrangement with any of these women below, from Seeking Arrangements? If so, what were your experiences like?

1. MusicGal

Looks cute. Has a decent bio.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b8af786-8312-4d5b-b447-80553806c3ba[/URL]

2. Daria

Seems to have joined this month, so I wouldn't be surprised if no one has met her. Has a long and descriptive bio, which tells me she's real and legit.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/851e4ea0-338e-46ec-b340-260e5fcad2ae[/URL]

3. BestoftheBest

Looks cute, but typical bad bio. She does say "must be willing to meet".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e73965ee-52fd-45d6-b4e5-9de567c28931[/URL]

4. Aria23

Her profile says she's been on SA since March of 2024, but I'm 99% positive she has had previous profiles in the past. Says "do not ask for my number, socials or to meet right away". Ok then.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d60396ae-480e-4ccc-ba46-303d0a674309[/URL]

5. HippieGoddess

Apparently been a member since 2021. Says she is a free spirit, and knows how to "put a man in his place". Um, ok.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd2c6581-0f18-418e-b28a-952c4e84319e[/URL]

6. BohoGoddess

Says she is a Free Spirited Open Minded individual. Interesting. Doesn't seem bad looking.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ea043abe-cd57-430d-b053-842e50e16381[/URL]

7. Astrid

In the Durham area, and looks cute. Has decent pics. Not a bad profile and says she is willing to confirm that she's real.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be44d0cf-7809-4b00-a43f-8af4083496ef[/URL]

8. BlondieBabe21

Been here since 2023, though I have a feeling she's been on the site under different profiles. Pics look ok. Bio seems generic. Tried looking on search engine here to see if anyone has talked about her, but found nothing.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ca86f57d-0e52-4bec-bebc-384261c6a4c0[/URL]

9. AlexisDeLeon

This one is very forward. Outright says she's a bag chaser, and not looking for anything serious. But says don't text her unless you're willing to pay. Lolwat. No doubt this would turn off people, but has anyone here even entertained a convo or arrangement with her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f76bb216-7e12-4b1f-91ae-28925089f4e7[/URL]

10. Lana

Not even sure if this is even a real profile. Late 20's, and horrible bio. But seems to have been here since 2018 and has a blue check mark.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fbbb2ed0-f521-4c6a-a113-378b7f1db407[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8bbff0f2-bb5e-4b93-90c3-8fb0ddc045dd[/URL]

This one was in Raleigh, now in Charlotte. Anyone had an experience?

[QUOTE=SaintMan3500;6894738]Has anyone here had a conversation, met, and / or been in an arrangement with any of these women below, from Seeking Arrangements? If so, what were your experiences like?

1. MusicGal

Looks cute. Has a decent bio.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7b8af786-8312-4d5b-b447-80553806c3ba[/URL]

2. Daria

Seems to have joined this month, so I wouldn't be surprised if no one has met her. Has a long and descriptive bio, which tells me she's real and legit.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/851e4ea0-338e-46ec-b340-260e5fcad2ae[/URL]

3. BestoftheBest

Looks cute, but typical bad bio. She does say "must be willing to meet".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e73965ee-52fd-45d6-b4e5-9de567c28931[/URL]

4. Aria23

Her profile says she's been on SA since March of 2024, but I'm 99% positive she has had previous profiles in the past. Says "do not ask for my number, socials or to meet right away". Ok then.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d60396ae-480e-4ccc-ba46-303d0a674309[/URL]

5. HippieGoddess

Apparently been a member since 2021. Says she is a free spirit, and knows how to "put a man in his place". Um, ok.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd2c6581-0f18-418e-b28a-952c4e84319e[/URL]

6. BohoGoddess

Says she is a Free Spirited Open Minded individual. Interesting. Doesn't seem bad looking.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ea043abe-cd57-430d-b053-842e50e16381[/URL]

7. Astrid

In the Durham area, and looks cute. Has decent pics. Not a bad profile and says she is willing to confirm that she's real.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be44d0cf-7809-4b00-a43f-8af4083496ef[/URL]

8. BlondieBabe21

Been here since 2023, though I have a feeling she's been on the site under different profiles. Pics look ok. Bio seems generic. Tried looking on search engine here to see if anyone has talked about her, but found nothing.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ca86f57d-0e52-4bec-bebc-384261c6a4c0[/URL]

9. AlexisDeLeon

This one is very forward. Outright says she's a bag chaser, and not looking for anything serious. But says don't text her unless you're willing to pay. Lolwat. No doubt this would turn off people, but has anyone here even entertained a convo or arrangement with her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f76bb216-7e12-4b1f-91ae-28925089f4e7[/URL]

10. Lana

Not even sure if this is even a real profile. Late 20's, and horrible bio. But seems to have been here since 2018 and has a blue check mark.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fbbb2ed0-f521-4c6a-a113-378b7f1db407[/URL][/QUOTE]Wow- Some hotties on this list. I may have to join this app now. I met a girl on CC and she told me she looks for arrangements on that site now. So what is the best advice for an arrangement? Price? And really what should I not do? Any help appreciated.

LM.

In researching how to structure an arrangement I found this google doc comparing regions and pricing:

[URL]https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vSgVjvdI8Qe5--d6PlbVxJx1ec1pRrrFx84k3BaEYSebj5-a8BKJyrsdvVM2Nqq3LStKPgT6Z9UvLsg/pubhtml[/URL]

Reddit has many subtopics with ALL king of info:

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/[/URL]

Really interesting. $300 average per meeting in NC (this can be multiple hours).

[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6897737]Wow- Some hotties on this list. I may have to join this app now. I met a girl on CC and she told me she looks for arrangements on that site now. So what is the best advice for an arrangement? Price? And really what should I not do? Any help appreciated.

LM.[/QUOTE]Speaking solely from my experience.

1. I've done anywhere from $100-$400 Per Meet. With me mostly doing $200-$300 with decent looking women. Only done $400 with people I really liked or who I find extremely attractive.

2. Always Negotiate.

3. Never give anyone any money before meeting. Don't buy into any "need $ for gas" or "need $$$ asap" nonsense.

4. I personally recommend to do public meet up's, first. In a coffee shop, mall, park, etc. Many women on the site are in their early-mid 20's and get very nervous about meeting men. Meeting in public tends to ease them.

If you try to meet at a hotel, you run a bigger risk of them ghosting on the day of and losing money from paying for the hotel. Ghosting is sometimes unavoidable, but atleast if you meet in public you can see the vibe and there is that level of familiarity and lesser chance. Some are fine with meeting a stranger in a room for the first time, and others aren't.

5. I generally do A. Public Meet Up. B. Do the arrangement itself on a diff day that works best. (where intimacy, etc happens). Can do at a Hotel, Your Spot, or Their Spot.

6. If someone wants to do another public meet up or get dinner on a different day, even after we've already met: It has never worked out. As it becomes clearer and clearer that they just want something platonic and there are plenty of women who will do what you ask. That won't have so many barriers.

7. In the arrangement itself, I generally pay at the end of our meet up. If someone gives you an extremely difficult time about that, you could give a portion at the start, and the later portion at the end for a compromise. If someone has questionable morals, they can take the money and leave earlier.

8. Some people feel differently, but I always do Paypal, Cashapp, or Venmo. Incase anyone tries scamming or making excuses to leave early. This is because they allow you to file a dispute to get your money back. (venmo+paypal). As well as linking your credit card to file a chargeback, if that doesn't work. If you're not comfortable doing this, then I would highly suggest you give cash at the end or just some at the start, and the rest at the end of the session.

9. Some women want to be "paid" or given some $$ during the Meet and Greet. It can go either way in that.

A. Giving money during the M&G gives them a bigger incentive to meet you, and can lead to them wanting to be in an arrangement.

B. Giving Money during the M&G can lead to them ghosting after. Which means a waste of time & money!

I've had success with not doing paid M&G, and doing Paid M&G. Though I don't really do Paid M&G unless I find the person exceptionally attractive, or decent looking+ exceptionally good at talking with. YMMV.

10. Seeking is temporary. Don't be surprised if they ghost or end the arrangement if they find a serious relationship, someone who gives them more $$$ for the arrangement, or job that they make very good money at.

11. When it comes to public meeting and/or the arrangement itself : Confirm before the day of, and on the day itself. If you want to confirm before you leave your place, you may do that too.

I use this type of method to decrease my chances of being stood up and it's helped me avoid wasting 15-30+ min driving to a place.

[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6897824]In researching how to structure an arrangement I found this google doc comparing regions and pricing:

[URL]https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vSgVjvdI8Qe5--d6PlbVxJx1ec1pRrrFx84k3BaEYSebj5-a8BKJyrsdvVM2Nqq3LStKPgT6Z9UvLsg/pubhtml[/URL]

Reddit has many subtopics with ALL king of info:

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/[/URL]

Really interesting. $300 average per meeting in NC (this can be multiple hours).[/QUOTE]The women on that subreddit are insanely entitled.

[QUOTE=MisterMister46;6898190]The women on that subreddit are insanely entitled.[/QUOTE]You can also drop the "ly entitled" from that statement and it would still be true.

[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6897824]In researching how to structure an arrangement I found this google doc comparing regions and pricing:

[URL]https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vSgVjvdI8Qe5--d6PlbVxJx1ec1pRrrFx84k3BaEYSebj5-a8BKJyrsdvVM2Nqq3LStKPgT6Z9UvLsg/pubhtml[/URL]

Reddit has many subtopics with ALL king of info:

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/[/URL]

Really interesting. $300 average per meeting in NC (this can be multiple hours).[/QUOTE]Your link to the spreadsheet is getting reposted all over this site. Can you tell us who prepared it, how people get their info onto it, etc. ?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6898920]Your link to the spreadsheet is getting reposted all over this site. Can you tell us who prepared it, how people get their info onto it, etc. ?[/QUOTE]That sheet comes from the members of the sugarlifestyleforum on reddit.

As the numbers are self reported by a lot of pretty entitled sbs, I would take it all with a bucket of salt.