I wish we were fucking right now
Here is a summary of my experiences with an SB from "[URL]seeking.com[/URL]" (SA) over the last 6 months. It's not meant as a review of a specific girl, but more as a story about what's possible on this site.
She is a very pretty slender AA college girl who in early March invited me to her dorm room during Spring break when her roomates were absent. Let me call her Nina. After her roomates came back, Nina invited me to meet her in a public space on campus late at night. We had sex in chairs, standing up, and on the floor. All meet-ups costed $200. We met like that twice until I told her I had to stop because it wasn't the experience I was looking for. (I figured she was more of a hooker and less of an SB, but I didn't put it like that.) After about a week, she texted me "Let's get a hotel. ".
This started a series of hotel dates where we met for about 30 minutes. The sex was fantastic and she's friendly and cheerful. She kissed me (DFK) and provided a GFE, which was intense but brief. Nina is afraid to be seen in public. We sometimes had dinner in the hotel, watched TV, and cuddled a bit. The conversation never got past small-talk, though, and she is not intellectual. Although only $200 (plus the cost of the hotel), I'm not very rich and I cannot sustain that for more than a few months, so I again stopped, and I was honest about why.
During the time I was on SA I observed that Nina logged in nearly every day and her profile said she wants either "long term" or "short term". During our break-up, she texted me every few days, that she "missed me" and how much she liked me, etc. Then late one night came the hard sell: "I wish we were fucking right now". I asked her what she was doing; she was in her apartment and her one roomate, who was sharing the apartment for the summer, was asleep in a separate bedroom. I ended up in her bedroom at 2 am, fucking like there was no tomorrow. One advantage of being old is that we realize there may actually be no tomorrow, which makes us more attentive and appreciative. Her pussy was so wet that I couldn't get much friction and I lasted a long time. We shook the bed so hard that the curtains fell down.
This started a series of late-night apartment visits, always after midnight to avoid her roomate. Nina was trying to save me the hotel costs. One night, though, her roomate came out to the kitchen area for a late night snack while we were in Nina's bedroom. We were pinned down for about an hour, whispering in the dark. Another night, just as I parked my car, the roomate came out of her bedroom, so I could not come in. Nina suggested we have sex in the car. I declined. I don't do car dates anymore and certainly not for $200. After that incident we went back to hotel visits for awhile, until I ran out of money again. We've been apart for a couple weeks now, but she told me she'd like me to come back when I can afford it. I don't really judge Nina for her promiscuity. After all, she's the same as me! And I don't think I can do better than her, so we'll see what happens.
Ask for a specific selfie
[QUOTE=DArrow404;3898680]I just signed up a couple days ago and a bit overwhelmed to say the least, but found something interesting to me anyway.
I'm talking with this one POT over email right now. From her email address, I was able to figure out her Instagram and Twitter account. She has several pics on SA which all can be found on her social media. Her profile says single and no mention of a significant other. On her IG account, half the pics of her are with some guy. The most recent IG says the "venue is booked" and pretty sure it's at a church.
So I'm wondering if I'm being catfished here. I'm thinking I'll ask her to send me a selfie with something showing today's date? I was about to ask her to a meet and greet anyway, but not sure what would happen.
Anyone else run into this?[/QUOTE]I ask for a selfie holding up a specific number of fingers. If they are interested, and legit, most will provide it. If not, its up to you if you still want to chance it.