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I got a current list of 10 POTS. Average age 20.5, average height 5'4", average weight 110. They are 60% black, with one white, one latina and two mixed. Anytime I think I am going to go too far outside my comfort zone (and it happens sometimes), I have to remind myself that this is really where I need to be most of the time to be happy.
Should I have posted on SA as Married but looking? I have revealed something other than a cropped photo to one MILF, and now she isn't responding. Getting a bad feeling about this.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;2941092]Should I have posted on SA as Married but looking? I have revealed something other than a cropped photo to one MILF, and now she isn't responding. Getting a bad feeling about this.[/QUOTE]You are paranoid. But I guess that's what its like when you been married to long. Married guys, help this guy out. My life is an open book.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;2941092]Should I have posted on SA as Married but looking? I have revealed something other than a cropped photo to one MILF, and now she isn't responding. Getting a bad feeling about this.[/QUOTE]I post on SA and tell the women I am married. They decide. Seems not to make a big difference to many of them. Also, I never post my true net worth. Always put it low. So if there is an interest from the women, even with a married guy with a smaller net worth. Its jackpot time hehe.
GG.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;2941092]Should I have posted on SA as Married but looking? I have revealed something other than a cropped photo to one MILF, and now she isn't responding. Getting a bad feeling about this.[/QUOTE]Most don't care as long as you can fullfill the arrangement.
So, I realized today that if we are here talking about how to be SDs, the SBs are out there trying to figure out their side also. I don't find anything as extensive as this forum, but here are a couple of links:
[URL]http://motherboard.vice.com/read/******-sugar-babies[/URL]
[URL]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/05/18/sugar-baby-advice_n_7308420.html[/URL]
One thing I learned. Photos can have metadata (EXIF) that includes GPS coordinates. FYI, that is not the location of golden pussy syndrome, that is YOUR location. If you use a camera phone, and haven't changed its settings, its pictures have this data. You can strip it out before uploading to a site, or sending it to a SB.
This is also good info about SA:
Has 1 million active sugar daddy and mama users—and 2. 6 million "sugar babies".
I am thinking of getting tested for STDs so I can present a clean bill of health (and ask for one). Any recommendations about *anonymous* testing clinics (confidential isn't good enough. Someone can always screw up and let the cat out of the bag with your SO). LA, OC, & Inland empire?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;2941506]I am thinking of getting tested for STDs so I can present a clean bill of health (and ask for one). Any recommendations about *anonymous* testing clinics (confidential isn't good enough. Someone can always screw up and let the cat out of the bag with your SO). LA, OC, & Inland empire?[/QUOTE]Unless you have to show I'd to get tested, just make up a Monger name and address and use your GV number. YOU control the anonymity that way!
Other than that, ask the clinic about their HIPPA policies. It is illegal to release medical information without consent. (not that it doesn't happen by scr*w up, mistake or carelessness).
[URL]http://www.hhs.gov/hipaa/for-professionals/privacy/[/URL]
[QUOTE=GenevaGuy;2941400]I post on SA and tell the women I am married. They decide. Seems not to make a big difference to many of them. Also, I never post my true net worth. Always put it low. So if there is an interest from the women, even with a married guy with a smaller net worth. Its jackpot time hehe.
GG.[/QUOTE]Thanks, Yeah, I agree with that. I thought posting a big net worth would just invite true gold diggers instead of SBs. Some SBs may have the fantasy the arrangement might turn long-term, but take half my advertised net worth and give it to my SO and I am much less attractive. One SB profile I read recently derided 'the number of guys around here who say they are millionaires. ' Of course, I am in Orange County, and it is one of the richest places in the US (well, most expensive property). She figured they were inflating the sugar to catch more flies, I guess. But seriously, if you have gotten to a stage in life where you can consider indulging in this little activity, you are likely to have a retirement fund that hits 7 figs.
I messaged a few profiles that didn't respond and I certainly thought one reason might be being married. You also see a few women's profiles that say 'no married'. That's fine. The link in my SB intelligence post also says that married guys are considered by SBs to be good SDs. So, hey, maybe my status is helping me.
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;2941560]Unless you have to show I'd to get tested, just make up a Monger name and address and use your GV number. YOU control the anonymity that way!
Other than that, ask the clinic about their HIPPA policies. It is illegal to release medical information without consent. (not that it doesn't happen by scr*w up, mistake or carelessness).
[URL]http://www.hhs.gov/hipaa/for-professionals/privacy/[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, my exact question was about showing I'd. The testing is a service offered at Planned Parenthood, and I would be comfortable going to them (in another county where I don't reside). I just don't want to give my home address. I have a burner phone.
Long, long ago, before HIV, I BBFSed an escort in San Mateo and got urethritis. I went to the county public health for treatment and that was totally anonymous. However, things may have changed regarding STDs. Contact tracing can be important if you *are* infected with something.
Anyone ever ask their SBs if they have had Gardasil? That's the vaccine vs. HPV. It causes cervical cancer in women, and throat cancer in men who have gone down on them. I admit to having eaten a lot of p**ssy in my time, and this is a worry for my 'old' age (like someone who smoked, I guess). I ain't quitting, though.
It's not Father's Day yet unless you are in a different planet. LOL.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;2941041]There's a girl on SA (Beachbabe and some digits) who has one profile photo *with her dad* - what do you think the chances are that she has issues? Also, it's Father's Day tomorrow. Sure to raise some feelings that we might benefit from.[/QUOTE]
It's free at the hollywood location. Yes they take your name. But you can't beat free. And very friendly, professional and clean. Unlike some places. Also test results are all retrieved online. Only positive results would require them to call you. Since I started going there a few years ago, I haven't gone anywhere else.
[URL]https://healthvana.com/[/URL]
[QUOTE=Lebruno;2941890]It's not Father's Day yet unless you are in a different planet. LOL.[/QUOTE]My bad. Don't know where that came from. Sorry all. It's still coming up, and likely an opportunity, from the psychological perspective. They may have daddy issues. I have daughter issues. LOL.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2942636]It's free at the hollywood location. Yes they take your name. But you can't beat free. And very friendly, professional and clean. Unlike some places. Also test results are all retrieved online. Only positive results would require them to call you. Since I started going there a few years ago, I haven't gone anywhere else.
[URL]https://healthvana.com/[/URL][/QUOTE]Quite the resource. That site is overarching, and you can search for local clinics. Don't know that this shows they won't ask for I'd, though. Searching in my neck of the woods hits all kinds of places. County health, Planned Parenthood, etc. , who may have different policies. Free is fine, but this is already an expensive hobby, so more important is anonymous.
[QUOTE=GenevaGuy;2941400]I post on SA and tell the women I am married. They decide. Seems not to make a big difference to many of them. Also, I never post my true net worth. Always put it low. So if there is an interest from the women, even with a married guy with a smaller net worth. Its jackpot time hehe.
GG.[/QUOTE]Worked for me!