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[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4412473]I looked in Walmart and all the cards said use in USA only. Can you specify which exact card you used?
Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]I get mine at CVS and you will also get a permanent one in the mail. I recently went back and added more to the card to redo my membership. Working like a champ.
I find it very ironic that we use a card by vanilla for this lifestyle.
[QUOTE=JustLonely;4410219]Those pics are from October 2017. She has more weight now judging by her July Instagram pics. I have not seen her. Some diligent searching online will uncover her info. Do not message me as I was burned twice this summer sharing details. She seemed a bit cold in my messages to her. Money talks with her in my opinion. Better choices for same body type in our area for less money.[/QUOTE]She's definitely on the expensive end but if this is her w more weight, I don't hate it. I'm not generally going to spend that kind of cash but I'll keep her in mind for a splurge fuck.
[QUOTE=Tidad;4412568]She's definitely on the expensive end but if this is her w more weight, I don't hate it. I'm not generally going to spend that kind of cash but I'll keep her in mind for a splurge fuck.[/QUOTE]That's what she looks like. She has a lot of rules and will only go covered. YMMV but I only "splurge f*ck" with 18&19 yo first timers. With Emily, you'll get the splurge price but not the splurge service. It's about to be a great time of year in Richmond, all the 18 yo VCU girls are away from their parents for the first time and looking to experiment. Plenty will end up on SA haha.
If you want Emily you should probably act fast. Despite her profile saying "VCU" she goes to school at GMU in Fairfax.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4412580]That's what she looks like. She has a lot of rules and will only go covered. YMMV but I only "splurge f*ck" with 18&19 yo first timers. With Emily, you'll get the splurge price but not the splurge service. It's about to be a great time of year in Richmond, all the 18 yo VCU girls are away from their parents for the first time and looking to experiment. Plenty will end up on SA haha.
If you want Emily you should probably act fast. Despite her profile saying "VCU" she goes to school at GMU in Fairfax.[/QUOTE]Only so-so service? Thanks for the update.
[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4412473]I looked in Walmart and all the cards said use in USA only. Can you specify which exact card you used?
Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]Thanks CM.
[QUOTE=GregRichmond;4412161]Dude, never send money upfront. Also all of us should flag these type of scams on SA. Make an effort to report SA and get them blocked. Let's cleanup SA.[/QUOTE]I knew that but "she" was extremely convincing. Lesson learned.
On a positive note, I met a 23 y / o SB for the first time yesterday and she was absolutely perfect. Her body type is exactly what I was looking for. She has a great personality. She's educated. She lives a little over an hour away which is close enough for frequent trips but far enough to have that separation from running into her in public. She gave me a great GFE and it was just a perfect visit. I had actually closed my premium SA account because I was tired of the fake profiles and scammers but luckily I had made contact with this one before. Is there a write up on how to not fall in love with a SB.
There are posts periodically about how to handle profile photos on seeking. This is what has worked for me. I located a guy who sort of looks like me, so I've been told. He is prominent in a sport I follow, so there are lots of photos available. His persona is also something like mine, and I view it as attractive to SBs. I crop them just at mid-face, like I was trying to show part of me but also keep it safe (I have a SO). I don't take the trouble to flip them as some do, but they aren't found by reverse image search, of course. I have heard that people have had problems with getting photos rejected by SA for being 'fake' lately. I don't think you're likely to get that with photos prepared this way, but I haven't tested it. Mine have been on my profiles quite a while. I have never had a POT make a comment about them, other than 'I can't see your face'. After I have spoken by phone w / a POT and I'd like to meet, I share a real one via text. I haven't ever been told that my profile photo wasn't me.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4412580]That's what she looks like. She has a lot of rules and will only go covered. YMMV but I only "splurge f*ck" with 18&19 yo first timers. With Emily, you'll get the splurge price but not the splurge service. It's about to be a great time of year in Richmond, all the 18 yo VCU girls are away from their parents for the first time and looking to experiment. Plenty will end up on SA haha.
If you want Emily you should probably act fast. Despite her profile saying "VCU" she goes to school at GMU in Fairfax.[/QUOTE]I have had quite the different experience with her. Perhaps because I have seen her a few times. She was at GMU last spring and is doing an internship in Richmond. I saw her last week as well as another VCU that was phenomenal and wrote about.
Fortunately for me I am between DC and Richmond and am loading up on a few SA ladies and I am enjoying them. I.
Emily isn't going to sweet talk you and all that, she isn't for everyone but I really enjoy seeing her and another down there.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4412580]That's what she looks like. She has a lot of rules and will only go covered. YMMV but I only "splurge f*ck" with 18&19 yo first timers. With Emily, you'll get the splurge price but not the splurge service. It's about to be a great time of year in Richmond, all the 18 yo VCU girls are away from their parents for the first time and looking to experiment. Plenty will end up on SA haha.
If you want Emily you should probably act fast. Despite her profile saying "VCU" she goes to school at GMU in Fairfax.[/QUOTE]She is at VCU until 2021 according to her LinkedIn profile. Was at GMU 2017-2019.
[QUOTE=RonaldReagan;4412511]I get mine at CVS and you will also get a permanent one in the mail. I recently went back and added more to the card to redo my membership. Working like a champ.
I find it very ironic that we use a card by vanilla for this lifestyle.[/QUOTE]Re-loadable cards require your SS# which makes them not anonymous, especially if they are mailed to you. Don't want that if you have a SO. My recommendation is BitCoin, everything can be done completely anonymously.
[QUOTE=JustLonely;4412964]She is at VCU until 2021 according to her LinkedIn profile. Was at GMU 2017-2019.[/QUOTE]That you are looking them up on their personal information etc.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4412727]There are posts periodically about how to handle profile photos on seeking. This is what has worked for me. I located a guy who sort of looks like me, so I've been told. He is prominent in a sport I follow, so there are lots of photos available. His persona is also something like mine, and I view it as attractive to SBs. I crop them just at mid-face, like I was trying to show part of me but also keep it safe (I have a SO). I don't take the trouble to flip them as some do, but they aren't found by reverse image search, of course. I have heard that people have had problems with getting photos rejected by SA for being 'fake' lately. I don't think you're likely to get that with photos prepared this way, but I haven't tested it. Mine have been on my profiles quite a while. I have never had a POT make a comment about them, other than 'I can't see your face'. After I have spoken by phone w / a POT and I'd like to meet, I share a real one via text. I haven't ever been told that my profile photo wasn't me.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the great tip. Do you leaves the eyes uncropped in the profile pic?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4412727]There are posts periodically about how to handle profile photos on seeking. This is what has worked for me. I located a guy who sort of looks like me, so I've been told. He is prominent in a sport I follow, so there are lots of photos available. His persona is also something like mine, and I view it as attractive to SBs. I crop them just at mid-face, like I was trying to show part of me but also keep it safe (I have a SO). I don't take the trouble to flip them as some do, but they aren't found by reverse image search, of course. I have heard that people have had problems with getting photos rejected by SA for being 'fake' lately. I don't think you're likely to get that with photos prepared this way, but I haven't tested it. Mine have been on my profiles quite a while. I have never had a POT make a comment about them, other than 'I can't see your face'. After I have spoken by phone w / a POT and I'd like to meet, I share a real one via text. I haven't ever been told that my profile photo wasn't me.[/QUOTE]I have been doing this and it is working like a charm.
[QUOTE=Truncated;4412320]Buy the $100 Vanilla card.
Wait about 15 minutes after registering on the Vanilla website.
.[/QUOTE]According to support from Vanilla, you may need to wait for an hour. Last time I bought one from Walmart and did follow instruction by entering a local store address, zip code. All good. But could not use it. So I called Vanilla company. And they said it takes 60 minutes after card registration before it can be used. May be this is with Walmart. And vanilla company.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4412727]There are posts periodically about how to handle profile photos on seeking. This is what has worked for me. I located a guy who sort of looks like me, so I've been told. He is prominent in a sport I follow, so there are lots of photos available. His persona is also something like mine, and I view it as attractive to SBs. I crop them just at mid-face, like I was trying to show part of me but also keep it safe (I have a SO). I don't take the trouble to flip them as some do, but they aren't found by reverse image search, of course. I have heard that people have had problems with getting photos rejected by SA for being 'fake' lately. I don't think you're likely to get that with photos prepared this way, but I haven't tested it. Mine have been on my profiles quite a while. I have never had a POT make a comment about them, other than 'I can't see your face'. After I have spoken by phone w / a POT and I'd like to meet, I share a real one via text. I haven't ever been told that my profile photo wasn't me.[/QUOTE]Good advice.
I've found that POTs who ask too many questions about photos are more trouble than they are worth.
As long as they have an idea of what I look like, and they are serious about why they are on the site, they don't need or want to see more of me until we meet.
IMO, the ones who are asking for full face pics are either catfish or doxers, or too annoying to bother with in the first place.
Anyone remember PA?
Last year, there were a lot of photo requests by the people running that site. Seeking finally sued the site operator.
[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/9srb56/predator_alert/[/URL]
The PA scam worked by them messaging you on Seeking and asking for your cell number. Once they had that, they asked you, via text, to confirm your Seeking screen name, and then asked for a photo. Once you provided them, your pic and real identity went on the PA website.