I've had a great experience with one who approached me first
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4397956]I agree. I always hide my profile from search. I have a specific type I look for and many of the women that would even contact me just aren't my type. I've had a profile for a while, so the scammers would avoid me anyway just because of how old my profile is. They target newbies. It's not that hard just do a quick search and favorite every profile I'm interested within a 50 to 100 mile radius. I then work my way back through my favorites to send them messages. Often I will get messaged by someone I had favorited before I had the chance to message them. I've never seen it as a limiting factor.
When I have had my profile not hidden from search, I get messages from some of the ugliest women on the planet or women outside the US. No thanks.[/QUOTE]I agree 99% of the SBs who contact you first are scammers, however I did have one message me first who has turned out to be an awesome playmate this summer, 22-year old educated black girl with a tall, thin frame and beautiful tits. Been boning her bareback for the last couple of months.
Response that made me laugh
So, my standard hello message mentions my interest in "discreet afternoon meetings. " Response from a somewhat attractive mid 30's SB: "Hey handsome, I'd love to spend an afternoon getting lunch with you, then going to the spa and finishing with some upscale shopping. " I guess some variant of GPS, but who knows? We all are looking for the 20 year old spinner with hair to her tight little ass who loves nasty sex with 60 year old men; I guess they're out there looking for the rich 60 year old man who loves to sit in the corner of Moda Milano watching some 35 year old burn through his credit card. Good luck to us all.