Here are good example of the scams
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a7772d3c-a69c-417e-8663-2a3ef8cdf7ad[/URL]
She favs me without viewing my profile. For the fun of it, I play along and send her a message. Within three messages, she offers her phone number. Within 2 texts, she is telling me about her sick child who needs medication and asks if I can send money to her paypal. Of course, no, she cannot meet me in person because her baby is sick and she has to protect her integrity.
This is after earlier in the day messaging with this one [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8a9637fd-f9b1-4477-b4ad-938e32e2709e[/URL] who faved me without looking at my profile and wanted me to send her money via paypal because her phone bill was past due. Again, because I enjoy this sometimes, I told her I could go to the local store and pay it off there. She says I can't. I told her I have done it for past SBs. Strangely, I did not here back from her after that.
She looks like a superior find!
[QUOTE=MoneyT;4511756]This may be a wild adventure for me. Several months ago I added a female on Snapchat via the "Quick Add" feature. Turns out we have a mutual friend. A few months back I saw that mutual friend on her story and asked how she knew her. Small conversation was had then she stopped communication. Now at that time I was only a subscriber to her profile as she didn't add me back as a friend. From time to time I would comment on her story. And most of the time she wouldn't respond back. Last night, she had a story up so I sent her a chat saying how pretty she is. She responded back with a thank you. Taking a stab in the dark, I replied for her to let me know if she's ever looking for a SD. Her response back was everything. She replied back saying "haha well actually. " Well I jumped both feet through that opening. We started chatting a bit, I reminded her how I met her on SC (she is no longer friends with that girl). And after a few pic exchanges, we have set up a meeting for tonight. I told her I would get a hotel downtown, order in some food. She asked that we have some white wine and take things from there. She asked me what my expectations would be from a SB. When I asked what she was open to, she immediately said everything but anal. Wow, and I wasn't the one to even bring up sex. She then asked what I would be comfortable donating. I asked her and she told me whatever I thought was fair.
Tentatively we are set to meet after her last class tonight (sometime after 5:30 pm). I will report back if things work out and we actually meet. I forgot to mention that she immediately sent me her cell # and said it would be better to communicate there as opposed to on SC. That's always a good sign. I'm keeping my fingers crossed on this one. BTW she told me she is 19, Latina and goes to UIC. Here are a few photos she sent me. Sorry I can't post the ones with her face.[/QUOTE]Best of luck with her.
Initial reports from the field
After recently upgrading to premium, I was swimming through messages and making connections to reach either the following declines (by me) or stalled out with non-pros. I'll continue to work but my leads are thinning out. You guys weren't kidding, this is a lot of work but I enjoy the chase. I'm paying forward to the community to save time-.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/27104c5d-70c3-420b-8e13-ecf2a4e70ed2[/URL]
Looks like a hotwife style fetish for a married couple. Wants BBFS for $500, and wants it weekly. I'm not a BBFS guy, and price is way too high for no oral and restricted experience. Private pics are ok, but not $500 level.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1ada7ea3-8e20-4ec1-913e-4bff05f27cea[/URL]
She's a pro. Wanted $300 for oral action but her private pic was a little more recent and bigger. I told her $200 was the most I've ever paid for oral and she went dark.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e9a3ec58-72db-498a-9dc9-0ada8bbdc63d[/URL]
Likely pro that will host out in Hoffman Estates. Never discussed money because it isn't worth the trip for me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f8033ce7-eb16-4c6c-9613-69376ee4054a[/URL]
Her profile pretty much tells you what she wants. I'm not claiming to be a dom, and she's not looking to teach me. I'm sure there's money involved but didn't get that far.
I had another one with a cute nursing student which turned into a pitch to sell pics and videos. I think she took her profile down because my messages are no longer in the inbox.
Here's one I'm looking for intel on:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/195321be-364a-4733-b2a3-cefe4b60bb67[/URL]
Pics are hot and she wants guys in relationships, which suggests that she only wants two things from you.
I thought I had said it was a scam
[QUOTE=FnlvnGuy;4514734]I asked the same question some time ago and nobody answered. It looks like no one is using it. I get a lot of emails, but I believe it is all scam to make you purchase credits.[/QUOTE]I saw a post for another city and sent SB an email similar to what he had sent. This is the e-mail body that I sent saying how they are a scam site and should be shut down.
I have made comments, complaints before about the lack of responses from the women on your site which never got any better. I had taken notes and pictures of those I had contacted, then I had hidden my profile to do some research. I had messaged over 80 profiles on your site and LESS than 10 had replied and the rest went unread and unanswered which is a super low rate. I have found some of the women that are in your profiles on other sites and contacted them and found some startling results. Your site has either grabbed their information to create a fake profile, used fake / stolen / downloaded pictures to use in fake profiles, sent out fake messages from profiles that didn't have messages and a few others which are all a scam to get the men to buy the credits. Your website should be shutdown for all of the illegal activity you are doing to steal our money and I will probably report it along with posting my results for others to see. Hopefully it will get viewed and passed on to others so they stop paying your scam. I have plenty of screen shots of my messages, and those profiles involved as evidence if anything does come out from this legally. You can completely remove my account from this worthless scam site because I will no longer be using it, ever.
This is what they sent to me for their reply.
Sorry to hear you haven't been completely satisfied with your experience on the site.
All of your purchases have been refunded, you can expect the funds to be returned to your credit card within 10 working days, and your profile has been deleted.
Thanks,
Hosts are rare, but sometimes out there
[QUOTE=Chicago41;4520207]How often do you guys meet someone on SA who can host? If I'm ever doing this again, I can't host anymore. In all the time I spent on there previously I never met anyone who could or would host.[/QUOTE]Hosting in a hotel room they already have = pro. Not always the worst thing in the world if they aren't also posting ads everywhere else and you need a quick setup. But, may or may not be what you had in mind joining SA.
Hosting at a private place without meeting you in public: Can work, but comes with a lot of risks. You have no guarantee that whoever's at that address is the girl you've been chatting with, and the scenarios you can end up in if there are really bad actors involved are pretty scary. Do your homework on both the girl and area / neighborhood if at all possible.
Hosting at private place after meeting you in public: Obviously the rarest but best scenario. In this case you've met, built at least a little bit of a connection, negotiated rates, and both decided to go through with something. Chances of a scam or worse are a lot lower if you've actually seen them, followed their car, etc. Only caveat from experience is that the sights and smells of someone's personal space aren't guaranteed to be turn-on, so be ready. I think the whole thing still works if you control all the logistics and end up in a decent hotel room, but it would be hard to turn down a trip to a good prospect's apartment.
