Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[QUOTE=ConCityKing;5952676]Anyone have any info. Have a date lined up. Just checking with my fellow mongers.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8a12ead6-e904-4b87-ab3d-fa63541c0027[/URL]

Decent price and rules quoted. PM is fine.[/QUOTE]Meeting her next week.

I've definitely had luck with women who list platonic, but I definitely pay attention to what else they pick. Platonic plus marriage minded is a death blow.

I honestly don't even read the tags anymore. 9 out of 10 they have picked some random shit. The flags for me are typically in the sections they type.

[QUOTE=GutterMind4;5953604]Here's another one that says no strings attached AND plutonic. So if she's quoted rules, we can only assume she's not plutonic unless one of the rules is no touching. If you can clear that up before or after your date, that would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]

Ok guys I signed up to what's your price and I am being bombarded with offers? I ignore the ones out of the area but some are from the Charlotte area, are they fake bots wanting me to buy credits? I know my offers for them will never get paid if I don't see them but have you found that the girls on this site are more looking for regular dates or sugar daddy's or girls wanting to meet get the offer and run. Help..

[QUOTE=Dollersine;5958484]Ok guys I signed up to what's your price and I am being bombarded with offers? I ignore the ones out of the area but some are from the Charlotte area, are they fake bots wanting me to buy credits? I know my offers for them will never get paid if I don't see them but have you found that the girls on this site are more looking for regular dates or sugar daddy's or girls wanting to meet get the offer and run. Help..[/QUOTE]Am not a paying member on WYP; but I am on Secret Benefits. I do get a lot of hits on SB. But very little replies. It looks like same company operating those 2.

[QUOTE=Dollersine;5958484]Ok guys I signed up to what's your price and I am being bombarded with offers? I ignore the ones out of the area but some are from the Charlotte area, are they fake bots wanting me to buy credits? I know my offers for them will never get paid if I don't see them but have you found that the girls on this site are more looking for regular dates or sugar daddy's or girls wanting to meet get the offer and run. Help..[/QUOTE]It's been my experience any of the sites, if chick hits you up first proceed with caution. Usually the best out come she is a pro, but most likely a photo seller, scammer, or fake.

[QUOTE=Crewzin;5958754]It's been my experience any of the sites, if chick hits you up first proceed with caution. Usually the best out come she is a pro, but most likely a photo seller, scammer, or fake.[/QUOTE]I have tried What's Your Price (WYP), Secret Benefits (SB) and Seeking Arrangement (SA). My assessment:

WYP. I tried it, home of GPS. I met a few women, one a Pro for sure. The expectation on the part of all 3 was the offer is for a meet and greet only. You are paying for the opportunity to buy them dinner or whatever. You want more, IF they will do more, if is at additional cost. I say if, because many, particularly young, really think we are willing to pay for the pleasure of their company and nothing more. They get that expectation from WYP, in my opinion.

SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits.

Seeking Arrangements, which is now called Seeking is expensive, but, most legit of the 3. You will have to put in time, effort and money, but, there are true sugar babies, as well as pro's, fakes, flakes and scammers. The world we live in. When I had more time and patience, the hunt was fun and eventually productive. I don't have a current membership nor recommendation.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

[QUOTE=CinMiner;5958944]I have tried What's Your Price (WYP), Secret Benefits (SB) and Seeking Arrangement (SA). My assessment:

WYP. I tried it, home of GPS. I met a few women, one a Pro for sure. The expectation on the part of all 3 was the offer is for a meet and greet only. You are paying for the opportunity to buy them dinner or whatever. You want more, IF they will do more, if is at additional cost. I say if, because many, particularly young, really think we are willing to pay for the pleasure of their company and nothing more. They get that expectation from WYP, in my opinion.

SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits.

Seeking Arrangements, which is now called Seeking is expensive, but, most legit of the 3. You will have to put in time, effort and money, but, there are true sugar babies, as well as pro's, fakes, flakes and scammers. The world we live in. When I had more time and patience, the hunt was fun and eventually productive. I don't have a current membership nor recommendation.

I hope this helps. Good luck.[/QUOTE]I only use Seeking and my goal is to start a message, get a mobile number then move the conversation off the site. That way you do not risk being banned. Then proceed to establish real from fake, photo virtual girls and real meet up girls. If you want a relationship then be prepared for a paid meet and great. If you want a one time meet up, your texting just ask the details. I have had success both ways. Depends on what you are looking for. Be prepared to spend some money but to me it beats places like STG and real life dating. Also I am ghosted maybe 3 out of 10 meet ups and have started a relationship paid money and the girl moved to another State. Either way for me it is a risk and expensive but I have met some really nice ladies.

[QUOTE=CinMiner;5958944]I have tried What's Your Price (WYP), Secret Benefits (SB) and Seeking Arrangement (SA). My assessment:

SB is a waste of money and time. Never met one woman from that site, and I worked it, even recognized a pro I had seen before. They definitely use bots to generate generic messages to you from women whose profile you have used, in order to get you to use your credits.

Seeking Arrangements, which is now called Seeking is expensive, but, most legit of the 3. You will have to put in time, effort and money, but, there are true sugar babies, as well as pro's, fakes, flakes and scammers. The world we live in. When I had more time and patience, the hunt was fun and eventually productive. I don't have a current membership nor recommendation. [/QUOTE]SB is definitely not a waste of money and time, but it can be expensive if you don't know how to play. I have so many different girls that I am screwing and more that want to meet for some ins and outs. If I just didn't have a limited sperm count and bank account I could meet 2 to 3 girls a day for a banging good time. Maybe you just don't have the knack for getting success on SB. Good! That leaves more putang for me.

[QUOTE=JohnMarigold;5959230]SB is definitely not a waste of money and time, but it can be expensive if you don't know how to play. I have so many different girls that I am screwing and more that want to meet for some ins and outs. If I just didn't have a limited sperm count and bank account I could meet 2 to 3 girls a day for a banging good time. Maybe you just don't have the knack for getting success on SB. Good! That leaves more putang for me.[/QUOTE]I agree with the original comment that SB is a waste of time and money, but good for you if you work it out. I have seen reports on Reddit from ex staff who say they deliberately use bots to get guys to use up credits. I saw a couple of women on SB that I knew from seeking were real, but never managed to get laid once from SB. On the other hand I have tons of success on seeking and have a bunch of women I have hooked up with or had ongoing relationships with. For me, Seeking is 100% the only place to get consistent sugar babies.

Anyone saw this chick? LTGBT, wants to meet rather quick and pics sent privately look hot!! And claims to be in Greenville, sc, coming to charlotte for the weekend.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/eb093502-469c-47e1-a240-f5002c241bdb[/URL]

Met with this one, more like trashyGurl. Wants allowance and is greedy and wants number of things before anything starts as far as arrangement.

[QUOTE=Emjay;5952431]HonestGurl.

Anyone seen this or share any experiences?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e9685ae7-457c-460b-ba24-3b230cf3de3e[/URL][/QUOTE]

WOW, Thanks all! I have been talking to one off line for a day or two but can't tell if she is a cash and dash? I explained I was looking for a nsa and discrete encounter and she said agreed. I paid for the 100 credits and have enough to maybe try one other but I would say going forward I will move over to Seeking. Would all of you say that's better? At least I don't have to hand cash over at out meetings. Thanks again and if you all have additional thoughts please spill them, I would guess I am not the only one who does not know what site to search for steady girls between WYP (not the boards fav) SB (the board worst choice) and Seeking (the board best choice).

Stay safe out there!

I've had 3 recent successes with wyp, you can be honest with the first date price most girls there know what's up.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/da0b0c96-382e-4af0-87eb-8ea1a19a16c6[/URL]

Anyone know this one? Seems TGTBT and way too willing.

Account is a couple of weeks old and doesn't put the city she's in. Classic signs it's a deposit scam. If you've been chatting and she's seems way to easy, like no questions, doesn't ask for pics, can host if you need but can also drive to you, ppm is low or reasonable, it's very likely a scam.

[QUOTE=TriadTraveler;5960882][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/da0b0c96-382e-4af0-87eb-8ea1a19a16c6[/URL]

Anyone know this one? Seems TGTBT and way too willing.[/QUOTE]

I think she's a college student home for the summer. Had the same offer to meet in Charlotte this weekend, otherwise she is living with family in Greenville. If it was a scam, she would have lied and said whatever, whenever, for any amount. So I don't get any bad vibes. And if she's hussling to find a date in Charlotte this weekend, she's probably DTF. Haven't seen pictures so LMK if anything happens.

[QUOTE=Emjay;5959654]Anyone saw this chick? LTGBT, wants to meet rather quick and pics sent privately look hot!! And claims to be in Greenville, sc, coming to charlotte for the weekend.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/eb093502-469c-47e1-a240-f5002c241bdb[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GutterMind4;5961077]I think she's a college student home for the summer. Had the same offer to meet in Charlotte this weekend, otherwise she is living with family in Greenville. If it was a scam, she would have lied and said whatever, whenever, for any amount. So I don't get any bad vibes. And if she's hussling to find a date in Charlotte this weekend, she's probably DTF. Haven't seen pictures so LMK if anything happens.[/QUOTE]Sounds likely legit but also high ghosting potential. She's going to tell 10 guys she can meet this weekend then pick the highest bidder that doesn't totally creep her out.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c1cf7597-7ab5-4f24-a495-2a6616a09246[/URL]

[QUOTE=GutterMind4;5961077]I think she's a college student home for the summer. Had the same offer to meet in Charlotte this weekend, otherwise she is living with family in Greenville. If it was a scam, she would have lied and said whatever, whenever, for any amount. So I don't get any bad vibes. And if she's hussling to find a date in Charlotte this weekend, she's probably DTF. Haven't seen pictures so LMK if anything happens.[/QUOTE]

Chatting with this one, anyone met and smashed this?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ec2324c4-f4e5-4485-b96b-30a3e1013e26[/URL]

I think you got these girls mixed up.

Melissa is likely a fake.

Classy Socialite likely real but yes, probably over booking her lady parts this weekend while in Charlotte and granting it to the highest bidder. Which will, in turn, cause other Daddies to get ghosted, LOL. I'd still like to see pics of Classy if she is real. Profile pic looks thick but maybe in a good way.

And to be frank, I do the same thing, specifically with the GPS girls right up to when I know I've got a solid date locked down. Just part of the game I guess.

[QUOTE=Bruco;5961186]Sounds likely legit but also high ghosting potential. She's going to tell 10 guys she can meet this weekend then pick the highest bidder that doesn't totally creep her out.[/QUOTE]

I had meet up with her about a year ago. She does go to college here as stated. The amount she was asking for was always more than what I was willing to give. I know a few people on here were able to get her down to a more reasonable amount. She has been reviewed on here before under previous profile (Pinktigerr88 or something like that).

[QUOTE=GutterMind4;5961077]I think she's a college student home for the summer. Had the same offer to meet in Charlotte this weekend, otherwise she is living with family in Greenville. If it was a scam, she would have lied and said whatever, whenever, for any amount. So I don't get any bad vibes. And if she's hussling to find a date in Charlotte this weekend, she's probably DTF. Haven't seen pictures so LMK if anything happens.[/QUOTE]

She did ghost me.

We set up a meeting for 3:20 today. After texting her for most of the morning she stopped responding at 12 o'clock.

[QUOTE=PorcPorc;5961470]I had meet up with her about a year ago. She does go to college here as stated. The amount she was asking for was always more than what I was willing to give. I know a few people on here were able to get her down to a more reasonable amount. She has been reviewed on here before under previous profile (Pinktigerr88 or something like that).[/QUOTE]I got it for $300, thought it was overpriced for her looks. I saw cellulite on the back of her legs, she said I was too old for seeking LOL. Her appearance was about 5-6 out of 10. YMMV.

Well said!! She quoted me 500 and has the hotel this weekend, the pics she sent (Spinner looks) and the looks in person is total opposite!!

She is way too thick and looking bit rough, over priced for sure, she took a hotel in her own for the weekend and opened the shop / LOL. I didn't pull the trigger no way I spending 500 for her.

300 is the new 250/ so 300 is about right for her!!

[QUOTE=Roachman;5961684]I got it for $300, thought it was overpriced for her looks. I saw cellulite on the back of her legs, she said I was too old for seeking LOL. Her appearance was about 5-6 out of 10. YMMV.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Emjay;5961952]Well said!! She quoted me 500 and has the hotel this weekend, the pics she sent (Spinner looks) and the looks in person is total opposite!!

She is way too thick and looking bit rough, over priced for sure, she took a hotel in her own for the weekend and opened the shop / LOL. I didn't pull the trigger no way I spending 500 for her.

300 is the new 250/ so 300 is about right for her!![/QUOTE]The only good thing was, she did go BBFS for all those that partake, she is an one and done for me.

[QUOTE=Emjay;5961952]Well said!! She quoted me 500 and has the hotel this weekend, the pics she sent (Spinner looks) and the looks in person is total opposite!!

She is way too thick and looking bit rough, over priced for sure, she took a hotel in her own for the weekend and opened the shop / LOL. I didn't pull the trigger no way I spending 500 for her.

300 is the new 250/ so 300 is about right for her!![/QUOTE]She quoted me 500 too. Came down to 300 almost immediately though. She told me her name is Sara. Greenville, SC story seems legit. Said she's in her final year of undergrad and wants to pursue law school. She also said she's going to be back in Charlotte in August. Attaching the only picture she shared with me.

[QUOTE=TriadTraveler;5961480]She did ghost me.

We set up a meeting for 3:20 today. After texting her for most of the morning she stopped responding at 12 o'clock.[/QUOTE]Is this the Melissa being talked about.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/da0b0c96-382e-4af0-87eb-8ea1a19a16c6[/URL]

She wanted 700 but agreed to 350. We have not met yet. The last text I got from her, she wanted to send her CashApp I'd so I can send money. I have not responded to her yet.

Guys don't go after her, she claims to be honest but wants money for videos. She is listed in WYP and in Clt?

[QUOTE=MilfLover9;5962964]She quoted me 500 too. Came down to 300 almost immediately though. She told me her name is Sara. Greenville, SC story seems legit. Said she's in her final year of undergrad and wants to pursue law school. She also said she's going to be back in Charlotte in August. Attaching the only picture she shared with me.[/QUOTE]This is Pink Tiger [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c1cf7597-7ab5-4f24-a495-2a6616a09246[/URL].

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5951912]If they have their location as North Carolina, North Carolina it's usually fake.[/QUOTE]Oh she is real and can be a good time. You just can't be a simp and know how to handle these type of women.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5963554]Is this the Melissa being talked about.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/da0b0c96-382e-4af0-87eb-8ea1a19a16c6[/URL]

She wanted 700 but agreed to 350. We have not met yet. The last text I got from her, she wanted to send her CashApp I'd so I can send money. I have not responded to her yet.[/QUOTE]Yes that's her.

[QUOTE=TriadTraveler;5964836]Yes that's her.[/QUOTE]Wow this chick got almost 2 pages LOL. I'm just being nosey I'm not on yalls pay scale. How ever I did see one Asian off seeking caught her just after her sugar daddy had left town and she really needed cash. I got a room 80 gave her 140 and we hung out about 45 minutes very good time. After that I gave up bc it was just to much BS and lies. All of them go to college or own their own business lmao ok what ever.

[QUOTE=Dollersine;5963911]Guys don't go after her, she claims to be honest but wants money for videos. She is listed in WYP and in Clt?[/QUOTE]These "Buy my video first to prove you're real" is a complete scam. Once you cash app her, she is gone!

I got her to agree at $100, I guess she was desperate. And wants me to cash app her the $100 before we meet. I even offer her to meet in public place first; no bueno! Her area code is 209 (Bay Area in California) and she refused to provide more details on which part of Charlotte she lives.

Save yourself some time and effort. Just report her!

[QUOTE=Skboy;5964406]Oh she is real and can be a good time. You just can't be a simp and know how to handle these type of women.[/QUOTE]What was the damage? Been talking to her.

[QUOTE=ModelX;5965038]These "Buy my video first to prove you're real" is a complete scam. Once you cash app her, she is gone!

I got her to agree at $100, I guess she was desperate. And wants me to cash app her the $100 before we meet. I even offer her to meet in public place first; no bueno! Her area code is 209 (Bay Area in California) and she refused to provide more details on which part of Charlotte she lives.

Save yourself some time and effort. Just report her![/QUOTE]I actually met her she is out of belmont, very flirtatious during text and thought she would be openminded unfortunately she is very reserved in person going as far to tell me doesn't even kiss on the first date. We were going to have a second meet but logic took over and I realized she was a maybe and just wasnt worth the long term investment.

[QUOTE=CaptCipher;5965956]I actually met her she is out of belmont, very flirtatious during text and thought she would be openminded unfortunately she is very reserved in person going as far to tell me doesn't even kiss on the first date. We were going to have a second meet but logic took over and I realized she was a maybe and just wasnt worth the long term investment.[/QUOTE]Yea she told me she was in Belmont, tried to meet and she is whacked out, she says she is shy but a no go.

Anyone met this one? Wants to meet up with out too much resistance.

Pics look good, not true if that's how she looks like in person.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/30f2de9e-ac98-4484-b821-d9cbad37decd[/URL]

[QUOTE=Emjay;5968040]Anyone met this one? Wants to meet up with out too much resistance.

Pics look good, not true if that's how she looks like in person.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/30f2de9e-ac98-4484-b821-d9cbad37decd[/URL][/QUOTE]Pics filtered up. Face shows a little wear. Doesn't give a great BJ. Ok for a one and done visit.

Not sure how you guys are handling with flakers and scammers.

Last year experience with SA was cool. I could find some genuine contacts if I spend some time but last 3 months all I am getting are flakers and scammers.

This profile looks legit the conversations was fine but despite scheduling meet up 2 times she flaked both the time at last moment.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e73af5c0-3fef-43eb-8643-03056aa11aae[/URL]

Past 3 months, if I am looking for some hot looking girls, they are asking for 750 to 1 k and then if I am getting anyone in range of 350 to 400 it has happened to me 3 separate profiles have flaked at last moment and it's so frustrating and for the last meet up I had to pay 120 $ for hotel even after cancellation.

[QUOTE=BlueStar7;5969974]Not sure how you guys are handling with flakers and scammers.

Last year experience with SA was cool. I could find some genuine contacts if I spend some time but last 3 months all I am getting are flakers and scammers.

This profile looks legit the conversations was fine but despite scheduling meet up 2 times she flaked both the time at last moment.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e73af5c0-3fef-43eb-8643-03056aa11aae[/URL]

Past 3 months, if I am looking for some hot looking girls, they are asking for 750 to 1 k and then if I am getting anyone in range of 350 to 400 it has happened to me 3 separate profiles have flak.ed at last moment and it's so frustrating and for the last meet up I had to pay 120 $ for hotel even after cancellation.[/QUOTE]I have tried to meet up with Blaire but she would never commit so I gave up. She quoted me 400 plus a room. Don't get a room unless they are verified. If they won't verify their pics by video chat or a pic with your name then most likely they are flakes.