[QUOTE=Smokey1981; 1545629]I quoete.
Hi Ladies (and guys. Opinions from regulars would be great too) ,
[/QUOTE]Hi Smokey,
Glad to hear you had some fun at LD.
Unlike the previous poster, I'm a strip club lover. I'd rather keep things safe and legal.
It sounds like you kept your wife happy at the club, and for that you get an A+ in my book.
Regarding costs.
It's always a negotiation. The girls can give almost any deal they want to give. They're trying to maximize their income like any salesperson. Since you weren't into the first girl, you had more negotiating power, and you probably could have gotten her to dance for a lot less. There's no shame in saying "no" or "ahh. I wish I could" at the club. The girls hear it all the time. If you would have pulled back when she raised the price she probably would have backed down or figured out a way to save the deal. If not, well. She wasn't that great anyway. And the bitchy ones never are.
Generally, my strategy is to make sure they know I am on a budget. My eyes pop out when they quote me a high price, and I smile and say I wish I could. If they're bitchy, they may move on, but that's a good filter. The bitchy ones need to move on anyway.
Girls ask for a tip because many guys will pay to avoid awkwardness, but it's not customary to tip after a lap dance. I never tip (unless the value provided has warranted it, and I genuinely feel like tipping). To avoid awkwardness I say."I've got to save some money for more dances later." That leaves it open-ended and she's not sure if you're talking about dances with her or with another girl. Then before she has a chance to say anything I stand up and open my arms wide for a big hug.
Larry
