"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4358920]I haven't been able to figure this one out using resources like Urban Dictionary. There are lots girls on seeking who use 'mermaid' in their usernames, or refer to themselves as such. What does this signify? Hey, a year or two ago, I helped you SDs out w / the insight on what 'netflix and chill' means. Could you return the favor? .[/QUOTE]Was that you? Thanks because I had no clue what it meant until you explained it. As far as memaid. I googled it and it said "slang for a woman who will let you do anything above the waist, nothing below the waist".

[QUOTE=HankMoody;4359247]Was that you? Thanks because I had no clue what it meant until you explained it. As far as memaid. I googled it and it said "slang for a woman who will let you do anything above the waist, nothing below the waist".[/QUOTE]Holly crap! A new species to watch out for and block. I had no idea, but I do see a lot mermaid names as well. Thanks for the education.

Met her for lunch and going for FC Monday will report back.

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4359499]Holly crap! A new species to watch out for and block. I had no idea, but I do see a lot mermaid names as well. Thanks for the education.[/QUOTE]Agreed, thank you. However, this isn't good. A SB who won't let you go below the belt is useless. Perhaps someone who is seeing or M&Ging a girl who uses this term can as her.

[QUOTE=BStreet;4352442]Anyone had any dates with her. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/00acff01-7ec6-46fa-88ea-9f9f493858ca[/URL].[/QUOTE]I've seen her a few times for oral adventures. Little thicker than her pics but fun time.

Over a couple years, I saw a woman on SA. She was in 30's with few kids. Worked in healthcare industry off Chippenham. She was thick with big titties. Do any of you mongers remember her? Have contact info for her? Please PM me, don't post on board. I know she has real life outside SA. I don't remember her screen name. Help me guys LOL.

Thanks.

Anyone talking to her? We text every couple of months or so, but a M&G never seems to work out. Thanks!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0d8d1223-da39-4de1-9c70-0248821f3cc3[/URL]

Someone on the Cincy forum just linked to this Reddit post that collected stats on active SD / SB numbers in various cities, and calculates the ratio for each city:

[URL]https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/ccu1ey/number_of_active_sds_and_sbs_with_ratios_by_city[/URL]

[QUOTE=Zcochran00;4364062]Someone on the Cincy forum just linked to this Reddit post that collected stats on active SD / SB numbers in various cities, and calculates the ratio for each city:

[URL]https://old.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/ccu1ey/number_of_active_sds_and_sbs_with_ratios_by_city[/URL][/QUOTE]Even Boston is 6:1 SB / SD ratio, and yet it has a (well-deserved) reputation for SB's having unrealistic financial expectations. But hey, whatever, it does validate the SD approach of just nexting a GPS girl. The numbers are definitely in an SD's favor.

[QUOTE=Walruscl;4364829]Even Boston is 6:1 SB / SD ratio, and yet it has a (well-deserved) reputation for SB's having unrealistic financial expectations. But hey, whatever, it does validate the SD approach of just nexting a GPS girl. The numbers are definitely in an SD's favor.[/QUOTE]It's like going fishing.

The most patient fisherman is the one who lands the best fish.

There are some amazing girls on Seeking. You just need to dangle your lure in the water for a while, and let them come to you.

Or, jump in and splash around and hope you grab. Anything.

[QUOTE=Truncated;4365023]It's like going fishing.

The most patient fisherman is the one who lands the best fish.

There are some amazing girls on Seeking. You just need to dangle your lure in the water for a while, and let them come to you.

Or, jump in and splash around and hope you grab. Anything.[/QUOTE]My current SB I would put in the "amazing" category for lots of reasons. Ironically, the sex would not be one of them. Granted, she gets the job done, but nothing like my former LTSB. But for me, right now, that's ok. As she is amazing in so many other ways, and I value our companionship time as much or more as our intimate time.

I'm lucky for serendipity to have led me to her.

I am indebted to my bowlbuddy for turning me onto this. Facebook messenger is a standalone app. I happened to have it on my Android phone from the word go, but never fired it up. When I did, it looked into my contacts, where I have entered every girl who gave me her #. I was not required to give my own FB info, of which I have none for sugaring. Only my real profile, which of course I *never* want to cross into my sugar life. Anyway, the app goes through the phone #s and gives the FB usernames of all the girls it recognizes. That means real first and last names mostly. Sometimes it also give locations, occupations, etc, whatever might be on her FB page. Since I am doing this on my burner that doesn't include any of my real identity, I think this is safe. Provided I don't "wave" at any girl on my phone, I don't think she'll even know I found this out. I have also found some numbers that were from girls, supposedly, but then a guy's name is on messenger. Those I blocked.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4365837]I am indebted to my bowlbuddy for turning me onto this. Facebook messenger is a standalone app. I happened to have it on my Android phone from the word go, but never fired it up. When I did, it looked into my contacts, where I have entered every girl who gave me her #. I was not required to give my own FB info, of which I have none for sugaring. Only my real profile, which of course I *never* want to cross into my sugar life. Anyway, the app goes through the phone #s and gives the FB usernames of all the girls it recognizes. That means real first and last names mostly. Sometimes it also give locations, occupations, etc, whatever might be on her FB page. Since I am doing this on my burner that doesn't include any of my real identity, I think this is safe. Provided I don't "wave" at any girl on my phone, I don't think she'll even know I found this out. I have also found some numbers that were from girls, supposedly, but then a guy's name is on messenger. Those I blocked.[/QUOTE]I assume that you use Messenger and Facebook from a fake email address. A couple of years ago, I used WhatsApp from my burner phone, but I had used FB from my real profile on the same phone. (haven't done that again.) A few days later, the SB showed up on my real FB as a friend suggestion. If FB can get to the data on the apps you use, they will make the connections!!

Also, in addition to Messenger, FB owns WhatsApp. What other apps does FB own that we would want to be aware of? Likit.

[QUOTE=LikItFun;4367570]

Also, in addition to Messenger, FB owns WhatsApp. What other apps does FB own that we would want to be aware of? Likit.[/QUOTE]Facebook also owns Instagram.

Even if you are using a burner, if you do anything with it that is connected to your other activities it will be linked to you. Even just connecting to WiFi with it.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4365837]I am indebted to my bowlbuddy for turning me onto this. Facebook messenger is a standalone app. I happened to have it on my Android phone from the word go, but never fired it up. When I did, it looked into my contacts, where I have entered every girl who gave me her #. I was not required to give my own FB info, of which I have none for sugaring. Only my real profile, which of course I *never* want to cross into my sugar life. Anyway, the app goes through the phone #s and gives the FB usernames of all the girls it recognizes. That means real first and last names mostly. Sometimes it also give locations, occupations, etc, whatever might be on her FB page. Since I am doing this on my burner that doesn't include any of my real identity, I think this is safe. Provided I don't "wave" at any girl on my phone, I don't think she'll even know I found this out. I have also found some numbers that were from girls, supposedly, but then a guy's name is on messenger. Those I blocked.[/QUOTE]As an added bonus, once you have there FB profile, check out there hot friends that look like they may play too. Works for escorts, SB & strippers.

Remember the old saying, "Birds of a feather,. ". Ha, ha. If your playing safe thru a burner phone, if you message them & get no reply or piss them off, go to the next hottie. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.