"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4347452]I've been in contact from SA w / a MILF around 40 for a bit. I have had pretty good success w / these in the past. There is usually no BS, often they can host, and she has implied that she would. I haven't met her yet. This one has 4 kids, but she says that he ex 'took them away' from her. Hmm. I used Snapchat to search all the contacts on my phone, and in that way got her Snap username which gave me her full name. I searched that and hit on many 'information' selling sites, including [URL]mylife.com[/URL]. It shows that she has had 3 arrests recently, 2 in 2015 and one in 2018, one w / a 5 K bail. I could get a PI I am in touch with to check her out, for $65, or I could use one of the web sites. Or just pass. What would you do?[/QUOTE]Is this a joke?

Check her out? It's obvious this woman is addicted to major drama and she would not hesitate to blow up your life if you give her half a chance. Is she good in the sack? Probably. The question you need to answer is: how much can you afford to lose?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4347452]I've been in contact from SA w / a MILF around 40 for a bit. I have had pretty good success w / these in the past. There is usually no BS, often they can host, and she has implied that she would. I haven't met her yet. This one has 4 kids, but she says that he ex 'took them away' from her. Hmm. I used Snapchat to search all the contacts on my phone, and in that way got her Snap username which gave me her full name. I searched that and hit on many 'information' selling sites, including [URL]mylife.com[/URL]. It shows that she has had 3 arrests recently, 2 in 2015 and one in 2018, one w / a 5 K bail. I could get a PI I am in touch with to check her out, for $65, or I could use one of the web sites. Or just pass. What would you do?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;4347919]Is this a joke?

Check her out? It's obvious this woman is addicted to major drama and she would not hesitate to blow up your life if you give her half a chance. Is she good in the sack? Probably. The question you need to answer is: how much can you afford to lose?[/QUOTE]Seriously. How could anyone that's invested that much time into following a lead like this one need advice? She's bad news. You should avoid the fuck out of this one.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4347452]I've been in contact from SA w / a MILF around 40 for a bit. I have had pretty good success w / these in the past. There is usually no BS, often they can host, and she has implied that she would. I haven't met her yet. This one has 4 kids, but she says that he ex 'took them away' from her. Hmm. I used Snapchat to search all the contacts on my phone, and in that way got her Snap username which gave me her full name. I searched that and hit on many 'information' selling sites, including [URL]mylife.com[/URL]. It shows that she has had 3 arrests recently, 2 in 2015 and one in 2018, one w / a 5 K bail. I could get a PI I am in touch with to check her out, for $65, or I could use one of the web sites. Or just pass. What would you do?[/QUOTE]I could understand looking the other way for one arrest.

But three? That's a dangerous person you're dealing with.

She will get arrested a fourth time. The only question is, will it involve you?

[QUOTE=TravelinSD;4347007]I agree with pretty much everything this poster has to say. I travel a lot for business and SA has been good for me. I'm fairly selective in what I"m looking for, so I do not always find a hit in a city. Plus, the nature of my work makes it difficult to work around client, work schedules and discretion at times. I have more hits than misses though when I've gotten to the meet and greets. I have ladies in Seattle and NOLA that I've seen twice now that will be my go-tos in those cities. Plus a great find in my last trip to Vegas. The absolute best pair I've experienced were two incredible ladies in Dallas few years ago.

I also agree that in my home base I'm looking for value at no more than 1 k a month for weekly meetings, but when I'm on the road 300 is my norm and went 400 for my incredible Vegas experience. All-in-all my SA experience has been much more rewarding and a better value in my travels than my the TER days.

Good hunting!

Travelin.[/QUOTE]Yes and good point on TER. I agree completely, the value and results on SA do make it more rewarding. Good word to describe it. Not sure about others on here, but I had a few not so good surprises on TER. And in fairness also met some nice women. But as mentioned, SA takes time and its hard work, but I kind of treat like a hobby. I used the aforementioned TER site quite a bit when traveling before it's demise and the screening / reviews were always helpful (although no where near as good as the subject site). But SA is very different. And the results tend to be more interesting. You really don't know what your going to get until the meet and greet. Which can be both good and bad of course. But at least you have the m&g to decide and you can always walk away. And I have never paid and never will to meet a SB, outside of coffee, drinks & appetizers, etc. Just my opinion, but if they are asking for money just to meet, move on.

Has anyone had any luck with this hottie? [URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/7qkeBKrlYJ3OLqGJZ2xR16zv[/URL].

[URL]https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7209485/Woman-extorts-sugar-daddy-tomahawk-wielding-accomplices-stormed-demanding-cash.html[/URL]

"Haynes' defence lawyer argued that when she called Sullivan and Diaz, she had no idea the two men would come to the house armed with a tomahawk. ".

Anyone had any dates with her. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/00acff01-7ec6-46fa-88ea-9f9f493858ca[/URL].

[QUOTE=BStreet;4352442]Anyone had any dates with her. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/00acff01-7ec6-46fa-88ea-9f9f493858ca[/URL].[/QUOTE]Have not seen her but she is on WYP listing discreet affairs as a like. I exchanged several dozen messages with her on Seeking 3 weeks ago. Pretty much one sided so I figured she was a dead end for me.

I NEVER use my real phone for anything hobby related. Even changed numbers 9 months ago. Everythign is on a google voice for texting, can't remembewr the last time I enabled it to call from my cell via the app.

4 AM roles around and my phone goes off with a group text nwith 19 other numbers visible, offering hot nsa fun with a 25 yo freak if I click this link.

Wife sees it before I do. Not a good way to start the day.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4354299]I NEVER use my real phone for anything hobby related. Even changed numbers 9 months ago. Everythign is on a google voice for texting, can't remembewr the last time I enabled it to call from my cell via the app.

4 AM roles around and my phone goes off with a group text nwith 19 other numbers visible, offering hot nsa fun with a 25 yo freak if I click this link.

Wife sees it before I do. Not a good way to start the day.[/QUOTE]I have no doubt that could put a SO on edge, especially if they have any haunting suspicions about your extracurricular. On the other hand, spam is so rampant today, getting a message like this isn't exactly damning. Sorry you had to endure this. I also have a SO who periodically goes on the warpath, over much smaller things than this. My advice. FC your wife. It placates them.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4354299]I NEVER use my real phone for anything hobby related. Even changed numbers 9 months ago. Everything is on a google voice for texting, can't remember the last time I enabled it to call from my cell via the app.

4 AM roles around and my phone goes off with a group text with 19 other numbers visible, offering hot nsa fun with a 25 yo freak if I click this link.

Wife sees it before I do. Not a good way to start the day.[/QUOTE]They could have gotten your number from anywhere.

Do you know any of the other 19 numbers?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cb36fc7d-576b-467d-8e87-30830b240c67[/URL]

I'll take" into older men" for $600 Alex.

Not me. She said I was too low at 300. Guess so, I find the older models on SA are a little more pricey, I guess they get classified as classic and their book value increases.

[QUOTE=ArribaPeru;4345012]Was trying to read some messages on SA with an expired membership, and noticed, the original body isn't there anymore to read. Has SA caught on?[/QUOTE]Hi,

as I'm new to the hobby and this site but having been playing with SA a bit.

Saw the post about being able to read messages w / o membership. I also noted that you can copy a picture's image address when logged in and view them when not logged in. This appears to apply to 'hidden' profile pictures as well. Here's an example of a cute SB - [URL]https://images.seeking.com/prod/photos/f8c8e685-6d1b-4a99-b6a1-eb8a864f023c.jpg [/URL].

Given that, are you guys typically using pictures showing your face?

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4354299]I NEVER use my real phone for anything hobby related. Even changed numbers 9 months ago. Everythign is on a google voice for texting, can't remembewr the last time I enabled it to call from my cell via the app.

4 AM roles around and my phone goes off with a group text nwith 19 other numbers visible, offering hot nsa fun with a 25 yo freak if I click this link.

Wife sees it before I do. Not a good way to start the day.[/QUOTE]I got a similar group text with explicit language and a hyperlink, to me and to a bunch of out-of-state numbers, on my work phone a couple days ago, and another one today. No mention of my name though. I deleted it without opening. It's most likely some POS spammer on the other side of the world exercising his creative side or a low-life robocaller branching out. Don't sweat it. It has nothing to do with your hobbying.

Don't even think about it, just say "Fucking spammer, I hope his dick falls off. " Then block the number.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4354299]I NEVER use my real phone for anything hobby related. Even changed numbers 9 months ago. Everythign is on a google voice for texting, can't remembewr the last time I enabled it to call from my cell via the app.

4 AM roles around and my phone goes off with a group text nwith 19 other numbers visible, offering hot nsa fun with a 25 yo freak if I click this link.

Wife sees it before I do. Not a good way to start the day.[/QUOTE]