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[QUOTE=DNut;4688299]Pretty sure ZadddyAly's WIFE has also been on Seeking. At one point, they were on Seeking at the same time, with different accounts. I don't remember the wife's handle, but she was a total smokeshow. She used to (still does, maybe) dance in Harem, or Cheeks. She looked like a blend of Latin and Asian. She had a small tattoo of a heart or something under one eye. Anyone remember her?[/QUOTE]Zaddyari and she is very hot.
Collegebabycolumbus: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/880ffbea-48fe-4128-9fa6-62dfc8ded22f[/URL].
She is from Columbus wants 2-4 k per week. Not affordable with my budget willing for an sexual arrangement.
MarieJl2112: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ea4847d5-89f0-48e0-bd05-4291d15c7ab8[/URL].
Her pics are super hot. But she was looking for online only.
Alaska213: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6dfc4b31-668b-4014-8cb2-caf650824189[/URL].
She said open to intimacy. Proposed $300 and stopped replying may be I quoted less. I said I can go higher but no reply from her.
Kk15023: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/81487d2a-e40b-4bb6-b2cc-05ef56a4ea44[/URL].
She said willing for intimacy. But didn't proceed further.
Lexigoddess: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/97de326f-2c2f-4b22-8fbb-ddb24d01dffa[/URL].
She is platonic only.
Amanda_b23: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6ba26185-381f-4a3e-bcca-e39759cbdaca[/URL].
She said open to intimacy. Proposed $300-$500 and no reply after that she is hot that's the reason I increased $$. She is from indy though.
SweetJanie: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f66d9753-094f-4581-a163-8e4aa24b3601[/URL].
Willing for intimacy. But hadn't went further talk.
Lovelysmiles2: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/29267eaa-46da-4b23-8b5d-af912283a9fb[/URL].
Willing for intimacy wants $600 per meet. Too pricey.
Haven't met any of them. Any of you had any info on these SB's?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d65772f4-1f54-43c6-b2f9-193c391bb001[/URL]
Wants 2 k+ per month.
[QUOTE=MisforMaster;4688421]Oh god, Hailey.
If you want a shitty experience with someone who's trashier than fuck, who doesn't know how to fuck, and complains about everything. Yeah, totally reach out to her, pray that she's not knocked up, and go waste two hundred bucks. Go ahead. I'll wait.
She's notorious (and I mean, fucking NOTORIOUS) for using fake pics, but, ironically enough, didn't use them in that post. The reason that she's so intermittent with her replies is because she only replies via wifi -- so a burner number or something else.
She's also got a warrant for a PV and new charges (including robbery with a gun) out for her.[/QUOTE]Oh man, good to know. I'll take that one off the list.
Excellent post. Thank you. Here's some additional feedback on two of your listings.
Marie Is online and picture seller. Rotates different profile names and different pictures. But the profile content or description always is about the same. He she it is also quick to block.
Lovely is very real and very pretty. She works at Gala. Has a boyfriend. Is bi. Is known to place restrictions or limits as to what the mutual benefits are for the allowance given.
[QUOTE]MarieJl2112: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ea4847d5-89f0-48e0-bd05-4291d15c7ab8[/URL].
Her pics are super hot. But she was looking for online only.
Lovelysmiles2: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/29267eaa-46da-4b23-8b5d-af912283a9fb[/URL].
Willing for intimacy wants $600 per meet. Too pricey.
Haven't met any of them. Any of you had any info on these SB's?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MisforMaster;4688421]Oh god, Hailey.
If you want a shitty experience with someone who's trashier than fuck, who doesn't know how to fuck, and complains about everything. Yeah, totally reach out to her, pray that she's not knocked up, and go waste two hundred bucks. Go ahead. I'll wait.
She's notorious (and I mean, fucking NOTORIOUS) for using fake pics, but, ironically enough, didn't use them in that post. The reason that she's so intermittent with her replies is because she only replies via wifi -- so a burner number or something else.
She's also got a warrant for a PV and new charges (including robbery with a gun) out for her.[/QUOTE]Her love of rotating ages, one time she's 20, the next 19, the next 22, the next 18.
The Redhead aka The Forehead is back with yet another new Seeking profile. Profile name this time is FunRedHeadBaby. Just started this profile on 3/3/2020.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41860a57-6b80-4e3b-9176-275e4b61ff9f[/URL]
[QUOTE=MisforMaster;4688421]Oh god, Hailey.
If you want a shitty experience with someone who's trashier than fuck, who doesn't know how to fuck, and complains about everything. Yeah, totally reach out to her, pray that she's not knocked up, and go waste two hundred bucks. Go ahead. I'll wait.
She's notorious (and I mean, fucking NOTORIOUS) for using fake pics, but, ironically enough, didn't use them in that post. The reason that she's so intermittent with her replies is because she only replies via wifi -- so a burner number or something else.
She's also got a warrant for a PV and new charges (including robbery with a gun) out for her.[/QUOTE]
When she calls you "Boo" in her 2 word message? "Hey Boo", fingernails on a chalkboard!
[QUOTE=WarlockKy;4690323]Her love of rotating ages, one time she's 20, the next 19, the next 22, the next 18.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=WarlockKy;4690323]Her love of rotating ages, one time she's 20, the next 19, the next 22, the next 18.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MisforMaster;4688421]Oh god, Hailey.
If you want a shitty experience with someone who's trashier than fuck, who doesn't know how to fuck, and complains about everything. Yeah, totally reach out to her, pray that she's not knocked up, and go waste two hundred bucks. Go ahead. I'll wait.
She's notorious (and I mean, fucking NOTORIOUS) for using fake pics, but, ironically enough, didn't use them in that post. The reason that she's so intermittent with her replies is because she only replies via wifi -- so a burner number or something else.
She's also got a warrant for a PV and new charges (including robbery with a gun) out for her.[/QUOTE]And those are NOT the ONLY reasons to avoid! A friend of mine was in text contact with her back in Nov 2019. When he asked about the varying ages, she said she was 18 and gave him her real name and a birth date of 11/27/2001. Given the varying dates and stories she had provided he did a little checking and found a two missing / found person's reports online from 2018 matching the exact same name and description with a birth date of 11/27/2004. You can do the math. Giving her the benefit of the doubt (though skeptically) he asked her about it and she refused to answer. That was enough validation for him and he blocked and reported her. Due diligence is your friend.
CFG.
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;4690193]Excellent post. Thank you. Here's some additional feedback on two of your listings.
Marie Is online and picture seller. Rotates different profile names and different pictures. But the profile content or description always is about the same. He she it is also quick to block.
Lovely is very real and very pretty. She works at Gala. Has a boyfriend. Is bi. Is known to place restrictions or limits as to what the mutual benefits are for the allowance given.[/QUOTE]Have you met Lovely? She stopped responding to me. Can you provide more details about her you can PM me if you want.
CutieJoslyn441: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73e05a55-ad9c-41da-b5f5-e05f1b462f9e[/URL].
She is willing for intimacy. Asked for more pics she stopped responding.
Sug77: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b6c1d9cb-c5fd-4a7d-be27-18f322497ef9[/URL].
Willing for intimacy. Ask $450 but I am not sure she is real. She says bullshit stories no money to uber and doesn't respond properly.
Doubletrouble1919: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0424b09c-5426-466b-a17b-f5c813315cb8[/URL].
Willing for intimacy $1000 each.
Caffeinatedcutie: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2ec20567-0e04-4ef2-bf00-6a2fda9d39b5[/URL].
Willing for intimacy ask $800 - $1000.
BritneyyyyB: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/93766eeb-01cd-4a49-a567-487cb701a92e[/URL].
Only does oral $200.
Didn't meet any of them. Anybody have more info?
Your best chance to see her in real life is at Gala Fri and Sat night without doing a M&G. She is a model. Is very pretty. Has an incredible ass. Flat-chested. Very chill person. Dresses in name brands and upcoming designer clothes. Smart yet not well educated. She wants high dollar for this area and won't settle very often for less. She needs to pay her rent cause she spends to much money on labels. Generally, she will to oral for the six bill allowance. Won't f at ck you unless you are younger and good looking then the allowance might be less. If you are older and out of shape you'll have to pay a lot more and chances are she won't do anything with you. Maybe BJ. With her money talks. The more you offer the more she will listen. Skills are okay. View is what you are paying for. You may rather spend it on Touring Companion girls because then you generally get both skills and looks.
[QUOTE=Prat652;4690453]Have you met Lovely? She stopped responding to me. Can you provide more details about her you can PM me if you want.[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7a9946ea-5133-4b63-bd10-30d693f4c54e[/URL]
Anyone else talking to her?
So far she's mentioned a boob lift, shopping and a few other wants.
One wonders why "I recently turned down a marriage proposal from a long term relationship due to lack of respect. I was offered a reconciliation cruise, a new ring and car and my loans paid off and I declined. ".
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;4690193] Lovely is very real and very pretty. She works at Gala. Has a boyfriend. Is bi. Is known to place restrictions or limits as to what the mutual benefits are for the allowance given.[/QUOTE]Another girl from Gala? How many does that make? I really need to stop by there for a drink or something.
Has anyone met joslyn? Have been chatting and response timing and quality are suspect.
Spidey sense isn't up, other than she may have a few fellas on the go.
Warning, warning, warning: profile says 19 and slim, FB says felon, 49, may already be in jail. Number gets her name; name gets her FB page. Pictures match.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cdac7738-5ab1-4733-bed3-3c160919bea4[/URL]
Bam.
[QUOTE=HerrDoktor;4691198]Has anyone met joslyn? Have been chatting and response timing and quality are suspect.
Spidey sense isn't up, other than she may have a few fellas on the go.[/QUOTE]Got her digits a couple of days ago. Texted briefly and she wants to her together this weekend. A lot of these girls do multiple guys. Someone said 'many are providers just doing business differently'. I found that to be very true. Start seeing them and they are still living on SA. I let you know if it goes any where.
Below is quite true. Chances are you will be in a rotation. Why you should have two profiles on seeking. One paid. One not. One you fish with. The other you confirm with. Also, depending on your profiles specs you may get a different sort list of SB profiles from your backup profile if your age for that one is younger.
If you can spring the cash run two separate paid profiles for a month. One real and One younger with a catfish younger pic. You want to find out if the SB you are interested is playing the field. Message her from both. Want to see if her story is the same or varies. Message her from both. Want to see if the benefits she provides is the same or varies. Message her from both. Want to see if her allowance amount is the same or varies. Message her from both. Did this once out of curiosity, paid for two profiles and found out depending on the girl. The scam was the same for both, the allowance was the same for both, the allowance varied for each, the benefits tended to be be the same for both, exclusivity is fleeting, money talks and younger is better.
Had a SB once that said she was exclusive. Met every Tuesday night. Said she took her profile down. Nope just blocked the one used to find her in the first place. From the second profile messaged her. She said she would be exclusive. She couldn't meet Tuesday night as she had to work. Said she would settle for a lower allowance too. Always good to know the game. Its always being played.
[QUOTE=ILikeWatch;4691914]A lot of these girls do multiple guys. Someone said 'many are providers just doing business differently'. I found that to be very true. Start seeing them and they are still living on SA. I let you know if it goes any where.[/QUOTE]
Close friends with Ohbabynat. Both work Fri / Sat nights at Gala.
[QUOTE=DNut;4691106]Another girl from Gala? How many does that make? I really need to stop by there for a drink or something.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HerrDoktor;4691198]Has anyone met joslyn? Have been chatting and response timing and quality are suspect.
Spidey sense isn't up, other than she may have a few fellas on the go.[/QUOTE]Just texted me about hooking up.
[QUOTE=ILikeWatch;4692250]Just texted me about hooking up.[/QUOTE]Which day is she trying to line up?
Has she asked you for money yet?
[QUOTE=BamBam;4691629]Warning, warning, warning: profile says 19 and slim, FB says felon, 49, may already be in jail. Number gets her name; name gets her FB page. Pictures match.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cdac7738-5ab1-4733-bed3-3c160919bea4[/URL]
Bam.[/QUOTE]19 and 49.
I'd believe 49. Because I don't know any 19 year old that looks that rough.
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;4691979]Below is quite true. Chances are you will be in a rotation. Why you should have two profiles on seeking. One paid. One not. One you fish with. The other you confirm with. Also, depending on your profiles specs you may get a different sort list of SB profiles from your backup profile if your age for that one is younger.
If you can spring the cash run two separate paid profiles for a month. One real and One younger with a catfish younger pic. You want to find out if the SB you are interested is playing the field. Message her from both. Want to see if her story is the same or varies. Message her from both. Want to see if the benefits she provides is the same or varies. Message her from both. Want to see if her allowance amount is the same or varies. Message her from both. Did this once out of curiosity, paid for two profiles and found out depending on the girl. The scam was the same for both, the allowance was the same for both, the allowance varied for each, the benefits tended to be be the same for both, exclusivity is fleeting, money talks and younger is better.
Had a SB once that said she was exclusive. Met every Tuesday night. Said she took her profile down. Nope just blocked the one used to find her in the first place. From the second profile messaged her. She said she would be exclusive. She couldn't meet Tuesday night as she had to work. Said she would settle for a lower allowance too. Always good to know the game. Its always being played.[/QUOTE]The SB's are doing their own "research" on us. I can't tell you the number of women who have searched me on LinkedIn after we've chatted from SA. I honestly think it's part of the game these days. I want to make sure that I'm not going to run into a chick who's going to rinse me, and they want to make sure that I'm not a salt-daddy. I know that there are SB's who read the boards -- I've chatted with them about it -- and I also know that there are women who do their own thing and who are just looking for a hero to get them out of whatever situation that they're in today. With that said:
I have one paid account, two free accounts (one younger, one older), and I still catch them slipping up.
Look, I know that my SB's are playing the field. Hell, I know one of my SB's has a boyfriend. I told her that as long as I never have to even catch a whiff of the other dudes in her life, it doesn't bother me. The minute one of them sends me a text message asking if I know her, or, the minute I start getting weird phone calls, I'm going to drop her ass like a hot pan. I just treat it for what it is -- a transactional relationship with a low volume "provider," and I move on when the time's right. I'll always leave them in better shape than when I found them, and I'll always try to do my best to make sure that they're making the best decisions in life.
[QUOTE=JLZ61;4692010]Close friends with Ohbabynat. Both work Fri / Sat nights at Gala.[/QUOTE]So that's Ohbabynat, Lovelysmiles2, and someone mentioned a "Rachel". Anyone know the handle? I don't know who their hiring manager is, but kudos to him.
Although I wonder. We're they sugar babies before they started working there, or did they become friends with one there and that one convinced them to try the lifestyle?
[QUOTE=Prat652;4690529]CutieJoslyn441: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73e05a55-ad9c-41da-b5f5-e05f1b462f9e[/URL].
She is willing for intimacy. Asked for more pics she stopped responding.
Sug77: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b6c1d9cb-c5fd-4a7d-be27-18f322497ef9[/URL].
Willing for intimacy. Ask $450 but I am not sure she is real. She says bullshit stories no money to uber and doesn't respond properly.
Doubletrouble1919: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0424b09c-5426-466b-a17b-f5c813315cb8[/URL].
Willing for intimacy $1000 each.
Caffeinatedcutie: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2ec20567-0e04-4ef2-bf00-6a2fda9d39b5[/URL].
Willing for intimacy ask $800 - $1000.
BritneyyyyB: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/93766eeb-01cd-4a49-a567-487cb701a92e[/URL].
Only does oral $200.
Didn't meet any of them. Anybody have more info?[/QUOTE]Been talking. Supposed to meet Sunday.
Met this young latina last night, She took hundreds of dollars put out to pay the bill while I was in the restroom and left, See sent me a test indicating she thought she was owed it for the meal time Can't post the little because she clocked me.
She is well known to be a rinser. MnG for $150 minimum. Generally at the Italian restaurant by the theater in Clifton. Well ask for another MnG promising after she is comfortable more benefits. But that's all she does is MnG for free food and easy cash. Been in seeking quite a e while under different names.
Don't pay for MnG. Don't leave cash in open when not in view of it.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b3621ef-05e4-4c55-b121-3d11dfdb6e40[/URL]
[QUOTE=Resipsaloquito;4692544]Met this young latina last night, She took hundreds of dollars put out to pay the bill while I was in the restroom and left, See sent me a test indicating she thought she was owed it for the meal time Can't post the little because she clocked me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MisforMaster;4692318]The SB's are doing their own "research" on us. I can't tell you the number of women who have searched me on LinkedIn after we've chatted from SA. I honestly think it's part of the game these days. I want to make sure that I'm not going to run into a chick who's going to rinse me, and they want to make sure that I'm not a salt-daddy. I know that there are SB's who read the boards -- I've chatted with them about it -- and I also know that there are women who do their own thing and who are just looking for a hero to get them out of whatever situation that they're in today. With that said:
I have one paid account, two free accounts (one younger, one older), and I still catch them slipping up.
Look, I know that my SB's are playing the field. Hell, I know one of my SB's has a boyfriend. I told her that as long as I never have to even catch a whiff of the other dudes in her life, it doesn't bother me. The minute one of them sends me a text message asking if I know her, or, the minute I start getting weird phone calls, I'm going to drop her ass like a hot pan. I just treat it for what it is -- a transactional relationship with a low volume "provider," and I move on when the time's right. I'll always leave them in better shape than when I found them, and I'll always try to do my best to make sure that they're making the best decisions in life.[/QUOTE]LinkedIn? You give her your real name? I protect my identity. We have already had a MnG, and our first playtime or two until she gets to know me. My long terms over the years will still tease me by calling me my fake name.
I also have a small collection of pics that are not me, but resemble me, that I first send out when I get a sense she is a pro or a scammer. They are easy to download off the many traditional dating sites. Most girls never notice because they look at so many profiles. My face is hidden on SA and I don't have private pics available on the site. If she wants to see my face, then we text or kik.
Set up several times to meet but something always came up on her end. Yesterday it was last minute tickets to the Cyclones. Was supposed meet after but never heard from her. I'm sure she would be fun but my patience ran out. Good luck with her.
[QUOTE=JLZ61;4683411]I think she is actually pretty nice. Motivated and driven in school. Full ride scholarship, she says. Smart enough so it could be.
As for the non intercourse comment, I got much the same story. I asked her a few probing questions to understand more. She doesn't know that I know medicine and anatomy quite well and some of her answers didn't quite make sense to me. I said nothing about it but will seek to learn more next time, should the opportunity present itself. Other parts of her story also didn't quite fit but again, I'll try to suss things out.
I do think she's open to fun but she might be worth more than a one time deal. That said, caveat mongor![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Resipsaloquito;4692539]Been talking. Supposed to meet Sunday.[/QUOTE]She has one set up for Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Set one up with me and never looked at my profile. Asked for money up front from Saturday. Don’t be fooled.
[QUOTE=Bkbh1;4692577]LinkedIn? You give her your real name?[/QUOTE]Nope. I don't give them my real name until we meet for the first time. They're going to hear my name called out for dinner reservations or for the hotel, and they'll figure it out eventually if I'm lying to them about my name, so, it's always a simple, "Hey, please understand that for your privacy as well as my privacy, I don't plan on giving out my real first name until we meet. For now, you can call me <another first name ," and that's worked for me so far.
By the time I've exchanged numbers (I have a physical burner phone), there's always someone asking for a last name for a phone or something similar. My name comes out.
My career is a very public one -- think director level -- and while I don't have any qualms with the fact that I date younger women (or pay them to leave me alone), professional me is completely different than personal me. I don't want to have to tell a steady stream of girls, "Well, I could give you a reference if we're still fucking," so, I just leave it at "I work for a <blank " and leave it at that these days.
Like I've mentioned in the past, I'm not out for a string of women wandering around my bedroom -- I'd like to find one woman who I can build a team together and enjoy her company for 5 or 10 years, with the understanding that until I do, I'm going to fuck everything that's hot that I can stick my wrapped dick into; be it the 38 year old woman who just got divorced on Monday who was walking out of the courthouse who I invited out for a celebratory drink (and was then fucking her ass less than 4 hours later) or a 19 year old college student with no gag reflex and daddy issues. What I do might not work for you, and I have no qualms saying there are different approaches for different guys and different situations.
MM.
[QUOTE=Cincyfunguy;4683126]Interesting. My friend was in a nice long conversation with her. She seemed very nice and then and she stated that she needed to "be honest" and proceeded to explain that intercourse was NOT an option due to traumatic events in her life, and then stated "so if you are looking for anything more than Oral, I'm not your girl. " Who knows, maybe it was during a specific time period which has now passed.
CFG.[/QUOTE]Just told me the same thing about oral only. Quoted $$$ to $$$$ a week. WTF
Ohbaby was on seeking long before lovely.
Ohbaby worked at Gala before lovely.
Lovely started on seeking before working at Gala in the past few months.
Don't know if they run together now. Just know they work together.
[QUOTE=DNut;4692487]So that's Ohbabynat, Lovelysmiles2, and someone mentioned a "Rachel". Anyone know the handle? I don't know who their hiring manager is, but kudos to him.
Although I wonder. We're they sugar babies before they started working there, or did they become friends with one there and that one convinced them to try the lifestyle?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MisforMaster;4692696]Nope. I don't give them my real name until we meet for the first time. They're going to hear my name called out for dinner reservations or for the hotel, and they'll figure it out eventually if I'm lying to them about my name, so, it's always a simple, "Hey, please understand that for your privacy as well as my privacy, I don't plan on giving out my real first name until we meet. For now, you can call me <another first name ," and that's worked for me so far.
By the time I've exchanged numbers (I have a physical burner phone), there's always someone asking for a last name for a phone or something similar. My name comes out.
My career is a very public one -- think director level -- and while I don't have any qualms with the fact that I date younger women (or pay them to leave me alone), professional me is completely different than personal me. I don't want to have to tell a steady stream of girls, "Well, I could give you a reference if we're still fucking," so, I just leave it at "I work for a <blank " and leave it at that these days.
Like I've mentioned in the past, I'm not out for a string of women wandering around my bedroom -- I'd like to find one woman who I can build a team together and enjoy her company for 5 or 10 years, with the understanding that until I do, I'm going to fuck everything that's hot that I can stick my wrapped dick into; be it the 38 year old woman who just got divorced on Monday who was walking out of the courthouse who I invited out for a celebratory drink (and was then fucking her ass less than 4 hours later) or a 19 year old college student with no gag reflex and daddy issues. What I do might not work for you, and I have no qualms saying there are different approaches for different guys and different situations.
MM.[/QUOTE]Similar approach. And similar results. 27 yr old banker with dark drown eyes, tight ass and E tits last night. My 21 yr old decided to have an exclusive boyfriend after 7 months, so I'm still looking for a new permanent friend. Or at least my alias is looking.
[QUOTE=BamBam;4691629]Warning, warning, warning: profile says 19 and slim, FB says felon, 49, may already be in jail. Number gets her name; name gets her FB page. Pictures match.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cdac7738-5ab1-4733-bed3-3c160919bea4[/URL]
Bam.[/QUOTE]That picture alone should tell us she's too skanky to get money for pussy.
[QUOTE=TechSticles;4693068]That picture alone should tell us she's too skanky to get money for pussy.[/QUOTE]Her profile says "light smoker", her picture says 3 packs a day for 36 years.
[QUOTE=Sgwaboe;4686978]Supposed to have a date with this one tomorrow and I know I've seen her on backpage in years past (but lukewarm at best reviews kept me away then). Was wondering if any of you guys had seen her then, or currently now on SA and have any feedback for me? Really appreciate it guys![/QUOTE]That's Erica. The looks are accurate, but unless she upped her game a lot from my one escort visit, you'll want to avoid. Said she didn't like giving head. And just wasn't all that fun. She's very familiar with her uncles throughout the Tri-State. She also accumulated some kind of obsessive hater who was harassing her via BP / LC posts for a while, not unlike Catlikr and CristenCremes in our little world I suspect.
I usually don't check the SB thread, because I don't do SBs much. I guess I'm firmly in the middle, between SW and SB, of the market. But I have tended to have very long-term relationships with some UTRs out of that. Despite that, I will say that I avoid the temptation to provide a real name. My one or two experiences going that far didn't turn out well. And even at the higher end of the market with SBs, I simply don't trust any of them that much. I'm pretty good at developing my own intel to learn about them, so the info is asymmetrical and unfair I guess, but if it's unfair in my favor, then so be it. I do it to protect me, and honestly from curiosity sometimes, but not to harass them. But, I will say the more I learn, the less I want to share details, though I will admit it's very much possible to find trustworthy women on the SB side. Never, however, be tempted to share personal details with any flavor of addict. No matter what good character traits they may have, they're still addicts, so they'll do what they need to get what they need.
[QUOTE=WhereDreamsGo;4693155]I usually don't check the SB thread, because I don't do SBs much. I guess I'm firmly in the middle, between SW and SB, of the market. But I have tended to have very long-term relationships with some UTRs out of that. Despite that, I will say that I avoid the temptation to provide a real name. My one or two experiences going that far didn't turn out well. And even at the higher end of the market with SBs, I simply don't trust any of them that much. I'm pretty good at developing my own intel to learn about them, so the info is asymmetrical and unfair I guess, but if it's unfair in my favor, then so be it. I do it to protect me, and honestly from curiosity sometimes, but not to harass them. But, I will say the more I learn, the less I want to share details, though I will admit it's very much possible to find trustworthy women on the SB side. Never, however, be tempted to share personal details with any flavor of addict. No matter what good character traits they may have, they're still addicts, so they'll do what they need to get what they need.[/QUOTE]I'm currently at that bridge with my long-term UTR. There were some events that happened the last time that I hung out with her that really just. Turned me the other way.
Don't get me wrong, I probably care about her way too much, but, the last time I was there, it was super apparent to me that I was just an ATM for her.
I don't mind an equal relationship. I don't really want a relationship where one side -- either me or her -- have too much power or control over the other person: the drugs make her manipulative as fuck, and I don't want to be involved with someone who has demons like that, treats me like that, or, wants to throw their life away like that.
Don't get me wrong -- on the escort side I see drugs all the time. Fuck, I helped one of them put some blow in their ass and then did lines off of their tits before we fucked once. The difference there is as long as everything's covered, and everything's transactional, nobody's taking advantage of the other person (the exception is their relationship with drugs, and that doesn't really concern me). And that's what makes it kosher to me.
The flip side of that are my sugar relationships: it's somewhat Mutual Assured Destruction when the relationship goes south (and it's not if, but, when, trust me). I know shit about them -- their past, their demons, their fears, their family situation -- and they know shit about me: my career, what my car looks like, etc etc etc. I'm not going to fuck with their world, because I know that they're not going to fuck with mine. I openly tell them that I don't care about their past, I don't care about the boys that they're fucking, and I don't care about their addictions: don't lie to me, and I won't lie to you. If they lie to me, it's an immediate spot on the block list. Period. Do I think that I'm going to find a wife doing this shit? Fuck no, unless she needs a green card. Do I have fun? Every fucking week I can. Do I try to make this as healthy as I possibly can? Yeah.
With that said, I've only ever got overly ripped up over a sugar baby twice. One was a redhead up in Lebanon who I really went ass over teakettle over, and the other was a latina in Miami who got diagnosed with cancer while we were dating and passed away.
Yeah, this got way too Meta. Sorry guys.
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[QUOTE=Cincyfunguy;4690429]And those are NOT the ONLY reasons to avoid! A friend of mine was in text contact with her back in Nov 2019. When he asked about the varying ages, she said she was 18 and gave him her real name and a birth date of 11/27/2001. Given the varying dates and stories she had provided he did a little checking and found a two missing / found person's reports online from 2018 matching the exact same name and description with a birth date of 11/27/2004. You can do the math. Giving her the benefit of the doubt (though skeptically) he asked her about it and she refused to answer. That was enough validation for him and he blocked and reported her. Due diligence is your friend.
CFG.[/QUOTE]This girl is now back with an Indianapolis profile. Avoid at all costs.
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