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[QUOTE=SuckerBill;1912082]don't flaunt what you're doing in the face of the police. There's a lot of cool cops out there, but if you're being stupid, they have to respond accordingly.[/QUOTE]Geez I don't know what City you're talking about but I know It can't be Vegas!!
[QUOTE=Tjinla2001;1912240]If you plan to date prostitutes and still have sex with your wife you have to ask yourself this: Will I feel bad if I give her the full blown AIDs? If your answer is no, then go ahead and have some fun.[/QUOTE]Answer me this. What is the difference between a [URL]Match.com[/URL] girl and a prostitute. Or any strange poon and a prostitute. Do you think he should stay home and jerk off in the shower? Most probably, the wife has someone on the side and is developing a plan of action. Women are scandalous. They get a man, quit their jobs or get pregnant. They get the man to stay at home. Women go out on men more often. They are just better at covering up. The more you think, no way she would. The more likely.
Keep your thing wrapped up. Use common sense. Have fun. Be safe.
[QUOTE=Tjinla2001;1912240]If you plan to date prostitutes and still have sex with your wife you have to ask yourself this: Will I feel bad if I give her the full blown AIDs? If your answer is no, then go ahead and have some fun.[/QUOTE]They are NOT fucking now. So, no chance his wife gets aids. If they were having sex, he wouldn't need a working girl. See how that works? LOL! Besides, any wife not putting out needs to be put out on her own. Dump the *****.
To the original poster; enjoy the paid help!
[QUOTE=Stevew;1912689]They are NOT fucking now. So, no chance his wife gets aids. If they were having sex, he wouldn't need a working girl. See how that works? LOL! Besides, any wife not putting out needs to be put out on her own. Dump the *****.
To the original poster; enjoy the paid help![/QUOTE]You are completely right.
[QUOTE=MittRomney;1912824]You are completely right.[/QUOTE]Cheating on your spouse is despicable. If you don't love her than you should divorce. I would never date a civilian because of my extensive contact with prostitutes over the last 40 years. I don't know how a married man can live with himself and look at his children if he is penetrating prostitutes. Pitiful.
[QUOTE=Tjinla2001;1912987]Cheating on your spouse is despicable. If you don't love her than you should divorce. I would never date a civilian because of my extensive contact with prostitutes over the last 40 years. I don't know how a married man can live with himself and look at his children if he is penetrating prostitutes. Pitiful.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't listen to TjinLA2001. If your wife isn't giving it to you, you have to go somewhere to get it. She's not taking care of matters at hand, well, you need to seek those things which are enjoyable. Maybe you should get a divorce if things aren't working out, but by all means be happy and being happy starts with your penis.
Now. Go do that voodoo that you do so well!
Not the place for moral judgements Tjinla2001. Mind your own business if it bothers you.
[QUOTE=Tjinla2001;1912987]Cheating on your spouse is despicable. If you don't love her than you should divorce. I would never date a civilian because of my extensive contact with prostitutes over the last 40 years. I don't know how a married man can live with himself and look at his children if he is penetrating prostitutes. Pitiful.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FlDataMan;1909820]Hey there. After finally reaching the breaking point in a sexless marriage I've decided I might want to try making use of some outcall professional services when I am in town for a conference in a few weeks. The problem is that I have never done anything close to this before and I am very nervous (still undecided, in fact). I am not even sure I would be up for FS, maybe just a BJ and some touching. Any advice for the "virgin"? Should I not bother with this and start with a spa? What are the chances of getting rolled? Even better. Anybody have a referral to a provider who is nice and gentle and doesn't mind breaking in a noob?
Thanks in advance![/QUOTE]I finally took the plunge when I ran across hx. It's not fool proof and not perfect, but I found some assurance in using the networks to find a provider.
It's pricier, but may help with the nervousness.
[QUOTE=Tjinla2001;1912987]Cheating on your spouse is despicable. If you don't love her than you should divorce. I would never date a civilian because of my extensive contact with prostitutes over the last 40 years. I don't know how a married man can live with himself and look at his children if he is penetrating prostitutes. Pitiful.[/QUOTE]Moral high ground on a sex site hopefully the admins will remove your unhelpful, hypocritical, unwanted post. Original poster. Do what you can handle. Just be safe man.
[QUOTE=Tjinla2001;1912987]Cheating on your spouse is despicable. If you don't love her than you should divorce. I would never date a civilian because of my extensive contact with prostitutes over the last 40 years. I don't know how a married man can live with himself and look at his children if he is penetrating prostitutes. Pitiful.[/QUOTE]A guy calling married men "despicable" and "pitiful" for fucking hookers while married. When the wife won't fuck anymore what's a guy to do, get divorced I guess is Tjinla's advise. No shit mind your own business. Over 40 years penetrating hookers (bareback) and calling married guys despicable, look in the mirror pal your just as pitiful as anyone else.
With Hookers and Gambling everywhere someone in Las Vegas has Morals? Sounds like an Oxy"Moron" to me.
[QUOTE=FlDataMan;1911561]Thanks for all the advice from everybody. I have been going through most the forums doing plenty of "research." Here is the funny thing. Even if I get up the nerve to actually go through with this. Outside of the normal guilt and fears. Getting caught, getting robbed, catching something, etc. I am also having these odd feelings that I would be embarrassed! The only person that I have (barely) had sex with over the last 20 some-odd years is my wife. Suddenly the thought of possibly being with somebody else just feels odd; pro or not. I guess nature will take over if the time comes. I wonder if anybody else has this kind of trouble their first time?
This doesn't need to turn into a therapy session. Thanks again! Happy hunting.[/QUOTE]If you're conflicted and unsure if you'll feel guilty or not, I'd start with a massage + HE. As it progresses towards the HE you can just see how you feel about it. Nervous? Excited? Guilty? Wanting More? Whatever the case you can respond to that emotion at that time, and if you don't want it to progress it doesn't have to. And you'll have enjoyed a good non-sexual massage in the process. This is probably a better option than a CG or especially a SW for a guy in your circumstance.
Keep us posted.
LM.
[QUOTE=LaMuerte;1913717]If you're conflicted and unsure if you'll feel guilty or not, I'd start with a massage + HE. As it progresses towards the HE you can just see how you feel about it. Nervous? Excited? Guilty? Wanting More? Whatever the case you can respond to that emotion at that time, and if you don't want it to progress it doesn't have to. And you'll have enjoyed a good non-sexual massage in the process. This is probably a better option than a CG or especially a SW for a guy in your circumstance.
Keep us posted.
LM.[/QUOTE]Wow. I did not intend for this to turn into such a detailed discussion, but I do appreciate the input and advice from all sides. If I don't chicken out completely, this seems like a more reasonable way to "break the ice." (Although I do get a HJ at home every once in a while I was intrigued by the possibility of something a bit more) Yes, Tjinla2001, I do see your point. A divorce might be best, but I won't bore everybody here with the emotional politics of my life and how that is easier said than done in many circumstances.
Thanks everybody. If I wind up going through with something, I'll post a report.
[QUOTE=Tjinla2001;1912987]Cheating on your spouse is despicable. If you don't love her than you should divorce. I would never date a civilian because of my extensive contact with prostitutes over the last 40 years. I don't know how a married man can live with himself and look at his children if he is penetrating prostitutes. Pitiful.[/QUOTE]I read all your posts Tjinla2001 and figured it out. You have AIDS and are out there barebacking these women. That is horrible. I try not to judge, but you should be in jail. They catch some poor girl just trying to make a living and this scum is on the loose.
I think you all scared FLDataman off. Anyway I'm not putting my 2 cents in the argument however I will say this we all are human we all see hookers bareback or w / condoms on WTF is the difference there's so many risks with the game we know and love the next step we all take could be our last ones so let's get back on subject and leave the arguing alone!!