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Take a break from the hobby? Grin.
[QUOTE=Tbear1970;2683190]When you realize that the cute blonde you've been flirting with on Plenty of Fish and are ready to reel in for some one on one time and as you are about tosend your real picture to seal the deal, you realize that she caught your eye because you've seen her face on your wife's Facebook page and they're old college girlfriends.
That's the moment when you...?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Tbear1970;2683190]When you realize that the cute blonde you've been flirting with on Plenty of Fish and are ready to reel in for some one on one time and as you are about tosend your real picture to seal the deal, you realize that she caught your eye because you've seen her face on your wife's Facebook page and they're old college girlfriends.
That's the moment when you...?[/QUOTE]Ménage à trois.
Anybody been to the Art recently? Any events coming up?
[QUOTE=WhenInVegas;2704155]Anybody been to the Art recently? Any events coming up?[/QUOTE]Next official event is Valentine's Day but if you track Dr. Emilio Lizardo's blog he usually knows when hotties or amateur celebs are going. (They often take on many if not all cumers). Also the Art has a good website. And a loyal following on Fetlife.
Thanks Tbear. I just re-joined FetLife. I found some discussion about the Art there but nothing recent. Is there a specific group or forum? PM me if you don't mind.
Thanks.
Vegas.
[QUOTE=Tbear1970;2704539]Next official event is Valentine's Day but if you track Dr. Emilio Lizardo's blog he usually knows when hotties or amateur celebs are going. (They often take on many if not all cumers). Also the Art has a good website. And a loyal following on Fetlife.[/QUOTE]
I'm new to the hobby and recently met with a provider for the 1st time and it was a great experience. At the end we were chatting amiably and I mentioned she deserved a top star review, her demeanor immediately changed and she asked that I not review her or our time together. Out of respect I agreed of course, she says she doesn't advertise online, prefers to meet new clients through client referrals (I met her through my cousin). Now I will respect her wishes of course but I was curious on how other members handle providers who request not to be reviewed. The experience was very enjoyable I planned it to be my first review on here and I didn't even think of asking her permission, is asking before reviewing respectful etiquette?
[QUOTE=DarthReem;2712607]I'm new to the hobby and recently met with a provider for the 1st time and it was a great experience. At the end we were chatting amiably and I mentioned she deserved a top star review, her demeanor immediately changed and she asked that I not review her or our time together. Out of respect I agreed of course, she says she doesn't advertise online, prefers to meet new clients through client referrals (I met her through my cousin). Now I will respect her wishes of course but I was curious on how other members handle providers who request not to be reviewed. The experience was very enjoyable I planned it to be my first review on here and I didn't even think of asking her permission, is asking before reviewing respectful etiquette?[/QUOTE]It is proper etiquette.
Generally, when your doing your homework, you'll come across sites with provider's current reviews.
Obviously, in your case, there were no reviews so asking was a good, common sense move.
Respect her wishes. If you post it, she'll know, or figure out, it was you.
One the other hand, if she was a rip-off, cash and dasher, etc. , then "out" her accordingly. .
BMD.
[QUOTE=DarthReem;2712607]I'm new to the hobby and recently met with a provider for the 1st time and it was a great experience. At the end we were chatting amiably and I mentioned she deserved a top star review, her demeanor immediately changed and she asked that I not review her or our time together. Out of respect I agreed of course, she says she doesn't advertise online, prefers to meet new clients through client referrals (I met her through my cousin). Now I will respect her wishes of course but I was curious on how other members handle providers who request not to be reviewed. The experience was very enjoyable I planned it to be my first review on here and I didn't even think of asking her permission, is asking before reviewing respectful etiquette?[/QUOTE]If you're new to the hobby here are some safety tips that I had to learn the hard way after 20 years of hobbying and reviewing.
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Never let a provider know your on-line handle. There is too great a risk that if the relationship sours, either she or her pimp might retaliate against you. Also, this could be used to identify you and compromise your privacy and safety.
Never use your real name and identity. For the same reason as above.
Compartmentalize your identity. Use one e-mail address for your hobby contact, another for hobby websites that may you may have signed up to. [/LIST]
As far reviewing her goes, that's a personal decision but in my book she doesn't get to say who does or does not get to give open feedback, whether it's positive or negative.
[QUOTE=CPOsharkey;2713478]If you're new to the hobby here are some safety tips that I had to learn the hard way after 20 years of hobbying and reviewing.
[LIST]
Never let a provider know your on-line handle. There is too great a risk that if the relationship sours, either she or her pimp might retaliate against you. Also, this could be used to identify you and compromise your privacy and safety.
Never use your real name and identity. For the same reason as above.
Compartmentalize your identity. Use one e-mail address for your hobby contact, another for hobby websites that may you may have signed up to. [/LIST]
As far reviewing her goes, that's a personal decision but in my book she doesn't get to say who does or does not get to give open feedback, whether it's positive or negative.[/QUOTE]I appreciate the words of wisdom gentlemen, would you advise avoiding providers that require screening info?
[QUOTE=DarthReem;2713503]I appreciate the words of wisdom gentlemen, would you advise avoiding providers that require screening info?[/QUOTE]I don't give anyone on BP any real personal info. I did make an exception for touring girls on P411 when I started. Now I have a bunch of references. I hope you've done what the previous poster told you about your online persona. To add to that, you should have a hobby phone paid for in cash and topped off with a card paid in cash using no personal info at all! Don't ever use your personal phone that bills you monthly or has any kind of account associated with your name / company! Happy Hunting SP.
[QUOTE=DarthReem;2713503]I appreciate the words of wisdom gentlemen, would you advise avoiding providers that require screening info?[/QUOTE]You can try seeing a few higher end girls who request and give references. That can also help you get onto Date-Check and / or Preferred411.
BMD.
[QUOTE=DarthReem;2713503]I appreciate the words of wisdom gentlemen, would you advise avoiding providers that require screening info?[/QUOTE]That all depends on what screening info they want. Here are the blacklist requirements.
* Workplace information.
* Personal info.
* T3 R whitelist.
Here is the whitelist.
* Date-Check.
* P411.
* Trusted provider data. Make sure you're relationship is strong before you give out this info.
So I've said my pennies and have a good chunk of change to burn but can't decide who.
Def need GFE. Hot or big ones or Greek are nice but not necessarily requirements. Have a thing for great legs in stockings too but also not a requirement. Also haven't done doubles in many years. If you had a pretty big budget who would you see??
I think if I had some extra to spend, I would go see Natasha / Nancy in Western Mass. She oozed sex appeal and was completely GFE! Another would have to be Crimson Lass on the mass pike.
[QUOTE=Lovethatfrench;2724162]So I've said my pennies and have a good chunk of change to burn but can't decide who.
Def need GFE. Hot or big ones or Greek are nice but not necessarily requirements. Have a thing for great legs in stockings too but also not a requirement. Also haven't done doubles in many years. If you had a pretty big budget who would you see??[/QUOTE]
If I had a big budget I would go see this.
[URL]http://connecticut.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/real-picsdont-waste-your-time-im-100-real-well-reviewed/10230650[/URL]
[QUOTE=Lovethatfrench;2724162]So I've said my pennies and have a good chunk of change to burn but can't decide who.
Def need GFE. Hot or big ones or Greek are nice but not necessarily requirements. Have a thing for great legs in stockings too but also not a requirement. Also haven't done doubles in many years. If you had a pretty big budget who would you see??[/QUOTE]