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[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4298563]Updated my profile to include:
If You think an arrangement involves nothing more than you practicing your conversational skills while someone twice your age imparts life lessons over a nice meal and covers your rent, you're not a sugarbaby, you're a niece. So delete your profile and go figure out which of your uncles likes you better than his own kids,.
Women over 27 or so find it funny, some of the youngen's want a debate![/QUOTE]Classic! +1.
[QUOTE=TheHobbyLobby;4298601]I meant to say she is Latina.[/QUOTE]Post or PM me SA profile link.
Interesting strategy! LOL. I don't think it ever helps to put a negative comment like that I a profile.
When I see comment like "Don't messag me if you're a scammer", "Don't ask for my private photos if we haven't had a conversation", "don't waste my time", etc. Its a turn off for me. Makes it sound like they've had a lot of bad experiences, which is not a good way to appeal to someone.
[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4298563]Updated my profile to include:
If You think an arrangement involves nothing more than you practicing your conversational skills while someone twice your age imparts life lessons over a nice meal and covers your rent, you're not a sugarbaby, you're a niece. So delete your profile and go figure out which of your uncles likes you better than his own kids,.
Women over 27 or so find it funny, some of the youngen's want a debate![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4300680]Interesting strategy! LOL. I don't think it ever helps to put a negative comment like that I a profile.
When I see comment like "Don't messag me if you're a scammer", "Don't ask for my private photos if we haven't had a conversation", "don't waste my time", etc. Its a turn off for me. Makes it sound like they've had a lot of bad experiences, which is not a good way to appeal to someone.[/QUOTE]I agree. A veteran out here on the west coast, Hollywood Guy, says that he avoids any profiles that have any negativity in them. It doesn't bode well to find the type of girl he is interested in, a true non-pro who is actually doing this for the first time. Obviously, lots of experience (bad) disqualifies them for that.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4301132]I agree. A veteran out here on the west coast, Hollywood Guy, says that he avoids any profiles that have any negativity in them. It doesn't bode well to find the type of girl he is interested in, a true non-pro who is actually doing this for the first time. Obviously, lots of experience (bad) disqualifies them for that.[/QUOTE]I think it's hilarious that you guys think the girls read profiles. If they're not reading the profiles of hot 22 yr olds on their traditional dating sites like Tinder and Hinge, then why would they read ours. Dating sites for anyone under 40, are "swiping" pictures only. Nobody reads profiles. It's almost 2020. I know that a lot of you guys have been married for a very long time, but you need to talk to your single friends about how dating sites work. Profiles are just for clever jokes in case the girl actually reads it. And the girls who actually read it are the lonely, fat, "undesirables."
Banging this, damn she is hot, but most likely GPS. Tried to make convo, never responds at least to me. Haha!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0abe39ed-9608-4643-bb79-b6a2dea815b3[/URL]
[QUOTE=BStreet;4303517]Banging this, damn she is hot, but most likely GPS. Tried to make convo, never responds at least to me. Haha!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0abe39ed-9608-4643-bb79-b6a2dea815b3[/URL][/QUOTE]Fake, fake fake fake.
[QUOTE=BigOne73;4302258]I think it's hilarious that you guys think the girls read profiles. If they're not reading the profiles of hot 22 yr olds on their traditional dating sites like Tinder and Hinge, then why would they read ours. Dating sites for anyone under 40, are "swiping" pictures only. Nobody reads profiles. It's almost 2020. I know that a lot of you guys have been married for a very long time, but you need to talk to your single friends about how dating sites work. Profiles are just for clever jokes in case the girl actually reads it. And the girls who actually read it are the lonely, fat, "undesirables."[/QUOTE]Exactly correct.
If you have a good pic and a catchy headline, you'll get a lot of attention on SA. Otherwise, anything you write in your profile is missed by most SBs.
No one on SA gives a * about your hobbies and interests.
SBs have only one interest, and that is cash. They don't give a crap that you ran a marathon twenty years ago, or that your daughter just graduated college.
Long time lurker but decided to try the SB world and to start contributing on here when I can.
Anyone have luck with this one beyond her wanting to sell pics? She had a different profile with a clean photo of her face back during the Christmas college break. Can't remember the name. She said she was open to meet once she got to know me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/69ae7e5a-27ea-4ac8-a54e-1f0e566d7a5c[/URL]
This hasn't been my experience.
Initially they don't read profiles, but once engaged in a conversation many do. The type of SB I target typically would.
Any girl that clearly hasn't read my profile during our conversation is a NEXT for me. I have not problem keeping my plate full. LOL.
Escorts and UTRs are all about time and volume and almost never read profiles, so if that's your target you are correct.
[QUOTE=BigOne73;4302258]I think it's hilarious that you guys think the girls read profiles. If they're not reading the profiles of hot 22 yr olds on their traditional dating sites like Tinder and Hinge, then why would they read ours. Dating sites for anyone under 40, are "swiping" pictures only. Nobody reads profiles. It's almost 2020. I know that a lot of you guys have been married for a very long time, but you need to talk to your single friends about how dating sites work. Profiles are just for clever jokes in case the girl actually reads it. And the girls who actually read it are the lonely, fat, "undesirables."[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Donethatonce;4304808]Long time lurker but decided to try the SB world and to start contributing on here when I can.
Anyone have luck with this one beyond her wanting to sell pics? She had a different profile with a clean photo of her face back during the Christmas college break. Can't remember the name. She said she was open to meet once she got to know me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/69ae7e5a-27ea-4ac8-a54e-1f0e566d7a5c[/URL][/QUOTE]"got to know me" means that she will ghost you after you send her a bunch of money for pics.
There are 1,000 different ways girls (or guys pretending to be girls) string along guys on SA.
Never give a dollar until the FC has been entered.
The ones who want to sell pics are always scammers.
[QUOTE=Donethatonce;4304808]Long time lurker but decided to try the SB world and to start contributing on here when I can.
Anyone have luck with this one beyond her wanting to sell pics? She had a different profile with a clean photo of her face back during the Christmas college break. Can't remember the name. She said she was open to meet once she got to know me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/69ae7e5a-27ea-4ac8-a54e-1f0e566d7a5c[/URL][/QUOTE]Online and in person casual / discreet. What she always tells me. But the conversation is always "I need money for bills, please help me!" she wants money upfront or money for pics before meeting but could never tell me when she would be available. Silent after declining her request and a few days later returning with the same. Please help me, I'll meet when I can. Stopped responding last week. Good luck!
Funny enough, I was writing the same thing when I saw your comment.
Escorts and UTRs don't read the profile.
SB do.
I got contacted by SBs at times based on my profile content.
So, it depends on what you are looking for.
Be safe.
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4304924]This hasn't been my experience.
Initially they don't read profiles, but once engaged in a conversation many do. The type of SB I target typically would.
Any girl that clearly hasn't read my profile during our conversation is a NEXT for me. I have not problem keeping my plate full. LOL.
Escorts and UTRs are all about time and volume and almost never read profiles, so if that's your target you are correct.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Truncated;4304726]Exactly correct.
If you have a good pic and a catchy headline, you'll get a lot of attention on SA. Otherwise, anything you write in your profile is missed by most SBs.
No one on SA gives a * about your hobbies and interests.
SBs have only one interest, and that is cash. They don't give a crap that you ran a marathon twenty years ago, or that your daughter just graduated college.[/QUOTE]Can you cite some examples? Last year on SA, I spent four months sending out hundreds, maybe a thousand messages and got practically zero responses. I never even got to texting or M&G. Stumped and demoralized, I closed my account. I could use some pointers in case I decide to get back in, or at least understand what I was doing wrong.
[QUOTE=Assaholic;4305695]Can you cite some examples? Last year on SA, I spent four months sending out hundreds, maybe a thousand messages and got practically zero responses. I never even got to texting or M&G. Stumped and demoralized, I closed my account. I could use some pointers in case I decide to get back in, or at least understand what I was doing wrong.[/QUOTE]Tell them what they want to hear: That you are the answer to their money problems and the path to their goals and dreams. Not that directly, but more subtle. But whatever you do, don't waste your time or their time by being a BS artist. Many of these girls talk to each other. You don't want to get a rep as a time waster.
Use a good pic for your profile. I don't suggest using a full face pic of yourself. That will come back to bite you. Instead, use one of someone who looks like you, or one of you with your eyes covered. Give them an idea of what they will be fucking.
Pass on any girl who insists on more pics from you. Most likely, those requests come from scam artists or picky bitches.
Have a catchy headline. Something like: Looking for a Goal Digger. Get their attention and make them smile with the headline.
Join SA as a SB and look around at other profiles for ideas. There are some good ones out there.
In your profile, be direct and to the point. But do not mention money in the profile or messaging system. SA will ban you real fast.
Instead, get them off the site ASAP and onto text messaging. There you can discuss money, but not in great detail.
Use a burner phone. ATT charges $35/ month for a basic prepaid plan.
The goal is to get a meeting with them ASAP. See if they are real, and if they are into you. If they are, make an offer right then and there for whatever it is you are seeking. If you want her to wear a Lora Croft costume and peg you once a week, just say so. If you want a weekly BJ, just ask for it and offer her what you can REALLY AFFORD to pay.
Pick a first meeting location where you can control the situation. A coffee shop with only one entrance and a good view of that entrance from the parking lot. Arrive early and wait for her to go inside. Never go in until she arrives. Try to see if she shows up with someone else.
The unicorns are the ones who really intend to provide what you seek in return for cash, and who will do so on a regular basis. They are rare. Most unicorns are desperate single moms or college girls with big student loan debts. Your goal should be to find one of these, and keep them interested.
At the first meeting, talk about their favorite subject. Them. Ask questions that give you an idea of what's going on in their lives. Because they are on SA, it will be fucked up, but it all comes down to degrees of fucked up. Avoid the druggies and drunks. Look for the slightly-crazy ones who still have their shit together enough to pay their bills. But need your help doing it.
Don't promise more than you can really pay. If they accept, you're good. If not, no more time wasted.
Expect to be ghosted. 100% of my arrangements have ended in ghosting, either by me or them. That's 2019 for you.
Never advance a SB money. Never.