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[QUOTE=ChimilDetin;6412396]Don't worry about shifting the conversation from something casual to dances / titties / whatever. They're not so naive as to think you would have gone to the coffee shop to chat up girls but just happened to stop there instead. Hell, don't be afraid to weave some sexy talk into the conversation. It's a strip club; if there's anyplace on the planet where they won't be offended, that's the place. That's one of the best things about strip clubs: You don't have to hide your horniness there like you do everywhere else. They want you to be a bit of a horn dog. That's how they're going to make money.
When it's time and you're ready to do business, say so. Not rudely, like when she's mid-sentence, but when you get the chance. "So hey, this talking thing is great and all, but since we're getting along so well, why don't we take this to another level?" Add a sly smile and she'll flash one back before asking you what you have in mind. Have the charm to carry the conversation, then man up when you're ready to have her grind on your manhood.
I'm with you on not wanting to send a dancer to get another dancer. The implied "I don't like you and I like her better than you" undercurrent isn't a real awesome message to send to anyone. But yeah, in the club, you've got the money, and they're ultimately there because they want that money, so you're the boss. Get what you want when you want it, and get the most value for it that you can, whatever that means to you.[/QUOTE]Right on, When I drop in on Encore maybe I'll try some of this tactics and see how it goes.
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[QUOTE=TheDarkLurker;6411813] . . . and us talking about our favorite characters and game in the series this goes on for like 30-45 minutes. Then her shifts end and she gave me a hug . . . and gave. 40 for the talk . . .[/QUOTE]Look, everything was fine that you did. You just missed one step. When she gave you a hug, you should have asked "want to get together for a little Mortal Combat?" One of two things could have happened: she could have said "Sure! What's your number?" or she could have said "No, you're sweet, but I don't date customers. " No skin off your ass either way.
Coochie (It's just a question, for fuck's sake) Eater.
God Bless You All.
P.S. Even if they take your number, always get theirs. They may not call you, but you'll be able to call them. Don't let the opportunity slide.
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[QUOTE=TheDarkLurker;6418178]Right on, When I drop in on Encore maybe I'll try some of this tactics and see how it goes.[/QUOTE]Those girls are there to make money. Encore has one chick that goes out on dates with guys but I don't think she fucks them. It's part of her grift to get more money off her customers.
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Wisconsin for the summer
I'm from Tampa. I am spending the early part of summer in WI. Mostly near lake michigan. Reading posts going back a few months and it seems no extras are to be had in the clubs.
Is that correct?
If anything can be had in the club (I'm not looking for FS) which club and which city?
Also, met a stripper recently who said this town in WI is like the stripper hall of fame for clubs. I don't quite buy into that. Tampa kinda has that rep or maybe vegas. I guess myrtle beach has a good rep for hot dancers too but Wisconsin?
Help a guy out and fill me in if there is such a unicorn.
TIA.
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[QUOTE=SumDumbFuk;6445984]I'm from Tampa. I am spending the early part of summer in WI. Mostly near lake michigan. Reading posts going back a few months and it seems no extras are to be had in the clubs.
Is that correct?
If anything can be had in the club (I'm not looking for FS) which club and which city?
Also, met a stripper recently who said this town in WI is like the stripper hall of fame for clubs. I don't quite buy into that. Tampa kinda has that rep or maybe vegas. I guess myrtle beach has a good rep for hot dancers too but Wisconsin?
Help a guy out and fill me in if there is such a unicorn.
TIA.[/QUOTE]Welcome, bud.
Quick thoughts:
1. There's one club where extras are sometimes available on day shift. Maybe at night if you're lucky. It's somewhat on the down low, and it's hit-or-miss which dancers provide them, but there's kind of a code and a process and it can happen. DM me.
That said, you're going to have to go into a VIP room that's at least $350 for the room alone, then negotiate with the dancer for services on top of that, plus there's usually a nominal tip to a staff member to add in, too. You can decide if it's worth it. In this economy, for me, the answer is no, even with the hot ones.
Other than that, this is a non-extras town. Hit up the clubs on the far south side of Chicago (Atlantis & 390) or plan an excursion to Detroit for those purposes, where you can negotiate just about any service.
2. Milwaukee is not a stripper hall of fame. Far from it. Wisconsin has a lot of clubs per capita, but you'll find hotter dancers in Chicago, Minneapolis or Detroit, and you'll get better service in those places, too (especially Detroit). I have not clubbed in Tampa, but I hear it's Detroit-like. Vegas has gone from good to vastly overpriced and overrated.
3. Once upon a time, we had a few clubs that seemed like hidden gems around here between Milwaukee & Madison, but it turned out the good service had a lot of bad stuff going on behind it. Those places have been gone some years now. Maybe you talked to someone who remembers that era but hasn't heard the updates.
My top suggestion, beyond "go to Chicago or Detroit," is OTB. Silk has spread itself too thin and the rest of the places are trashy in a not-good way. OTB has good variety that should suit just about every taste.
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Tampa
Probably 15 years ago I was at the club down in Tampa that looked like a spaceship / UFO. (Forgot the name). Don't even bother with the clubs around here if you're used to the clubs in Tampa. Club 390 in Chicago can be fun but it will cost you. Maybe one of these escorts (Sammi Love) can act like a stripper and give you a dance with BBBJ and FS finish.
[QUOTE=SumDumbFuk;6445984]I'm from Tampa. I am spending the early part of summer in WI. Mostly near lake michigan. Reading posts going back a few months and it seems no extras are to be had in the clubs.
Is that correct?
If anything can be had in the club (I'm not looking for FS) which club and which city?
Also, met a stripper recently who said this town in WI is like the stripper hall of fame for clubs. I don't quite buy into that. Tampa kinda has that rep or maybe vegas. I guess myrtle beach has a good rep for hot dancers too but Wisconsin?
Help a guy out and fill me in if there is such a unicorn.
TIA.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=SumDumbFuk;6445984]I'm from Tampa. I am spending the early part of summer in WI. Mostly near lake michigan. Reading posts going back a few months and it seems no extras are to be had in the clubs.
Is that correct?
If anything can be had in the club (I'm not looking for FS) which club and which city?
Also, met a stripper recently who said this town in WI is like the stripper hall of fame for clubs. I don't quite buy into that. Tampa kinda has that rep or maybe vegas. I guess myrtle beach has a good rep for hot dancers too but Wisconsin?
Help a guy out and fill me in if there is such a unicorn.
TIA.[/QUOTE]Stripper fall of fame for clubs. Ahahahahahaha. Nope.
Otb has extras with some girls. You have to spend a lot. Also you usually have to establish a rapport. You just can't walk in like a ***** house I'm pretty sure.
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That would be Mons Venus.
[QUOTE=DaveDream;6447525]Probably 15 years ago I was at the club down in Tampa that looked like a spaceship / UFO. (Forgot the name). Don't even bother with the clubs around here if you're used to the clubs in Tampa. Club 390 in Chicago can be fun but it will cost you. Maybe one of these escorts (Sammi Love) can act like a stripper and give you a dance with BBBJ and FS finish.[/QUOTE]
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Bingo
Thanks. I was on vacation for my funds were low to try the VIP there. Just drinks and looking.
[QUOTE=Miltown;6447952]That would be Mons Venus.[/QUOTE]
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Sometimes.
[QUOTE=BarOfSoap;6447698]Stripper fall of fame for clubs. Ahahahahahaha. Nope.
Otb has extras with some girls. You have to spend a lot. Also you usually have to establish a rapport. You just can't walk in like a ***** house I'm pretty sure.[/QUOTE]I will fully admit, I have walked into the border club and literally upon paying the entrance fee, been approached by a dancer with her whispering in my ear she wants to f* and get f*d. So I oblige. Off to the VIP, shoot my shot, then leave. It's happened a few times, once with this hot half Arabian half Cuban lady, before that, some hot blonde with an ass you only see in porn. Then before that this spinner brunette who said she used to work in Darrien. I am horrible with names so can't give any. Another time, I got the shot girl to go to the back with me. She played extremely hard to get by keeping bottoms on and only doing a minor almost air dance. I ended up slightly touching and caressing her legs, top of butt ribs. After the half an hour, she said her shift was ending. So I thought I struck out. Found a hot Latina for a regular dance then the bouncer came in the back telling me "so-so" was looking for me. I ended the lapper, went to bar and there was hot shot girl. Waiting for me to follow her home. It was a great night needless to say. I haven't been there in about a half a year. Maybe need to make another trip.
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Otb
[QUOTE=DarthVaperzz;6448880]I will fully admit, I have walked into the border club and literally upon paying the entrance fee, been approached by a dancer with her whispering in my ear she wants to f* and get f*d. So I oblige. Off to the VIP, shoot my shot, then leave. It's happened a few times, once with this hot half Arabian half Cuban lady, before that, some hot blonde with an ass you only see in porn. Then before that this spinner brunette who said she used to work in Darrien. I am horrible with names so can't give any. Another time, I got the shot girl to go to the back with me. She played extremely hard to get by keeping bottoms on and only doing a minor almost air dance. I ended up slightly touching and caressing her legs, top of butt ribs. After the half an hour, she said her shift was ending. So I thought I struck out. Found a hot Latina for a regular dance then the bouncer came in the back telling me "so-so" was looking for me. I ended the lapper, went to bar and there was hot shot girl. Waiting for me to follow her home. It was a great night needless to say. I haven't been there in about a half a year. Maybe need to make another trip.[/QUOTE]I hadn't been there since Halloween because the talent had taken a nosedive. But I went in a couple of weeks ago and was pleasantly surprised. There were about 15 girls on a weekday afternoon and all but a couple were Caucasian 7-9/10 scale.
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[QUOTE=Axel6;6449217]I hadn't been there since Halloween because the talent had taken a nosedive. But I went in a couple of weeks ago and was pleasantly surprised. There were about 15 girls on a weekday afternoon and all but a couple were Caucasian 7-9/10 scale.[/QUOTE]OTB days is kinda a hidden gem. Very different vibe than nights, though. Still, there's a core group of talent on certain days that's kinda hard to beat, especially if you like blondes.
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[QUOTE=ChimilDetin;6449431]OTB days is kinda a hidden gem. Very different vibe than nights, though. Still, there's a core group of talent on certain days that's kinda hard to beat, especially if you like blondes.[/QUOTE]Agreed. I have found that hitting it up on a less busy afternoon like a Tuesday afternoon to be best. Fridays can be a complete crap shoot. You'll either be one of five guys and twenty girls or have the bar so packed that you won't get any attention unless you're a regular or flashing a lot of cash.
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[QUOTE=BobSacamano;6449654]Agreed. I have found that hitting it up on a less busy afternoon like a Tuesday afternoon to be best. Fridays can be a complete crap shoot. You'll either be one of five guys and twenty girls or have the bar so packed that you won't get any attention unless you're a regular or flashing a lot of cash.[/QUOTE]Friday used to be the day to go, but some a couple dancers' schedules changed and yes, you do tend to run into more guys on Fridays, too.
From what I see of the lineups, Thursdays look like a pretty good day now. But yeah, different strokes for different folks.
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[QUOTE=ChimilDetin;6450408]Friday used to be the day to go, but some a couple dancers' schedules changed and yes, you do tend to run into more guys on Fridays, too.
From what I see of the lineups, Thursdays look like a pretty good day now. But yeah, different strokes for different folks.[/QUOTE]I used to go on Thursday a lot and you're right, it's probably the day shift that you get the most variety. I used to go a ton on Thursdays, but my regular girl changed up her schedule and now she's usually working Wednesdays and Fridays.