Honest Question and Opinion
To Admin and others.
Do you all find that there's no qualitative difference between "escorts" and sugar babies? I personally find that there's a huge difference. I'm not saying that it's not pay for play. It definitely is. But, for that matter, we could put everything in the "escort" category on this site, if we're going to define it that broadly. There's no doubt that, with the shutdown of BP and CL, many providers have moved to the SA forum but if we eliminate those, I find that SA is not the same as an Escort Babylon.
I'm just putting this out there as a vote to keep the SA thread open, in light of the mention of merging the two categories. Hispanic Massage Apartments are escorts, some Massage Parlors are escorts, some non-AMP massage girls offer FS, and, in my humble opinion, many SA girls are a different breed than traditional escorts. Having said that, each represents a different flavor of mongering.
Just my two cents.
Don't kid yourself. The principles are exactly the same.
[QUOTE=OnyxRain;4065938]To Admin and others.
Do you all find that there's no qualitative difference between "escorts" and sugar babies? I personally find that there's a huge difference. I'm not saying that it's not pay for play. It definitely is. But, for that matter, we could put everything in the "escort" category on this site, if we're going to define it that broadly. There's no doubt that, with the shutdown of BP and CL, many providers have moved to the SA forum but if we eliminate those, I find that SA is not the same as an Escort Babylon.
I'm just putting this out there as a vote to keep the SA thread open, in light of the mention of merging the two categories. Hispanic Massage Apartments are escorts, some Massage Parlors are escorts, some non-AMP massage girls offer FS, and, in my humble opinion, many SA girls are a different breed than traditional escorts. Having said that, each represents a different flavor of mongering.
Just my two cents.[/QUOTE]It's the same thing but it's just more "politically correct," and the lady feels less stigma / shame.
You're giving something of value (cash, services, job offering etc) in return for sexual favors, it's just less obvious but it's the same principles.
There are a lot of young women who **** themselves out for job advancement, school grades, car repairs etc. For all we know they are even MORE COMMON than the typical street walkers. They probably consider themselves "virtuous" in comparison to an escort, but one can argue that the escort is more HONEST AND DIRECT.
I think there is a huge difference between SB's and Escorts
[QUOTE=OnyxRain;4065938]To Admin and others.
Do you all find that there's no qualitative difference between "escorts" and sugar babies? I personally find that there's a huge difference. I'm not saying that it's not pay for play. It definitely is. But, for that matter, we could put everything in the "escort" category on this site, if we're going to define it that broadly. There's no doubt that, with the shutdown of BP and CL, many providers have moved to the SA forum but if we eliminate those, I find that SA is not the same as an Escort Babylon.
I'm just putting this out there as a vote to keep the SA thread open, in light of the mention of merging the two categories. Hispanic Massage Apartments are escorts, some Massage Parlors are escorts, some non-AMP massage girls offer FS, and, in my humble opinion, many SA girls are a different breed than traditional escorts. Having said that, each represents a different flavor of mongering.
Just my two cents.[/QUOTE]I've never said that I don't think SB's exist. I've only said that the majority of chicks the wannabe SD's on this forum talk about are escorts. I know real Sugar Daddies, the guy who started this forum is a real Sugar Daddy, he's not a monger. SB's have exclusive clientele, they don't have low volume clientele, the have A client, one client, they have A guy who has the scratch to pay them. If they, not you, are deciding who else they fuck you are not a sugar daddy and they are not your sugar baby. They might be a low volume, high dollar hooker but they are a hooker and you are a john.
Now, if you want to lie to them and call them your sugar baby when you're talking to them so that they don't have to face the fact that they are a hooker I could give a shit less but don't lie to yourself about it. And don't ask me to join in the delusion.
I've had those girls write me and complain that somebody said they were a prostitute. I say "he wrote that he paid you for sex, did you fuck him for free?" An astonishing number answer with "yes, but him paying me for sex doesn't make me a prostitute I'm a (courtesan, sugar baby) whatever. I always disabuse them of that notion and none to gently.
I probably won't merge the threads, there's no use moving the fucking drama queens to the other thread but I'm tired of the guys who use these words to act as if they are somehow better than the guy who's paying some chick 20 bucks to suck his dick in his car. They aren't, and that's not because the want to be SD's are worse, there is no better nor worse, and I say that because I find no shame in commercial sex, they are the same because essentially it is the same. If a chick has an ad up and has multiple clients that she's seeing by the hour she's a hooker. Them not wanting to fuck fat old fuckers is no different than the chicks on BP that used to say no AA. We have always supported a hookers right to choose her clientele based on whatever criterion she wants to use. Because they are selective doesn't make them less a hooker.