The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;6783669]Appreciate the heads up, but could you please make sure to link her? They change names constantly - more often than they change profiles - and it makes them searchable using the last section of the URL.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8b57681c-f22f-4fca-b2e5-ce3798d7a232[/URL]

Has anyone met with this lady? She was quick to move to M&G. Any info will be great.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6f95dddc-c3a4-40d0-9b3c-5964d381e0b1[/URL]

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6784655]Has anyone met with this lady? She was quick to move to M&G. Any info will be great.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6f95dddc-c3a4-40d0-9b3c-5964d381e0b1[/URL][/QUOTE]Spoken with her. No warning bells, but despite her having a great body, the face pics that came from texting didn't do it for me. When girls don't show face it's generally because they are either cheating, or the face doesn't match the body.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6783166]Careful with this one, she is fishing for full names, social media. I sense a blackmail scam incoming.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/958848b1-a8da-43b2-8feb-b75293157d85[/URL][/QUOTE]Actually she is I think real but is looking for platonic. LOL.

[QUOTE=Swimmer123;6784786]Spoken with her. No warning bells, but despite her having a great body, the face pics that came from texting didn't do it for me. When girls don't show face it's generally because they are either cheating, or the face doesn't match the body.[/QUOTE]As we used to say - "nice from far, but far from nice".

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6785189]Actually she is I think real but is looking for platonic. LOL.[/QUOTE]Considering all their money comes from us, I wish Seeking would simply ban "online only" or "platonic / friends only" profiles. It's ostensibly a dating website for romantic relationships, not a webcam site or place to make friends.

[QUOTE=ElectricHug;6785225]Considering all their money comes from us, I wish Seeking would simply ban "online only" or "platonic / friends only" profiles. It's ostensibly a dating website for romantic relationships, not a webcam site or place to make friends.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. I think they used to. Like for pic sellers at least you could report them and they would get banned. But now it is a free for all. 99/100 accounts on there are one of: deposit scammer, platonic, pic seller.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;6784655]Has anyone met with this lady? She was quick to move to M&G. Any info will be great.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6f95dddc-c3a4-40d0-9b3c-5964d381e0b1[/URL][/QUOTE]She's real, I've met her in person but it was a few years ago. As someone else said she has an amazing body, but her face is less amazing. I still thought she was cute though. I don't remember what she was asking for but it was more than I could do consistently so I left it alone and she was very businesslike if I remember correctly. Let us know how it goes if you see her!

[QUOTE=ElectricHug;6785225]Considering all their money comes from us, I wish Seeking would simply ban "online only" or "platonic / friends only" profiles. It's ostensibly a dating website for romantic relationships, not a webcam site or place to make friends.[/QUOTE]While we're at it, let me block messages from people X miles away. Like eight messages a day from Columbia / Ukraine.

[QUOTE=jobobtheclown;6785395]While we're at it, let me block messages from people X miles away. Like eight messages a day from Columbia / Ukraine.[/QUOTE]You can hide your profile from search and dashboard in settings.

I've had some mixed experiences with SA over the years, with some ups and down as to be expected, but the latter part of last year was actually really great. I met several beautiful women and had a lot of great sex. However, SA has really been shit lately. All I've managed to connect with have either been scams, content sellers, and flakes. Looks like others have had similar luck with the site as of late. Has anyone tried other sugar / arrangement sites lately and had a positive experience? I tried Sugarbook after seeing an ad here but I'm not seeing much reason to pay to join. If anyone has any thing to add to the contrary, I'm all ears.

I'll post a few from SA I've had the "pleasure" of connecting with.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/19630d9f-43b4-4641-8372-b5097e6ff929[/URL]

Scam / content seller / maybe pro (doubt).

Struck up a brief conversation yesterday. She asked to have a ppm for 400, but I wasn't available. She then asked if I could send 100 for nude pics and video. I declined and stated I was interested in in-person only, to which she replied if I couldn't do that day she would have to find someone else and wouldn't be interested in scheduling with me for next week.

She blocked me, but maybe you could have better luck if she's desperate for cash.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/17bb0b70-3c0c-42d5-ac54-81ce17e940d7[/URL]

Content seller.

Quick chat. She asked for 500 ppm. Schedule a lunch date for Saturday, then she starts in on how she's been burned by sugar dating and needs me to "verify" I'm real by buying pics from her for 100. More back and forth chat. Sounds like she couldn't walk away from a ppm. Says she'll meet me for the lunch date.

Saturday comes and goes. Stood up. No lunch date. No ppm date.

First I never met or even reached out. But sometimes there is no need as all the evidence why to avoid is already there in their profile. I copied just a couple lines from the paragraphs of what she is looking for.

Looking for gentleman daddy that's willing to $ for my time & my bills since I am struggling and mental health is up and down but mentorship is needed too but importantly happy to do so online wen away + in person wen we can. Looking for benifital compensative drama / stress free platonical relationship and go from there, unless we vibe well. Don't txt me to waste my time I'm not looking to be used as a s e x you a l outlet for why'all.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5447e16a-052a-419f-b65b-cef83d54eb64[/URL]

NCvixen.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/da4e4ed9-8783-4335-b562-2efe014a0d3f[/URL]

I had a date set up with her this week, 2 days before the date, complete radio silence no response yet.

Before that she was pretty much texting me everyday. I do not think it was because of something I said, but who knows.

Any leads will be appreciated.

[QUOTE=ArtOf;6787934]NCvixen.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/da4e4ed9-8783-4335-b562-2efe014a0d3f[/URL]

I had a date set up with her this week, 2 days before the date, complete radio silence no response yet.

Before that she was pretty much texting me everyday. I do not think it was because of something I said, but who knows.

Any leads will be appreciated.[/QUOTE]I was chatting with her a while back, got her digits and got to the negotiation part. I ask for more pics and never heard from her again. She must be oversized.

Any info on this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5c4e0dec-74b6-4e37-9b7b-baa4802599ff[/URL]

[QUOTE=SomeBabysRent;6787123]I've had some mixed experiences with SA over the years, with some ups and down as to be expected, but the latter part of last year was actually really great. I met several beautiful women and had a lot of great sex. However, SA has really been shit lately. All I've managed to connect with have either been scams, content sellers, and flakes. Looks like others have had similar luck with the site as of late. Has anyone tried other sugar / arrangement sites lately and had a positive experience? I tried Sugarbook after seeing an ad here but I'm not seeing much reason to pay to join. If anyone has any thing to add to the contrary, I'm all ears.

I'll post a few from SA I've had the "pleasure" of connecting with.[/QUOTE]I've actually had better experiences with SugarDaddyMeet than with Seeking. Don't get me wrong, you won't avoid the fakes and scammers altogether. Just make it clear you don't send money in advance of meeting, don't buy content, etc. However, I have met quite a few great girls from there and I felt it was far less scammy than Seeking. Plus, you can get a 3 month membership for $90. I don't think you can even get a month on Seeking for that.

[QUOTE=Falconwings33;6787979]I was chatting with her a while back, got her digits and got to the negotiation part. I ask for more pics and never heard from her again. She must be oversized.[/QUOTE]She did send me her private pics. And I cut off communication immediately.

[QUOTE=YourCCPimp;6788444]I've actually had better experiences with SugarDaddyMeet than with Seeking. Don't get me wrong, you won't avoid the fakes and scammers altogether. Just make it clear you don't send money in advance of meeting, don't buy content, etc. However, I have met quite a few great girls from there and I felt it was far less scammy than Seeking. Plus, you can get a 3 month membership for $90. I don't think you can even get a month on Seeking for that.[/QUOTE]SDM seems to have less scammers but it also just has less people in total. I have had some limited success there but there is not a lot to choose from.

[QUOTE=FireMan32;6753803]I decided to give her another try since she's petite and just adorably cute. Last time I was not able to fit inside her but she said that it should be better this time around. She came over and I was able to fit about halfway in. I am above average size. The experience was great and I will definitely be calling her again.[/QUOTE]And if so is she going all in now? Would love to find out and if so hear about how the experience is.

[QUOTE=AkaToneloc;6787261]First I never met or even reached out. But sometimes there is no need as all the evidence why to avoid is already there in their profile. I copied just a couple lines from the paragraphs of what she is looking for.

Looking for gentleman daddy that's willing to $ for my time & my bills since I am struggling and mental health is up and down but mentorship is needed too but importantly happy to do so online wen away + in person wen we can. Looking for benifital compensative drama / stress free platonical relationship and go from there, unless we vibe well. Don't txt me to waste my time I'm not looking to be used as a s e x you a l outlet for why'all.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5447e16a-052a-419f-b65b-cef83d54eb64[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, I generally stay away from any of them with Findom in their profile. I don't find "Give me money now NOW" erotic.

[QUOTE=YourCCPimp;6788444]I've actually had better experiences with SugarDaddyMeet than with Seeking. Don't get me wrong, you won't avoid the fakes and scammers altogether. Just make it clear you don't send money in advance of meeting, don't buy content, etc. However, I have met quite a few great girls from there and I felt it was far less scammy than Seeking. Plus, you can get a 3 month membership for $90. I don't think you can even get a month on Seeking for that.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the suggestion. I'll give SDM a look next time I plan to re-sub a site.

Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cfaf166d-db42-4fd4-a621-dacf8afd5c7b[/URL]

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.

[QUOTE=SomeBabysRent;6792272]Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cfaf166d-db42-4fd4-a621-dacf8afd5c7b[/URL]

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.[/QUOTE]I had her in my message history, but I think she must have blocked me, or just deleted her profile. I can't really recall her.

[QUOTE=SomeBabysRent;6792272]Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cfaf166d-db42-4fd4-a621-dacf8afd5c7b[/URL]

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.[/QUOTE]Profile has been deleted.

SA Profile tagline: "a sadistic beauty".

I had written down all my thoughts on this one to help me process what happened, but decided to post a TLDR instead for the sake of privacy. May post the full writeup at a later time.
[INDENT]
- Connect about a week ago and conversation goes well. Decide to meet for lunch
- Lunch date goes well and leads to hooking up
- Unenthusiastic BBBJ, rushed covered PIV
- Immediately starts texting about money every few hrs, daily
- Poses as a different person (Dolly profile I posted the other day) and texts from a different phone number and threatens to "expose" me
- I report Dolly account to SA support as an extortion attempt
- Trace both numbers back to Vivacious_vixen, find her real name, address, birthday, etc.
- Find her socials and she's got a kid and a deadbeat boyfriend/baby daddy

[/INDENT]
Letting this one die on the vine and won't repeat. If she tries to bring drama, I'll show her what all I found on her and send her a C&D letter.

Do NOT recommend. Stay safe and good luck.

What kind of info are you looking for? You are listing all the red flags and I see no reason for you to want to pursue. FYI, if the profile is not available for you to view it is either deactivated or she blocked you. Go with what you see for what it is and move on.

[QUOTE=SomeBabysRent;6792272]Reaching out to see if others have had experience with this girl. She reached out to me by text, though I hadn't connected with her and have no SA chat history with her. I'm assuming she got my profile from someone else or someone is pretending to be her. Can someone confirm if the profile below matches the screenshots? The profile is not available to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cfaf166d-db42-4fd4-a621-dacf8afd5c7b[/URL]

Sounds scammy, so approach with caution.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AkaToneloc;6794525]What kind of info are you looking for? You are listing all the red flags and I see no reason for you to want to pursue. FYI, if the profile is not available for you to view it is either deactivated or she blocked you. Go with what you see for what it is and move on.[/QUOTE]See [URL=http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?20290-The-Raleigh-area-quot-Sugar-Bowl-quot-(SA-WYP-SD4-ME)&p=6794244&viewfull=1#post6794244]post 4370[/URL] for context.

Vivacious_vixen texted me pretending to be Dolly. I had contacted SA support and submitted Dolly's profile link as attempting to extort me, so I want to follow-up with SA support as to not erroneously report Dolly as a scammer.

Both profiles for Dolly and Vivacious_vixen are unavailable to me now. I think I had blocked Dolly's before (not really what I'm looking for) and Vivacious_vixen blocked me (she's the one acting scammy).

Basically, I was asking for someone to confirm if the pictures I posted [URL=http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?20290-The-Raleigh-area-quot-Sugar-Bowl-quot-(SA-WYP-SD4-ME)&p=6792272&viewfull=1#post6792272]here (post 4367)[/URL] matched Dolly's profile I linked there as well.

Having been in this line of dating for 6+ years now, I'm not looking to continue anything with either of these women as this is already way beyond the level of drama I'm willing to put up with.

Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6796149]Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.[/QUOTE]Saw her a while back and had some fun. She's got an alcohol problem and it's a turn-off for me. Originally found her SA profile on here a couple years back and others seemed to have the same opinion of her.

Face and body have changed a bit since her profile pictures, likely due to some weight gain and loss. Attached the one I could find. Terrible comms. Decent date if you can catch her on a day she's not been drinking.

[QUOTE=SomeBabysRent;6796298]Saw her a while back and had some fun. She's got an alcohol problem and it's a turn-off for me. Originally found her SA profile on here a couple years back and others seemed to have the same opinion of her.

Face and body have changed a bit since her profile pictures, likely due to some weight gain and loss. Attached the one I could find. Terrible comms. Decent date if you can catch her on a day she's not been drinking.[/QUOTE]Yes, that's her. There were definitely alcohol daemons present as you mentioned, but I found her to be a good person. May I ask when was the last time you saw her? Just wondering if she might still be active in the SD scene. You can PM details if you prefer. Thank you.

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6796149]Some of you have met her, she lives (lived?) near Wakemed in Raleigh. Has anyone seen her recently? I'm trying to reconnect with her. I'm not sure if she has an ad on Seeking right now, but she did at one point, and SB as well as I recall.[/QUOTE]Hi. I met with her a couple of times last August. She is a nice girl and seems to want to find someone but is really difficult to actually see regularly. Her schedule is all over the place so she can't easily plan. She's not the best at texting either. I think someone who can be really flexible might be able to make it work. But it didn't work for me. I saw no signs of demons but she did ask for wine for our first date (which ended up being cancelled). Overall a really nice girl though.

[QUOTE=ChasingPuppy;6796601]Hi. I met with her a couple of times last August. She is a nice girl and seems to want to find someone but is really difficult to actually see regularly. Her schedule is all over the place so she can't easily plan. She's not the best at texting either. I think someone who can be really flexible might be able to make it work. But it didn't work for me. I saw no signs of demons but she did ask for wine for our first date (which ended up being cancelled). Overall a really nice girl though.[/QUOTE]Last August qualifies as pretty recently. May I ask how you got in touch with her? Does she have an ad / profile somewhere? I lost her number is the problem.

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6796564]Yes, that's her. There were definitely alcohol daemons present as you mentioned, but I found her to be a good person. May I ask when was the last time you saw her? Just wondering if she might still be active in the SD scene. You can PM details if you prefer. Thank you.[/QUOTE]She's a sweet girl and holds good conversation in person. As ChasingPuppy noted, her schedule is all over the place, so it can be a hassle to get in touch with her. The times I saw her she was always having roommate trouble and it appears she has a tendency to let "people in need" take advantage of her financially. She was always having to cover their rent or trying to pay for some animal / vet bill, while trying to cover her own medical bills. I'd agree that she's a good person who always seemed to be looking to help her friends, but she was pretty disrespectful a few times when she was sloppy drunk and refused to acknowledge it, so I cut it off with that.

Overall there were some fun dates, but I'd say it wasn't a good ROI.

Unfortunately I don't have her text app contact any longer and the SA profile I connected with her through appears to have been deleted. I had last seen her in the fall, so I assume she's still at the same location.

[QUOTE=LikesGirls;6796608]Last August qualifies as pretty recently. May I ask how you got in touch with her? Does she have an ad / profile somewhere? I lost her number is the problem.[/QUOTE]I don't think she has a profile anymore. I had her number from years before and reached out to check in on her.

[QUOTE=ChasingPuppy;6796934]I don't think she has a profile anymore. I had her number from years before and reached out to check in on her.[/QUOTE]I assume you meant today. Did she reply?

Anyway, I'll keep going through emails and texts and see if I find her contact info. Thanks to you and the others who posted on this thread for the updates.

[QUOTE=SomeBabysRent;6791069]Thank you for the suggestion. I'll give SDM a look next time I plan to re-sub a site.[/QUOTE]I agree SDM provides a higher per centage of real sugar babies.

I have found the new members on Secret Benefits to be real in many cases. The others seldom respond.

I dropped out of Seeking Arrangements- many fakes and scammers, rules of the site are strict on men, gets expensive for the premium membership. I just don't think it is worthwhile.

The women often use multiple sites any way.

[QUOTE=CoastToPeaks;6806534]I agree SDM provides a higher per centage of real sugar babies.

I have found the new members on Secret Benefits to be real in many cases. The others seldom respond.

I dropped out of Seeking Arrangements- many fakes and scammers, rules of the site are strict on men, gets expensive for the premium membership. I just don't think it is worthwhile.

The women often use multiple sites any way.[/QUOTE]They all have their issues, unfortunately. Secret Benefits will send a fake message from the girl if she views your profile, in order to trick you in to spending money to unlock it, as a "service" to them. I find maybe 1 in 40 will ever reply again. In practice, it can end up costing more than seeking.

Seeking has a decent number of scams, though usually pretty obvious ones. It seems to be the most transparent in terms of showing you what she's doing and when.

SDM is hard to hold a conversation on because it won't always email you when they reply: I keep finding week old responses I didn't know I received, and she's long since gone. It tries to hide the numbers by not showing you dates, but it's clear that it has a fraction of the girls of the other sites.

Does anyone have any intel on this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/498f7ba4-9e54-4957-8dc8-beb36fea013a[/URL]

Initial conversation seems fine and I'm trying to set up a M&G with her.