Why it's called turning tricks.
[QUOTE=SteveJohnAss;5042909]I feel you, I just needed to be done with her though. She's too addicting for me and I know she'll just take me for a ride again. That and she is just so god damn bad about pushing dates back, I've sat in her parking lot outside her old apartment for like over a half hour, with her just pushing me back. We got there eventually but damn, she's so flakey. Just be careful, she'll get you one time.[/QUOTE]I've experienced the same thing. I've had a few that I tried to make special friendships and do extra things for them (fix things, give rides, float them a Benjamin here or there.). It adds up. What you thought you arranged as a cheap but frequent and reliable agreement starts to turn into a one way street. Then they start asking "hey can you get me a pack of cigs, or some swishers, or a pizza for my kids on the way here. " on top of your donation. On top of the extra you sent them yesterday. In addition to the $45 and 2 hours of your day fixing their flat tire (starting to sound like a marriage!
Eventually you wise up and cut your losses. I think some of us want to have that one special gem, but it's been said here many o time. They are NOT your friend, it's business. Mostly tricks and very few treats out there.