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I'm not a relationship expert (duh...), but I totally agree with Chia. If you're with your GF just so you'd have someone there to take care of you when you're sick or old, you may as well buy yourself a good long-term care insurance, prepay for your burial plot and headstone, and enjoy being single. A good long-term care insurance, burial plot, headstone, etc. are something we all should be planning for if we don't want to burden our loved ones anyway. It really doesn't sound like you're that emotionally vested in this relationship either. The deal breaker for me would be that the physical aspect is greatly lacking on top of everything else. What's the point of the relationship then? If your expenditures far outweigh your gains, it's time to cut your losses and move on to something more lucrative (or at least something more gratifying). Good luck dude.

[QUOTE=Nash Manner]Hi everyone, I am desperate for an answer as you guys are the only ones who can relate to my situation. Please take a couple of minutes to read what I have to say and if you could reply to my questions that would really be appreciated. As you may know I am trying to do things the way society wants by getting a regular girlfriend/wife and not SWs. I managed to get a girlfriend for the past month and man she costs WAY more than any working girl. All of the movies, driving her around, parties, bars, food, all the electric and water she uses all day at my house, restaurants, clothes, etc. etc. she costs A LOT MORE. Not to mention her hogging up my bed, tossing and turning at night waking me up, leaving my house a mess with clothes and trash everywhere. I have one TV so I am forced to watch her dumbass girly TV talk shows, etc.

I am dead tired and losing tons of money in this relationship. The only real benefit would be that someone is around to take care of me when I get really sick/older, that is it. I really love being single and just getting an SW every now and then. Oh and worse of all, my gf cannot make me cum. I thought I had a problem because I cannot feel her at all and her bjs to me do no have that strong sensation. She told me I can test another girl so I went out to get an SW and came in about two minutes.

So my questions are, in my situation should I just remain single until I get really old and try to get a woman when I am older to take care of me? Also, can I not cum with my girlfriend because the sex with her is really awful? Or am I used to SWs so much and really relaxed whereas with my gf I may be nervous deep down inside?[/QUOTE]

Uhmm. Been with my girl for a long time. Sex is good always. We have a mutal understanding. She works hard and make good money and better yet she is like a best friend to me. We laugh cry and have fun together.

Nothing wrong with having a GF

IF your blaming yourself for being in a hobby on a girl, then either your fat, ugly, lazy or have a small dick that can satisfy a girl anyway.

So don't blame a GF on your excuse for being in the hobby. Thats bullshit and you know it.

IF one girl don't work out then find another one. There are millions of women in this world and they are not all the same.

Also you have to know how a women thinks and acts. Women don't think like us. They are emotional creatures. As long as you know this then you can handle a women,.

My girl never complain or bitches except for 1 or 2 straight days out the month but by now I'm use to it and find it cute and funny, LOL

Alot of you need to pick up some books on How women think.

Thanks to everyone for replying to my questions. I totally felt the same way as you guys and when my friends ask me what I would do when I get sick/old or need any help, I told them that my insurance would cover it. To Road, my problem is that my penis is too large so the sex is not good since she says it either hurts too much or that she has orgasms within a couple of minutes and wants me to stop. I am very handsome and can get any girl, that is another reason why people are shocked when I say that I am single. Some guys pretend to be players but I am a true player and was known all over the city for getting the hottest girls. Once I got too busy I decided it is quicker to just pick up clean looking SWs every now and then.

[QUOTE=Nash Manner]Thanks to everyone for replying to my questions. I totally felt the same way as you guys and when my friends ask me what I would do when I get sick/old or need any help, I told them that my insurance would cover it. To Road, my problem is that my penis is too large so the sex is not good since she says it either hurts too much or that she has orgasms within a couple of minutes and wants me to stop. I am very handsome and can get any girl, that is another reason why people are shocked when I say that I am single. Some guys pretend to be players but I am a true player and was known all over the city for getting the hottest girls. Once I got too busy I decided it is quicker to just pick up clean looking SWs every now and then.[/QUOTE]Nash mines is huge too and I never heard a girl say that to me that it hurts or they orgasm to fast..

If your handsome and have a huge penis there is never no excuse not to have a side girl who only wants to fuck every now and then no strings attached.

I mean I do this for fun and my video business.

But I have my lady friends that have money and stuff going for themselves who I get with every now and then to a movie and some fucking later in the night then dont hear from them for weeks..

I mean to each its own but I just dont understand some of you all logic to this

Mine is obviously a lot larger since I read your posts where you say you got a BJ from SWs who couldn't even wrap their lips around mine. Most girls say that I stretch it too much and they don't want to be fuck buddies because I will make them too large for when they decide to get married.

[QUOTE=RoadWarrior615]Nash mines is huge too and I never heard a girl say that to me that it hurts or they orgasm to fast..

If your handsome and have a huge penis there is never no excuse not to have a side girl who only wants to fuck every now and then no strings attached.

I mean I do this for fun and my video business.

But I have my lady friends that have money and stuff going for themselves who I get with every now and then to a movie and some fucking later in the night then dont hear from them for weeks..

I mean to each its own but I just dont understand some of you all logic to this[/QUOTE]

ROFLMAO!!! I think porn may be the answer to your dilemma. Ever consider a career change? LOL

[QUOTE=Nash Manner]Mine is obviously a lot larger since I read your posts where you say you got a BJ from SWs who couldn't even wrap their lips around mine. Most girls say that I stretch it too much and they don't want to be fuck buddies because I will make them too large for when they decide to get married.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Nash Manner]I managed to get a girlfriend for the past month and man she costs WAY more than any working girl. All of the movies, driving her around, parties, bars, food, all the electric and water she uses all day at my house, restaurants, clothes, etc. etc. she costs A LOT MORE. Not to mention her hogging up my bed, tossing and turning at night waking me up, leaving my house a mess with clothes and trash everywhere. I have one TV so I am forced to watch her dumbass girly TV talk shows, etc.[/QUOTE]
I mean this in the nicest way possible and no disrespect but BE A MAN! Why you let your GF come over and leave your house a mess with clothes and trash. Whatever she messes up make her ass clean it up. You say you are forced to watch her dumbass girly TV talk shows. Why?? Its your TV and remote ain't it? I understand you want to keep your GF happy but DAMN! I can see compromising in certain situations but the way you describe it she is running everything. A relationship is give and take. Sounds you are doing all the giving and she is doing all the taking. Too many fish in the sea.

[QUOTE=Hobbydude]ROFLMAO!!! I think porn may be the answer to your dilemma. Ever consider a career change? LOL[/QUOTE]Yeah I may really do that even the SWs say I should. Hi Cashville, actually she is sacrificing things for me as well so I try to put up with a few of her things too. She does clean up when I complain and she just forgets to pick up things.

Met up with China the other day. Liked her pictures even after reading that it was purely massage and HE. Met her at a nice downtown hotel--she was casually dressed with that nice, tight body. She was definitely made up a whole lot better for her website pictures than our appointment, but I do believe that her pics are accurate. She gave a very good massage and after the flip she squirted lubricant on my member and gave a straight forward HJ with zero sensuality. I was very disappointed with her "expolsive erotic twist" as quoted on her website. Nice girl, not horribly expensive ($) but a no repeat for me.

I can't believe you guys are comparing dick sizes.

Let's face it. A lot of guys here are simply addicted to the hobby. Having a nice girlfriend isn't half the rush of the pursuit of the "ladies' You guys with big dicks shoud just invest in a couple of barnyard animals and be done with it LOL. The only complaint you'll hear is "moooooooo"

He had the Super Model's/Porno Queen and was still a Hobbiest.

[QUOTE=Brucee23]Let's face it. A lot of guys here are simply addicted to the hobby. Having a nice girlfriend isn't half the rush of the pursuit of the "ladies' You guys with big dicks shoud just invest in a couple of barnyard animals and be done with it LOL. The only complaint you'll hear is "moooooooo"[/QUOTE]

Men are just wired that way. Monogamy doesn't jive with our physiology although we're evolved enough to foresee the consequences and choose our actions accordingly.

Nash, being single is not a bad thing at all. Don't let peer pressure force you into relationships that aren't fulfilling. Being in a relationship or marriage is not a bad thing either. It just takes a lot more work than being single, that's all. I'm still on my first marriage of over 20+ years, and let me tell ya, it really takes a lot of work!!! What I learned from years of marriage counseling is that cultivating and maintaining a mutually beneficial and nurturing relationship is like 2 people with totally different backgrounds and ideas working on a single cohesive garden. First you need a shared vision for the ideal garden you're going for. Then you both need to seed it, water it, weed it, fertilize it, constantly being in communication so you're both heading towards the same goal. If there are disagreements or arguments, keep in mind what you're trying to accomplish in the long run and don't get caught up in the heat of the moment. Keep it honest and fair to avoid misunderstandings, confusions, and resentments. Even if you start out with a shared vision, extended neglect will find your garden full of dandelions, briars, and poison ivy! It does get easier though, and once you get the foundation laid out, the maintenance is much smoother. Relationship doesn't come with a manual, so it's up to the individuals to take the initiative if they deem it worthy. Like Animal said, women are wired differently than men. But if you can meet her needs, you'd be surprised what kind of incentives may become available to you and with her full blessings.



[QUOTE=Blackhawk 101]He had the Super Model's/Porno Queen and was still a Hobbiest.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Nash Manner]Mine is obviously a lot larger since I read your posts where you say you got a BJ from SWs who couldn't even wrap their lips around mine. Most girls say that I stretch it too much and they don't want to be fuck buddies because I will make them too large for when they decide to get married.[/QUOTE]Mine is obviously a lot larger since I read your posts where you say you couldn't get a BJ from a SW who couldn't even get into the car/room with me because of my massive size.

Was perusing BP and came across this ad. Now I love to take a shower with a lady, but if these are the actual rules, then it had better be a COLD shower...LOL

Take a Shower With Me !! - 25

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I'm 25, curvy, tattooed and tons of fun!

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Outcall only - $100/HH - $150/H (within Davidson County)

Please be willing to send me a picture of yourself - I am not comfortable meeting sight unseen.