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Gents. I am doing some business over a weekend in August in your fair city. Do you have any recommendations for particular scenarios to avoid or pursue? I don't have an active account on SA, I would need to pay to message, and I want to make sure it is worth it. I have plenty of pussy in my home city from my last time on the site. FFA.
So I've downloaded a few apps. Mainly meetme, pof, tinder etc. Seen some escorts on meetme. So far I'm not really having any real luck. It honestly seems most of the girls are swamped and never see the message.
Don't know how you guys do it. Anyone have any luck on fet life or aff?
The gentleman that says he can't find a UTR. Well, the people using SA are paying $90 / month to get their leads, UTR, NSA's, and FWB's. Etc.
I like SA but it costs money and time.
Anyway, I am offering up a UTR named LOLA who lives on the North Shore and I drove 1 1/2 hours to get to see her. (Malden).
She is a very calm and nice lady and good company. Too far for me to drive again.
Here are her photos. Because I am trying to regulate the situation as a favor, PM me for the phone number. I'll try to get back quickly.
Or if you are an SA user, use the link and contact her directly.
She is willing to meet you. She needs support and being treated nicely whether you take her out for a meal and drinks or bring in take out and drinks.
So, below are photos, she is late 40's. Has a little more weight on her than these photos. She will host.
Be nice to her and she'll be nice to you.
SA link:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/03f3e4fb-3aed-4beb-b6bc-95248afc227e[/URL]
Good Luck. P.S.
Just an initial conversation with her she says she wants 300 for a meet & greet with no BCD (maybe oral). I said thanks, but no thanks.
[QUOTE=Spill;3830319]Just an initial conversation with her she says she wants 300 for a meet & greet with no BCD (maybe oral). I said thanks, but no thanks.[/QUOTE]For the computer illiterate messaging me:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/08245cbb-a2c6-4cb1-9552-c1bb9f7ff6ab[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f7f14370-2346-41f2-a027-b075ed7e5d9b[/URL]
ROB. Insisted she be paid up front, I knew it was a bad idea and I should have avoided. Bolted out at a red light, leaving me a bag of clothes, I promptly dumpstered. I think this is the same ***** who robbed people on Craigstlist and Backpage.
Theft has been reported to SA, her profile will disappear shortly.
Mitch.
[QUOTE=Mitch672;3835300][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f7f14370-2346-41f2-a027-b075ed7e5d9b[/URL]
ROB. Insisted she be paid up front, I knew it was a bad idea and I should have avoided. Bolted out at a red light, leaving me a bag of clothes, I promptly dumpstered. I think this is the same ***** who robbed people on Craigstlist and Backpage.
Theft has been reported to SA, her profile will disappear shortly.
Mitch.[/QUOTE]Appreciate the info!
Here is screenshot of her on SA. 5'7, slim, 23 yr old. See below. I had to adjust the size of the screenshot in order to get it uploaded.
[QUOTE=Mitch672;3835300][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f7f14370-2346-41f2-a027-b075ed7e5d9b[/URL]
ROB. Insisted she be paid up front, I knew it was a bad idea and I should have avoided. Bolted out at a red light, leaving me a bag of clothes, I promptly dumpstered. I think this is the same ***** who robbed people on Craigstlist and Backpage.
Theft has been reported to SA, her profile will disappear shortly.
Mitch.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mitch672;3835300][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f7f14370-2346-41f2-a027-b075ed7e5d9b[/URL]
ROB. Insisted she be paid up front, I knew it was a bad idea and I should have avoided. Bolted out at a red light, leaving me a bag of clothes, I promptly dumpstered. I think this is the same ***** who robbed people on Craigstlist and Backpage.
Theft has been reported to SA, her profile will disappear shortly.
Mitch.[/QUOTE]Sounds like the demons have gotten to her. I've seen her two or three times awhile back. Despite some attempts at up selling, the service was fine. Didn't mind pics and video. She is from the city of sin. Former Pilates instructor according to her FB page. Then over time I would get these strange incoherent texts from her (as recent as this week) which was enough to not want to see her again. I remember her mentioning she kept losing weight, now I can guess why.
[QUOTE=Spike77;3835814]Sounds like the demons have gotten to her. I've seen her two or three times awhile back. Despite some attempts at up selling, the service was fine. Didn't mind pics and video. She is from the city of sin. Former Pilates instructor according to her FB page. Then over time I would get these strange incoherent texts from her (as recent as this week) which was enough to not want to see her again. I remember her mentioning she kept losing weight, now I can guess why.[/QUOTE]Its an advanced, well planned setup. There was someone following, to pick her up whenever she could get away.
I should have let let her out of the car, their where multiple clues, the wrong head was making decisions.
Her iPhone started sending her location, why and to who?
She's texting someone during diner, besides beind rude, it was a huge sign.
She insists on getting paid upfront, "cause guys have ripped me off before".
I tell her, I'd give her half, show her I had the other half, wasn't good enough.
Said she wouldn't run out when she was paid, said this almost immediatley. Thieves often tell you what they intend on doing.
Oh here's the topper, I text her all kinds of nasty things, she texts back "I didn't steal, I had dinner with you. Goodbye", yeah, like I always pay $300 to take a gal to diner. She's a nasty, C word. If anyone would like arrange a date with her, I'd like to follow, to confront the C.
$300 down the crapper, but a lesson. Backpage and craigslist ROBs have moved over to SA.
[QUOTE=Mitch672;3835862]Its an advanced, well planned setup. There was someone following, to pick her up whenever she could get away.
I should have let let her out of the car, their where multiple clues, the wrong head was making decisions.
Her iPhone started sending her location, why and to who?
She's texting someone during diner, besides beind rude, it was a huge sign.
She insists on getting paid upfront, "cause guys have ripped me off before".
I tell her, I'd give her half, show her I had the other half, wasn't good enough.
Said she wouldn't run out when she was paid, said this almost immediatley. Thieves often tell you what they intend on doing.
Oh here's the topper, I text her all kinds of nasty things, she texts back "I didn't steal, I had dinner with you. Goodbye", yeah, like I always pay $300 to take a gal to diner. She's a nasty, C word. If anyone would like arrange a date with her, I'd like to follow, to confront the C.
$300 down the crapper, but a lesson. Backpage and craigslist ROBs have moved over to SA.[/QUOTE]Sorry man, I've been there myself. The little head taking over the big head. For the record I never drove her or took her out to dinner. She drove to my house on her own, did the deed and left.
[QUOTE=Spike77;3836255]Sorry man, I've been there myself. The little head taking over the big head. For the record I never drove her or took her out to dinner. She drove to my house on her own, did the deed and left.[/QUOTE]This happened to me in Florida, She came in asked to use bathroom I paid her up front then said she had to go out in the hall to use ohone and bolted DO NOT PAY ANY MONEY UPFRONT!
Cool girl. We were going back and forth via text but could never meet up. Gets really explicit with some nice pictures.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/messages/inbox/071262eb-98fe-46f1-a00f-65ce501ab166[/URL]
But then we couldn't meet up so she blocked me.
Hooked up with MissyX76 at her place in Mendon. If you don't like cigarette smoke and cat box smells find another. Sweet girl who needed some help and was in a tough bind. Happy to oblige, although should have burned my clothes when I was done due to the cigarette and 420 smell. Great head game, never mentioned donation so went with a number I thought was fair and she didn't complain (this was after the deed, not before). Very playful, open to just about anything and has already pinged me looking for a return visit. Only been a few days since I saw her.
[QUOTE=Mitch672;3835862]Its an advanced, well planned setup. There was someone following, to pick her up whenever she could get away.
I should have let let her out of the car, their where multiple clues, the wrong head was making decisions.
Her iPhone started sending her location, why and to who?
She's texting someone during diner, besides beind rude, it was a huge sign.
She insists on getting paid upfront, "cause guys have ripped me off before".
I tell her, I'd give her half, show her I had the other half, wasn't good enough.
Said she wouldn't run out when she was paid, said this almost immediatley. Thieves often tell you what they intend on doing.
Oh here's the topper, I text her all kinds of nasty things, she texts back "I didn't steal, I had dinner with you. Goodbye", yeah, like I always pay $300 to take a gal to diner. She's a nasty, C word. If anyone would like arrange a date with her, I'd like to follow, to confront the C.
$300 down the crapper, but a lesson. Backpage and craigslist ROBs have moved over to SA.[/QUOTE]She messaged me at 4 AM this morning that she wanted to meet. That's crazy sketchy.
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;3839195]She messaged me at 4 AM this morning that she wanted to meet. That's crazy sketchy.[/QUOTE]She has hit me up twice on two different SA accounts. Likes to sext late at night, get off, then move on. She wanted to come to my house the next day. Not sure if she was serious or not. Lives with her parents in RI but travels to MA often.
I have her on Snapchat. I screenshotted one of her snaps and she freaked out. LOL. A little plump for me but could be fun.
[QUOTE=Spike77;3839859]She has hit me up twice on two different SA accounts. Likes to sext late at night, get off, then move on. She wanted to come to my house the next day. Not sure if she was serious or not. Lives with her parents in RI but travels to MA often.
I have her on Snapchat. I screenshotted one of her snaps and she freaked out. LOL. A little plump for me but could be fun.[/QUOTE]Same here but now I'm blocked so guess I will never know. Someone needs to TOFTT and let us know! LOL.
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;3839195]She messaged me at 4 AM this morning that she wanted to meet. That's crazy sketchy.[/QUOTE]Not everyone has a "normal" schedule. 90% of my meetings are 2 am to 4 am. It's the best time to play in my opinion, very little traffic.
Stay safe, and happy hunting.
One picture.
Hot body.
Ave 47 my type.
I think she's in RI.
Any information. ? SA LINK.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9f224a8f-9258-4a1a-97f7-53ccd7503f6c[/URL]
How many of you perform even a basic background check on a potential SB? While I do not always have the opportunity to perform one, it does sometimes present itself. I've also noticed that, on many occasions, I find the potential SB has be arrested. Most time for drugs, but sometimes for theft and assault. I know many of you do not care about spending time with drug users (I do not knowingly see them), but I am curious as to everyone's thoughts on this.
I definitely do as much research as possible prior to meeting. But I don't hold it against them if they have a past. The key for me is to make sure it is the past, and not the present.
Because what I have found is that the past is often a result of the company they kept rather than a reflection on their own personality. Case and point is Olive in RI. There are many more examples. If they were stellar at managing their lives and careers, they would likely not be seeing us. There are very few who are in the game just because they love it. Often we have to be content with those who at least don't hate it.
[QUOTE=Spill;3841471]How many of you perform even a basic background check on a potential SB? While I do not always have the opportunity to perform one, it does sometimes present itself. I've also noticed that, on many occasions, I find the potential SB has be arrested. Most time for drugs, but sometimes for theft and assault. I know many of you do not care about spending time with drug users (I do not knowingly see them), but I am curious as to everyone's thoughts on this.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Spill;3841471]How many of you perform even a basic background check on a potential SB? While I do not always have the opportunity to perform one, it does sometimes present itself. I've also noticed that, on many occasions, I find the potential SB has be arrested. Most time for drugs, but sometimes for theft and assault. I know many of you do not care about spending time with drug users (I do not knowingly see them), but I am curious as to everyone's thoughts on this.[/QUOTE]I always do it. And it's not usually the POT I'm worried about it's the company she keeps. Was getting ready to see a girl in Worcester and the night before I found her FB page. She had told me she was single but on FB she clearly has a boyfriend. Lots of recent pics of them together. So I looked him up on InstantCheckmate and he has a massive rap sheet. In and out of prison. Lots of arrests for possession of drugs, weapons etc. I asked her about him and she said she still lives with him "But we're not together". Yeah thanks but no thanks.
Stay safe.
[QUOTE=Pacifier;3841491]I definitely do as much research as possible prior to meeting. But I don't hold it against them if they have a past. The key for me is to make sure it is the past, and not the present.
Because what I have found is that the past is often a result of the company they kept rather than a reflection on their own personality. Case and point is Olive in RI. There are many more examples. If they were stellar at managing their lives and careers, they would likely not be seeing us. There are very few who are in the game just because they love it. Often we have to be content with those who at least don't hate it.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your thoughts on this. I have one potential that has a shoplifting arrest. She cannot host and I am not sure I trust her in my house. I guess I am looking for the very few in the sugar bowl because they love it.
Yeah SA is up to 90 a month. I've had some success on SA and like it that I can contact many people for a one time fee. But lately I've come across a lot of scammers, drug users and time wasters. But there are some nice ones too. The way it is with SB is that it costs to meet each person. Too much. I had better luck with SA than SB but haen't been on SB for about a year.
[QUOTE=TRex69;3813095]I can't believe SA is up to $90/ month.
Is that true?
It served me well back in the day when I had the house to myself.
I saw an earlier thread on SB. Looks like that is paying points for initiating contact. Looks like the cost is $6 per initial contact. Once you have contact it's indefinite but by that point you'd probably have a number. Any other feedback on SB?
I'm deciding with things being challenging again and a lack of central location for fishing I need to expand my net.
I loved CL for posting for non pros from time to time particularly when I traveled. Now what?
Is it worth getting back onto SA if I can't host and don't want to pay $$ per meeting. I used to average under $$.
Any positive experiences on Seeking Benefits?
If anybody wants to share reliable civilians I will as well.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Aimstraight;3843597]Yeah SA is up to 90 a month. I've had some success on SA and like it that I can contact many people for a one time fee. But lately I've come across a lot of scammers, drug users and time wasters. But there are some nice ones too. The way it is with SB is that it costs to meet each person. Too much. I had better luck with SA than SB but haen't been on SB for about a year.[/QUOTE]Having tried both I would highly recommend SA over SB. SB economics don't work out escpecially if you don't click with the girl.
On SA. It's a true numbers game. Find the profiles with a little (not zero) detail. Ask for pics (who cares if they think that's rude). Hide and block those that you aren't interested in to thin out the herd.
One thing that worked amazingly well for me was to put up a very detailed profile of exactly what I was looking for and a few blurry pics. THEN put something at the top like " Due to overwhelming interest I have to decline any further SBs as I have selected 2 and will be supporting them for the forseeable future. But you can try to persuade me I should look at you too. * My inbox was filled nightly with people vying for my attention. Was pretty cool.
Good luck!
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;3843756]One thing that worked amazingly well for me was to put up a very detailed profile of exactly what I was looking for and a few blurry pics. THEN put something at the top like " Due to overwhelming interest I have to decline any further SBs as I have selected 2 and will be supporting them for the forseeable future. But you can try to persuade me I should look at you too. * My inbox was filled nightly with people vying for my attention. Was pretty cool.
Good luck![/QUOTE]Awesome strategy, Aardvarks! I might have to borrow that one from you. I try to read all of the SB on USASG nightly, looking for golden nuggets just like this. Thank you sir!
Safe mongering and sugaring!
Had talked to her elsewhere online prior to meeting and then found her SA profile, if anyone is out in the springfeld area, she's a bit shy in person but has a great body she likes showing off.
Any info on her?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1c358c0b-851e-4d90-a2be-de866d031671[/URL]
Going back and forth with a SB this morning. And she kept asking me "What's your ideal situation?" "What would be the most incredible arrangement you could come come up with? She just kept going so I wrote:
"Well if you're asking hypothetically the most amazing ultimate arrangement would be to be able to have sex with someone as beautiful as you whenever I wanted to without all this financial commitment nonsense."
And she went absolutely ballistic. Copying and pasting her response. By the way she was being really sweet and flirty before this message.
"You f*cking motherf*cker. This isn't f*cking Tinder you *sshole. If you want to just screw pretty girls for nothing then SA is not the right site for you. You should know this. *sshole."
But surprisingly she didn't block me. We're still chatting. LOL.
Stay safe!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c3094cb2-7479-483d-b4d1-b05263a4e744[/URL]
She has sent me nude pictures of herself but continually asks for money to help fix her car before a first meetup. She has an incredible body, says she's in Vermont even tho it says Florida on her profile. Just curious if anyone knows if she's a rob.
Dude, do not send her any money. Move on.
[QUOTE=MrLink;3847179][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c3094cb2-7479-483d-b4d1-b05263a4e744[/URL]
She has sent me nude pictures of herself but continually asks for money to help fix her car before a first meetup. She has an incredible body, says she's in Vermont even tho it says Florida on her profile. Just curious if anyone knows if she's a rob.[/QUOTE]
It says she's looking for mentorship. Anytime I see that, I move on.
[QUOTE=SixPacking;3845445]Any info on her?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1c358c0b-851e-4d90-a2be-de866d031671[/URL][/QUOTE]
I had this one a while ago. $$$ BBBJ, DATY, Kissy, CFS. I wanted to see her again, but she had a messed up situation. She told me she was separated, but it sounded fishy so decided not to see her again. She's attractive though. Girl next door type. Really into sex.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a4d7fc7b-ef37-4e24-9cc5-fbf3f0cefacb[/URL]
I joined up the site because I'm sick of all the nonsense with escort sites and doublelist and thank god I did. In 2 days on being on already got 7 phone numbers, 3 solid girls who are ready to meet and this afternoon had this 19 yo emo chick white 110 lbs very petite for some fun. Condom full service but BBBJ, and was up for anything except anal for 100. Ill post a pic later and update or something but for anyone whos not on the site and reads this, join, pay the 90 bucks and you will not regret it. So many non pros, girls next door types and college woman who are very attractive and clean and you may think nobody wants to have sex or everyone wants like 500 and its just not true, youd be surprised how many are down for sexual fun and on the cheap.
Former adult actress on SA and she started messaging me. Asking what I'd like etc. I recognized her and said from her profile she's pRobably out of my league in terms of spend. She asked me what I'd do and I said $3. 50. She now she thinks I'm offering 3. 5 k per meet and won't stop messaging me. Sent me her phone number told me where she lives. I don't have the heart to tell her she's off by 10 x. What to do.
If anyone wants the link to her profile PM me.
[QUOTE=OkWhatever;3848388]I had this one a while ago. $$$ BBBJ, DATY, Kissy, CFS. I wanted to see her again, but she had a messed up situation. She told me she was separated, but it sounded fishy so decided not to see her again. She's attractive though. Girl next door type. Really into sex.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a4d7fc7b-ef37-4e24-9cc5-fbf3f0cefacb[/URL][/QUOTE]What was her gift amount?
There's really no legitimate reason for you not to post a link to her profile so we can take a look in perhaps give some advice. It's quite obvious you have no intention of seeing her and her price point is way too high for you so I'm not sure why you feel the need keep the link private. And you never know, someone from the board they have actually scored her for the amount you offered
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;3849240]Former adult actress on SA and she started messaging me. Asking what I'd like etc. I recognized her and said from her profile she's pRobably out of my league in terms of spend. She asked me what I'd do and I said $3. 50. She now she thinks I'm offering 3. 5 k per meet and won't stop messaging me. Sent me her phone number told me where she lives. I don't have the heart to tell her she's off by 10 x. What to do.
If anyone wants the link to her profile PM me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Aardvarks;3849240]Former adult actress on SA and she started messaging me. Asking what I'd like etc. I recognized her and said from her profile she's pRobably out of my league in terms of spend. She asked me what I'd do and I said $3. 50. She now she thinks I'm offering 3. 5 k per meet and won't stop messaging me. Sent me her phone number told me where she lives. I don't have the heart to tell her she's off by 10 x. What to do.
If anyone wants the link to her profile PM me.[/QUOTE]Well, there is a block function on SA. If you gave her your regular phone #, bad on you. You need to be using Google Voice for this activity, it also has a block function. Finally, there is a lot of discussion of porn stars on the sugar threads for many cities, including the de facto national thread, Richmond VA. The assessment is that porn stars offer the worst sex many SDs have ever had. So, you didn't miss out, don't let the little head take over. It won't be what you think anyway, even at the price point you were thinking of. I had the MOST amazing sex from an average looking girl I met on SA (in CA), she invited me over and never discussed sugar, I left her $140. She texts that I 'completely satisfied' her.
[QUOTE=OkWhatever;3848382]It says she's looking for mentorship. Anytime I see that, I move on.[/QUOTE]And it indicates what? Those little tabs are so often in error. Many girls check 'financial domination' - but hover your cursor over it. It says 'I want to be financially dominated'. SBs aren't the brightest bulbs. If you take everything on the profile literally, and pass, you leave that many more for me. I have SCORED by contacting under 22 girls who list the highest sugar amounts. They haven't read on SA that substantial means over 10 K per month, it just sounds good to them. LOL.
Hey, Malibu, do you host or did the 19 yr old host?
I don't host, and I find majority of ladies don't host either, which has made my experience quite different than yours. I don't think I will be renewing, after about 6 mos or so.
[QUOTE=Malibu1980;3848691]I joined up the site because I'm sick of all the nonsense with escort sites and doublelist and thank god I did. In 2 days on being on already got 7 phone numbers, 3 solid girls who are ready to meet and this afternoon had this 19 yo emo chick white 110 lbs very petite for some fun. Condom full service but BBBJ, and was up for anything except anal for 100. Ill post a pic later and update or something but for anyone whos not on the site and reads this, join, pay the 90 bucks and you will not regret it. So many non pros, girls next door types and college woman who are very attractive and clean and you may think nobody wants to have sex or everyone wants like 500 and its just not true, youd be surprised how many are down for sexual fun and on the cheap.[/QUOTE]