The Rat Trap

[QUOTE=VerySlowly;2195125]This slapping and defending of medley is all bullshit!

If a girl puts up a pic of Jenny McCarthy and she's really Tia Leone when I get there and her in-call is safe, clean and free of distraction's, and she provides an amazing session, who shiv's a git.

If the pics are reasonably close and the above happens, why all the pissing and moaning? Yes, I hear all the perfectionist tapes running in some of your heads, He should have told us this or should have said that, but bottom line is rarely do we catch a movie star, it happens, but rarely and personally I'm happy with a TV star.

If a guy has a habit of over promoting or bullshitting about escort girls and or massage girls that he has never seen, ahem, that is a different situation and A2 knows how to address that perfectly well and has done that recently.

I don't know nor have I Pm'd NedleyMandingo but we have mutual friends and I have seen some of his UTR's before they became public and have never been disappointed or lied to about his finds. Some guys have the ability to ferret out the truffles and others only have the ability to buy and eat them and the world needs them both to make the market work.

Many on here have complained about completely false or old pics on or ghetto locations with pimps or the-Boys hanging about the area here, or "dead fish" or cash +dash and that's a good thing if it saves you a bad experience. We need this information. Some guys NEVER bring forth a new girl others always are looking. We need everybody except the trolls on here, NMD is not a troll.

I don't think any of that is the case here. Apparently the pics were close and the dish was delicious even if Mario Battali wasn't in the kitchen.

G'day Blokes.

VS.[/QUOTE]Who gives a shit if the pics are real or not? Really? Are you kidding?. It doesn't matter if the chick looks better then the pics the whole point of reviews is to get accurate information. This guy is a "senior" member and fails to mention the pics are fake. I don't see that as helping anybody. Its a betrayal to the forums. You guys would chew the shit out of some newbie that posted wrong / false information but its ok because this guy is has been around.

He wants to puss out because he got called out rather then be a man and admit it was a mistake not to mention she was using fake pictures.

[QUOTE=Camera3;2195512]I always wanted to say that to a beautiful lady. OK. Actually, it is the limit on your inbox. Would you please erase some shit?

C3.[/QUOTE]Baby my "Box" is very clean!! LOL. Let the PM's begin.

Love to ALL.

Xoxo Ashley.

Play Safe BUT Always Play HARD.

[QUOTE=ThrowAwayToday;2195685]Who gives a shit if the pics are real or not? Really? Are you kidding?. It doesn't matter if the chick looks better then the pics the whole point of reviews is to get accurate information. This guy is a "senior" member and fails to mention the pics are fake. I don't see that as helping anybody. Its a betrayal to the forums. You guys would chew the shit out of some newbie that posted wrong / false information but its ok because this guy is has been around.

He wants to puss out because he got called out rather then be a man and admit it was a mistake not to mention she was using fake pictures.[/QUOTE]How about you be one and start reviewing women? So far your only reviews are of Nedley Mandingo.

[QUOTE=ThrowAwayToday;2195685]Who gives a shit if the pics are real or not? Really? Are you kidding?. It doesn't matter if the chick looks better then the pics the whole point of reviews is to get accurate information. This guy is a "senior" member and fails to mention the pics are fake. I don't see that as helping anybody. Its a betrayal to the forums. You guys would chew the shit out of some newbie that posted wrong / false information but its ok because this guy is has been around.

He wants to puss out because he got called out rather then be a man and admit it was a mistake not to mention she was using fake pictures.[/QUOTE]Everybody is so quick to call out a new guy on anything. Making a spelling mistake! So if a SM gives fake intel or leaves out a pretty big detail then why shouldn't they be getting hell!

KC.

I agree that you need to be careful with the information you give out. I will say that I have heard my share of stories about the Jag from a number of the girls, both on this site and on BP. I will keep these stories to myself but it is interesting to get the opinion of one of the self proclaimed "players" from the providers.

Be safe out there.

[QUOTE=KingSwag69;2196016]Sorry to see you in some drama Jazak but glad it's fixed. I will say jag uses girls and hounds them for information, my own personal experience and no I always said I'm not disclosing that. . What do they look like, what do they drive, where do they live What do they do, he knows everyone's real names. Even went as far to get another members home address and real name. Just be very cautious with what info you give out as it may not stay where you left it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CflMonger48;2196074]I agree that you need to be careful with the information you give out. I will say that I have heard my share of stories about the Jag from a number of the girls, both on this site and on BP. I will keep these stories to myself but it is interesting to get the opinion of one of the self proclaimed "players" from the providers.

Be safe out there.[/QUOTE]I don't seek info about other mongers. When I am visiting a lady I am not interested in dicussing other guys. Why would any guy be asking about other dudes? I thought this site was to share info about women?

I do not solicit the information, I am saying that when the girls ask if I am a member of USASG and I reply "yes", then they just start to tell me a story. The story is about other members they have met but a lot of stories seem to be about the Jag. Just be careful what you volunteer. I do not even tell them my handle or any other information that would allow them to identify me here on the site.

Be careful out there.

[QUOTE=Otwist;2196111]I don't seek info about other mongers. When I am visiting a lady I am not interested in dicussing other guys. Why would any guy be asking about other dudes? I thought this site was to share info about women?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CflMonger48;2196128]I do not solicit the information, I am saying that when the girls ask if I am a member of USASG and I reply "yes", then they just start to tell me a story. The story is about other members they have met but a lot of stories seem to be about the Jag. Just be careful what you volunteer. I do not even tell them my handle or any other information that would allow them to identify me here on the site.

Be careful out there.[/QUOTE]If USASG comes up I give out my handle no problem. I figure its a good way for the ladies to check me out. I know others like to play it closer to the vest than myself, but if the lady starts talking about other mongers, I usually try to change the subject as politely as possible. I am not really interested in other dudes. Some of the guys I PM with share info with me if they choose to do so and it remains private. Savanna has been know to share and post info about mongers and that I consider inappropriate. Any provider that wants to tell me about other guys has loose lips and is someone I would avoid. If she talks about other guys to you, she will talk to other guys about you. Also, lately some guys have started posting some personal info about themselves when an arguement / discussion arises and I think we should avoid doing that. No one needs to know our age, type of work history and the like. That, I keep close to the vest and have posted very little of that type of info in my 500+ posts.

I always say no that I'm not a member, but I read the posts. Anonymity is a good policy for sure. Chick knows your screen name, she knows what you look like, she see your license plate, your car, maybe she goes through your wallet while you piss, gets your address, phone number, real name, puts all that together and next thing you know you're a prime candidate for some extortion and blackmail. Now, the overwhelming majority of girls aren't this vindictive unless you gave them a reason to be, but the chance for blackmail is always out there and I'm sure we all have run across a crazy loon or two who wouldn't think twice of setting you up.

[QUOTE=CflMonger48;2196128]I do not solicit the information, I am saying that when the girls ask if I am a member of USASG and I reply "yes", then they just start to tell me a story. The story is about other members they have met but a lot of stories seem to be about the Jag. Just be careful what you volunteer. I do not even tell them my handle or any other information that would allow them to identify me here on the site.

Be careful out there.[/QUOTE]

In this scenario the fact that she has or not your screen name won't make any difference. Why would you bring your wallet to the room? Or your watch? And is not only the I'd the problem, also is credit cards, CCW, insurance cards, etc. Leave them in the car, just bring the keys and the exact amount of the donation, plus some extra in case you might want to tip. And never park the car in front of the room, walk a little, it's good for your health.

[QUOTE=RickyJames1;2196336]I always say no that I'm not a member, but I read the posts. Anonymity is a good policy for sure. Chick knows your screen name, she knows what you look like, she see your license plate, your car, maybe she goes through your wallet while you piss, gets your address, phone number, real name, puts all that together and next thing you know you're a prime candidate for some extortion and blackmail. Now, the overwhelming majority of girls aren't this vindictive unless you gave them a reason to be, but the chance for blackmail is always out there and I'm sure we all have run across a crazy loon or two who wouldn't think twice of setting you up.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Otwist;2196111]I don't seek info about other mongers. When I am visiting a lady I am not interested in dicussing other guys. Why would any guy be asking about other dudes? I thought this site was to share info about women?[/QUOTE]But I have visited with some SP's who have told me so and so asked what I look like. Who cares really. All we are there to do is have a good dream. I never ask about another member because my mind is too focused on how I am about to dream with this hot piece. Also the safety of my surrounding is at the forefront as well.

My. 02.

BG111.

I found this today and it made me think of the gentlemen that goes to see a provider that he is visually attracted to only to have her open the door as someone else. Forgive me if I offend anyone, I hope you find the same humor I did.

Love To ALL.

Xoxo Ashley.

Play Safe BUT Always Play HARD.

Was doing a reverse image search on a providers pic and this was the result:

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"Visually similar images" Apparently all these people have butt-faces. LOL.

In my short time in this hobby and with all due respect but who takes their wallet with all this personal info on a dream? Are you looking to get comprised or are you that trusting? Hence "007" I have been asked some very personal questions and answered very vaguely not to compromise my integrity or info. I respect the sp's privacy as much as my own. Have I seen a sp on the streets, in the mall, grocery store? Yes but just looked the other way. Just my 2 cents. Be safe brothers.

[QUOTE=RickyJames1;2196336]I always say no that I'm not a member, but I read the posts. Anonymity is a good policy for sure. Chick knows your screen name, she knows what you look like, she see your license plate, your car, maybe she goes through your wallet while you piss, gets your address, phone number, real name, puts all that together and next thing you know you're a prime candidate for some extortion and blackmail. Now, the overwhelming majority of girls aren't this vindictive unless you gave them a reason to be, but the chance for blackmail is always out there and I'm sure we all have run across a crazy loon or two who wouldn't think twice of setting you up.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Otwist;2196111]I don't seek info about other mongers. When I am visiting a lady I am not interested in discussing other guys. Why would any guy be asking about other dudes? I thought this site was to share info about women?[/QUOTE]Agreed, I came here for the clams [I]not[/I] the oysters! The only questions I could reasonably see any guy asking a provider about another monger would be:

1) Are you sure the guy you met is the same one from the forum?

2) Is he an asshole?

If he passes both, then he's verified monger in my book. Beyond those two yes or no questions, the less I know about my brother mongers the better.

In fact, that first question isn't even necessary if she's a forum-advertiser and acknowledges his review here on the open forum. As for the second question, well most assholes make themselves known without anyone's help.

[QUOTE=Otwist;2196111]I don't seek info about other mongers. When I am visiting a lady I am not interested in dicussing other guys. Why would any guy be asking about other dudes? I thought this site was to share info about women?[/QUOTE]And this is through pm mail or text with the SP. That so and so recommended me to them. That about it.

[QUOTE=DC248;2196569]Agreed, I came here for the clams [I]not[/I] the oysters! The only questions I could reasonably see any guy asking a provider about another monger would be:

1) Are you sure the guy you met is the same one from the forum?

2) Is he an asshole?

If he passes both, then he's verified monger in my book. Beyond those two yes or no questions, the less I know about my brother mongers the better.

In fact, that first question isn't even necessary if she's a forum-advertiser and acknowledges his review here on the open forum. As for the second question, well most assholes make themselves known without anyone's help.[/QUOTE]In my experience I have heard providers make mention of other mongers, their tricks, and tactics. While there is a crop of mongers who seem to try and get some sort of a discount by hook or crook, and tempted as I am to ask who it is, I do not. I came here to dream with ladies, review the dreams, and not mongers. I want to pretend I am the only cat snoring in that dream, even though I know there are twenty other cats ready to pounce once I leave.

Same goes for pm. Only info I care is the one that may place me, or any of us at risk.

Stay safe all!

I have never asked nor will I ever ask a SP to lower her suggested donation. If we differ on what she is worth then I just walk away.

Now, SW's are a different story. Working the bargain is part of the sport.

Now, as the worlds oldest rodie I have been known to get some legal teenage head for slipping a young lady into backstage to meet the band. That's a whole different sport.

C3.

[QUOTE=WilliamMstrs;2196577]In my experience I have heard providers make mention of other mongers, their tricks, and tactics. While there is a crop of mongers who seem to try and get some sort of a discount by hook or crook, and tempted as I am to ask who it is, I do not. I came here to dream with ladies, review the dreams, and not mongers. I want to pretend I am the only cat snoring in that dream, even though I know there are twenty other cats ready to pounce once I leave.

Same goes for pm. Only info I care is the one that may place me, or any of us at risk.

Stay safe all![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WilliamMstrs;2196577]In my experience I have heard providers make mention of other mongers, their tricks, and tactics. While there is a crop of mongers who seem to try and get some sort of a discount by hook or crook, and tempted as I am to ask who it is, I do not. I came here to dream with ladies, review the dreams, and not mongers. I want to pretend I am the only cat snoring in that dream, even though I know there are twenty other cats ready to pounce once I leave.

Same goes for pm. Only info I care is the one that may place me, or any of us at risk.

Stay safe all![/QUOTE]There is not one single girl out there who knows my face to my handle.

That may change but I prefer to be anonymous. And only one girl knew I was a board member and that is ashley monroe.

[QUOTE=BuffGuy111;2196369]But I have visited with some SP's who have told me so and so asked what I look like. Who cares really. All we are there to do is have a good dream. I never ask about another member because my mind is too focused on how I am about to dream with this hot piece. Also the safety of my surrounding is at the forefront as well.

My. 02.

BG111.[/QUOTE]Attention to all I'm about to spill the beans. BuffGuys identity. Here we go. Wait for it wait for it. Sexy as hell!

Love to ALL.

Xoxo Ashley.

Play Safe BUT Always Play HARD.

[QUOTE=ThrowAwayToday;2195685]Who gives a shit if the pics are real or not? Really? Are you kidding?. It doesn't matter if the chick looks better then the pics the whole point of reviews is to get accurate information. This guy is a "senior" member and fails to mention the pics are fake. I don't see that as helping anybody. Its a betrayal to the forums. You guys would chew the shit out of some newbie that posted wrong / false information but its ok because this guy is has been around.

He wants to puss out because he got called out rather then be a man and admit it was a mistake not to mention she was using fake pictures.[/QUOTE]I love people who really analyze and think through the process instead of following the pack, unfortunately you are not one of them. Look up lemming and pedant or pedantic in the dictionary.

You remind me of people who convict someone based on what the newscasters report. I'm sure you are a former troll that had to change his handle, there are so many now I can't keep track, there are even guys posting patting themselves on the back, patting their old handle with several new handles. Yukk.

VS.

[QUOTE=KingSwag69;2196016]Sorry to see you in some drama Jazak but glad it's fixed. I will say jag uses girls and hounds them for information, my own personal experience and no I always said I'm not disclosing that. . What do they look like, what do they drive, where do they live What do they do, he knows everyone's real names. Even went as far to get another members home address and real name. Just be very cautious with what info you give out as it may not stay where you left it.[/QUOTE]He's an X COP!

VS.

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[QUOTE=PharmaGuy;2196682]There is not one single girl out there who knows my face to my handle.

That may change but I prefer to be anonymous. And only one girl knew I was a board member and that is ashley monroe.[/QUOTE]Richie you are one big rascal with tats that are sort of unique. Now that you are cleared where are you going to play ball next year? JK. While I have never gone out of my way to hide my username / face connection I can see where it could cause issues so perhaps I now see the err of my risky behavior. I have even slipped up with a couple that I got too comfortable with giving them a real name. Very rare to trust one that much. Stupidity for sure. As for the tag number I always thought it should be a common practice to park far away from wherever a dream is going to happen. If at a hotel not close to the room, back into a spot by a fence, tree, wall. This hides the tag a little and can help for a quick departure if necessary. I am paranoid and cautious especially on a first dream. Cheers Jesse.

[BLUE]Note this is in blue:

Situation; A guy says a chick did a thing. She responds and says she didn't. He responds and says I know you do because you did it with me. She then copies in a PM where he specifically says they didn't do what he's saying they did in the forum.

First Problem; PM's are private and normally can't be posted.

Second Problem; As a rule chicks can't defend on the forum. (But they can on a thread like this)

My issue; It's a pretty big deal what they are talking about and she has proof positive (his own words) that it happened the way she said not what he said. I'm assuming, I would verify by looking in her inbox if she asked me to.

By simple yes let her or no don't let her. Let me know what you guys think about moving the post here with the screen shot of the PM.

Not saying I'm going to do what you guys vote for, but I'd like to get a sense of the room on this issue.

A2[/BLUE]

[QUOTE=Admin2;2196915][BLUE]Note this is in blue:

Situation; A guy says a chick did a thing. She responds and says she didn't. He responds and says I know you do because you did it with me. She then copies in a PM where he specifically says they didn't do what he's saying they did in the forum.

First Problem; PM's are private and normally can't be posted.

Second Problem; As a rule chicks can't defend on the forum. (But they can on a thread like this)

My issue; It's a pretty big deal what they are talking about and she has proof positive (his own words) that it happened the way she said not what he said. I'm assuming, I would verify by looking in her inbox if she asked me to.

By simple yes let her or no don't let her. Let me know what you guys think about moving the post here with the screen shot of the PM.

Not saying I'm going to do what you guys vote for, but I'd like to get a sense of the room on this issue.

A2[/BLUE][/QUOTE]Definitely post the PM, so we can settle this once and for all about his { so called } 100 % accuracy.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2196915][BLUE]Note this is in blue:

Situation; A guy says a chick did a thing. She responds and says she didn't. He responds and says I know you do because you did it with me. She then copies in a PM where he specifically says they didn't do what he's saying they did in the forum.

First Problem; PM's are private and normally can't be posted.

Second Problem; As a rule chicks can't defend on the forum. (But they can on a thread like this)

My issue; It's a pretty big deal what they are talking about and she has proof positive (his own words) that it happened the way she said not what he said. I'm assuming, I would verify by looking in her inbox if she asked me to.

By simple yes let her or no don't let her. Let me know what you guys think about moving the post here with the screen shot of the PM.

Not saying I'm going to do what you guys vote for, but I'd like to get a sense of the room on this issue.

A2[/BLUE][/QUOTE][B][red]But first let me take a selfie.[/red][/B]

[QUOTE=Mystical0945;2196751]Attention to all I'm about to spill the beans. BuffGuys identity. Here we go. Wait for it wait for it. Sexy as hell!

Love to ALL.

Xoxo Ashley.

Play Safe BUT Always Play HARD.[/QUOTE]Flattery will get you everywhere! Watch yourself now!

BG111.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2196915][BLUE]Note this is in blue:

Situation; A guy says a chick did a thing. She responds and says she didn't. He responds and says I know you do because you did it with me. She then copies in a PM where he specifically says they didn't do what he's saying they did in the forum.

First Problem; PM's are private and normally can't be posted.

Second Problem; As a rule chicks can't defend on the forum. (But they can on a thread like this)

My issue; It's a pretty big deal what they are talking about and she has proof positive (his own words) that it happened the way she said not what he said. I'm assuming, I would verify by looking in her inbox if she asked me to.

By simple yes let her or no don't let her. Let me know what you guys think about moving the post here with the screen shot of the PM.

Not saying I'm going to do what you guys vote for, but I'd like to get a sense of the room on this issue.

A2[/BLUE][/QUOTE]Seems like a private realm that shouldn't be open to the forum.

Protect the honor of the lady and expose the moron.

Hopefully, just the threat of exposing would cause him to back off and play fair.

C3.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2196915][BLUE]Note this is in blue:

Situation; A guy says a chick did a thing. She responds and says she didn't. He responds and says I know you do because you did it with me. She then copies in a PM where he specifically says they didn't do what he's saying they did in the forum.

First Problem; PM's are private and normally can't be posted.

Second Problem; As a rule chicks can't defend on the forum. (But they can on a thread like this)

My issue; It's a pretty big deal what they are talking about and she has proof positive (his own words) that it happened the way she said not what he said. I'm assuming, I would verify by looking in her inbox if she asked me to.

By simple yes let her or no don't let her. Let me know what you guys think about moving the post here with the screen shot of the PM.

Not saying I'm going to do what you guys vote for, but I'd like to get a sense of the room on this issue.

A2[/BLUE][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Admin2;2196915][BLUE]Note this is in blue:

Situation; A guy says a chick did a thing. She responds and says she didn't. He responds and says I know you do because you did it with me. She then copies in a PM where he specifically says they didn't do what he's saying they did in the forum.

First Problem; PM's are private and normally can't be posted.

Second Problem; As a rule chicks can't defend on the forum. (But they can on a thread like this)

My issue; It's a pretty big deal what they are talking about and she has proof positive (his own words) that it happened the way she said not what he said. I'm assuming, I would verify by looking in her inbox if she asked me to.

By simple yes let her or no don't let her. Let me know what you guys think about moving the post here with the screen shot of the PM.

Not saying I'm going to do what you guys vote for, but I'd like to get a sense of the room on this issue.

A2[/BLUE][/QUOTE]If it's a Rat Trap issue, definitely.