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What are the going exchange rates though? That is what I want to know. A few of the non-pros that want more of a sugar daddy / regular thing seems to be twice as much as the providers on the high end. I would love to find a non-pro GFE experience on a regular basis but not looking to invest 1 k every month in a few meets.
And my account is suspended. I haven't used it in forever. The only change I've made to it was to add a photo. I don't think I changed my profile. The photo was approved. And I've never gotten an email saying my account was suspended. Any idea what the heck would cause this? I haven't been active on it in over a year, other than to add a photo. Very strange.
[QUOTE=BobbyShafToe;5577754]And my account is suspended. I haven't used it in forever. The only change I've made to it was to add a photo. I don't think I changed my profile. The photo was approved. And I've never gotten an email saying my account was suspended. Any idea what the heck would cause this? I haven't been active on it in over a year, other than to add a photo. Very strange.[/QUOTE]The one time I tried to get on SA I grabbed a pic from a doppelganger site, edited the exif info, and uploaded it. My profile was immediately suspended.
[QUOTE=BobbyShafToe;5577754]And my account is suspended. I haven't used it in forever. The only change I've made to it was to add a photo. I don't think I changed my profile. The photo was approved. And I've never gotten an email saying my account was suspended. Any idea what the heck would cause this? I haven't been active on it in over a year, other than to add a photo. Very strange.[/QUOTE]I had that happen to me too. Had the account for 1. 5 years, lurking only. Went to actually upgrade to paid, and decided to change my header message.
Immediately upon hitting save my account got suspended. I emailed them, and they said I could send them a picture of my license to unlock. I said something inappropriate back and didn't do it.
A week or so later I got bored and created a new account which got suspended immediately. I figured I goofed and they used browser fingerprinting to catch me since I wqs on a unique mobile browser few use. My IP was a big VPN provider's so it likely wasn't that as I imagine they get many hits from it.
So then I made a new account on my desktop, different city through my VPN, and a browser with fingerprint guarding, and again instantly got suspended. I emailed them again saying my friend told me about the site, and they said to send in my I'd. I did this time (fake I'd from ois but real picture of me) and got no response from them. I emailed them a week later following up, and again no response.
I've given up. Instead I went to Secret Benefits and gave them money, but it's pay-per-convo there and so far I've gotten many messages, reply, and then radio silence. Only one person has been real, but they didn't want intimacy. I'm thinking they just have a bunch of fake profiles that message people to get them to spend credits unlocking messaging to see what was said. So far it's been mostly, "Hey, how are you daddy?" Tbf, maybe they actually pay people a portion of the income that they can trick users into spending to make it seem more legit.
So I've resigned myself from the SD / SB relationships and am now considering mongering for the first time. To date I've only done one body rub and a couple AMPs.
Note: I only used protonmail accounts for SA so maybe they have some new policy against them. Could be possible since the US gov can't as easily subpoena them as us-based big tech.
[QUOTE=Valinor;5577913]I had that happen to me too. Had the account for 1. 5 years, lurking only. Went to actually upgrade to paid, and decided to change my header message.
Immediately upon hitting save my account got suspended. I emailed them, and they said I could send them a picture of my license to unlock. I said something inappropriate back and didn't do it.
A week or so later I got bored and created a new account which got suspended immediately. I figured I goofed and they used browser fingerprinting to catch me since I wqs on a unique mobile browser few use. My IP was a big VPN provider's so it likely wasn't that as I imagine they get many hits from it.
So then I made a new account on my desktop, different city through my VPN, and a browser with fingerprint guarding, and again instantly got suspended. I emailed them again saying my friend told me about the site, and they said to send in my I'd. I did this time (fake I'd from ois but real picture of me) and got no response from them. I emailed them a week later following up, and again no response.
I've given up. Instead I went to Secret Benefits and gave them money, but it's pay-per-convo there and so far I've gotten many messages, reply, and then radio silence. Only one person has been real, but they didn't want intimacy. I'm thinking they just have a bunch of fake profiles that message people to get them to spend credits unlocking messaging to see what was said. So far it's been mostly, "Hey, how are you daddy?" Tbf, maybe they actually pay people a portion of the income that they can trick users into spending to make it seem more legit.
So I've resigned myself from the SD / SB relationships and am now considering mongering for the first time. To date I've only done one body rub and a couple AMPs.
Note: I only used protonmail accounts for SA so maybe they have some new policy against them. Could be possible since the US gov can't as easily subpoena them as us-based big tech.[/QUOTE]I can't even figure out how to email them. Ill look more closely.
I'm using a Gmail account.
This is so baffling. Literally, the only change to my profile was to add a real face picture (versus one with me holding my phone in front of my face) to my private photos. It's just a picture of me, fully clothed. Otherwise my profile is unchanged from what it has been for 4 or 5 years.
So I met Star34 DD at Beaches in Vancouver as part of a meet an greet arrangement. She agreed to a free meal then gave no indication that it would go further oh and BTW she text me later and said she had vids for sale at $200 a pop. I replied why would buy your vids when I could watch porn and JO for free.
The 2nd date I had made had the courtesy of at least telling me she had something to do after our date before hand, so I knew there was no chance of anything. So I cancelled.
I did pay for a 3 month membership so we'll see. Oh and would you be surprised I get plenty of likes. From Columbia and other far away places! LOL.
Looks like it's back to MPs for me!
Good luck out there and be safe!
I don't want to claim to be an expert on SA, but I've had some good luck. My best being a cute 20 yo Asian co-ed with whom I had a 7-8 month fling.
This is my advice (assuming you're looking for PPM):
If she messages you first she is probably DTF (ignore the foreign ones, but the ones from large cities could be visiting soon).
Don't pay for meetups, but that's not to say don't give her anything. Have a gift card or two you can give out. It might cost a little if it doesn't pan out, but that's part of the game.
Look for profiles that say things like good with "short term" arrangments.
And amateur style pics that include something in lingerie.
This is a new one, but if you look at her wish list and it has several pieces of lingerie and sex toys I think that is a good sign too.
I've just been lurking recently because I have most of my fun money tied up, but these are some I have favorited recently (if anyone sees them I'd at least like a DM about it).
This one because of the slutty maid costume.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b3f9771d-800e-4665-b68c-b5512d446bdc[/URL]#x.
This one is because of lingerie pic and talk of traveling.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3cae1656-ba1c-46b4-91ad-fdd63741c0bb[/URL]
Chubby little Asian describes her ideal date as ending in her bed (if she was a tad more attractive I might rejoin for this one).
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5a0834a-7af9-4d62-b5d5-73a396cf3651[/URL]
You might have to take this one on two dates, but that's out in the open at least.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff015708-4253-4172-8e9f-24280dbd6de8[/URL]
This one hasn't logged back on, but the profile pretty much says it all.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/119bfe1b-1033-496e-9782-c7ac92a155cf[/URL]
[QUOTE=Beaver01;5592704]I don't want to claim to be an expert on SA, but I've had some good luck. My best being a cute 20 yo Asian co-ed with whom I had a 7-8 month fling.
This is my advice (assuming you're looking for PPM):
If she messages you first she is probably DTF (ignore the foreign ones, but the ones from large cities could be visiting soon).
Don't pay for meetups, but that's not to say don't give her anything. Have a gift card or two you can give out. It might cost a little if it doesn't pan out, but that's part of the game.
Look for profiles that say things like good with "short term" arrangments.
And amateur style pics that include something in lingerie.
This is a new one, but if you look at her wish list and it has several pieces of lingerie and sex toys I think that is a good sign too.
I've just been lurking recently because I have most of my fun money tied up, but these are some I have favorited recently (if anyone sees them I'd at least like a DM about it).
This one because of the slutty maid costume.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b3f9771d-800e-4665-b68c-b5512d446bdc[/URL]#x.
This one is because of lingerie pic and talk of traveling.[/QUOTE]I'd check out your pics but I got banned. LOL.
[QUOTE=ButtMan343;5594759]I'd check out your pics but I got banned. LOL.[/QUOTE]The posted account is gone.
[QUOTE=DowntownDave;5567410]Frequent visitor to PDX here. Wanted to reccomend the app Whisper for non-pros 'cause you guys got it good here with that app. What follows here may seem like a shill (it's not) or a brag (well, sorta), but mostly wanted to relay my experience in case it helps anyone. Background: the app lets you post and respond anonymously to one or two line posts, then PM. It's used by working girls, horrible guys, non-pros and civilian ladies with mental health issues. I've hooked up about 5 times over the past year on there, mostly in California and Seattle. Mostly non working girls and all non-pros, but Portland has been a gold mine. It takes a lot of practice to wade through the 90% of it that's bullshit and scams, and a ton of time sending PMs and trying different post strategies. When you find a real woman, the key is the same as any other site you guys use: be funny, don't be creepy or desperate, come across as wealthy, down to earth and professional.
Night 1: Responded to a pretty generic ad from a girl that posted that she liked older men and women. Her chat rating and coherent responses indicated she was not a bot, a hooker deposit scam, or a working girl. Chat her up for a bit, exchange pics, convince her to hang out with me. She comes to my hotel. Early 20's, big tits, near spinner, cute as fuck. Like, adorable. She walks in, she's wet and ready to go, and 5 minutes later I'm fucking her raw in between face fucking her. She's not on BC so I pull out. No cost. Goes into my top 5.
Later that night, against my better judgment, I text SamanthaPDX (from TNA, but well known on LC). Seen her before. She is looking rougher but she'll still do anything. Creampie her and go to bed. DFK, BBFS, CIP, BBBJ. $$.
Night Two: Post an ad on the app implying I'm into no strings and also generous. Then reply to an ad of someone nearby 'wanting to hang out'. Brief chat, pics exchanged. We agree to meet at the hotel bar. She's broke as it turns out. We have a drink, I invite her to my room to get stoned. We do. Ask her if we can do sexual things. She is demure but she had put 2 and 2 together. Same guy who answered her ad just posted something about being generous. So, she says what's in it for me? I say a lot of fun and the cash in my wallet. Hmm, she's never done that before, but she considers it. HOLY FUCK YES. Turns out she's a sub so no problem closing the deal. This girl is in her early 20's, fucking hot as fuck. Quite literally looks like she's in porn. Nice tits, a little tummy, incredible ass, shaved pussy. Easily one of the 5 hottest girls I've ever fucked. Pull down her tights. DFK, BBJ, BBFS. She's super into it. I love when they feel naughty for fucking for money. I ask, she's not on BC either (what the fuck? So pull out again. This one goes into the top 3. $1. 6, about 3 hours.
Don't ask for contact info for the non-pros. The first was not a working girl at all and the second is not from Portland and leaving town. If you want Samantha's info, sure, but you can get that easily. My point is, try Whisper, especially when traveling. Be cool, and see what happens.[/QUOTE]I travel for work all over the west coast. Thank you for the tip this shit gets expensive.
[QUOTE=RedyOloCup12;5597187]I travel for work all over the west coast. Thank you for the tip this shit gets expensive.[/QUOTE]Lot of spam, but hookers for sure. Go get'them.
I decided to give these a try and so far I've had a pretty good success rate getting to texting and / or getting a number per date. But sheesh pretty much everyone says 500 and just like, I can get so much more for so much less elsewhere. I'm going to run out the clock on the membership I already paid for because you know it's still fun to hunt around, but I'll probably turn my focus back to more reliable outlets. Who knows maybe I'll find someone who with more realistic goals.
On here have any experience with Fetlife? Is it a waste of time or is there fun to be had?
Thanks in advance!
[QUOTE=RockyRococo;5609423]On here have any experience with Fetlife? Is it a waste of time or is there fun to be had?
Thanks in advance![/QUOTE]There is definitely fun to be had and for free / cheap if you have a little game and look decent.
[QUOTE=BlueXsxt;5610687]There is definitely fun to be had and for free / cheap if you have a little game and look decent.[/QUOTE]Honestly, if your dick's big enough you don't even have to look decent.
There are always couples (sometimes with very good looking female partner) looking for single men, occasionally even single women looking for guys (usually BBW).