The "New White Meat" - Got hit on today by a really hot asian chick
[QUOTE=Wireless91910]Shark
I know exactly what you are saying. I have some boy's up in San Jose who have to beat the asain chicks off them. I guess for now I will have to stay with my "hood rats".
Wireless91910[/QUOTE]
A little off topic, but going back to my point about the "new white meat," I got hit on in the elevator by one of the hottest looking asian chicks I have evern seen, Korean to boot. Not that Koreans are any better looking, but I have found them to be more about keeping their race pure, and more rare to date a brother. My last Korean GF was a big exception (and I guess Tiger Woods's mother). All I am saying is, I have had tons more Chinese tail than Korean tail because Koreans typically have a stronger "pride" gene that keeps them away from dating the soul bothers.
This was easy pickings man, but out of respect for the current GF, who is much hotter than eveh this hot chick in the elevator, and gives me anal to my heart's desire, I declined.
Anyway, bet I could have made this elevator girl eventially give me anal, and ATM, despite Freebie Bean's assertion that, while convincing a girl to do anal is okay, ATM would just be so degrading to ask her to do willingly.
By the way, on that note, 90% of my GFs, and my ex wife, liked to be tied up or handcuffed as a rape fantasy while I did them, both vaginal and anal, and ATM. How degrading is that Freebie Bean? Even though all of them enjoyed it.
-Shark-
I guess it does not take intelligence to join this site and post
[QUOTE=Freebie Bean]Shark...I probably am stupid for trying to intelligently discuss this subject here. But, since you brought up the Porn industry...let me inform you that the common practice in the porn industry is to thoroughly cleanse the anus with an enema prior to anal sex (don't see a lot shit clinging to the dicks in those videos, do you?). That doesn't make ass to mouth completely safe, but it's standard. Do your ladies do a cleansing enema before anal and agreeing to "ass to mouth?"
As for the safety aspect...just do a little googling and you'll find plenty of medical documentation on the dangers. "Rimming" might not be the most safe thing either (although I've done it too), but it's a little different licking the just washed outer area and sucking something that has just been shoved deep inside the rectal cavity that is full of folds and crevices which might hold pockets of feces.
Also, I don't care what two consenting adults do with each other. You can take a dump in her mouth if she begs you to and I don't care. What I have a problem with is guys like you who seem determined to "convince" a woman to do something she doesn't want to do. You will keep on until you wear her down, and then you will tell yourself (and the readers here) how much she enjoyed it...when in fact she probably only did it to make you happy. The "degradation" is not the act itself...it is the lack of respect for another human being. I don't expect you to understand that.
Also, don't misquote me by saying that I think it's okay for you to "convince" women to have anal with you. I believe that if a woman wants anal sex, then by all means, go and enjoy together...but if she says NO, then you should respect that and either move on or enjoy what she shares with you. You seem to think that because you like it and some women have told you they like it that ALL women will like it. Wow...that's one big ego you have there.
You say, "you are absolutely the first person that I have heard ever in my life to claim that anal sex is okay, but ATM somehow crosses some line."
So, I've got to know...how many people do you discuss ATM with? That's not typical dinner conversation. I would say that you are in the tiniest of minorities if you think there is no difference between Anal sex and ATM. If you truly believe that, you are highly deluded.
Yes, I say this on a website that explores prostitution. I also believe those women deserve respect. They are human...not pieces of meat.[/QUOTE]
The above post by Freebie Bean-head speaks for itself. All of you who know me and read my other posts know the respect I have for the working girls. Read my recent posts on a provider in the Inglewood section and you will see. I have providers calling me since I reduced my mongering, wanting to see me because I respect them, and half of them want to take me as their real BF. So don't even try to beat me on the respect tip.
My point was pretty clear that it is idiotic of you to try to say it is somehow degrading to convince my GF to do something out of love for me in light of this site that talks about paying a prostitute who is forced to do it out of desparation for money. You are too stupid to see the distinction though, as we all now see.
I hazard to guess a prostitute would not do what they do with 100s of guys a week if they were not paid. That is not degrading to you I guess, but two poeple doing something for each other they don't want to do out of love is degrading to you.
We all respect that you are such a good looking guy Freebie, that you have NEVER in your lifetime had a girl say NO to you about anything, and they have always come to you for any sex act you want. I have to say, that I, with my baldness, and blackness, have had more girls say NO to me about more things, including str8 sex, and have only been able to get a civilian to have any kind of sex with me, anal or not, ATM or not, by some convincing. Not force, or tricks, it has always been that I had to ask several times. So sorry that we are not like you Freebie Beanhead, as you have never had a girl say NO to you.
I guess if a girl had said NO to you, you would never try to have sex with them again, even if it were your wife or GF. So good for you.
The rest of us will have to do what 90% of guys who are not movie stars like you have to do, and if a girl says no on the first date, we have to hope to get it on the 2nd, 3rd or 4th date.
Your argument that an enema before anal sex will "clean" the anal cavity like a pro, and therefore make ATM safe, is unconvincing. 100 germs will cause the same damage as 1000 germs, and an enema does not make the anal cavity free of germs. It may just take out the waste material temporarily.
So good luck with that argument.
I have to reiterate again, if you want to judge, go to church. I would understand if I was advocating rape, but your admonishment and judgement over me just trying to get my GF to perform a sexual act is stupid and rediculous. She is an adult, and if she wants to change her mind one night, and say yes to me, just like she did the first time we had anal sex, then that is HER choice, not yours.
By the way, you are kidding yourself to think that your GF actually enjoys anal sex. Maybe only .00001% of women enjoy it because of an abnormal nerve ending that may occur in that percentage of women. Your woman is just tolerating it because you are so good looking that no woman ever says NO to you, as we have established.
Most women before and after a certain age dont enjoy sex at all. So I guess you advocate that they should not have sex with their husbands. In fact, since most women don't enjoy sports, I guess you would suggest that no woman should go to a game with ther BF or husband to support the relationship.
I guess on that same note, women should only give their man what THEY enjoy. No golf clubs, etc. On Birthdays and Chrismas, I guess women should buy dimond rings and shoes for herself to wear, because that is what SHE wants to do.
Are you also advocating that husbands and BFs should only do what THEY enjoy? For example, if you don't enjoy giving your girl oral, then you should not do it, even if it is the only way she can orgasm. By the way, I make my GF scream by giving her oral, I guess explains why she changed her mind and said yes to anal finally. I don't enjoy giving a girl head, or particularly want to do it, but I do it for her. But I guess doning something for somebody that you don't want to do is a foreign concept to you.
Another idiotic comment is your disbelief that I talk to friends about sexual issues. Don't particularly care if you believe me or not. It's just a dumb comment on your part, one of many. But if you must ask, like most normal men, I have several friends in life, and on this very site, that I talk to about all sexual acts I perform with girls, including ATM, because that is what guys do. It's a male bonding thing. Sorry you are so p-whipped and don't have friends. Maybe that is why you are so bitter to try to tell me what I should and should not do with my GF. And guess what, your GF is discussing with her girl-friends EVERY DETAIL of your sexual life with her. She will deny it, but girls talk about that more than guys.
And finally, you talk about misquoating, there is only one girl who claimed she enjoyed anal with me. I have been VERY FRANK about my GFs and their adversity to anal in this very forum. I even commented how rare it is for a girl to have a so-called "assgasm" just a few posts below. So for you to claim that I allege that all my GFs enjoy anal, and that is how I convince myself that it is okay, is ignorant and stupid of you.
-Shark-
Nevermind Misfit, he is just a p-whipped jealous fool
[QUOTE=Misfit]Here I thought ATM was that thing that coughs up green when you stick your plastic into it...LOL.
Come on now Freebie Bean, there is nothing wrong with a little Dirty Sanchez. It's also very helpful if your unit drys up & she provides natural lube for the re-entry into the old-Hershey-highway. Hell it's alot cheaper than buying lube. Anyway I think Shark has you beat in this discussion by what I have seen so far.
Misfit[/QUOTE]
You can't blame Freabie Beanhead for the way he is. Just because he is too afraid to take charge with his girl, and tell her what he wants in the bedroom. She probably straps a dildo on and does him in the ass. Not that there is anything wrong with it if that is what he enjoys. But by his own standards, unless it is something that his girl absolutely enjoys, he will not ask her to do it. So, while he accuses us of falsely believing that our girls actually like what they do for us, BBBJTCIM, anal, ATM, he is the only man in the world that has a girl that enjoys ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING they do sexually, including anal (but we know from his posts not ATM, which would cause instant death or spontaneous combustion). So, HIS girl really enjoys anal, while none of our girls do, and we are just kidding ourselves when we believe they do.
So, don't blame the idiot who wishes his girl will do the things that our girls do out of love or affection for us, even if they don't enjoy it, while his girl will ONLY do what she likes, and nothing more.
-Shark-
Thank God For That Time Of The Month!
GF got her period last week. She was not in the greatest of moods the night before, and I was denied any kind of sex when I tried with her for the first time since we met. She got her menstrual cycle in the middle of the night.
Like a good girl, the next morning, she felt guilty about denying me, and said that her period started, and there fore "only one hole was availabe" and said that "you can only fuck me in the ass." This from a girl just a few months ago, when we started dating, had never had anal and did not want to do it.
We had anal sex like crazy that morning, analled her for about an hour, we were both late for work.
That night, she insisted that we do only anal again, even though we had sex before while on her period because we figured it's safer for not getting pregnant.
Next 2 days, anal only again. I am not going to fool myself into thinking that she now PERFERS anal sex, as this idiot Freebie Beanhead accuses me below, but she definately is getting used to it. She says it's not bad now.
This is pretty much living my dream, a hot asian chick, who litterally is so good looking that she stops traffic when we are walking together (has dudes hit on her constantly, can't leave her alone for a second), and she now does not mind anal, and even encourages it when the front entry is shut down.
-Shark-
Gee, you wonder why I comment about you Freebie
[QUOTE=Freebie Bean]Dude, are you obsessed with me or something? Get over it. You continue to misquote and lie about what I said. I'm super freaking happy that you are getting all that hot asian ass action. More power to you. My original and continuing comments have been about the practice of "ass to mouth" which is one of the least safe of all sex practices. You keep on saying that people make sacrifices for those that love them. I agree with that completely. Maybe you should give up your "ass to mouth" fetish for the safety and health of the women in your relationship. Or does the giving and sacrifice just go one way?
There's a name for people who justify pleasure for themselves without regard of others..."sociopath."[/QUOTE]
Could the reason why I "obsess" about you be because you label me a "sociopath" and you acuse me of having a "fetish" about ass to mouth. Where do I begin about your latest stupid comment about me.
First, the only reason I even mention you in my posts is because you make such shocking accusations. You label me a "sociopath," a name usually reserved for mass murderers and baby killers, because I had one small complaint that my GF does not want to do ass-to-mouth, and that I might try and convence her to do so at some point. There is no other word for that idiotic analolgy but stupid.
Gee, why do I even pay attention to you? hmmmmmm...could it be because I find this stupidity mildly entertaining at best? Your labeling me a "sociopath" because I merely want to try a new sex act with my GF, which you still have yet to show one death or injury from, speaks for itself. Okay, Doctor, give us the death and injury statistics for ATM. Give us one of the 1000s of links that you speak of that show the death statistics for ATM. Please....we are waiting with morbid curiosity.
As far as your accusation that I have a "fetish" for ATM, that really shows how stupid you are. Do you even know the definition of the word "fetish"? If you would read one of the 1000s of web sites you cite, of which we are still waiting for one that shows death or injury from ATM, maybe just one of them would inform your dumb ass that a fetish when it comes to sex means an act that you MUST do or partake in so as to be able to perform sexually.
If you read my posts at all, we only did ATM once, and she did not like it, and have not performed it since, and my GF has more than satsified me. Just because I would like to do ATM, does not mean that I can't perform without doing it as defined by the term "fetish."
Please Freebie, every time you post, you really show how stupid you are. You should just give it up, and let us stick to the subject at hand, which is anal sex, including ATM, or whatever turns people on. We are not talking about murder or kiddy porn, as you have likened it to.
Again, if you feel the urge to judge, go to Church, and leave us alone. Please.
-Shark-
