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How you know the political drama in the US has gone too far. When dudes are passing on banging hot young chicks because they hate their views. LOL / jk (kinda).

[QUOTE=Koolbeans;5067412]Signed up last week for SA and have met 2 women (19 and 21) for lunch and dinner. 1 was attending UCSD, but said she hated the military and I'm a vet so knew it wouldn't work out. She was very liberal and conversation started going south when she brought up Harris. I blurted out that it is surprising people voted for her and things got quiet. I think I prefer the pro route, but the 21 year old came over to the house after dinner. We drank some beer and then watched some Netflix, but then she said she had to go home after a couple hours. I didn't get any sign much else was going down, so we just parted ways. I am trying to setup some more M&G, but it is odd when the women don't give you any sign that additional things are on the menu. I guess I'm just too much of a monger that wants to bang in the first 5 minutes of meeting.

I did visit an AMP and had a mind blowing session. First time I ever got my butt licked and she had me on my knees giving me a BBBJ from underneath. It is a unique position as I was looking down at her giving little man some love. She had me flip and gave me some wet camel slides and DFK. I forgot all about her licking my ass, but got caught up in the moment. I'm glad I took a shower before visiting.

SA seems to be giving me blue balls, but I do enjoy meeting young women, but not the educated brain washed liberal ones. I do have to give props to the Asian 19 year old UCSD student as she said it was the first time she went out to eat since COVID. I'm not afraid of COVID and knew it wouldn't work out if this was the first time she left the campus since COVID. She was wearing a nice black top that accentuated her B's, but it seems like she hates conservative views, the military, and I drive a big truck. I wouldn't mind having her over, but she seems to be one of the SB that just want experiences and not the romantic kind. I'll try to get the 21 year old Latina back to the house for some more alcohol as she mentioned tequila and some bud. She kept playing with her hair and I asked if she is comfortable with doing anything else and she said not that night. I guess the first meeting is a success if she came over to the house, but just got to close the deal next time. No extra money out of my pocket other than their meals.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Wahoo2000;5067918]How you know the political drama in the US has gone too far. When dudes are passing on banging hot young chicks because they hate their views. LOL / jk (kinda).[/QUOTE]Yeah, and if you think someone who is liberal is "brainwashed" That explains, a lot. No need to get into political talk at all.

[QUOTE=WilliamMonroe;5067948]Yeah, and if you think someone who is liberal is "brainwashed" That explains, a lot. No need to get into political talk at all.[/QUOTE]Yeah the chemistry was there as she is from the Bay Area and I'm Asian so we spoke about our travels, human development, and historical sites we've visited. I mentioned it is a shame that civilizations and culture are destroyed and history rewrote by the "winner" of wars. Example, Khmer Rouge, Angkor what, native Americans, Taiwan, Hong Kong, native tribal people. I have always been told not to discuss religion or politics, but she took it off in a different direction. We connected intellectually, but felt like it would take a while to crack. She is going overseas after she graduates.

SA is a great platform to meet young chicks, but the mongering lifestyle seems to have ruined my patience. I have a few more lined up 20 white girl in DT, supposedly a model, but will see if she is DTF or just wants shopping allowance. Another one is away for thanksgiving and should meet up with her when she is back in town. She is 21 and half viet and greek.

The hunt is real and probably the exciting part, but hard to keep junior tame during the meetups. Hopefully I’m not a serial M&G SD. One day I’ll find that diamond in the rough. I miss my times in Dubai spending overnights with the Filipinas, viet, and Ethiopian princesses. They are some of the most beautiful ethnic mix I’ve been with and experienced. Have fun bros and stay safe!

[QUOTE=Koolbeans;5067412]Signed up last week for SA and have met 2 women (19 and 21) for lunch and dinner. ....... No extra money out of my pocket other than their meals.[/QUOTE]Has it crossed your mind that your last statement may have something to do with the sad blue balls tale you set out?

Sounds to me like the Latina was impatiently waiting for you to make an offer. You didn't. I don't provide assistance just for a M&G, or to watch a girl eat, but I do make an offer. That is why they are meeting you - they need assistance.

As for the Asian, well, did you really think going into the meeting that a typical 19 yo UCSD student is going to be a perfect political match for a truck driving ex-military type? But who cares about her politics! I have nodded my head to many a statement I completely disagree with, so my other head could have fun with a string of hot liberal babes. Enough Benjamins, or once the clothes are off, and she probably won't care either.

[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5068049]Has it crossed your mind that your last statement may have something to do with the sad blue balls tale you set out?

Sounds to me like the Latina was impatiently waiting for you to make an offer. You didn't.

As for the Asian, well, did you really think going into the meeting that a typical 19 yo UCSD student is going to be a perfect political match for a truck driving ex-military type? But in any case, who cares about her politics! I have nodded my head to many a statement I completely disagree with, so my other head could have fun with a string of hot liberal babes. Enough Benjamins, or once the clothes are off, and she probably won't care either.[/QUOTE]Yeah I'll revisit my approach and be more direct, but then most state they don't want a transactional relationship. I'll just be more direct and if they don't entertain the offer, then just cut my losses. My brain is wired that the first person to provide their desired number is the first loser. I always want them to provide their idea of a reasonable arrangement, but some just seem clueless or must watch videos on how other SB are making money without the romance. It has been fun just meeting random young hotties for lunch or dinner.

[QUOTE=Koolbeans;5068064]Yeah I'll revisit my approach and be more direct, but then most state they don't want a transactional relationship. I'll just be more direct and if they don't entertain the offer, then just cut my losses. My brain is wired that the first person to provide their desired number is the first loser. I always want them to provide their idea of a reasonable arrangement, but some just seem clueless or must watch videos on how other SB are making money without the romance. It has been fun just meeting random young hotties for lunch or dinner.[/QUOTE]You can spend forever and a day talking to women on SA, and that can be fun. But in the end, one or other of you has to get serious. Lots of women said no to my offers, as too low. Lots of Golden Pussy types out there. But I had a hard upper limit, and I was prepared to walk way. And did. On the other hand, there were also enough women willing to take the offer to keep me in the game.

[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5068079]You can spend forever and a day talking to women on SA, and that can be fun. But in the end, one or other of you has to get serious. Lots of women said no to my offers, as too low. Lots of Golden Pussy types out there. But I had a hard upper limit, and I was prepared to walk way. And did. On the other hand, there were also enough women willing to take the offer to keep me in the game.[/QUOTE]I hear ya! I just connected with RiInCali on SC and she wanted $200 to clean the house, but then I sent my body pic to her because she wanted more than a face pic. I forgot to put my fleshlight away and it was in the background of the pic. Oh well, keep on fishing and I think that was pretty direct. I got blocked, but she'll clean your house 😊.

I've refrained for getting a paid account because I just can't figure out who's worth my time. So many profiles look like a regular dating profile (like they're looking for a soulmate...with a lot of money), or just have unrealistic expectations. Like the girls that have their passport ready to go to their wishlist of places. Then there are the ugly ones that write about "mutual attraction" in their profile. A lot of girls have favorited my profile without actually viewing it, can't tell if they're trying to drum up business for themselves by just clicking as many profiles as possible? And I get messages from girls that haven't viewed my profile either, of course can't read the messages without going premium. Makes me wonder if the site does that to get guys to pay up.

Also, hard to believe that many girls are out their willing to open their legs for a little money (or maybe a lot of money).

PussyPumper, what's your strategy to identifying targets? Any keywords in their profiles? How quickly do you make an offer? And how direct are you in your words? Like do you say "hey, I got $200 back at my place if you want to wrestle in the sheets for a little while finding it"? Or are you just like "hey, want to go to my place and watch some netflix? I'll compensate you fairly for your time"?

[QUOTE=RyanE36;5068371]
Also, hard to believe that many girls are out their willing to open their legs for a little money (or maybe a lot of money).

PussyPumper, what's your strategy to identifying targets? Any keywords in their profiles? How quickly do you make an offer? And how direct are you in your words? Like do you say "hey, I got $200 back at my place if you want to wrestle in the sheets for a little while finding it"? Or are you just like "hey, want to go to my place and watch some netflix? I'll compensate you fairly for your time"?[/QUOTE]Actually, there are. Lots of girls ready to open their legs, that is.

Some really need the money, others, who knows, but they are ready.

One thing that SA says that is true is that there are about 4 times as many women on SA locally as there are men. That has been true for 4 years now that I have been checking.

I never make an offer until I have a firm basis for making one, and never on SA itself.

First cut is that there are a lot of women I don't fancy for various reason. Age, looks, nasty tattoos, what they say / don't say in profile (I am not "420 friendly"). In this process I usually also eliminate those that say up front that they are platonic / chat / internet only. Also gone are those that are too glamorous, or obviously GPS. And, very important, eliminate those with too many expectations or rules. Always remember that Daddy sets the rules!
All that filtering will get rid of maybe 20-40% of profiles right there, but not to worry, still loads left!

Second cut is to start messaging. You can easily message a 100 in a day.

Most won't ever answer.

Third and key cut is the actual chatting process. There are several important aspects to this.
- First off, I like to establish practicality from the get go. Do they have availability, does it match mine? Are they down for an intimate arrangement? Previous experience, what do they do, do they have transportation, etc.
- Second aspect is to get a feel for them. Are they able to communicate with you in a reasonable manner? Many fail on that latter point. Random replies, days apart don't impress me.
- Another key point of this initial chatting is to identify the spammers/fakes/frauds - and there are quite a few. I view all those that want an-up front payment of whatever kind, including being paid for an initial M&G, as frauds.

By this time or earlier, conversation will be off of SA. If it looks practical, I like their looks, and they are able to communicate then we will be at the point to discuss expectations for support. Sometimes discussed in person, sometimes via text. Some experts advocate only making an offer in person, as that is the way to get best deal. But an in person M&G burns time, so I tend to discuss via text, even if it is not optimal.

At that point, if she agrees to a reasonable number, then it is time to either schedule a M&G or real date.

[QUOTE=RyanE36;5068371]I've refrained for getting a paid account because I just can't figure out who's worth my time. So many profiles look like a regular dating profile (like they're looking for a soulmate...with a lot of money), or just have unrealistic expectations. Like the girls that have their passport ready to go to their wishlist of places. Then there are the ugly ones that write about "mutual attraction" in their profile. A lot of girls have favorited my profile without actually viewing it, can't tell if they're trying to drum up business for themselves by just clicking as many profiles as possible? And I get messages from girls that haven't viewed my profile either, of course can't read the messages without going premium. Makes me wonder if the site does that to get guys to pay up.

Also, hard to believe that many girls are out their willing to open their legs for a little money (or maybe a lot of money).

PussyPumper, what's your strategy to identifying targets? Any keywords in their profiles? How quickly do you make an offer? And how direct are you in your words? Like do you say "hey, I got $200 back at my place if you want to wrestle in the sheets for a little while finding it"? Or are you just like "hey, want to go to my place and watch some netflix? I'll compensate you fairly for your time"?[/QUOTE]I recommend everyone read the Richmond VA thread, particularly the archive, on sugar relationships. It is a treasure trove of info. Do that for 3 days, you'll have a way better idea of what to do. I review it myself from time to time.

[QUOTE=PussyPumper;5068437]Second cut is to start messaging. You can easily message a 100 in a day.[/QUOTE]Thanks for all of your advice! We should have a SD sticky. I spent way too much of my free time shotgun blasting messages asking if interested in meeting up. Some respond and are down, but like you said most don't respond. I put in my profile nothing platonic, no buying photos, and no scams. I guess I have to be more direct during my chat offline. Most say they are down to meet, but once you provide a SC or phone number to text to take it offline they ghost you. It is really strange, but maybe they are confused with other SD.

[QUOTE=Koolbeans;5068542]Thanks for all of your advice! We should have a SD sticky. I spent way too much of my free time shotgun blasting messages asking if interested in meeting up. Some respond and are down, but like you said most don't respond. I put in my profile nothing platonic, no buying photos, and no scams. I guess I have to be more direct during my chat offline. Most say they are down to meet, but once you provide a SC or phone number to text to take it offline they ghost you. It is really strange, but maybe they are confused with other SD.[/QUOTE]I just want to share a few points that might be helpful:

* The good news 1st. You will get laid on SA, it's a given. Don't worry.

* Don't talk about politics. I recently met up with a MAGA event going Latina (the irony) & fu*ked her brains out. (Well, she never asked me my view either.).

* They are like that, you will have to get used to it. Some will reply to you later, some won't. I assume the ones that you contacted are hot. One of the girls told me she gets floods of messages daily, 200 from IG, 100 from SC & another 100 from other messaging apps. Some of them just want the attention as well.

* Sounds like you are on the younger side. That's really your advantage. You are a Vet, worldly, that shows masculinity, girls love that. I'd say it's just a matter of time.

* Finally, watch out for GPSs, don't over pay. If you find a 9, 10, and you are financially comfortable, go for it. The rest, be patient, there are so many more.

(please do share post the GPSs & Flakes here so we all get better together).

[QUOTE=KingBaby;5068909]I just want to share a few points that might be helpful:

* The good news 1st. You will get laid on SA, it's a given. Don't worry.

* Don't talk about politics. I recently met up with a MAGA event going Latina (the irony) & fu*ked her brains out. (Well, she never asked me my view either.).

* They are like that, you will have to get used to it. Some will reply to you later, some won't. I assume the ones that you contacted are hot. One of the girls told me she gets floods of messages daily, 200 from IG, 100 from SC & another 100 from other messaging apps. Some of them just want the attention as well.

* Sounds like you are on the younger side. That's really your advantage. You are a Vet, worldly, that shows masculinity, girls love that. I'd say it's just a matter of time.

* Finally, watch out for GPSs, don't over pay. If you find a 9, 10, and you are financially comfortable, go for it. The rest, be patient, there are so many more.

(please do share post the GPSs & Flakes here so we all get better together).[/QUOTE]I would love to meet said MAGA Latina chick if she is on the younger side. I'm closer to 40 but in good shape due to gym. I know the AMP girls love me as they always state how hard my muscles are and even the front desk manager was trying to squeeze my chest. I wish I could travel since I want to see Vietnam, Thailand, and possibly Columbia.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b4977292-08f0-44aa-8153-fdb8492c690b[/URL] Wants $500 and has some nice booty private photos.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e63094dd-ee72-439c-b1b1-10ac4578e730[/URL] Wants $800 and is smoking hot to me anyways. Let me know if any of you can get them down. I find it hard to negotiate down as I don't want shit service.

One Asian chick I was supposed to meet this weekend and she gave me her number and has been keeping me updated on her schedule, but she took down her profile, so not sure what happened. 21 year old Latina is still in play as I messaged her about doing something, but she made plans with her friends. She is supposedly bi so who knows maybe a friend can party as well 🤔

Good hunting bros!

[QUOTE=Koolbeans;5068542]Thanks for all of your advice! We should have a SD sticky. I spent way too much of my free time shotgun blasting messages asking if interested in meeting up. Some respond and are down, but like you said most don't respond. I put in my profile nothing platonic, no buying photos, and no scams. I guess I have to be more direct during my chat offline. Most say they are down to meet, but once you provide a SC or phone number to text to take it offline they ghost you. It is really strange, but maybe they are confused with other SD.[/QUOTE]Two things:

- When I said contact 100 in a day, I was exaggerating a bit. I use a period lurking as a non-VIP member to pre-select women I might be interested in. I "favorite" them as the only available way to bookmark them. Then, when I become a paid member again, I have a bunch of profiles I know I am interested in, and I usually have a few pre-drafted introductory messages to send, so I can contact a large number relatively rapidly.

- Second point is that the majority of SBs don't actually read profiles, even when you message them. That is all too clear!

[QUOTE=Koolbeans;5068926]I would love to meet said MAGA Latina chick if she is on the younger side. I'm closer to 40 but in good shape due to gym. I know the AMP girls love me as they always state how hard my muscles are and even the front desk manager was trying to squeeze my chest. I wish I could travel since I want to see Vietnam, Thailand, and possibly Columbia.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b4977292-08f0-44aa-8153-fdb8492c690b[/URL] Wants $500 and has some nice booty private photos.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e63094dd-ee72-439c-b1b1-10ac4578e730[/URL] Wants $800 and is smoking hot to me anyways. Let me know if any of you can get them down. I find it hard to negotiate down as I don't want shit service.

One Asian chick I was supposed to meet this weekend and she gave me her number and has been keeping me updated on her schedule, but she took down her profile, so not sure what happened. 21 year old Latina is still in play as I messaged her about doing something, but she made plans with her friends. She is supposedly bi so who knows maybe a friend can party as well

Good hunting bros![/QUOTE]The one you said wants 500 is on HX quotes are 200 hhr and 300 hr, under the name "Viktoria".