Arrangement Reports

Did Seeking force you to take a selfie? That got scary for me.

[QUOTE=Member#1117;7325991]So I am looking to switch things up so I signed up at seeking. Kinda pricey but whatever. My first thought was, "so that is where all the UTR's went. ".

I have cast a wide net but it hasn't been very fruitful. I have met with two in person. One was super hot so I decided to meet her for a few drinks. She asked to meet in Lakeview which was fine. Met her and after she ordered her second drink she told me she was fully transitioned trans with vagina. FML. She even showed me a picture. She had ALL the surgeries and even admitted to having a rib removed (which I didn't even know was a thing). HARD PASS but I was polite. Her profile made no mention of any of that and has since been deleted.

I met an older MILF who was good looking for her age. She was a very normal woman like you see in a nice suburb. If I were on a normal dating site, I could easily pull that in. We discussed an arrangement and she was wanting 400/500 per visit and she couldn't host. She said BBFS was on the table as well as anal. I haven't pulled the trigger because that's pretty pricey, especially since I would need to spend an additional 100 on a hotel. At these prices I could start to get into high end ladies, that are pros and more reliable.

My overall take on the site is that most of these real women are awful at communicating. Some of the log onto the site a few times a month send emails and then don't respond for a week or more. There is a decent amount of fake accounts looking to scam / spam you and there are certainly bot accounts. Sorry don't need to give you my bank account number, send you a Ninetendo Switch to somewhere in Indonesia, or subscribe to your OF account.

One thing of note, every real woman (whom I have sort of vetted) have said bare is on the table. Anal at 50% clip.

My goal is to find a regular who will allow some extra curricular freak stuff. I am having drinks with one tonight to interview and vett out. We shall see.

I'll post the links later.[/QUOTE]

Just met this 18 yr old beauty the other day. She was only on seeking arrangement for a week she said but we went straight to communication on Snapchat which at first I was a little skeptical but worked out well. She communicated that she would do whatever I want and in exchange I give her allowance or $$. First meet was at hotel, I ubered here there and next thing I know we're doing every single position, BBFS, CIM and swallow. We tried anal but was a little too painful for her so we decided to try more next time. She also allowed video. Nice tight body and booty and perky boobs. She said she was Russian but from Chicago. Damage was $400 and we spent 3 hours together which would have been longer but I had to leave to get home. My point is that for the 9 out of 10 girls that are either time wasters, too expensive GPS or scammers, that 1 gem you find is worth the headache and patience. She is off seeking now she said but will probably get back on again soon. I plan to keep seeing her. Her name is Diana if she decides to reactivate her profile.

[QUOTE=ChiHobby1985;7329258]Just met this 18 yr old beauty the other day. She was only on seeking arrangement for a week she said but we went straight to communication on Snapchat which at first I was a little skeptical but worked out well. She communicated that she would do whatever I want and in exchange I give her allowance or $$. First meet was at hotel, I ubered here there and next thing I know we're doing every single position, BBFS, CIM and swallow. We tried anal but was a little too painful for her so we decided to try more next time. She also allowed video. Nice tight body and booty and perky boobs. She said she was Russian but from Chicago. Damage was $400 and we spent 3 hours together which would have been longer but I had to leave to get home. My point is that for the 9 out of 10 girls that are either time wasters, too expensive GPS or scammers, that 1 gem you find is worth the headache and patience. She is off seeking now she said but will probably get back on again soon. I plan to keep seeing her. Her name is Diana if she decides to reactivate her profile.[/QUOTE]PM if you like but obviously sounds like fun and would love to see her.

[QUOTE=ChiHobby1985;7329258]Just met this 18 yr old beauty the other day. She was only on seeking arrangement for a week she said but we went straight to communication on Snapchat which at first I was a little skeptical but worked out well. She communicated that she would do whatever I want and in exchange I give her allowance or $$. First meet was at hotel, I ubered here there and next thing I know we're doing every single position, BBFS, CIM and swallow. We tried anal but was a little too painful for her so we decided to try more next time. She also allowed video. Nice tight body and booty and perky boobs. She said she was Russian but from Chicago. Damage was $400 and we spent 3 hours together which would have been longer but I had to leave to get home. My point is that for the 9 out of 10 girls that are either time wasters, too expensive GPS or scammers, that 1 gem you find is worth the headache and patience. She is off seeking now she said but will probably get back on again soon. I plan to keep seeing her. Her name is Diana if she decides to reactivate her profile.[/QUOTE]Can you PM me her details? Visiting Chicago area soon.

[QUOTE=Pupsnu;7327821]Did Seeking force you to take a selfie? That got scary for me.[/QUOTE]Yeah but it's just a selfie. My data is pretty much everywhere because companies put little effort in protecting it and yet require it.

I ended my sub because it takes way too much effort. If you have a life / career, can't wait for days or hours for women to respond.

In my opinion after a month, the site is nothing more than copeium for ladies (80%) that can't admit they are sex workers. It's transactional sex work that may include a drink or dinner but let's not confuse it for what it is. Sure, it sounds appealing to us to get the UTR ladies that don't post on the sites everyday. New crop of ladies yes. However, most of the ones are demanding high end prices. I would rather just go meet a higher end lady on tryst and call it a day. None of the BS to deal with and hours wasted trying to communicate just to set things up. Just my opinion.

[QUOTE=ChiSeekingFun;7329441]PM if you like but obviously sounds like fun and would love to see her.[/QUOTE]She told me she deactivated account bc she wants just one arrangement but I don't have a great track record at long term arrangements so I am happy to post when she's back on the site.

New SLN Girl Candy 24.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Candy/[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c40d8a99-d610-4d62-81db-3e6e0859f012[/URL]

Looks Hot.

[QUOTE=ChiHobby1985;7329258]Just met this 18 yr old beauty the other day. She was only on seeking arrangement for a week she said but we went straight to communication on Snapchat which at first I was a little skeptical but worked out well. She communicated that she would do whatever I want and in exchange I give her allowance or $$. First meet was at hotel, I ubered here there and next thing I know we're doing every single position, BBFS, CIM and swallow. We tried anal but was a little too painful for her so we decided to try more next time. She also allowed video. Nice tight body and booty and perky boobs. She said she was Russian but from Chicago. Damage was $400 and we spent 3 hours together which would have been longer but I had to leave to get home. My point is that for the 9 out of 10 girls that are either time wasters, too expensive GPS or scammers, that 1 gem you find is worth the headache and patience. She is off seeking now she said but will probably get back on again soon. I plan to keep seeing her. Her name is Diana if she decides to reactivate her profile.[/QUOTE]Nice, glad it worked out very well, yes, this is why you got to catch them before they run into too many weirdos on these sites LOL.

Honestly, I thought Snap had died years ago, but it seems like a lot of younger girls (in their 20's) seem to use it for their fun. It's kind of a social network, you sometimes get "people who you might know" who turn out to be the sugar baby's friends. That works both ways, if your boss is on Snap and in your contacts, they might get you too.

Definitely a lot of time-wasters, but you do strike gold (and not the GPS kind) if you can filter them out.

I have been sugaring now for a few years and had mostly good experiences and met some wonderful women. This post is not about that. I generally subscribe to the "Don't ever give money in advance" mantra that everyone on here may or may not have learned the hard way. So far, it has worked out for me until tonight when I let my guard down and was stupid. Maria (not her real name but her name on the site) messaged me on Whatsyourprice (WYP). She also has profiles on other sites like Seeking, SD, and SB; but I can't remember which one specifically. Anyway, I am posting a pic of her below as a warning for everyone. She looked good in her pics, but her pics were definitely better than real life. She wanted to go to this restaurant. I like that restaurant and haven't been in a while so I thought, why not? We meet there and I am 50/50 on staying or leaving based on the fact that she is not up to my normal standards but I think why not see if it gets better? I was already there. Dinner and the conversation were okay. We leave to go to the hotel and she tells me that she likes cash up front because a friend had a bad experience. She is in my car, mind you. Ok. She also says she needs to deposit the money at a retail pharmacy on her electronic bank account and we stop at the pharmacy. I know. I know. Never give money upfront. Anyway. I sit there for about 15 minutes before I check the app we connected on and realize that she has blocked me. She must have walked out the front door where I couldn't see and ubered herself back home. I am a big boy and was stupid on this occasion so I probably deserved it. I should have just been blunt / rude, and left when she showed up to begin with, but it is what it is. All I want to say is to remind everyone: Never pay upfront. Send her packing if she won't accept that. And also, Avoid Maria (DM for her real name). Pic attached. It would make me happy to know her scam ends here. Best of luck out there, Gents! Be safe.

New SLN Girl Tiyana 19.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Tiyana/[/URL]

Any info on Taylor? Seems fun and legit. Quoted me 500 and contemplating meeting up just curious if anyone has feedback?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f12430e7-5d1f-4757-b17b-57c1cb880e8d[/URL]

Any info on this one. Meeting her soon.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/97a5320a-445d-4900-9dae-ada237d2be8d[/URL]

[QUOTE=JohnConeston;7335224]Any info on Taylor? Seems fun and legit. Quoted me 500 and contemplating meeting up just curious if anyone has feedback?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f12430e7-5d1f-4757-b17b-57c1cb880e8d[/URL][/QUOTE]Is anyone else having issues with all the seeking links from this forum coming back as "profile not found or deactivated"? Can we all agree to post a screenshot of the woman in question as well to make it easier? Please and thank you.

[QUOTE=JohnConeston;7335224]Any info on Taylor? Seems fun and legit. Quoted me 500 and contemplating meeting up just curious if anyone has feedback?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f12430e7-5d1f-4757-b17b-57c1cb880e8d[/URL][/QUOTE]5 bills for chubby and 39 yo. Hard pass for me.