My first few weeks thoughts
So I am looking to switch things up so I signed up at seeking. Kinda pricey but whatever. My first thought was, "so that is where all the UTR's went. ".
I have cast a wide net but it hasn't been very fruitful. I have met with two in person. One was super hot so I decided to meet her for a few drinks. She asked to meet in Lakeview which was fine. Met her and after she ordered her second drink she told me she was fully transitioned trans with vagina. FML. She even showed me a picture. She had ALL the surgeries and even admitted to having a rib removed (which I didn't even know was a thing). HARD PASS but I was polite. Her profile made no mention of any of that and has since been deleted.
I met an older MILF who was good looking for her age. She was a very normal woman like you see in a nice suburb. If I were on a normal dating site, I could easily pull that in. We discussed an arrangement and she was wanting 400/500 per visit and she couldn't host. She said BBFS was on the table as well as anal. I haven't pulled the trigger because that's pretty pricey, especially since I would need to spend an additional 100 on a hotel. At these prices I could start to get into high end ladies, that are pros and more reliable.
My overall take on the site is that most of these real women are awful at communicating. Some of the log onto the site a few times a month send emails and then don't respond for a week or more. There is a decent amount of fake accounts looking to scam / spam you and there are certainly bot accounts. Sorry don't need to give you my bank account number, send you a Ninetendo Switch to somewhere in Indonesia, or subscribe to your OF account.
One thing of note, every real woman (whom I have sort of vetted) have said bare is on the table. Anal at 50% clip.
My goal is to find a regular who will allow some extra curricular freak stuff. I am having drinks with one tonight to interview and vett out. We shall see.
I'll post the links later.