Recent NMS visit not smiling now.
So after a good experience a couple of weeks ago-I stopped in again last week. Waste of time. I drew Judy, who was older. Paid up front. She was attractive, but, a donkey. She kept laughing and saying stupid things like "you crazy". She started with a massage, moved to an uninspired and weak covered BJ, then full, would not let me put FIV or even touch there, kept pulling away, rushed me to finish. Took all the pleasure out of it. Then massage the rest of the time. Wanted to know if I wanted a second round, I politely declined. I was so disappointed in the performance, I was not interested. I like sensual and sweet, not silly ass behavior. My experience a couple of weeks ago was far better, it was excellent, in fact, I had posted a review on that. Anyways. I may try the 4 hands at BVR, or I have a local spot that is primarily legit-but-I have a good rapport with one of the ladies, and she has been allowing me to roam more freely lately. I am hoping that my HE is more than a HJ soon.
Successful first ish attempt at 1021 but not what I expected
Hey, so this story is a little embarrassing but I feel like I should post it since maybe it will help someone like me.
So I have never truly done this (virgin so extra new) before and I have been researching for a week or so since I am a nervous person. I looked into some sites asked friends for advice but at the end of the day I was too scared of heat and scams so I decided AMP was my best course of action. Long story short after lots of research I found this site and that's how I found 1021 I had a guess that NMS was one too but decided that 1021 was my best shot at getting FS.
So some context.
I had actually used an AMP in another state and while it was successful it was super short (BBhj only for. 4) and the massage was painful. So I obviously had my misgivings and wanted a better experience this time around.
I am a heavy dude (over 250) who's under 30. Long story short while I don't think I'm ugly and I don't hate women or anything like I just awkward and have had no luck with dating sites. I was tired of waiting and thought $ was the best way to get it over with.
Like I said I am also heavy so without going into to much detail there isn't too much there to work with. Not micro just small.
I take antidepressants and for those who don't know they have side effects that affect performance.
Mistakes made (nothing horrible happened but they made it more risky).
I took out more $ than needed because I was expecting it to go great and I would go for round 2.
I left my I'd and other info in my wallet which I had to leave alone in the room. Could of left with nothing but luckily that didn't happen.
I cleaned the pipes before going since I didn't want the session to end early.
I took the antidepressants before going.
My expectations were too high.
The good.
They were really nice and they talked to me like a normal person and were able to get me past the first time jitters.
The TS was really nice.
The massage was nice and the lady was funny.
The meh.
It was .7 + $. 5.
What happened:
So I show up the madame ushers me in. I meant to ask for a line up but I got nervous and ended up getting some Korean brunette again I was so nervous I didn't get to ask The name. She brought me to a small room I the back and it was cash upfront. They asked me if it was my first time there I told them yes but I was recommended by a friend. They had me strip and they gave me a towel and dragged me to the table shower. It was a shared room but It was empty when I walked in. She does her thing makes the small talk but overall she was laughing and seemed nice. She did her best to ease away any jitters. So as of this moment much better experience than the first AMP. In the middle of the shower someone went in to the other side of the room so I am pretty sure some random guy saw me naked but I didn't see them so I can't really complain too much. After the shower she brings me to the sauna and leaves me there for a bit and then grabs me and sends me back to the room. She asks what I would like next I say FS and she asks me to pay $.5. I do and then a fairly decent B2B massage happens but there was no oil or anything of the sort so it was weird on some points but not exactly bad. Overall everything felt nice up to this point they were being silly and saying the right things. She let me touch her and she was licking my body.
The CBJ started and I don't know if it was the antis the thorough pre pipe clean the umbrella Or maybe lack of skill but I didn't really feel much except some warmth and wetness. I think part of it was also me mentally worried about ending too soon so I was not really sinking into the feeling. It also was not that long.
When the FS started I think the same issue happened it didn't feel like much or all that great I was very far the finish line and while that is supposed to be good it was bland and the entire situation felt embarrassing and like I was messing up. We swapped into a whole bunch of positions but I still wasn't going anywhere. I could tell she was faking some if not all of it. I also felt bad because I fell into that whole trope where they say don't stop and I couldn't really keep up so I had to stop. Part of the issue was also that there wasn't that much room to work with so with the lack of sensation room and length it all kinda steamrolled into a not so great situation. At the end it just ended with a hyper HJ.
I am unsure how long the encounter is supposed to be but mine last 40 minutes from entrance to exit.
So key take away it happened and it wasn't all that great. I was so nervous about trying escorts I chose a parlor and it let to an experience where both parties were not all that content.
I am not sure where I should go from here but maybe look for a GFE and maybe that will be less rushed.
I am not against going back but probably not soon.
+1 to what Newbie 58 said
Great honest account of your experience. And just for a little support, I took some time off from the hobby and got back into it last year. My first trip back I was so nervous and through no fault of the provider, it just wasn't all that much fun. It gets better. As Newb showed you, contribute honestly like you have and you'll get good advice for the most part here. Case in point, I'm going to head down to see Coco this week. And my last bit of wisdom. If you can make a trip to Montreal, just do it. You will not regret it and you'll never want to leave.
[QUOTE=Newbie58;5900310]To the rest of you newbs, this is how you do it! Way to go Lurker. You offer help and info on your very first post. Not lazy at all, and a great example to other newbs.
Alright, you got that out of our system. Now you know what to expect and what to do, sort of. Next time will be easier and better. You'll likely be nervous a few times, but that fades fast. Treat the gals kindly and with respect and it'll be reciprocated. Read the escort thread and see if someone interests you. I recall a Melissa who's up for about anything. South Shore? Great head from Mandy, but not GFE. Start hot with Genie. Read up like you did. Leave yourself alone and go for a qv. Next time try for multiple pops in a hh session. Patience Grasshopper.
Oh, consider not hitting so many hard returns in your post. It get longer, obviously, and Admin may have something to say about it as he has to a couple of guys in CT.[/QUOTE]