Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[QUOTE=CltGuy1231;5777504]Dude 99% of men's profiles don't have a profile pic so they just pick yours out of everyone to message first? I don't have a profile pic either and the only ones that message first are the desperate ones that I don't want.[/QUOTE]Just lucky, I guess. But it was an honest statement. I can go weeks without initiating contact. The point I was making is there are other tactics to attracting attention on that site, other than a good opening line and above average looks. I get a fair share of messages from the 3's, 4's and 5's, sure. My archive folder is full of those.

Years ago when I first joined, I created a woman's profile to see what other men wrote on their profiles. If you only create the account, but don't add pics or fill out any of the info. You can browse without being discovered. Maybe the reconnaissance was a factor.

I have been on seeking (Paying Customer) for about a month. Most of the girls need money on that site. Just have to get them off that $400+ rate. For those prices and not get GFE is kinda steep for me. But I have run into a lot of them. Also be prepare to Host.

[QUOTE=DriveHard;5777466]Looks like they are getting pressure from somewhere. Noticed they dropped the 'A' from their SA logo today.[/QUOTE]I'm sure they're involved in legal battles out the wazoo. Changing names & ownership is a tactic to keep the ship from completely sinking. I guess that's why their monthly membership keep going up, to pay the legal fees.

So just another update on my Seeking experience. Ironically, on the day my first and only month subscription expires, I finally lined up a date with a latina MILF in Orlando. Met for drinks, she was as advertised and attractive. She never discussed money but asked about coming back to my hotel. Did it 6 ways to Sunday with sloppy BBBJ and covered FS. Gave her 3 bills which she was humbled by. Not a bad value considering the time spent. She's still texting and sending sexy pics almost "stalkingly", LOL. Had another young hot ass but couldn't make it before my plane left.

A couple of points about my tactics, I too have a faceless profile pic. I reached out to several but finally figured out that these girls see the same pitch over and over so my initial contact is a creative funny message to get their attention. I still have several that I have moved offline to text and I'll work through those before I re-up my subscription and my time has been very gentlemanly and courteous but I don't flash money. That said, I have several reaching out to me weekly. Maybe it's the profile pic but I support the post that said they are getting contacted by girls and it's legit profiles in addition to fakes and scams. I'll also admit that this requires a crazy amount of time to invest in this version of the hobby. But I worked a number of Eros girls while in Orlando as well and that was just as difficult with communications and verifications. I expect this to get a little better once I line up a couple of regulars. So far I'm somewhat satisfied with the progress and the conversions.

[QUOTE=GutterMind4;5754959]Hey, just wanted to update on the SB situation. After ranting about how little response I had vs how many messages I sent, I finally started seeing some results. Turns out, they really don't treat the SB sites like social media, just occasionally for new "dads". They also don't realize we can't see messages unless we are premium so they often get turned off or move on. I now have about 10 to 12 girls, in about 5 different towns mind you, that are willing to meet. Less than half agreed before setting a price and the others are 3 to 5 bills. I still haven't met anyone so they all could be a bust but I think I've determined they are not scammers, but some still may be fake. I'll know more over the next few days and weeks but if any of these girls look like their pics, and I hit paydirt, this will be better than expected. This doesn't even account for the ones that wanted to but couldn't host.

Speaking of, any advise on girls that can't host. I really can't get a hotel as they require I'd and credit card. I've never done Air BNB, anyone ever set up an anonymous ABNB account? I know it's an app tied to your phone but can you work around that like many other aspects while remaining private?[/QUOTE]

Hey guys,

New here, I am traveling often to Charlotte so I have my location in SA set to Charlotte. Last night I was chatting with this girl (- milktealover94 - she was pretty cute, quickly gave me her number (I asked for it). Then we chatted more and then here it is, she wanted to SKYPE. I fell into that trap years ago, not on SA, not in Charlotte, but basically it goes like this: she is super horny, she wants to get on SKPYE. You get horny too, you get on SKYPE, she starts getting naked, she asks the same from you. Of course you do it because you are horny. Next thing you know, the connection stops, "she" calls you back and instead of her, it is some hacker like person (black hoodie, dark room), demanding ransom. If you do not cooperate, they will post the video of you naked jerking off on FB, instagram, twitter, blablabla. Good thing I used a fake SKYPE account. I simply disconnected, deleted my profile and end of the story for me. Morale of the story is: don't share any naked anything unless you are quite sure this is working out. And DON'T GET ON SKYPE LOL.

I have a feeling this is a scam. Her reply to my message didn't answer anything I've asked, which leads me to believe that it is an auto-reply. Of course, she want's me to send her a gift first, then we can set up a meeting. I wouldn't be surprised if her profile is gone in a few days. I am not wasting my time on this one, and would advise the same to everyone else.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4541fd21-87f8-4409-bd47-b3f4eb0fcda8[/URL]

This one want s first public date, which I prefer. But then she wants $150 for that date. When I told her I don't play that game, she said I wasn't attractive so she doesn't want to just meet me and discuss the terms LOL. So, for all of you "ugly" guys, don't waste your time. She's a professional dater. Want's to collect $150 and you will probably never hear from her again. She will tell you a nice story, how she had a SD but than he got married and left her. Be careful! Too many scams, and SA just raised the membership price, so that we can pay more for all those scams.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9e00bd3e-d4da-4a62-b453-e4446cfd4c28[/URL]

I am not surprised to read this. It seems that a new scamming trend is starting on SA, and probably other similar sites. I have talked to 3 different girls on SA. Conversations were little off, but fairly smooth and believable. They were very nice and flirtatious, but eventually they asked me if wanted to switch and continue our conversation on WhatsApp. Be very careful, because most What'sApp accounts are tied up to your original phone number which you used to register the account. So, it's easy to trace it. Perhaps even get into your address book, because that's what WhatApp uses for its address book. Of course, I told all of them that I don't use What'sApp, so I suggested to use different application like Snapchat or KIK. Soon as I suggested that, conversation stopped and but they never responded to my further messages. Eventually they blocked me so I can't share their profile links now. So be very careful. WhatsApp, Viber, and some other similar widely used apps use your real phone to be able to set up an account. Most account setups for these will not work with use of burner phones or apps. They are looking for a real number. These guys know that, and they have ways to extract your number, and. Use your imagination. I don't think I need to go into further details to paint the horror picture you can get yourself into. Story below just confirms that with a Skype attempt. Be vigilant, and don't get caught with your pants around your ankles. , or worse.

[QUOTE=Miranthir;5781015]Hey guys,

New here, I am traveling often to Charlotte so I have my location in SA set to Charlotte. Last night I was chatting with this girl (- milktealover94 - she was pretty cute, quickly gave me her number (I asked for it). Then we chatted more and then here it is, she wanted to SKYPE. I fell into that trap years ago, not on SA, not in Charlotte, but basically it goes like this: she is super horny, she wants to get on SKPYE. You get horny too, you get on SKYPE, she starts getting naked, she asks the same from you. Of course you do it because you are horny. Next thing you know, the connection stops, "she" calls you back and instead of her, it is some hacker like person (black hoodie, dark room), demanding ransom. If you do not cooperate, they will post the video of you naked jerking off on FB, instagram, twitter, blablabla. Good thing I used a fake SKYPE account. I simply disconnected, deleted my profile and end of the story for me. Morale of the story is: don't share any naked anything unless you are quite sure this is working out. And DON'T GET ON SKYPE LOL.[/QUOTE]

Yes, and on the page, further down, it says "Seeking Excitement. " If this place keeps getting so much negative publicity, it may be safest just to jump the ship. No amount of pussy is worth that kind of risk IMHO.

[QUOTE=DriveHard;5777466]Looks like they are getting pressure from somewhere. Noticed they dropped the 'A' from their SA logo today.[/QUOTE]

ReadMyHeading is the profile name at the moment.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/efb8a12d-6e60-48db-8967-bba5cb83eeef[/URL]

50/50 chance this one is a man pretending to be the woman in the pics. Non-stop about moving to snapchat, but is unwilling to do any specific poses on snap. Likely a man snapping pics of hard copy pics.

Location was originally Charlotte, now Asheville.

Anyone have actual experience with this one?

Profile no longer active. Most likely was a scam.

[QUOTE=DriveHard;5783108]ReadMyHeading is the profile name at the moment.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/efb8a12d-6e60-48db-8967-bba5cb83eeef[/URL]

50/50 chance this one is a man pretending to be the woman in the pics. Non-stop about moving to snapchat, but is unwilling to do any specific poses on snap. Likely a man snapping pics of hard copy pics.

Location was originally Charlotte, now Asheville.

Anyone have actual experience with this one?[/QUOTE]

About a year ago we talked on Snapchat, and all was going smooth, and than she just unfriended me for no reason. But before she did that, she was posting pictures of her being in Florida someone. Possibly a new SD. We were supposed to meet, and than she was gone just like that. I forgot about her, but about couple of weeks ago, she reached out again on SA, and we hit it of. Reconnected on Snapchat again, and when allowance discussion came, now she wanted $5. 00. Year ago, $3. 00 was sufficient. I guess inflation makes prices go up. I understand she has a kid to feed, but still. However, last time if she said $5. 00 I would have go for it, but now, it just didn't feel the same. I thank her and declined. I hope some of you hit that, because it does look tempting.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5170a9a7-4618-41b2-81dc-d8dcc8a4dd95[/URL]

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;5794205]About a year ago we talked on Snapchat, and all was going smooth, and than she just unfriended me for no reason. But before she did that, she was posting pictures of her being in Florida someone. Possibly a new SD. We were supposed to meet, and than she was gone just like that. I forgot about her, but about couple of weeks ago, she reached out again on SA, and we hit it of. Reconnected on Snapchat again, and when allowance discussion came, now she wanted $5. 00. Year ago, $3. 00 was sufficient. I guess inflation makes prices go up. I understand she has a kid to feed, but still. However, last time if she said $5. 00 I would have go for it, but now, it just didn't feel the same. I thank her and declined. I hope some of you hit that, because it does look tempting.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5170a9a7-4618-41b2-81dc-d8dcc8a4dd95[/URL][/QUOTE]Say no to 5.

Don't inflate the market.

I agree. I said No to everything from her. I didn't even want to offer a counter. I just told her that sugar dating does not justify that value for me, and wished her best of luck.

[QUOTE=Banger12;5794293]Say no to 5.

Don't inflate the market.[/QUOTE]

Hey fellow mongers,

I am traveling down to Charlotte tomorrow and have been talking to this one. Anyone know anything about her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6b530d23-48f3-448e-872a-fd12ea79b2e6[/URL]

Be Safe.

She's near Salisbury and we have been texting. May try to TOFTT. Just wondering if anyone had any info, if she's legit, safe, what service is like?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/36036716-83ba-46d5-9b0e-ce94002c4bbd[/URL]

Be careful with seeking, if you talk too much to the wrong girl they will report you. That site is loaded with "women"who think they are going to get 5000 a month just to be your online friend. Definitely only pay month by month, cause the company itself will rob you and not offer refunds when they deactivate your account.

Thankfully I was able to get in touch with a couple real local girls before I got kicked off. With my situation, I need someone who can host, which makes it difficult.

[QUOTE=Newguy72;5804555]Be careful with seeking, if you talk too much to the wrong girl they will report you. That site is loaded with "women"who think they are going to get 5000 a month just to be your online friend. Definitely only pay month by month, cause the company itself will rob you and not offer refunds when they deactivate your account.

Thankfully I was able to get in touch with a couple real local girls before I got kicked off. With my situation, I need someone who can host, which makes it difficult.[/QUOTE]I've had decent luck with SA. I have 2 sb's I see each week (one even hosts) and another 2 I see about once a month. All petite or fit ranging from 22 - 30. One of them even surprised me recently with a duo with her girlfriend for my birthday. But let me tell you it took some _serious_ perseverance and patience to get this and I don't expect it to last. With all that being said I've deleted my SA account, I'm not a fan of their recent price hikes nor the direction they're going with the site.

[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;5804448]She's near Salisbury and we have been texting. May try to TOFTT. Just wondering if anyone had any info, if she's legit, safe, what service is like?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/36036716-83ba-46d5-9b0e-ce94002c4bbd[/URL][/QUOTE]Will love to know more. Please report if you TOFTT.

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5742954]Saw this one. Asked 300 for 3 hours. I did 200. Sweet girl, but a lot of loose skin from what looks to be a dramatic weight loss. Offers BBBJ, BBFS, creampie. I passed on the latter 2. Will not repeat, maybe just for BBBJ.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/17a512d4-dc5b-43e6-a01a-a14ccff0dc11[/URL][/QUOTE]I've never communicated with her, she's not my type. I came across her profile on pornhub and recognized her unique look.

[URL]https://www.pornhub.com/model/leo-loranys[/URL]

[QUOTE=DriveHard;5807799]I've never communicated with her, she's not my type. I came across her profile on pornhub and recognized her unique look.

[URL]https://www.pornhub.com/model/leo-loranys[/URL][/QUOTE]I saw her about a month ago in Columbia, SC. The girl is fun and gives a great BBBJ.

She's on Seeking. Interesting girl.

[URL]https://linktr.ee/dreamcatchher[/URL]

If you catch her on a good day, it's BBFS. She normally dresses like a dude, so you'll have to tell her to dress feminine ahead of time. Range is 100-300. YMMV.

Possible demons and girlfriend lurking.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/85454de0-5cea-4d66-9c2a-0929c6247582[/URL]

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5815775]If you catch her on a good day, it's BBFS. She normally dresses like a dude, so you'll have to tell her to dress feminine ahead of time. Range is 100-300. YMMV.

Possible demons and girlfriend lurking.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/85454de0-5cea-4d66-9c2a-0929c6247582[/URL][/QUOTE]Pay her with cash. If you CashApp her for your meeting she will bug you for small donation requests to the point of annoyance. Also don't ever prepay as she is known to scam on occasion. GF who was a bad influence is gone I think. Also not very punctual.

Chatted with this one she wanted me to cash app her, I told her deal only cash, then she ghosted leads me to believe scammer.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/97e8f07b-801a-4616-9b86-8c399c5ada2d[/URL]

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5815775]If you catch her on a good day, it's BBFS. She normally dresses like a dude, so you'll have to tell her to dress feminine ahead of time. Range is 100-300. YMMV.

Possible demons and girlfriend lurking.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/85454de0-5cea-4d66-9c2a-0929c6247582[/URL][/QUOTE]She's been on here before under a different name in her profile.

[QUOTE=Lildevil01;5821551]She's been on here before under a different name in her profile.[/QUOTE]What were the reports on her? She told me her name was Jane at one point.

[QUOTE=BrianPeter;5813748]She's on Seeking. Interesting girl.

[URL]https://linktr.ee/dreamcatchher[/URL][/QUOTE]What interesting about her. Seems like a another women using seeking to find funds for micro businesses?

[QUOTE=Ricrun;5821962]What interesting about her. Seems like a another women using seeking to find funds for micro businesses?[/QUOTE]She's basically an escort. All that other stuff is available, but she'll see you ppm starting at 300.

I saw a half Asian Sista on seek a couple years ago and it was pure hell finding one who wasnt running games for money for nothing. And she said her sugar daddy had left town and she need some fast cash other than that she doesn't see multiple guys. She meet me at a hotel room I had to get and was looking super hot I'm a one pop stop I can't hang around and lay up with chicks I got in house. So I made it last long as I could because she fine AF. And didn't cost me a lot I think 77 for the room 140 to her and had a amazing time. Never saw her again. Then some chick or who knows what it was wanted me to buy a video I said ok so I can check you out and it wanted all the money upfront 40 bucks I refused and offered 20 deposit. It got mad and reported me to seek for trying to buy content but I told them look at the conversations she initiated it. I don't know what happened to them but seek ran me off. So I explained I only had the account 2 weeks don't I get a refund at first they said no then said its not their policy but this time they will refund. Never got a dime.

Watch out for this one. She'll exchange numbers but then wants you to buy her pics and then disappears if you don't. Not sure what would happen if you actually bought them but she apparently changes locations and creates new profiles to cover her tracks. She was "in Asheville" just a month ago so be vigilant. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9d9e50fe-54a8-4bb6-9bbf-3419336d84e0[/URL].

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;5794205]About a year ago we talked on Snapchat, and all was going smooth, and than she just unfriended me for no reason. But before she did that, she was posting pictures of her being in Florida someone. Possibly a new SD. We were supposed to meet, and than she was gone just like that. I forgot about her, but about couple of weeks ago, she reached out again on SA, and we hit it of. Reconnected on Snapchat again, and when allowance discussion came, now she wanted $5. 00. Year ago, $3. 00 was sufficient. I guess inflation makes prices go up. I understand she has a kid to feed, but still. However, last time if she said $5. 00 I would have go for it, but now, it just didn't feel the same. I thank her and declined. I hope some of you hit that, because it does look tempting.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5170a9a7-4618-41b2-81dc-d8dcc8a4dd95[/URL][/QUOTE]Beware!

Will cancel last second and is the rudest person I've ever met. Cares nothing about your time.

Has anyone had any experience with this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/55ebeb3d-896e-4eca-9e4a-2397ece3dc94[/URL]

Loves to say yes sir. BBFS and anal are open. CIM no problem as well.

Who are you talking about?

[QUOTE=CEOTraveling;5828075]Loves to say yes sir. BBFS and anal are open. CIM no problem as well.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HaydenBerg;5829201]Who are you talking about?[/QUOTE]Is it Amy being talked of here?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/55ebeb3d-896e-4eca-9e4a-2397ece3dc94?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]

Talking to her as well. Got the impression that she's high mileage. Will report if I end up meeting her.

I'm new to Charlotte. Moved here a month ago. Been sugaring for 6 years and tons of mongering before. Sugar dating is definitely my preference. Looking forward to share and contribute to this board.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5830719]Is it Amy being talked of here?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/55ebeb3d-896e-4eca-9e4a-2397ece3dc94?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CEOTraveling;5828075]Loves to say yes sir. BBFS and anal are open. CIM no problem as well.[/QUOTE]Have a name and profile link?

Yes that is her.

[QUOTE=SmallAsianCock;5830719]Is it Amy being talked of here?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/55ebeb3d-896e-4eca-9e4a-2397ece3dc94?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL][/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/08b301de-471b-49c9-811a-1e8e78d856f7[/URL]

Raise your hand if you also fucked AmmeyC. I admit I did. Looks better in pics. She hosted. Nice girl, willing, but really inexperienced. Kind of wish I had my money back, but I fucked a tight 19 year old with nice natural tits. Won't repeat. Asked for 3 5 O half 4 O O full -settled on 5 O off those numbers.