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So many girls saying they want to meet and then don't. No actual flakes on a date. They just don't follow through to make the date. lol.

But of course when it rains it pours. Today two DTF girls both 5'1" go to make a date with me. One is 23 and the other is 18. I actually got them confused because of their height being the same. But made the date with the 23 y.o. for tonite. She is the less desirable of the two. But picked her because I am not feeling so good today. So I scheduled the 18 y.o. for saturday (pics below are screenshots #1 and #2 from an unsolicited sexy striptease video she sent me), hoping I will be totally up to speed by then (damn summer cold).

I have been messaging them both for a few weeks. The 23 year old (pic #3) is a party girl from a boring part of town that's just grateful to get out of the house and have something to do. But the 18 year old I don't totally get because she is really very pretty but says no one has followed through for a date. She stopped going on the site about a week ago. She almost looks TGTBT. But that's the thing about seeking. There are those random pretty girls (girls that are 7-10's by your standard of beauty), some super popular and some not, that for whatever reason you connect with.

Pic #4 is a 5 foot spinner I am still negotiating with. It's a long shot but well worth the effort.
Pic #5 is another girl from the burbs. Amateur model. Just need to set the date.

I can't believe I am sick on a holiday weekend. This totally sucks. But I am using it as an excuse not to see my ATF so I can get a bite at a couple of those tasty cherries below.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4348118]So many girls saying they want to meet and then don't. No actual flakes on a date. They just don't follow through to make the date. lol.

But of course when it rains it pours. Today two DTF girls both 5'1" go to make a date with me. One is 23 and the other is 18. I actually got them confused because of their height being the same. But made the date with the 23 y.o. for tonite. She is the less desirable of the two. But picked her because I am not feeling so good today. So I scheduled the 18 y.o. for saturday (pics below are screenshots #1 and #2 from an unsolicited sexy striptease video she sent me), hoping I will be totally up to speed by then (damn summer cold).

I have been messaging them both for a few weeks. The 23 year old (pic #3) is a party girl from a boring part of town that's just grateful to get out of the house and have something to do. But the 18 year old I don't totally get because she is really very pretty but says no one has followed through for a date. She stopped going on the site about a week ago. She almost looks TGTBT. But that's the thing about seeking. There are those random pretty girls (girls that are 7-10's by your standard of beauty), some super popular and some not, that for whatever reason you connect with.

Pic #4 is a 5 foot spinner I am still negotiating with. It's a long shot but well worth the effort.
Pic #5 is another girl from the burbs. Amateur model. Just need to set the date.[/QUOTE]Whoever is #2 is the one. Forget the rest.

If you guys want to get a laugh, check out reddit and sign up for the Sugare Lifestyle Forum. Lots of SBs on there and the discussions include:

-Why you should get megabucks from an SD for letting him take you to dinner, movies, shopping, etc.

-Why you should not have sex until you have had many platonic dates (with PPM or allowance) or EVER.

-Why you should do a full background check on any potential SDs (criminal financial, etc).

-Why you should never do BBFS / CIP with an SA date (these safe sex discussions on that forum are too much), lots of preaching.

-And much more.

It's really a hoot to read this. These girls are living in some dream world where each SD shells out thousands per month for the pleasure of their company. OH. And they are ALL beautiful women (according to them).

Check it out.

GG.

[QUOTE=Livinitup;4348327]Whoever is #2 is the one. Forget the rest.[/QUOTE]I had to cancel all my M&G's. Way too sick to do anything but see my ATF. Yeah, number 2 the 18 year old cutie. Just canceled our FC date for tonite. #3 is a UTR thats always around. #4 rejected my offer, and #5 I will see because I like that skinny body.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d97f3e26-16bf-4ec1-96e2-8156afce8867[/URL]

FilleSucre
Hey 100 $ for what? I usually get 500 for like an evening of 2/3 hours.

ME
Out of my league.

[QUOTE=GenevaGuy;4350631]If you guys want to get a laugh, check out reddit and sign up for the Sugare Lifestyle Forum. Lots of SBs on there and the discussions include:

-Why you should get megabucks from an SD for letting him take you to dinner, movies, shopping, etc.

-Why you should not have sex until you have had many platonic dates (with PPM or allowance) or EVER.

-Why you should do a full background check on any potential SDs (criminal financial, etc).

-Why you should never do BBFS / CIP with an SA date (these safe sex discussions on that forum are too much), lots of preaching.

-And much more.

It's really a hoot to read this. These girls are living in some dream world where each SD shells out thousands per month for the pleasure of their company. OH. And they are ALL beautiful women (according to them).

Check it out.

GG.[/QUOTE][URL=https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/]Sugar Lifestyle Forum[/URL]

I don't remember who it was by someone wrote up a message pretty mcuh saying "do you want quick sugar now or do you want to get to know a guy? Either way I'm down LOL!" and it really works! I need more of your wisdom.

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;4351808]I don't remember who it was by someone wrote up a message pretty mcuh saying "do you want quick sugar now or do you want to get to know a guy? Either way I'm down LOL!" and it really works! I need more of your wisdom.[/QUOTE]Lots of info here:

[URL=http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ]Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ[/URL]

[QUOTE=LargeEss;4345054]How things change. The wicked hot 21 year old got back together with her boyfriend. We had two excellent dates and with the other two on the bench I was happy to stay with that line up but it was not to be. We are still in communication and I'm hoping the young'in does something stupid so that she will dump him again. She's a smart woman. Dumps her boyfriend, get some great dinners and gifts while sending him the message he needs to get his act together and when he does, lets him come back. Made her come numerous times with oral which she had never experienced and gave her sweet asshole a tongue lashing that she shuddered over. She's done anal but said now that she had a rim job, she much preferred that. By the way, used a condom on that escapade, I'm not going there without it.[/QUOTE]I tried to ask you about this by PM but your inbox is full. I therefore posted an inquiry.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4345171]Do you mean when you fucked her anal, or when you rimmed her? I also like to rim girls, but I am 99.9% sure they're clean, etc. I don't know how I'd use a condom to rim her. Really? On your tongue?? Not a lubricated one.[/QUOTE]I told the safest way to do a rim job is with a dental damn. I used a flavored condom on my tongue.

Just, had a SB tell me that any further communication with her has to be done thru Skype, will not text because of "safety reasons".

Never used it before. What's the pros and cons of using it?

This is her profile;.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17a652d1-e3c6-4386-962d-0b059fbcdc5f[/URL]

Thanks in advance.

I would be wary of anyone doing a Skype video chat. There's a few articles on Skype video scams.

[URL]https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-37735369[/URL]

Basically, you'll see a pre-recorded video of a girl saying she can't talk, but wants you to masturbate, etc.

I'd stick to email and have her meet you at a local coffee shop.

Good luck.

[QUOTE=FrontPage;4356324]Just, had a SB tell me that any further communication with her has to be done thru Skype, will not text because of "safety reasons".

Never used it before. What's the pros and cons of using it?

This is her profile;.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17a652d1-e3c6-4386-962d-0b059fbcdc5f[/URL]

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FrontPage;4356324]Just, had a SB tell me that any further communication with her has to be done thru Skype, will not text because of "safety reasons".

Never used it before. What's the pros and cons of using it?

This is her profile;.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17a652d1-e3c6-4386-962d-0b059fbcdc5f[/URL]

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Depends on your situation. Have an SO? I would'nt do it. I don't think you can do an anonymous skype. There is a video chat function on kik I have used before, see if she'll go with that.

[QUOTE=FrontPage;4356324]Just, had a SB tell me that any further communication with her has to be done thru Skype, will not text because of "safety reasons".

Never used it before. What's the pros and cons of using it?

This is her profile;.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17a652d1-e3c6-4386-962d-0b059fbcdc5f[/URL]

Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Don't be a Weiner!

Has anyone tried tinder or another app?

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;4359716]Has anyone tried tinder or another app?[/QUOTE]Check out my posts on whisper. It's an app. Has worked way more for me than tinder ever has.

Been talking to a tall slim / thin beauty for a while. She is obviously on drugs when I am texting her. She repeats questions, can't remember things from a few min before. She also is obviously uninhibited. Offered group sex, threesomes, and says she is "addicted" to cum protein snacks.

Has agreed to meet next week. But I wonder. Little head is screaming for her, while big head is saying that she may be a coke fiend, not just weed, with all the STD and other risks that brings.

What would you folks do?

[QUOTE=PussyPumper;4360610]Been talking to a tall slim / thin beauty for a while. She is obviously on drugs when I am texting her. She repeats questions, can't remember things from a few min before. She also is obviously uninhibited. Offered group sex, threesomes, and says she is "addicted" to cum protein snacks.

Has agreed to meet next week. But I wonder. Little head is screaming for her, while big head is saying that she may be a coke fiend, not just weed, with all the STD and other risks that brings.

What would you folks do?[/QUOTE]I'd punt. Listen to the voice in your big head, it is usually (always) correct.

I could have swore someone had a negative report on this one. . . So tempting.

StARrzZiii

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/10df407f-5821-4d63-902d-3d5e821b508b[/URL]

[QUOTE=WoohooSoCal;4361041]I'd punt. Listen to the voice in your big head, it is usually (always) correct.[/QUOTE]Listened to the big head, for once.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;4365011]I could have swore someone had a negative report on this one. . . So tempting.

StarrzZiii

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/10df407f-5821-4d63-902d-3d5e821b508b[/URL][/QUOTE]I messaged her. She asked for 800 to meet.

[QUOTE=Tipisil;4359960]Check out my posts on whisper. It's an app. Has worked way more for me than tinder ever has.[/QUOTE]Just curious to what's the angle there. See alot of nonsense posts or random topics.

Anyone have any tips? I think I might help out an old sb but I don't want a paper trail and she's insisting on zelle or venmo and I'd rather not.

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;4365447]Anyone have any tips? I think I might help out an old sb but I don't want a paper trail and she's insisting on zelle or venmo and I'd rather not.[/QUOTE]If she can make use of a card, Vanilla One prepaid card go upto $500.7-11 in my area doesn't require I'd, but CVS does above about 300.

Else, best I know of is bitcoin ATM, which is likely to require a phone number (bring your burner phone) and may snap a pic of you (wear a hat). You *might* be able to find a similar style ATM that does venmo.

Or, just go into any branch of her bank with cash and deposit directly into her account.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;4365011]I could have swore someone had a negative report on this one. . . So tempting.

StARrzZiii

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/10df407f-5821-4d63-902d-3d5e821b508b[/URL][/QUOTE]I could have swore one of you gents reported her as claiming to be a student, but had her pimp calling her throughout the meet.

I've looked, anyone know where that post is?

[QUOTE=RanManCan;4365941]I could have swore one of you gents reported her as claiming to be a student, but had her pimp calling her throughout the meet.

I've looked, anyone know where that post is?[/QUOTE]She is very tempting as long as GPS is not an obstacle to your satisfaction. (as she basically has it written proudly all over her).

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;4365447]Anyone have any tips? I think I might help out an old sb but I don't want a paper trail and she's insisting on zelle or venmo and I'd rather not.[/QUOTE]So, will you be getting some personal services for sending $? Or, she is just waiting for the $ than she goes silent cause she just possibly ripped you off?

Never send chicks $ or these apps. Too easy for them to rip people off!

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;4365447]Anyone have any tips? I think I might help out an old sb but I don't want a paper trail and she's insisting on zelle or venmo and I'd rather not.[/QUOTE]Use a pseudonym and email. Transfer first from your real PayPal to this pseudonym. And send her $ thru this.

[QUOTE=EdNewtonian;4356577]I would be wary of anyone doing a Skype video chat. There's a few articles on Skype video scams.

[URL]https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-37735369[/URL]

Basically, you'll see a pre-recorded video of a girl saying she can't talk, but wants you to masturbate, etc.

I'd stick to email and have her meet you at a local coffee shop.

Good luck.[/QUOTE]Someone tried to scam me this way, too. I used a fake skype account linked to a fake email. She kept asking questions about me, my name, where I lived (asked for the cross streets, too. What I did, etc. Likely because she couldn't find out who I was. When it came to the webcam session, she was voice only and I only showed her me masturbating from the waist down. She kept insisting I show my face as I lick her vagina. She had a hot voice so it was kind of fun, but the most she saw was my tongue LOL.

"You MUST believe climate change is real. I'm not into in dunning-kruger public education failures. ".

Haha, I've learned to never talk politics w / the youngins, they're nutso.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;4368199]"You MUST believe climate change is real. I'm not into in dunning-kruger public education failures. ".

Haha, I've learned to never talk politics w / the youngins, they're nutso.[/QUOTE]The good news is that if there is climate change due to human emissions, the only way to stop it would be to exterminate a couple continents.

[QUOTE=RanManCan;4368199]"You MUST believe climate change is real. I'm not into in dunning-kruger public education failures. ".
[/QUOTE]So, what's the bottom line? "Save the planet. No hot sex for you!

[QUOTE=PussyPumper;4368472]So, what's the bottom line? "Save the planet. No hot sex for you![/QUOTE]I think the bottom line is "I'm kind of a ***** and have no idea how to market myself, so here's your warning".

It's been a bountiful half year for me in the bowl. Met and enjoyed more than I ever could have imagined.

Several don't hide that they are "experienced". While I'm certainly attracted to the newer, I don't mind the occasional woman who knows what she's doing, and they have good stories.

But, I've had several who said I was their first intimate experience on SA. This has happened a lot. Off the top of my head I can recall at least 4, I'll probably think of more later.

Just today, I had a coffee-only date with a 25 yr woman who wasn't shy about her many years of experience. Later in the evening, a 19 yr came directly to the FC, upon arrival telling me this was her first time ever doing this.

I think most people are terrible liars, they have me pretty convinced.

Ok gents, tell me how naive I am.

Oops 5, almost forgot about the virgin. Haha, I'm a spoiled fuck.

I have noticed that women with very rigid or even manly looking faces in their pics turn out to be some of the most beautiful in person.

That's your pointer for the day, from a novice.

I am pretty new to sugar daddy sites and finally after 2 months, one SB has decided to meet me and asked me what do I have in my mind? It might sound very basic but wanted to know about SB / SD arrangements and first meeting with SB.

I have FWB, NSA tags in my seeking sections so I have made my intentions clear that I am looking to just have fun. Should I discuss about of arrangement when I meet SB or over SA messages first?

Thanks in advance!

[QUOTE=Desinoah;4369335]I am pretty new to sugar daddy sites and finally after 2 months, one SB has decided to meet me and asked me what do I have in my mind? It might sound very basic but wanted to know about SB / SD arrangements and first meeting with SB.

I have FWB, NSA tags in my seeking sections so I have made my intentions clear that I am looking to just have fun. Should I discuss about of arrangement when I meet SB or over SA messages first?

Thanks in advance![/QUOTE]On getting as far as you have. You should spend a few days reading all of the recent posts and archived posts on the Richmond, VA sugar thread. IK, it is hard to figure out why that one, but it has become the de facto national thread for sugaring.

Read the "basic" education: [URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ[/URL].

[QUOTE=Desinoah;4369335]one SB has decided to meet me[/QUOTE]With a little more experience, you will be saying "I decided to meet her". That should be your goal, just need to do some reading on the links provided and get started. Two months seems a hellaofa long time. I started by reading the Richmond threads listed above and below and was meeting immediately.

[QUOTE=Desinoah;4369335]what do I have in my mind?[/QUOTE]She has no idea what you want or how you want the date to flow. There are some dudes that really just want to hang out and play video games, you need to make clear that is not the case. You could say something like "meet at coffee shop / drinks / dinner, if we like each other then we can go somewhere private" that will be clear to her.

[QUOTE=Desinoah;4369335]I have FWB, NSA tags[/QUOTE]These tags are pretty meaningless and nobody really looks at them, unless they say "platonic" or "marriage minded".

[QUOTE=Desinoah;4369335]I have made my intentions clear that I am looking to just have fun.[/QUOTE]Video games are fun, gokarts are fun. She probably already knows you didn't plan on taking her to the library, church, or a graveyard. Again, fairly meaningless.

[QUOTE=Desinoah;4369335]Should I discuss about of arrangement when I meet SB or over SA messages first?[/QUOTE]You want to get the chat off the site just about as soon as she replies, you can do text, kik, whatsapp, snap, email, etc. Much easier / safer if you have a burner phone. Getting off the site makes communications much faster and less likely to get you banned on SA for saying the wrong thing.

As for specifics, that somewhat depends on her. There is no reason for you to bring this up, but be ready with an answer if/when she asks. More transactional women will want to discuss specifics before meeting, actual SBs are less likely to require that. In the beginning, you probably want to give them an answer if they ask, and then only via text / chat or in person, just to get a few dates under your belt, you will refine this technique over time and it is much discussed at the links above and below. In many of my early dates, it was never discussed and I just slipped something into her purse or jeans after the deed was done.

Over time, continue your "advanced" educational reading on the other Richmond thread: [URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not[/URL].